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BusinessRe: Konga Or Jumia: Which Is More Reliable? by wiser: 6:40pm On Dec 08, 2013
I made order for items from Jumia, since November up til now my goods have not been delivered. They gave maximum of 8 days, which has elapse. well, i am still writing and calling to deliver my items.
FoodRe: Firm Introduces Refined Garri. by wiser: 1:46pm On Aug 23, 2013
Hon. SuQ Ma'DIQ:
They clamped down on us on NL(No room for AMNESTY). We went underground. Now see what we've achieved for ourselves.
Congrats to all GARRI FREEDOM FIGHTERS, FALLEN GARRI WAR HEROS, VETERANS ETC.
GARRI is going NUCLEAR! On GARRI we shall forever stand!
i love that
RomanceRe: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by wiser: 10:20am On Apr 03, 2013
Joan Johnson: Having a good woman by your side as your girlfriend is always nice.

In fact, it is a dream of every normal man in this world. The right woman is a woman who can make you grow into a better man.

Many men experience failure in relationships because they are too quick to choose, too easily attracted and fall in love with a woman without thinking whether she is worthy or not (of course mistakes committed by ourselves can cause failures too). Below are 10 characteristics of a good woman to be your girlfriend:

1. Supportive



She is a figure who always support you in your life as well as your career and always by your side when the whole world walks out. As we know, our society tend to require a man to be a strong man and not a fragile person, but sadness and stress that come repeatedly will destroy you if you don’t vent your feelings. Thus, a good woman can be the best listener by providing support and comfort for you. She also gives you freedom to develop yourself as you want.

2. Independent

This characteristic is important because it means she can manage and take care of herself. It will be very annoying when you have to be her ‘babysitter’ all the time, right? She can go home by herself when you can’t pick her up, she can go shopping by herself when you can’t accompany her, and she can rely on herself when you can’t help her. Independent woman is a woman who can stand by her own feet and walk alone when you can’t be there (of course she still respects you as the leader).

3. Beautiful inside and out

From the outside, she is not a woman like Taylor Swift, Kate Middleton, Megan Fox, or Jessica Alba, but she looks beautiful and attractive in her own way, her simplicity and friendliness. From the inside, you notice that she is a person who has an extraordinary and inspiring personality.

4. Confident

She loves her imperfection, perfectly. She doesn’t hurt herself or dying to be famous and beautiful like a movie actress. She doesn’t try to be someone else, she is confident of herself and (of course) proud to have you by her side.

5. Respects you

You are the leader and she, as your partner, has respect for you and the decisions you make. She doesn’t make you afraid of her and look like a loser. But of course, you have to respect her too by not humiliating and treating her like a slave.

6. Know when to speak and keep quiet

She knows which stories that can be told to her friends and which ones don’t. She doesn’t like to gossip about your bad things and your relationship. She knows when to speak and listen to your words. She also can speak tenderly (without yelling) when she expresses her opinion to you.

7. Loyal

Someone who’s in normal or happy circumstances tend to be a kind person. Don’t immediately assume she has a good character when she is in such conditions, just wait until you have some problems. Then you will know her true character and who she really is. Women who are not loyal will turn around and leave you when you face problems, either minor or major ones. While women who are loyal will remain by your side to face the problems together. That’s why you need time to evaluate your partner before moving to the next stage of your relationship.

8. Doesn’t fall in love with your wealth and social status

In this modern era, money is something that has tremendous appeal. Money can buy positions, power, authorities, even ‘love’. Of course they love the money not the person. Although money remains an important thing to think about (you can’t eat and shop without money, right?), but a good woman won’t put her love on your wealth because she already has something more valuable than money… You. Think about this… Love of money is only temporary because wherever the money goes, that’s where her heart is… But love that comes and grows from her heart to you will last for a lifetime. Why? Because wherever you go, that’s where her heart is. Do you notice the difference?

