MadamVanessa:




Is either the girl is stupidly childish or she didn't love you a bit, she needed a slightest thing to use and break up with you.

Move on immediately and don't look back, don't beg her , act as if she didn't exist in your world. If you happen to come across her, don't say anything regarding to that, if she bring up the topic tell her that you're not interested. Please mean it as you're saying. A good wasted advice in the hand of a simp' who is madly in love, he will disgrace his ancestors when he sees the girl and will also disgrace your comment and advice. You don't know their type; that's why he ran here for an advise in the first place

The girl is just managing the guy, her type can't manage a guy that doesn't have shi shi but I believe the guy has sweet mouth in cheekying girls that made her fall for him.

MadamVanessa:




Is either the girl is stupidly childish or she didn't love you a bit, she needed a slightest thing to use and break up with you.

Move on immediately and don't look back, don't beg her , act as if she didn't exist in your world. If you happen to come across her, don't say anything regarding to that, if she bring up the topic tell her that you're not interested. Please mean it as you're saying.

I agree with this

Jeon:

yes they relate to each other because of the slang words... and also that of a boy dealt properly by his Mom because of the same slang [ was on NL front-page ]little kid telling his mom "ur get mind collect cultist phone..

MUMU ..he is not a pervert like you going around assaulting and harassing women..

and you gave out the most cheap attention which the most useless currency which[naira] can't afford because [naira ] is still valuable and greater than ur attention ...

All those assumptions up there just because of mere sticker, your case is truly beyond redemption. You're still looking for cheap attention and validation which you won't get from any reasonable individual on Earth.
Assault?? Harass??
So sharing a sticker with your love interest is equal to assault and harassment??
Next time you can even decide to term it as rape sef, there's nothing that cheap attention and validation seekers like you won't say for cheap likes on this faceless forum.
What happens to talking to him and probably warning him not to try such with her if she doesn't like his joke??
You're even more childish and senseless than OP's supposed girlfriend and you're here looking for simps to validate your stupid claims and agenda. The last time I checked, it takes two to tango. Maybe that's how you go around and cut people off from yourself even without prior warning because they shared a sticker with you on WhatsApp.
If OP committed a crime, why not charge him to a court for assault then.

When they tell you people to be great in bed and invest less emotions in friendship or relationships, you guys don't listen.

If you were great in bed and you didn't invest any emotions, she'd be the one chasing you.

N3wman:
Abeg make both of una getat

them no no watin dey do u

Jeon:


TOO BAD I DON'T TAKE THAT..

EVEN THOUGH I PAY THE BILLS OR NOT.. USE PROPER WORDS WITH ME...

Hold yourself to supposed standards you said you're holding others to, your hypocrisy reeks to high heavens.

ipobarecriminals:
she fear and use her 6 senses NOT 5.Even the late Choir collected/endured abusive relationship/married with that bEAST she unknowingly kal husband.Had she speak out against the maltreatment and all slapped,she’ll be alive today.Look for omo Ajegunle u can jokingly slap till it become reality.She can’t collect online and later collect offline.Lif her

What you're saying has no correlation with what happened at all.
The said man can be arrested and charged to court for assault, same can't be done to OP. Wetin we no go see for Nairaland o, one girl like you even said that what OP did is assault and harassment.

GloriousGbola:
This is NL where people put together all sorts of threads for clout.

It is possible that the girl has been in a relationship with domestic violence in the past. She may have even grown up in a home with domestic violence. So what you see as just a joke, she may see differently.

Especially when the average Nigerian male as NL has shown has a very casual attitude towards domestic violence and rape.

Take it as a lesson, not just for this case but for the future. Avoid joking about subjects that can be controversial. And carefully consider who you are sharing jokes or skits with.

Na, I disagree with your second premise sir. Only females took the rape of males as a joke here. I can even give you an example of one monicker like that, the supposed girl behind the sticker said that females can't rape since they don't have pénis. In other words, she's saying that even if a male is injected with Viagra and forced into having sexual intercourse by a female, it's still the male that's guilty of rape.
I can tell you the monicker if you don't mind.

