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T817:
I returned home from my shop only to find my wife 4 siblings in my house I wasn’t happy because she didn’t informed me they were coming over and in this economy when the country is hard why would they come all four of them at the same time.

My mother in law came for omugwo she stayed for 5 weeks, she left 3 weeks ago I had given my wife 30k the money I borrowed from a good friend of mine to get her some few things to take home, then 3 weeks after, her 4 siblings are here too, they are 6. The last born who is 10 have been staying with us for 2 years now. I take care of her, my wife doesn’t work and I am only managing I don’t know why her people want to
drain me.

Can you imagine as soon as I entered the house, her sisters were asking me about their Christmas gifts, "brother where is our gift?" As if I am their ATM. I just ignored them because I was already angry seeing them in my house without my permission but keeping calm was the best thing to do.

What shocked me was the fact her brother was comfortably sleeping in my bed next to my 2 months old baby. My wife didn’t see it as anything bad she said he is her brother and wouldn’t harm his own niece but my point was not about him doing something wrong with her but the fact that he doesn’t have any respect for my bed that what really got me angry which led to my wife and I to quarrell not in their presence but in our room but since it’s only parlour and room self con I believe they must have heard everything but I don’t care.

My Wife thinks I am overreacting and I don’t like her siblings and she said she will tell her parents everything I said to her in anger which I didn’t meant to but nobody in my position will be happy if he happened to be in my shoe. How do I handle this problem with my wife without causing any further problems between us and her parents because I don’t have money to feed 4 more mouths for 2 weeks because they are not leaving any time soon not until the 3rd or 4th of January and before her siblings came she complained about her Christmas clothes and hair. I told her I will only do Christmas for the kids because I don’t have money she frowned her face and started giving me attitudes and on top of that she has invited her 4 siblings when I don’t have a kobo to feed all of them.

Even the food we have in the house won’t even last until January because I bought enough for 5 people but now with 9 of us it won’t last and her siblings are expecting me to do Christmas for them too , I don’t blame them because they are small children 20,18,15,12 who thinks that I have a skeleton in my cupboard where I get free money lol.

What should I do right now ? I am not happy Your advice is needed please

Oga, my take is simple
1. The signs were obvious before u went into marriage, perhaps love ran u over
2. Your wife doesn't respect & regard u as d man of d house else u would have been informed
3. Your body language encourages ur wife to do commit such offense
4. Subjecting urself to undue pressure in d name of pleasing ur in laws is unnecessary, unwise and avoidable. Part of d reason there are more widows that widowers
5. Country hard every where o. Everybody is looking for where to lean o. E be like say u have broad shoulders
Las Las, life na choice. Best wishes sir

Paramilitary1:
Are you kidding me? Senate President, Speaker, DSP no feat arrange am for person ni

My brother, life no balance. Job pass job

Ndokwagirl:
Which list does it fall to

D or E

zheeko:
I doubt the the pay of 25k for GT (First class graduate)

Pls anyone with similar experience should contribute to this.

Your input will highly be appreciated.

When jungle mature, 1st class no matter ooo

Nwanyiogwashi:
I am thinking in that direction but my friends has called me more than 14 times giving me reason why I not move.

Your intuition doesn't lie to you I suppose. Follow that voice, you'll be glad you did.

Damdam24:
Seriously I don't know. I asked because I saw the question was being ignored and not answered by those who asked earlier which got me a bit curious.

Please anyone that can assist me to get a parastatal job(preferably NCC) will be highly appreciated. I am even willing to part with my first salary. Thank you

Two ways to get into NCC
1. God helping you with a 5G connect
2. Buy with Millions

akinrinnola11689:
The man should have been a frat man . His looks and manner of murder sold his assailants out.

His look is terrifying no doubt but he was a kind man in and out

Davash222:
You gain nothing to frustrate students.



RIP.

Stop this trash. Be human for once pls. I was his student for both my undergraduate and post graduate studies. Don't say what you don't know pls

Teetee23:
Tammy Pls answer me na.
National inland waterways didn't pay 200k as you stayed in this list. Entry level 8 was paid 58k..is there something wrong somewhere?

Thank you.

Is this for the guys that did IPPIS capturing last month?

It's simple, North got over 90 percent appointments in Buhari's Govt and also took 90 percent of Nigeria's present problems

TheAlchemist3:
Please guys inform us of recruitments from A grade parastals.

Sent couple of mails to the AMCON's, NERC's, PPPRA's and likes and the response i keep getting is that recuitment isnt going on atm.


When actually do they recuit?

I will suggest u also look out for the B and C grade agencies. No harm in starting from somewhere. Just a suggestion...

NewDelhi:
NARSDA people, wtf is this?

What do u expect when NASRDA slots are sold to the highest bidder

Shazz1:
Good evening, please who knows how much Chicken Republic pay Graduate Trainee?

25 to 30k

Bestlily:
Which one can I buy with 70k?

Amotekun......

bolaayenimo:
Are u afraid of mentioning his name?

Read between the lines. He mentioned the name already

Yahaya Bello of Kogi State did even worse. Yet you guys didn't say anything then. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander.

NekkyCee:
Keep praying for Engrbriggs. The last time I was in touch with him, he wasn't feeling well. Been unable to reach him since then.

We wish him quick recovery. May God perfect all that concerns his health IJN.

vinoc:
Temporary Job offer as Senior Special Assistant to a House of Rep member, pls who knows what's the salary like?

I'm aware SLA earns above 500, LA around 300. I think Special assistants should earn above 200. I'm not sure sha

Agentp47:
Is 5m a reasonable price for NCC slot? The seller is authentic, my friend bought navy from him last December.

Sent you a PM

vinoc:
Pls who knows like how much aides to House of Rep members or Senators earn?

It depends on the post. There's senior legislative aid (SLA) which is equivalent to level 15 federal staff, legislative aid (LA) and personal assistants

Agentp47:
Is 5m a reasonable price for NCC slot? The seller is authentic, my friend bought navy from him last December.

Its a good deal in my opinion. Just ensure the payment is after u get APL. Good luck

LegitDiva:
No more slots

Do you have an idea of when their APL will be ready?

teekay22:
NCC is worth it but it’s how genuine the deal is that is the major concern, their upfront is more than 2m

Thanks a lot

LegitDiva:
I have a legitimate source but he said it's 3M

Sent you a DM

futuremoma34:
They one, I know said his slot has finished.. He was given 3 slots and they are sold

Ok. Thanks bro. Is it advisable to get a loan of over 3M for a job such as NCC? Is it worth it? Is their upfront up to 2M? Pardon my questions. Help a brother bro

futuremoma34:
Yes ooo. Slots were sold. 2.5M

Pls can u help connect me to a trusted seller? A close cousin got one for 3.7M which he cannot afford at d moment

Hello. Pls how much can I get Toyota corolla 2006 direct Belgium with custom paper?