9. Simple and down to earth

There was a joke that said, “The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.” It’s funny but also true. Women are good market of beauty products by various companies. In fact, MOST of their body parts are good market.. Their hair, face, ears, eyes, hands, fingers, toenails, and so on. Don’t be trapped by a high maintenance woman if you can’t afford her needs. It’s better to choose a simple woman who still looks good with what she got, without requiring too much maintenance. In addition, she is modest and humble in everyday life, she doesn’t demand a lot of facilities to indulge herself.

10. Gets into your life

And the last thing is she knows and gets along well with your friends. She also knows your family well, helps your mom to prepare meals, travels with your family, and most importantly she enjoys it all sincerely. When she knows your life well and has a good relationship with your family, then you have a good chance to move into the next relationship stage.
why is honesty and faithfulness the most important for the sake of being reserved, lacking in your
qualities list?
RomanceRe: Is marriage worth it ? by wiser: 12:44pm On Mar 29, 2013
i have heard your story, to know try to ask the guy what his attraction is towards u,where it is coming from
whether it is from natural or artificia.

again try to know his compatible needs. if you have known all these, the picture of the guy will come to your palm.

meanwhile go tru my post here in this romance forum "THE 20 SECRET WONDERS OF SUCCESSUL DATIND AND MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP"
RomanceRe: Kekenapep Or Okada: To Take Your Girl On A Date? by wiser: 12:08pm On Mar 29, 2013
all is well to anybody that will do so, because who uses leg, has promised to buy bicycle or okada,
who uses okada, has promised to buy keke, who uses keke will one day buy 4wheel drive. Life is
a gradual process.jeje and nwayonwayo
RomanceThe 20 Secret Wonders Of Successful Dating And Marriage Relationship by wiser(op): 10:24am On Mar 29, 2013
THE 20 SECRET WONDERS OF SUCCESSUL DATIND AND MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP

Relationship to say, is obviously still a complex topic or everyone would be successful and happily married.

I read an article on (Tuesday March 26, 2013) Guardian newspaper in the youth speaks column section always found at the back of the paper daily, except weekends. The writer made mention of “Domestic violence” as what relationships nowadays suffer; abuse, disappointment, jilt etc, as matters that the government, police, even people around has no better law or hand in dealing with, here in Nigeria, as it is done in other countries like Europe.

On this ground I stand to pity those out of relationship would lose their lives and for eternity; by bringing up this remedy discussion to the problem, inform of relationship questions for the public teaching and knowledge. Please everybody should play matured and let’s discuss this matter; to any question you can answer. And here goes the questions

1. Could anybody tell me as a start to any relationship, the valued questions necessary to ask your partner as an eye opener to know how far the relationship would go?
2. Could anybody tell me how to know if a partner can be change in relationship?
3. Could anybody tell me how to know if your partner would take you to the altar?
4. Could anybody tell me how to know the earlier signs that a relationship would later turn to abusive relationship?
5. Could anybody tell me why many educated handsome and beautiful are always turn down in relationship while the ugly are successful?
6. Could anybody tell me from the base one should make decision when face with two good choices of similar marriage partners?
7. Could anybody tell me how to cope with partner in breastfeeding?
8. Could anybody tell me how to know attraction and need in relationship?
9. Could anybody tell me how to know true love expressions?
10. Could anybody tell me the morals to follow up already mistaken marriage relationship?
11. Could anybody tell me how to first approach (the body language and speech depending on environment) a partner for date?
12. Could anybody tell me why when there is no concrete reason one beats or not happy always with the partner?
13. Could anybody tell me how to satisfy partner sexually?
14. Could anybody tell me the causes and solutions to quick ejaculation?
15. Could anybody tell me the causes and solutions to impotency in intercourse?
16. Could anybody tell me how to enjoy partner sexually even at old age?
17. Could anybody tell me how to achieve the baby of choice that wants to bring jerky leg in good relationship?
18. Could anybody tell me the causes and solutions to frigidity and lack of libido in relationships?
19. Could anybody tell me how one can recognize the body signs in terms of reproduction?
20. Could anybody tell me how childless couples healthy, who could have separated and starts bearing children in their respective marriages, could achieve pregnancy in that same marriage?