Googledman:
Hi guys, just opened this account to stay anonymous.

I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, everything I've been smooth until just yesterday evening. I was chatting with her through WhatsApp, it was all fun until i used a sticker of this skit maker ''ogb cultist". In that sticker, he raised his hand like he wanted to slap someone and his signature slang "You wan collect??"..

The response i got almost got me mad... She said she has known that I will be abusive, I'm wicked and all manner of talk. Then she said its over... IT'S OVER BETWEEN US. I tot it was a joke, like how can i explain me trying to joke and then the joke is now on me. I told her, i never meant it, it was just a joke. Even the preceding conversations before i sent in the sticker was all fun nd jokes but she said she couldn't risk being with someone that sees slapping someone as a joke. Moreover, why should i joke with such sensitive matters that just recently a claimed life of someone she look up to.

Now, this is serious has she have blocked my lines and no form of communication since.

Pls what should i do... A friend of mine said she is just looking for a slight opportunity to dump me. Is it enough reason to call a sweet relationship off. Pls i need advise.

You teenagers don't think of other things apart from how you will get the love of a boy or girl that's what fills your hearts I can imagine how depressed you'll be right now because a girl blocked u on social, but you 'll never be worried that you don't have a good relationship with God your maker, a generation that is filled with their own ways

GloriousGbola:
This is NL where people put together all sorts of threads for clout.

It is possible that the girl has been in a relationship with domestic violence in the past. She may have even grown up in a home with domestic violence. So what you see as just a joke, she may see differently.

Especially when the average Nigerian male as NL has shown has a very casual attitude towards domestic violence and rape.

Take it as a lesson, not just for this case but for the future. Avoid joking about subjects that can be controversial. And carefully consider who you are sharing jokes or skits with.

Nah, I disagree with your second premise sir. Only females took the rape of males as a joke here. I can even give you an example of one monicker like that, the supposed girl behind the sticker said that females can't rape since they don't have pénis. In other words, she's saying that even if a male is injected with Viagra and forced into having sexual intercourse by a female, it's still the male that's guilty of rape.
I can tell you the monicker if you don't mind.

Prettygirl200:
Lol the story no clear

Don't confuse yourself, the story is very very clear. OP said that his girlfriend broke up with him because he sent a sticker to her while they were joking on WhatsApp. She cited that sticker he sent as the reason for the break up.

Ara21:
She never loved you from the beginning. Your friend is very correct, she is looking for the slightest opportunity to dump you and she has succeeded. Trust me, I am a woman. Just ignor her and move on.

Thanks a lot for this contribution ma. A girl just said that it's enough reason to break up even without prior warning.

If she refuse to take and understand your explanation, just move on, that's simple.

Googledman:
Hi guys, just opened this account to stay anonymous.

I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, everything I've been smooth until just yesterday evening. I was chatting with her through WhatsApp, it was all fun until i used a sticker of this skit maker ''ogb cultist". In that sticker, he raised his hand like he wanted to slap someone and his signature slang "You wan collect??"..

The response i got almost got me mad... She said she has known that I will be abusive, I'm wicked and all manner of talk. Then she said its over... IT'S OVER BETWEEN US. I tot it was a joke, like how can i explain me trying to joke and then the joke is now on me. I told her, i never meant it, it was just a joke. Even the preceding conversations before i sent in the sticker was all fun nd jokes but she said she couldn't risk being with someone that sees slapping someone as a joke. Moreover, why should i joke with such sensitive matters that just recently a claimed life of someone she look up to.

Now, this is serious has she have blocked my lines and no form of communication since.

Pls what should i do... A friend of mine said she is just looking for a slight opportunity to dump me. Is it enough reason to call a sweet relationship off. Pls i need advise.

FutureIsFemale:
What is wrong with you Madam Vena? So how do you think abuse in a relationship starts? Must God always come down to talk to us before we heed? That was a red flag and the girl took the right decision.
Na from sleep person de take learn death.

