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Thanks so much for the encouraging words |
I have known her for 3yrs+ and she's been wonderful to me. Last year October she got pregnant for me and told me about it but I insisted since she's still in her 3rd yr in school she should get the baby out but she refused. Her reason for refusing is that she's afraid of the consequences and so she decides to keep the baby but will not tell any of her parents until she's gives birth and possibly finish school. She's 8 mnths gone now. But yesterday, her mum was called by one of her supposed friends and was told that her daughter is 8mths pregy. The mum called her and asked her but she denied it. But on further persuasion and having seen that the mum will confront the girl that told her, she decided to open up to mum. When asked, she told the mum (who already knew me) that I was responsible. That means she was afraid the mum will disown her and her dad who stays in Germany Will abandon her if they had known. The mum called me and said alot. Up till then, the mum thought the daughter was in school. So she told her that she will be coming to visit her in school to know how she's doing. To which my girl agreed but on a second thought, she decided to open up and tell her mum that she's at my place. The Mum disconnected the call. This morning, her maternal uncle called me and asked I should bring her back to her mum. I am sincerely fixed now. My babe is crying her eyes out. I have contacted My mum and uncles too.. My babe is afraid the dad will abandon her, her academics will end, she has disappointed her family and the rest. Abeg what's the best way to follow this matter? We wanted to hide the child till she's done with school, untill I come to do all marriage rites and then bring out the child (these were her ideas though together with my mum). I had known this may happen but both she and my mum prevailed over me till I agreed. I am really disturbed. I am |
virginprincess:This lady, don't make me say you are very stupid for this stupid comments you are making. What nonsense are you saying. So relationship is poverty alleviation program abi. If you don't have any reasonable thing to say just shut the hole on your face or stop typing trash �️ |
virginprincess:See foolish talk. You are supporting entitlement mentality. So the gf dont knw where to get her own money. I just blame this guy walahi . If it's me, she will see no shishi to more of 3k. Bros you mumu die I tell you. |
bmdmix13:Hot one |
MadamVanessa:I agree with this |
A friend called this morning narrating how his pregnant fiancee was hitting her stomach in order to initiate the abortion of their 7 months pregnancy simply because he reminded her about the initial discussion they had regarding the pregnancy. The lady is in her penultimate level in a University but had like 9 carry overs due to poor preparation for the exams. So he blamed her reminding her that if she had taken his advice to remove the baby, she's wouldn't be faced with this delimma. The only saving grace this girl has is that she told her parents that the only pass in their School through paying for the exams. The parents have sent her almost 200k for sorting this courses but she's not serious with her current level. What happened today shocked him. The girl was vehemently hitting her tommy. And since then the baby has stopped moving. Initially after hitting it, they felt little fading movement but with time the movement stopped and they have not noticed any movement since then. He's afraid the child may have died. The matter now is he's asking for my counsel, what do you advice he does in this situation. What do you think could be the lady's problem? Is this lady worth continuing with her? He noted that at slightest provocation, she becomes violent and abusive. What should he do? What if something has happened to the baby. |
Get a girlfriend. |
The same thing happened in IK today. Phone � thief was almost killed today but God saved him. |
porthouse7:He actually aimed for my head but missed and hit my knee. |
blackgold2018:You must be abysmally foolish! If you don't have anything to say, fool fvck off before ⚡ fire your stupid hands �! |
Thanks to everyone who commented, I took the wrong step. But even at that, the man had not right to become violent over the matter. If not just because of the respect I have for my father, I for show that man say, he's an old man. Also he's so lucky that I didn't record the event else I would have dealt with him with it by the time I send the video online and to all their parent. I was able to get a self contain room this afternoon! So am leaving there to face my life! |
Today ended as a bad day. If you remember in my previous post on my resigning from my place of work and focus on my bike full time, I wrote to the school management informing them that I will not continue with them since they don't buy the idea of combining their work and my bike. So some weeks ago, they asked that I leave their apartment on or before 21st December. After some days, they called to ask if I had left, to which I told them I have not gotten a place yet. So they extended to today being Friday, 24th. This evening, the owner of the school (an elderly man) came to the apartment to throw my stuffs out that I must leave their school since they didn't sack me. That I choose to resign. I explained to him that I have not been able to get a place. When I now told him I needed him to pay me for December so I could add to my money and get a place. Na there the man flare up, rushed inside the apartment and started throwing my shoes away and as if that wasn't enough he rushed out and went to the metal pole used to hold the car wheel used as bell and rushed towards me and hit my leg with it. I thought this man was joking, he targeted my head and missed. Immediately I felt my colleague held the rod, I looked at my leg and saw blood gushing out. I am contemplating reporting to the police with the injury. But I still want seek counsel from you guys whether it's wise doing that. Here is the picture of the rod and injury inflicted on me by the man. I just regret not video recording it. That would have been a stronger proof.
