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yes, i feel u're just trying to be stubborn but i know my point has been made and understood perfectly well.

Good thing u decided against coming after me with smoking guns and roses
But bad thing u still didnt learn anything at the end of the day
I didnt intend to draw any blood, just a slap on the wrist really. . . The way u spank a bad kid when they misbehave

I really dont go about calling people bad names, i just speak my mind and it doesn't always go well with the concensus

God help me on my own day

platinumnk:
Na, i just think he would look way nicer with one

Dont u have a beard too?

You know, mine grows in a way that even i hate!
Sometimes i wish i didnt have one cos it demands a lot of attention

Goaties usually go well on a square face but facial hair on a round face such as Seun's is something else ohh

***Wakes up***

Damn, that was just too bad. . . ***Dies again***

platinumnk:
Seun needs to grow a goat tee

Na so u hate the guy reach?

@Madlady: be truthful to yourself. You had a swipe at me, and i never resist the temptation to swipe back. . . Only, my defensive swipes usually carry more weight than my offensive ones so yes, u were a victim from an angle, but not entirely because of my fault. You, my friend, contributed heavily and so it was an unpleasant 1st for u. . . But u took it on the chin and learnt from that and i'm glad for u in that respect.

Knowledge, they say is power, whether u learnt the easy way or the hard way! At least, now u know how the skin is different from the tree bark, so thats a good thing. Perhaps u should now endeavour to learn how the tree bark is different from the skin!

Fennie:
I love a guy who knows the drill.

Now that u put it that way, i'm monitoring u closely!

The case is simple, we can correlate gossiping and kissing/telling to women more cos they gossip more!
They get excited over little things more, they cant keep secretz more, and so they look for someone to tell more!
Naija girls especially are guilty of gossiping and rumour mongering!! From the market-women, to the american barbie wanna be!

There is absolutely nothing u can entrust in a woman's care and never expect it to get out!

Even half the number of girls who've decried it on this thread alone, have been guilty of it in the past and will still be guilty of it in the future. . .  They just cant help themselves! All this lip-service remix of moral-correctness does not decieve any of us, we know the truth.

Useless naija girls gossip. . . Essentially that would mean 95% percent of them

ibkaye:
Not neccesarily, it's the principles, if my boyfriend and I were sleeping together, I wouldn't want him telling his friends about our escapades, it's not even about 'caring what other people think', doesn't mean one is insecure, some things are just meant to be kept private.

But u fail to point out that "how good a guy is in bed" is actually a top gossip point for you girls. . .  and we know it!

Cos girls are never straight-forward with men. . . From the word go, u make eye contact with them and they're wishing silently for u to make a move, u make a move and they change their poise [some dont even know how to act and some will over act and even insult u in the process], then they dont say no and dont say yes at the same time, they string u along and assess u in the process - check how deep your pocket is, what car u drive, and what part of town u live. . .

If u want to start on men, look inside yourselves first!

That is the thing about naija babes that just makes them less sexy. . .  Ask this same question to a brit and u'll see her response will touch all areas from respect to looks, to independence, to cashflow, to activities like travelling, sports, power play, and good in bed. . .  plus much more oh.

Naija chics go tell u say any goodlooking guy with fine face and toned muscles wey tall and get deep voice, red lips, fine dentition, and sabi dress well bla bla bla. . .  Who dem dey decieve??

ogazi007:
Women are not mentioning cash,what an irony?

Bloody morally correct animals
Who do they think they're fooling?

Its only a girl who's insecure about what the world would think of her that really gets bothered by all this trash. Mature girls dont care cos hey, everyone has sex, and even kids of 12 are now parents. . .  nothing is new in that area. Abortion has been passed into law in many countries and all u need to do is go and make enquiries to see how many girls are on a waiting list to have one. . .  In some areas they even have a post code lottery before u get it done cos too many people want it.

The problem in naija is an overwhelming number of marally correct individuals, who like to point the finger of blame on others without clearing their own trash first. Too many girls have done that abortion in one way or the other and yet are happy to gossip about others

Next topic pls.

What sort of name is mad-lady?
Are u really mad - as in the real madness. . . or are u naturally angry?

Apply some pressure, give her some close marking. . . Make your intentions clear from a distance, then close that distance until the proximity is zero metres and u can make positive contact!
Stop being an okobo!!

Ask yourself why u love him, thats a start. When u know the real reason, u will be able to get over it cos at the moment, he's not available and u dont wanna hurt his current girl.

If its cos of his looks or pocket pulling power, then this is not a topic for discussion anymore!

Sorry but some girls can never attract good guys, infact, they scare good guys away and thus end up with the bad ones.
Simple things like a girl's mode of dressing, appearance and presentation are enough to chase a good guy away. . .  Cos all he'll be thinking is "I cant take this girl home to mama", end of!

Artificial?

Well, now u complain about them being artificial. . .  Would u prefer them without the artificial nails, lashes, hair, lips, teeth, clits e.t.c?

Would u like a woman that looks worse than a mean-faced man?

Dude, run for dear life!

Lol!

Good looks and a good brain is all i need.

If she's balck and proud of it - thats an added advantage.

All those oyinbo-wanna be's, i dump at the first sniff of forming or attitude!

All these girls coming here to talk silly talk about stalking sef. . . Grow up abeg!

If he doesn't react u will come here to say he doesn't like u. . . When u saw him staring and u still got chatting with him, what did u expect?

You gave him name, number, and he probably only needed to google your name to get your facebook page and address, who's to blame?

Now u want attention, saying he's stalking u and all. . . That just gives a clear picture of your age!

I am taken and therefore forbidden to comment in threads such as this one. Madam is a very prominent nairaland icon and she will kill me if i talk

Wonderful!!!

NL girls and carrying private gist to public forums

When the birds learn to fly higher, the hunters too learn to be more precise

@Poster, if this problem persists, u need to look at yourself. . . It cant be a problem with naija men if it happens all the time to u alone.

Perhaps you've stayed in london too long and have started building castles in the sky [a common illness with staying too in the UK]. Naija men will never change in terms of culture, a naija man is always the head of the family whether or not u do the funding. . . Get used to it.

Perhaps your relationship with oyinbo was good because they practice the kind of romance that u have become used to i.e. buying u flowers and teddy bears, or perhaps cooking for u or always eating and dining out. . . It lacked the click, cos its not easy to be a naija man!!

Wake up while u can, and smell the coffee.