So you deduce that a person is violent from the WhatsApp sticker the person uses abi??

Jeon:
[s][/s]

HOW CHRIS ROCK MADE A ABOUT JADA..
JIMMY MADE A JOKE ABOUT MARGOT LOOK OR
NICKI OF WESTLIFE WAS BULLIED BECAUSE OF HIS TEETH [ but ppl would said its in a funny way ]
AND AUDIENCE LAUGHED OUT LOUD..
OR HOW BASKET MOUTH AND COs DISS tribes..

How is body shaming related to sharing a sticker?? OMG

VULCAN:
Reading your post is troubling.
You almost sound stark raving mad.
I pray you don't strip and enter the streets soon.
God will see you through

Easy comrade, WTF.

Googledman:
Hi guys, just opened this account to stay anonymous.

I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, everything I've been smooth until just yesterday evening. I was chatting with her through WhatsApp, it was all fun until i used a sticker of this skit maker ''ogb cultist". In that sticker, he raised his hand like he wanted to slap someone and his signature slang "You wan collect??"..

The response i got almost got me mad... She said she has known that I will be abusive, I'm wicked and all manner of talk. Then she said its over... IT'S OVER BETWEEN US. I tot it was a joke, like how can i explain me trying to joke and then the joke is now on me. I told her, i never meant it, it was just a joke. Even the preceding conversations before i sent in the sticker was all fun nd jokes but she said she couldn't risk being with someone that sees slapping someone as a joke. Moreover, why should i joke with such sensitive matters that just recently a claimed life of someone she look up to.

Now, this is serious has she have blocked my lines and no form of communication since.

Pls what should i do... A friend of mine said she is just looking for a slight opportunity to dump me. Is it enough reason to call a sweet relationship off. Pls i need advise.

Mayb next time, you did watch the kind of moniker you use in communicating with people....Monikers speaks alot nd she was smart nd fast enough to sense it.......Learn from ur mistake.

VicM6:
Mayb next time, you did watch the kind of moniker you use in communicating with people....Monikers speaks alot nd she was smart nd fast enough to sense it.......Learn from ur mistake.

Sticker and not moniker sir.
I had a funny experience almost similar to OP's case few weeks ago too. The said girl is merely a friend and she only voiced her displeasure. I immediately apologized and clarified the situation. At the end of the day, she apologized too and said that she misread my comment too. That's a situation I had with a girl I'm merely a friend of o, not to talk of somebody you professed to love.

DominusPrime:
Its either she needed a reason to stick with her main boyfriend or you both differ on what you call jokes.
Either way Easter o...I'm not sure you are happy so na only Easter I fit talk...

I remember telling my latest gf that I'd luv to cum in her a##. She thought I was joking. Her a## currently thinks differently. So you see, what she called a joke her a## now takes seriously.
Your joke might mean something else to somebody.

#TRUE

na baby you been de date o. this one is not mature at all at all o

Dybala11:

Sticker and not moniker sir.
I had a funny experience almost similar to OP's case few weeks ago too. The said girl is merely a friend and she only voiced her displeasure. I immediately apologized and clarified the situation. At the end of the day, she apologized too and said that she misread my comment too. That's a situation I had with a girl I'm merely a friend of o, not to talk of somebody you professed to love.

Na sticker mad pass for all

VicM6:
Na sticker mad pass for all

Ok then, but I still believe that it's not enough reason to cease all communications with someone you profess to love. Except maybe if the love is transactional or there's no love lost between the duo concerning the girl.

Dybala11:

So you deduce that a person is violent from the WhatsApp sticker the person uses abi??

By their fruits you shall know them.

Dybala11:

How is body shaming related to sharing a sticker?? OMG

it related to sharing of the cultist sticker and we see that as nothing because some of we are reckless with our talks



I don't have time explaining anything to you because you don't have sense...

FutureIsFemale:
By their fruits you shall know them.

