And so? Men go through hell just to provide for the family so what's the purpose of this thread?

phelonrays:
This is one of the reasons I still hold women on high prestige.........

Jerkbaba:
This situation is getting outta hand! They're too many human being in this world already. So many in foster homes. To me, if someone really wants a child, he or she should adopt! How can a poverty capital of the world called Nigeria with 99% people living with less than a dollar a day be one of the most highly Populated country in the world! With almost 200million people and growing exponentially! It's annoying! Overpopulation is one of the biggest problem in this country. They should make it a law like Sharia law in the middle east, that any poor man with more than one child should be killed immediately!

frozen70:

Am I'm done with you

frozen70:


Because you are a gay, you don't know the value of women, that's how useless gays like you reacts

merieam16:
why is ur own wassapp nt showing blue after she read ur message

Stephenomozzy:
The poor ones have a leech mentality,

The rich ones feel they don't really need a man if he's not 10x richer than herself - they start acting fake feminism

The Middle class one are still trying to decide

taskcompleteng:
Research has revealed that some single women are now complaining due to over scarcity of suitors in the country. It is the desire of most ladies to get hooked to a man at certain age brackets for support, procreation and affection. But all around today, we have many single ladies with no suitors. There are many single ladies and as well as bachelors who would want to get married, but the fear of uncertainty of the future of the union have really prevented many from doing so owing to unpredicatable economic situation.

Reports showed that there were enough women and men who really wanted to get married but it appeared both sides do not want to gamble into it to avoid devastating consequences and regrets in the future. One of the ladies, who preferred to be simply called Titi said she had taken the issue of marriage as a do-or-die affair due to “internal pressure” but that as much as she had tried, frustration had often been the result. At 37, the businesswoman who sells clothes in Ikeja, the Lagos State capital in western Nigeria, disclosed that she is not finding life easy.

“What is happiness without a man in a woman’s life?”she asked our correspondent during a chat. She had dated several men with some promising marriage, but without fulfilling the promise.

“You can’t imagine that in the last three years, I have dated about eight men, but the relationship was often short-lived simply because I ask for their commitment.I am not getting any younger and I cry every time I see my mates with their husbands and children.If at 37 I don’t have a child or a permanent man, when would I have them? Is it when my skin has wrinkled? she asked our correspondent

Miss Karia Anumba, 41, lamented that she had lived and changed many cities in Nigeria looking for suitors but those she met were afraid because they were not sure of the future of the marriage. She revealed that she tried to convince and persuade the men she had contact with to make the move and even assured them that she would manage no matter the condition, but regretted that none of them agreed to marry her. Anumba said she quickly relocated to Lagos from Abuja when she realized that she was gradually turning into prostitute because of the drive for marriage.

She explained that since she came to Lagos, she had engaged herself with a work and was still searching for interested men but yet to get one. She narrated that some men who were above 40 years still roamed about and do not want to get married; attributing it to fear and economic condition as most of them were jobless.

Bose (surname withheld), 37, has found herself patronising many of the social interaction sites on the internet.The banker told our correspondent that she is on Eskimi, 2go, Badoo, Whatsapp, Facebook, Twitter as well as 4clique and Instagram just to look for life partner.

“We can’t tell the particular broom in the bunch that kills a fly,” she said on why she patronises such number of social interaction sites. “I always change my name in the different sites but the ultimate goal is to get a husband,” she added. Bose reveals that she is really worried about the situation, adding that she lives comfortably (in a mini-flat and has a car), “but who do I have to enjoy this comfort with me?

“I have tried a hook up programme on a Lagos-based radio station, but my age is now a major factor hindering my dream of being married,” she lamented pleading with our married correspondent, who she considered a bachelor, to “help dry my tears.”

A married woman, who gave her name as Mrs. Blessing Aguebor and resident in Oshodi, confirmed that the issue of lack of serious men for marriage is giving many ladies sleepless nights. She narrated the touching story of her friend who was disappointed by her boyfriend of five years when it was time to “settle down”.

“My friend was 29 when he met this man in Benin and they dated for five years. The man was always giving the lady hope without her knowing the man had other plans. The year he fixed for their marriage was the year he travelled abroad without even informing my friend. It was later he called her and asked her to find another man because he still had many more years to hustle. My friend almost went mad. She is 36 now without a man. I had to convince her to relocate to Lagos so that possibly out of the population here, she would find someone. It is pathetic,” she said.

