₦airaland Forum

menabae:
only my bro and dad

Chinachriss:
I understand the Op's plight. Same here in Uniuyo with the Oron guys. They are really marginalized in Aks. But, I must commend them, they are very industrious. An average Ibibio person is very lazy.

Demigods:
It's barely a month bro!

Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.

Sijo01:
You choose to enter a burning fire with your eyes wide open. Live with it bro, you brought it upon yourself.

Harbosede02:
This guy ehn.....u finally disgraced me

SirJeffry:
I once was in that situation when I was doing my NYSC back then. I asked myself a question which was if she was my sister, what would I want for her?

Dump a very well ready man for me, an ordinary youth Corp member who didn't yet have the hope of getting a job let alone settling down.

She later married the man and the same man was the one that helped me secure my first job though not paying much then but it was something to hold on to until I finally stabilised.

My advice for you bro is to let the sleeping dog lie and wait until you are ready to settle down and if she continues being confused as she is now, then you can leave her and move on.

SirJeffry:
No hard feelings my brother. Just know that any woman you keep outside marriage is on borrowed time only. Believe me, you will even advise your own sisters not to keep their eggs in one basket, everybody will do that including me. One love brother.

zaragal:
Op u. Are very selfish and in considerate u want her to dump her bf for u?v ...Dat ridiculous

U knew from the start she had a bf and she was honest enough to tell u yet u went along with the relatnship, now u want her to dump her man for u

Well I hope u knw u deserve having a gal u are dating and love dump u for another guy. Wat goes Ard comes back ard

Ps: I can't date a guy dat wants to date me whilst I hav a bf....same way he will dat other gurls while he has me (godforbid)

I think I respect men with good morals and high selfesteem...I mean men with PRINCIPLES!!!

odinese:
I think when you stop disturbing her she gonna dance her life out...

The best for you to do is to distance yourself from her....then wait for some weeks or maximum 1month if there is gonna be any changes. But if there isn't? Move on with yr life coz there is no way a girl is gonna leave a man she loves so much for another man who she rarely loves.

SirJeffry:
Mr. Man, have you bothered to ask her why she keeps the other guy?

Maybe he fits in her future and you don't that's why she's holding on to him.

It's obvious that girl knows what she wants but sadly, you don't.

I'm sure you discuss latest NAIJA songs and fashion with her while the other dude discusses family, career advancements, education and so on with her.

Grow up kid.

SirJeffry:
Mr. Man, have you bothered to ask her why she keeps the other guy?

Maybe he fits in her future and you don't that's why she's holding on to him.

It's obvious that girl knows what she wants but sadly, you don't.

I'm sure you discuss latest NAIJA songs and fashion with her while the other dude discusses family, career advancements, education and so on with her.

Grow up kid.

sulmeza:
some guys sha....smh

halfrica:
Bae u gat mad curves?
Work on ur sef nt on ya man he myt
Nt b sexually attracted to u ok


Either u try to b sexy,or u just quit sexxx. Must u giv him sexxx on his birthday ow bou havin a simple nice time nd evaluate ur man nd commend him bou his previous attitude over d last years, talk to him on how he can be a better man then all things would be added onto him even sexxx drive cos ur man wud b like i value my woman so mch to satisfy her in all places,ways and means

Bt wen u tink of mostly sex he wud loose his sex drive cos it seems dats all u av to offer



It might shock u to kno dat a the man u complaining bou his sex drive is banging anoda girl who commends his sex drive *EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS RELATIVE*

Joy1706:
I guess u haven't seen female doctors, lawyers, bankers, engineers etc. Na onli those 4 hotel u dey see?

Michellla:
why not quit NL then and stop whining.

dharay99:

heyo shor†y,

Yhu wise, yhu hones†, yhu loyal, yhu pre††y.
Take ds $3000, qo buy mommah some clo†hes,
Take ds $35000, qo build urself a mansion cuz ur wiser dan
dah† 0ne_Ny†_S†and 0p i †el yhu.!

castrokins:
I'd Blame Your Stupidity On Upbringing. You'd Have Been Told To Respect People You Barely Know. Shouldn't You Educate The People Who Failed That Responsibility?

castrokins:
I'd Blame Your Stupidity On Upbringing. You'd Have Been Told To Respect People You Barely Know. Shouldn't You Educate The People Who Failed That Responsibility?

castrokins:
Hey, Doesn't It Make You Senseless Quoting A Senseless Comment?

And BTW, It's "Robbed"

castrokins:
No Be Calabar South? Una Never Chi Chom Ching.


Even If Dem Dash Me Free House + Women For Calabar South, I No Fit Live That Area.

TONYE001:
Confidant? When we are talking about a vulnerable 13-year-old girl?

I think she did the right thing. If I were her, I would do same...

Amusaopeyemi:
She's a child.
I'll never ever ever make my child feel bad about her weight at this tender age. It could affect her self-esteem.
A 13year old girl saw me at one event like that and said she wants to be like me, she thinks she's too fat and she told me how she's been eating 2ce a day, drinking 'lemon water, this water, that water'. I just smiled and told her to show me her mom. I told her mom all what her daughter had told me before the poor girl harms herself with all she's been taking.

shachris:
http://leadership.ng/news/440835/amaechi-left-over-n7bn-in-rivers-coffers-aide

shachris:
http://leadership.ng/news/440835/amaechi-left-over-n7bn-in-rivers-coffers-aide

macof:
more morons who worship a dead and rotten Jew whom they never met

Have u met Jesus? Do you know him? U worship a dead corpse that has decomposed to soil and you talk about people devoting to a majestic sea goddess