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niceuzor:
Sorry 4 welcoming you,i guess its time 4 us to Act as friends here not enemies

u sound Amicable you know?

Trust me, my wild sunflower is more than amicable

Women!
Dont expect any help on a saturday!

Hmmmmm _{[size=1pt]I trust my girl so i'll silently subscribe to the thread[/size]}

All this talk about date sef

It only happens in the western countries where every woman wants a man to treat her like queen eliza! Men get arrested and put in jail for straffing his wife but she enjoyed it while it lasted oh!
It has become a trademark and thats why nowadays, men dey run go naija to marry. I have never heard of such a thing in Naija and Africa as a whole, infact it usually is the other way round - where the wife forces her husband to do the straffing

Watch this space

Damsal:
Interesting *looks around fantically* do you think she's found out yet?

@whitelexi
What happened three months ago?

u really wanna know?

osegwu:
Those girls who find it difficult to trust are usually the ones who Haw skeletons in their closets. It has been profen beyond all reasonable doubt.

Still me

Seconded!
Well spoken, straight out of the top drawer

I see. . . But just stay away from my path cos whether u r changed or same, i no send

Where have u been since 3 months ago

ThoniaSlim:
what?

u tell me

ObaofBenin:
Seun please ban this guy for vulgarism!

Who is this oba of benin sef?
Maybe u need to go and rule over benin and free NL, u should be saying "thank u" cos I just gave u some education: Totophobia is the absolute fear of everything!

No stress

why does ur name remind me of someone?

LMAO means: Laughing My Ass Off
Happy now?
Abeg free my thonia oh

lol

ikamefa:
LMAO! nice dream though!

Someone said to me this yr: "Guy, you're just too calm and keen on doing right all the time, let me give u an advice. . . Do something crazy this yr, just anything! get your ears pierced, take a tattoo, a funky haircut, change your dress-code, Anything!"

Maybe, sell yourself on ebay was in there somewhere

software:
RE: tope4life
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you're wrong 'software' or wha is that your name. this is the result of men's dishonesty and disappointment. do u knm wha d guy is done 2 the girl in d first place.

my guy, gainin someone's trust is not by a word of mouth but by actions and honesty, do u yourself trust her enough 2 gain her trust if u do n really love her keep trying man.


Tope4life, that my name na Emmanco. lets be sincere, Its not only the men that are dishonest or that do disappoint. i don't knowwhy u giirls always put the blame on guys. many girls out there are snakes under the green grass. as far as i am concered if someone is honest it does not take time to know. its very easy. so why the stress, for a girl to keep on posting a guy. na Jamb we dey do?

Guys abi na wetin una see to this matter wey dey ground so?

There is really no need to take this personal or turn this into a male/female war, the bottomline remains that trust is the backbone to the success of today's relationships and each person should naturally give it freely. If it is misused or broken, then u can say u don't trust the person anymore.

My stress about it is when u fail to trust because someone else in your past had failed u. You cannot expect your current relationship to work based on the trust matters of a past relationship. Every individual deserves a chance and if u choose to date, then u should also trust. The only lesson we should learn from bad past experiences is the way to handle them. Some people believe that everyone deserves a second chance    Others believe that if u fail the first time, u will surely fail a second time. . .   My belief is to at least give the benefit of doubt the first time and see if they fail at all.

whitelexi:
Some girls will never change, her past experiences may be hunting u

LOL Ditto too

Some girls will never change, her past experiences may be hunting u

In most cases like my own, it will be the past experiences she has had with men that will lead to such chronic lack of trust or maybe i should say fear of trust because it seems to now be a phobia, but u cannot punish the son for the father's sin. . .  How would u feel if a guy treated u badly all the time because he feels you're just the exact replica of his ex

Why the throat clearing

I had this friend under same circumstances, she didnt trust me one bit, she was always looking forward to something strange happening. She never trusted me and was very insecure.

I didnt like the fact that she didnt trust and couldnt stand her insecurity most times, i tried talking sense into her but it didnt work, i tried bending my principles to suit her more but she didnt still change, i even tried to stop seeing any friend at all just to bring that trust up but it also failed. She fell out with all my male friends, embarrassed me everywhere - especially with my guys cos they yabbed the living daylight out of me thanks guys!!!

I then decided to make things even more difficult for her, i.e called and took calls from other girls even in her presence. I guess i didnt care anymore, it just kills everything when they don't trust u even in your best behaviour. We had major problems after that because, although she was monitoring me very closely, she had her own games which of course, i enravelled and so it all ended there.

Number 2, 4 and 5 will work best for me. The synergy of these three have produced for me, an angel

faithful, good cook, and sexy.

Ok guys, stop taking the piss pls, no need to rub it in. . . that the bride-to-be is a man is bad enuff, we dont need anymore

LOL@Kit

lol

babaearly:
I just think you are scary thats all!

Totophobia is the absolute fear of everything fearable