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Abfinest007:Like what sir? |
I am faced with the choices of staying at my present place of work or doing my bike business full-time. If you remember I narrated how my place of work is under paying me (30k/month) and I was able to save 10k on monthly basis from it and I got a loan from my girl's mum and added to get a bike to ride after work (a secondary School). I stay in the School compound without paying rent and others utility bills. So on the 1st of this month the owner called and told me that because of the School reputation, they wouldn't want their teacher doing bike work and that it's either I resign from the School or drop the bike (alternatively I should find someone's going to do the bike business for me and bring me returns). At The initial point I wanted giving it to someone, but on a second thought, I decided to do it by myself cos one person I asked to do it was telling me he will pay 1k/day meanwhile when I go out after work, I normally make like 2k - 3k from 3pm to 6pm and the guy is telling me he will remit 1k for working from 7am to 6pm. Now I need advice on this. Cos I have been thinking of quiting and focusing on the bike work for the moment. I make way pass 6k on a good day but at that school we are paid 1k/ day. My only challenge now is getting accommodation to pack out and focus on my stuff. I have also thought about entering into transport business since I started this bike work and I also intend going into delivery business too. Pls what do I do? Lalastica pls can you help me post to FP so I could get more opinions. Thanks . |
SkyFlyGang:What do you then suggest pls |
I am faced with the choices of staying at my present place of work or doing my bike business full-time. If you remember I narrated how my place of work is under paying me (30k/month) and I was able to save 10k on monthly basis from it and I got a loan from my girl's mum and added to get a bike to ride after work (a secondary School). I stay in the School compound without paying rent and others utility bills. So on the 1st of this month the owner called and told me that because of the School reputation, they wouldn't want their teacher doing bike work and that it's either I resign from the School or drop the bike (alternatively I should find someone's going to do the bike business for me and bring me returns). At The initial point I wanted giving it to someone, but on a second thought, I decided to do it by myself cos one person I asked to do it was telling me he will pay 1k/day meanwhile when I go out after work, I normally make like 2k - 3k from 3pm to 6pm and the guy is telling me he will remit 1k for working from 7am to 6pm. Now I need advice on this. Cos I have been thinking of quiting and focusing on the bike work for the moment. I make way pass 6k on a good day but at that school we are paid 1k/ day. My only challenge now is getting accommodation to pack out and focus on my stuff. I have also thought about entering into transport business since I started this bike work and I also intend going into delivery business too. Pls what do I do? Lalastica pls can you help me post to FP so I could get more opinions. Thanks . |
Siggynigeria:I remember when we used to hold lectures in this field (GS) |
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Snitch24:OK. How does this help me please? Is there something you want to tell me? |
Kriss216:Help solve my wahala na by suggesting your thought pls |
Hi nairalanders I need you advice on this matter. Sometime ago I posted here seeking advice about Okada business and I got some advice. Now I want to get the bike, which will you suggest I get, NEW or second hand bike? Also, can tracker be installed on a bike? If yes, how can I get it pls? Thanks alot. |
Juliusmalema2:She will say she was forced at a birthday party |
If given the opportunity, which network provider will you sack from Nigeria having been dealt with by them? For me, na MTN OH! |
There is no option for Nigeria �� in the application form in spires.co, to become a tutor where you need to mention the country you will be teaching from. Pls those registered there, is there any way around that? |
[quote author=Psalmistproject post=105567253]You lack a sound knowledge of how state economy works. If some sit at home and majority goes out, it will have effect on those sitting at home. But if 99% sits at home, the market doesn't flow, it simply waits for people to return the next day. The trades supposed to happen on Monday is carried over to Tuesday and people recovers jumbo sales every Tuesday. But yes, it affects some good majority of government staff. Most market women and transporters are taxed daily, so Mondays, nothing for the agberos. Also, locking down ministries and government institutions on Mondays cost government money. Make your research.. That's why the people don't care![/quote This true. This is exactly the explanation my mum who's a trader at eziukwu mkt at Aba explained to me when I asked her will it not affect them. She said no. That is the government that take tickets both from traders and Keke, and everyone who does business in the east on daily basis that will lose. No income/revenues for the government on Mondays. And it's paining them seriously. |
I have a man looking for a wife though. He's in his 60s. If interested let me hook you two up. He's in Abia. He's serious. |
DaddyRochie1642:Let me also add, Never beg her else she will be forever gone even if she's shit testing you. Give her an ultimatum as to when she should tell you what the problem is and if she doesn't, pls pls pls, NEVER BEG HER TO STAY ELSE YOU WILL LIVE THAT WAY YOUR WHOLE MARRIAGE, |
gidgiddy:This post is rubbish and lies. People in South East have decided on their own to continue even after it was called off. |
Shebi today na bob de risky birthday. I was just scrolling through his pics and I don't cease to wonder the level of gender transformation s/he has past through.
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