A 38-year old business woman in Ketu, narrated how she lost her first husband to a friend, Idayat, who was desperate for a husband. According to Mrs. Adewunmi who remarried last year, Idayat was 36 and needed a husband but her search was endless.

“I was always encouraging her and made her a part of my family. She would always help me take care of the kids when I go to the market. With time, she took over my husband without my knowledge until the day I caught them red-handed and that was the end of my marriage. Ladies are like hunters these days,” she said.

Asked why she was not married at 34, Blessing, a nurse with a private hospital in Abuja, retorted: “that is why I’m on this social site. Why are you asking? Is it a bad idea if you propose to me?”

She explained that life was becoming unbearable without a husband.

“My friends and family members are aways asking when they would come and ‘chop’ rice, and I keep hoping,” she added.

A marriage counsellor in Lagos, Mrs. Victoria Aliu, told P.M.NEWS that scarcity of ‘real men’ is becoming a terrible condition for women ready for marriage. She blamed the problem partly on the Nigerian economy, confusion among the bachelors on their choices of the women they want as wives and the attitudes of the spinsters.

“Many women, whether consciously or not, behave irritably sometimes, forgetting that the man just beside them at every point in time may just have been nursing how to start a conversation that could lead to marriage. Some other ladies are very choosy and unserious at their early stages of adulthood. They only open their eyes to discover that their friends are all married and that they are the only ones left at the bus stop. Then it becomes a terrible case for them,” she explained.

With the above examples, do you sincerely think that there is scarcity of men for ladied in Nigeria?…..kindly share your opinion with us below

olasaad:


For what You and your brother get breast ni

Thelucifer666:
god forbid I marry a nigerian woman.
They are very dull, imagine you try to start a conversation and all they say is "lol"
When I chatted with a white woman she talked like an intellectual but you see these nigerian women?
They are useless

Ryan03:
Everyone is just typing fear girls up and down. Make una rest joor, as if we guys clean. How many guys here can swear that he gave just one girl in his life or that he has never cheated on his partner before?

dinachi:
Most young ladies of nowadays satisfy themselves with lesbianism and then make money by sleeping with men! It is in their blood!

Any man who still trusts women needs to have his head checked!

Your girlfriend is not different. The problem I still have with you guys is that you trust women too much. Change your mentality.

With your resources, Bleep as many as you can afford, play with them but never take them serious. If you need children, marry opt In for Surrogate but never ever trust her. You will live long long.

That is what women in our society has become!

Rvessels:
Hehehehehehe..... Nigerian girls are so so good in cheating o... Had same experience three days ago. What I saw on her Facebook chats was something else. Never knew I had nine other PA(personal assistants)

JubiOmeiza:


This torey wey u nack us, dey totori me for Belle...i faint as i Laf too hard. Now that i dun get myself, i go talk few yarns here.
the truth be say, girls ar not the same. though, majority of Dem get wahala well well, but u go still see very few wey still dey behave well.
To get good gal Na luck....nd the luck hard pass Naija bet own.
I Laf wen some dey talk say Dem no go marry cos of wetin women Dey do....The thing be say women ar necessary evils, u must learn to live wit them Ni unless u go Dey cook or buy food chop for the rest of ur life....U go cum graduate from Bachelor enta manchelor

micflo28:
You are not married to her so stop making the expectations. Its part of courtship to learn about your partners darkest sides. Well, for me, even if my wife go cheat on me after marriage, just drop like 3kids with my DNA and sign the divorce papers and go. I can be a super dad all by myself.

Palema007:
Lol Brother change your supplier.

Palema007:
Men are the cause of their predicaments. When you see a person who is so egoistic,control freaked, power drunk, bossy and wants to Own and Lord a human , then such should be ready to bear with all baggages that comes along. I will focus on Nigerian Man.

Nigerian Men hardly go after independent women, why? Because to them, such women are uncontrollable. They can't answer "yes man" to a man so they will rather go for dependent women who will have little or no choice than to do their commands

Insecure Nigerian men will rather have their Women sit at home than to work because they believe going to work equates having more chance to socialize and cheat with other men. These men prefer to foot all bills and have their Women go nowhere.