While we embark on the teachings and learning of these important relationship questions as answers will be coming from people, if there is any or more you feel not like understanding, please delay not to e-mail or text your name, location and phone number to achinihustephen65@gmail.com or 08034595305,08059205944. So to communicate to you the date and venue for the post-Ester bonus relationship seminar titled “FINAL DATING AND MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP! NO BREAKUP UNTIL DEATH APART” coming soon.

You are invited to come and experience a man named “ANOTHER RADICAL IN RELATIONSHIP alias theoretical cleaner”. The man who cleans every relationship issues of the mind. As you come you will never go back the same.
PoliticsRe: Boko-Haram: Deported Nigerien Vows To Return by wiser: 11:40am On Mar 27, 2013
[quote author=emmysenior]Silence they say... Stop fretting & fuming. I'd rather you focus on the unmentionable sh1ts in your country & let us be.
PoliticsRe: Achebe Projected African Image To The World – Obasanjo by wiser: 10:18am On Mar 27, 2013
[quote author=slimghost]What an illiterate!! Do you know what a personal memoir is? gosh, Nairaland is so full of kids and semi-illiterates.

tell him
RomanceRe: Single Ladies Who Stay In An Abusive Relationship by wiser: 1:49pm On Jun 13, 2012
it is foolishness, receiving beating and still die put.any girl loved by any man can't be beaten instead be pampered.i was once found in that act of beating my girl friend but when i met the one i love most, who am i to say no to her words talk more of laying my hands on her.
HealthCure Your Infection Without It Coming Back Again by wiser(op): 11:55am On May 04, 2012
I have gotten a solution by which you can get rid of toilet infection (candida)
and other infections you may not know how to cure or you have been looking for a solution long
ago.if you want to be free from your infection just send me an e-mail to (achinihustephen65@gmail.com)
or steveamaije@yahoomail.com.
FamilyMothers Stop Being A Liability In That Home Of Yours From Today by wiser(op): 5:18am On Aug 16, 2008
mothers, even the grown up young ladies that are yet to marry , this info is for you today. My name is steve (a.k.a theoritical cleaner) and i am in my ministration i call "UNVEIL IT AND LET THEM KNOW" to be frank i must tell you this, if you are not contributing in the family the husbands dont normally be happy. Not only that a woman must be an asset in the family why because death is inevitable if the husbands are nowhere to be found, you as a mother can still move on pushing the family along. So why am i sounding this way, this may be your question? yes am here to give the solution e-mail me at steveamaije@yahoo.com to sell for you this material that will teach you step-by-step method of producing perfum,custard, stove thread,liquid and bar soap, dettol, izal,bleach etc at affordable rate because i want to see you today contributing in the family.

