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If the man is really hidding something for her like a girlfried or debits.
Well he always could get a pay as you go sim card and a second phone or he could put this sim card in his phone when he is outsite.
IF he is picking his phone always and do sweet talk to her - it does not mean he can not be up to something.

Ceily (f) - strange - i am a woman, i have university degree, two children and to a well payed job. What I have seen in Germany was different the german to german marriage last, but many german/ nigerian couple spilt up.

Dear Nigerians,

I am wondering - if a man - the brother might be yoruba or igbo - can sent his wife away or do not accept his second born, because the mother refuse an abortion? Note - the same lady is the mother of his first born son!

Some sister told me - back in Nigeria - it is the job of the husband to produce so many children as the wife or wife(s) requested.

On the other hand - i have seen a brother, how played a very bad game to his second wife, because he did not forgive her the fourth pregnancy. One of those day she was abandoned, he refuse to see her and she had to rent a room for herself and the four kids and the littel money this man gave her - she had to collect to by his mother in his hometown 1 1/2 hours away form Lagos. I asked this man - Why - he said - I went abroad, next thing this woman is had a baby, which i can not feed.

Older Mum and Baba say "Chrildren are a blessing" and you should have many, but feeding the "Blessing" and pay there accommodation, cloths and school fee. It is not a joke, some men go mental by so many babies.

lays or other materia for mummy, a bibel or a koran for daddy
for the amount to spend - spend the them amount as you would do for your own parterns

Did you have someboby in Nigeria how visted them? Then you could arrage a bag of rice, beans or gare for them.

There are Britsh? Please go and try to say this to there partens.
And The USA are better? Right?

I have famliy in the USA and in the UK and I am not related to any of this countries. The Urban Problems in London (Brixtion and Packham) are exactly they same as in Chicago, New York and Texas.

Poor Housing, the partents work 24/7 to make a living and the kids are told to be "white" and they have to fit in.

Later on in live the kids might see there are not white and not middel class and this is were the problem starts - they are looking for an identity and the will found it in what s up, rap, gangs ans so on.

Therefore partens take your kids home to once a year and let them stay in the village for a couple od days with no air con, no tv, off nepa und the village way of cooking - and if your child is mix respect the mother and the daddy background

An when in Nigeria, partens do not make cool your self.

hoppers?

Yes, I do agree to bring up your children as christians or moslems might help to give them some form of values.
Therefore the partens must practise what the preach! If mummy or daddy does partner hoping, what should the child think?

They same thing goes for the church, in Europe you bring your children up in only one church - you do not hope - your child will be baptized there and if you do not move away your child will married there.

A woman and her husband go to the same church.

P.S. I am living in the UK. - London, Manchester, Liverpool or the other big cities is not the UK. Some people took a lot of shXX on. We call it broken Briten.

Clever! for someone how does perhaps do not know any white couple

Please talk to a woman form Italy, Spain or Poland about divorce in her own countries.
Or Germany, Austria and Switzerland.

The problem is the Naja Boy z mostly take loose woman to get there paper down and than talk rabish back home.

And naja woman in the Uk - oh gosh - divorce, divorce, ditvorce