Most Nigerian Men hate it when their wives earn higher, so a man whose income can only cover 50% of household expenses will prefer to seek other sources of income than allow his wife continue that her job that pays her higher.

Damaged orientation of false Sense of responsibility given to Nigerian Men while growing, to them the more responsibility you shoulder, the bigger Man you become. That orientation has made guys to push themselves over limit Lol.... If only they know that they are killing themselves softly.

Guys broke shame guys. When you hear "go and make money" . It is the Nigerian thing. An average Nigerian Man's worth is tied to his pocket value, no one wants to be left behind so they keep pushing themselves over their limits. Little wonder they go into rituals that cut off their life span.

Unhealthy living and habits, smoking, excessive intake of alcohol, digging one hole to another, little rest, unbalanced diet, more work, excessive dissemination of sperm, sleepless nights, dangerous lifestyles etc are all factors that contribute to the problem. It isn't always the wives' faults. Men should check themselves and be wise.

Ariza It seems you did brain transplant or Installed a new Os Into your brain.... It's really working fine and effectively, I must commend you okay. Meanwhile seems those your boobies still look quite firm lol. Call me with your airtime If you want some caressing.....

Lamba42:
Had a chat earlier this week with some of my older colleagues (very late 30's to Mid 40's) about 6 of us all together ,mind you they're all doing very well for themselves and rather successful.The topic came up concerning how everyone's relationship/flings were going and apparently the summary was..Money doesn't make a woman loyal to you ,in fact most(including me)were of the opinion that a woman's loyalty is by the grace of God. Each of them narrated stories about women they had spent huge funds, taken them on vacations(Commot naija o), gotten jobs for ,invested in businesses for them only to find out they were soliciting attention from other men via dm's and texts, and some even went as far sleeping with those other men, for reasons best known to them.Not all women are cheaters but it seems a lot of them just naturally enjoy being the Centre of attention for Multiple men.
Please share your own Experiences .

bigtt76:
I will try not to join words with you since you've decided to behave uncivil here.

Greatzeus:
It's called transfer of aggression. They grew up lacking the basic things of life. They saw their friends having better things than them,from clothes to shoes to cream and other necessities. So they grew up being angry at their pops for being poor,now that they are older,they want to escape such life desperately but the guys they meeting ain't exactly Wizzy or Tuface who will give them things their fathers couldn't give them. This make them mad at themselves,the guys and the whole world in short.....

Mcslize:
CaveAdullam in this era of boyfriend and girlfriend, it is hard to find virgins.

Any girl that pass through higher institution hardly get out a virgin.

In 100 levels, guys have started hunting for freshers. Some that enter as virgins get deflowered even before that semester ends.

That's why when you go to most higher instutions hostels, you will see boys and girls cuddling in open places, hugging and kissing.

DontBullshitMe:

I know majority of women are dishonest but you just took yours to a whole new level. Quite sad if I must add.

On any scale, in any environment, more women are likely to be sexually loose than their male counterparts. I mean as a woman, all you need is a great body to court attention of men. Men will promise vacation, cars and many more to have a taste of that coochie.

Just for being a woman, either poor or rich, men will PROMISE or GIVE something in return for sexual pleasure from you. For a man, it is not so, your access/ownership to resources qualifies you for sex and it doesn't even guarantee it.

Especially that hoe phase of 16 - 24 years, girls change boyfriends like they are changing scarfs, it is fuçking sooo easy. Women are getting laid and getting money as a plus. And you have the nerve to say we have more faithful ladies than guys? Perish that thought abeg.

Only about well-to-do 20 guys can be fuçking 800 girls during that hoe phase and the struggling guy have to wait for crumbles.

J111333:
Bad guys don enjoy all the ingredients in that girl finish and here is Mr. Niceguy coming to have leftovers...It's better to not know and have than to know and have.

Say no to simpism brotherly. Whatever thing you think you have for that girl is not love but iberibeism.

Learn to leave street dogs on streets no matter how friendly they appear..

Stargurl20:
It's truly high time we stopped it. Fine! We may play it for a while, but it mustn't be for too long. It's so...heart wrenching for me seeing someone I love with someone else . I pray this pains leave soon.... Because it's painful and I need my sanity.

# if you love someone as a lady and you can sense that the feeling is mutual, please stop the hard to get charade.