i wouldn't mind revealing this secrete am using to make huge money because am on a mission as i ealier mentioned it above. if after sending you the material, any step that you don't understand, please call me with these numbers 08059205944 or 08034595305 i will explain better to you. i am a chemist by profession. i learnt all these while i was in the university and i know it very well.
Thanks it is well.
CultureRe: Why Do Hausa's Flog Their Potential Inlaws? by wiser: 11:26pm On Aug 15, 2008
which part of hausa does Yaradua comes from
Christianity EtcAnalyse And Reply To Me, If You Have Learnt Something by wiser(op): 1:55pm On Aug 15, 2008
Are you a child of God, you never know how to overcome that temptation you use to have. Read and analyse this it will help you.
First of all identify it, that temptation which use to exert strngest pull on you.
secndly know when this temptation most likely occure, if it iswhen you are alone,at work, in school, at home, with friends etc. Then after you have observed this, when that time is likely to surface in any time of the day of your life, try to do another thing else to escape that paticular condition. For example if yours comes while you are alon in the home, try to move out to places like library or visit friends or go esle where you know that you will not be idle thinking. That will sove your problem. Apply this method to other things . Thank you.
AdvertsFrom Today, You Will Never Lack Business Idea And How To Start by wiser(op): 2:46pm On Aug 12, 2008
Nairalanders it is only when you know the right thing to do, that you start percieving the ideas of right thing to do. This is not hype i used it, now am running two to three businesses that generates extra income for me. You too can do it. Some are even done with little or no capital. As information is the key to success, all you need is the information on how it can work out. The question now should be, where can i get that information? Tha simple answer is nothing more than to see this business information handbook addressed as "CHOOSE A BUSINESS" there you will see all you know and dont know to do as business and how to start it. pls if you want it send e-mail to (steveamaije@yahoo.com)
AdvertsRe: I Need A God-fearing Forex And Fixed Odds Guru Who Can Teach Me One On On Ser by wiser: 2:22pm On Aug 12, 2008
pleae go to SADC and ask after one pastor like that who appear in SDE news papa. Who gave testimoney how he made it also he can train people. That is the man am hoping to meet when i change my mind for forex trading.
BusinessRe: Business Areas That Need Investment In Nigeria by wiser: 2:14pm On Aug 12, 2008
your question is good
BusinessRe: You Have Money And You Need Business Ideas? by wiser: 2:07pm On Aug 12, 2008
i havve just jam bulk of money i need your idea.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneJust For Matured Ladies; Discover That Right Partner by wiser(op): 11:35am On Aug 04, 2008
TO BE FRANK, MALE PARTNERS ARE HEARTLESS IN DATING RELATIONSHIP, WHICH I AM NOT EXCEMPTED. THEY ARE READY TO BREAK YOUR HEART. BUT JUST FOR GOD WHOM AM SERVING TO PITTY THE LADIES, I HAVE FOR YOU THAT KEY POINT WELL PROVED, THAT WILL HELP YOU DETECT THAT SERIOUS MAN DATING YOU FOR MARRIAGE BEFORE YOU WASTE YOUR TIME SPENDING YOUR LIFE TIME WITH HIM FOR NOTHING. AGAIN THE MATERIAL WILL ALSO SHOW YOU HOW TO HOLD THIS MAN CAPTIVE WITHOUT HIM KNOWING. IF YOU ARE INTERESTED FORWARD AN e-mail to me at steveamaije@yahoo.com

I am known as theoritical cleaner and also working in my ministry i called "UNVEIL IT AND LET THEM KNOW" i have come to make the ladies feel happy in line to my MOTTO AS "A MEDIUM FOR GOD'S GLORY"
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Happy Birthday To All Those Born In July. by wiser: 10:12am On Aug 04, 2008
thank you
RomanceJust For The Matured Ladies; Discover That Right Partner by wiser(op): 10:02am On Aug 04, 2008
TO BE FRANK, MALE PARTNERS ARE HEARTLESS IN DATING RELATIONSHIP, WHICH I AM NOT EXCEMPTED. THEY ARE READY TO BREAK YOUR HEART. BUT JUST FOR GOD WHOM AM SERVING TO PITTY THE LADIES, I HAVE FOR YOU THAT KEY POINT WELL PROVED, THAT WILL HELP YOU DETECT THAT SERIOUS MAN DATING YOU FOR MARRIAGE BEFORE YOU WASTE YOUR TIME SPENDING YOUR LIFE TIME WITH HIM FOR NOTHING. AGAIN THE MATERIAL WILL ALSO SHOW YOU HOW TO HOLD THIS MAN CAPTIVE WITHOUT HIM KNOWING. IF YOU ARE INTERESTED FORWARD AN e-mail to me at steveamaije@yahoo.com

I am known as theoritical cleaner and also working in my ministry i called "UNVEIL IT AND LET THEM KNOW" i have come to make the ladies feel happy in line to my MOTTO AS "A MEDIUM FOR GOD'S GLORY"
AdvertsRe: Business Idea by wiser: 10:55pm On Aug 02, 2008
Thank you for this advert i have one, here is my e-mail steveamaije@yahoo.com you can send some info for me there thank you.
AdvertsRe: Low Statup Business by wiser: 10:48pm On Aug 02, 2008
can you give me the prayamble of the job am interested here is my e-mail steveamaije@yahoo.com
AdvertsRe: Free Internet Browsing Is Real. Don't Pay Me Or Any Company Kobo. Get It 4 Free by wiser: 10:14pm On Aug 02, 2008
Brother infact if this can work out as you said, you are one of the right people we are looking for in this country. send me the info here is my e-mail steveamaije@yahoo.com

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