So meaning that does that doesn't like sharing stickers are not violent and can never engage in domestic violence??
Still doesn't make any sense young woman.

Dybala11:

Hold yourself to supposed standards you said you're holding others to, your hypocrisy reeks to high heavens.

understand before you talk..
how is there hypocrisy in my side?

I don't give out those slangs and I don't accept them...

I CUT OFF QUICKLY.

Dybala11:

So meaning that does that doesn't like sharing stickers are not violent and can never engage in domestic violence??
Still doesn't make any sense young woman.

Do you know why US judges use American rappers lyrics against them in court?
Oh! It's just a lyrics it means nothing. SMH

Dybala11:

All those assumptions up there just because of mere sticker,

what type of mere sticker...
is the Op case different from average Nigerian that makes use of useless words?

You're still looking for cheap attention and validation which you won't get from any reasonable individual on Earth.

if I said you are stupid, don't get mad..
what are doing so, ain't you dashing out the cheap attention and validation? or I forgot you said reasonable individual and you are a goat.. but I mistaken you for an individual..

Assault?? Harass??
So sharing a sticker with your love interest is equal to assault and harassment??

you be goat may you have sense in Jesus name..
when did I said harassment and assault in my previous comment? if not for ur stupidity that brought up that SHITX saying that the boy was trying to harass and assault me... obviously that's what you do

Dybala11:

How is OP's case related to yours??
Somebody was trying to harass you and you're comparing it to OP's case. You're just seeking for cheap attention Aunty, ahba now.

Next time you can even decide to term it as rape sef, there's nothing that cheap attention and validation seekers like you won't say for cheap likes on this faceless forum.

I can see ur mom was in her menstrual period when she was pregnant with you... I can see how you think and talk was not ur fault [because her period occurred a thousand portions in ur brain.

What happens to talking to him and probably warning him not to try such with her if she doesn't like his joke??
You're even more childish and senseless than OP's supposed girlfriend and you're here looking for simps to validate your stupid claims and agenda. The last time I checked, it takes two to tango. Maybe that's how you go around and cut people off from yourself even without prior warning because they shared a sticker with you on WhatsApp.
If OP committed a crime, why not charge him to a court for assault then.

Googledman:
Hi guys, just opened this account to stay anonymous.

I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, everything I've been smooth until just yesterday evening. I was chatting with her through WhatsApp, it was all fun until i used a sticker of this skit maker ''ogb cultist". In that sticker, he raised his hand like he wanted to slap someone and his signature slang "You wan collect??"..

The response i got almost got me mad... She said she has known that I will be abusive, I'm wicked and all manner of talk. Then she said its over... IT'S OVER BETWEEN US. I tot it was a joke, like how can i explain me trying to joke and then the joke is now on me. I told her, i never meant it, it was just a joke. Even the preceding conversations before i sent in the sticker was all fun nd jokes but she said she couldn't risk being with someone that sees slapping someone as a joke. Moreover, why should i joke with such sensitive matters that just recently a claimed life of someone she look up to.

Now, this is serious has she have blocked my lines and no form of communication since.

Pls what should i do... A friend of mine said she is just looking for a slight opportunity to dump me. Is it enough reason to call a sweet relationship off. Pls i need advise.

Fellas! Should we tell him the gospel truth?

I never knew this gender could be factual as this, especially against her fellow.

You deserve a roasted sparrow.

Jeon:

what type of mere sticker...
is the Op case different from average Nigerian that makes use of useless words?


if I said you are stupid, don't get mad..
what are doing so, ain't you dashing out the cheap attention and validation? or I forgot you said reasonable individual and you are a goat.. but I mistaken you for an individual..




you be goat may you have sense in Jesus name..
when did I said harassment and assault in my previous comment? if not for ur stupidity that brought up that SHITX saying that the boy was trying to harass and assault me... obviously that's what you do





I can see ur mom was in her menstrual period when she was pregnant with you... I can see how you think and talk was not ur fault [because her period occurred a thousand portions in ur brain.

Like I said, you're being hypocritical and seeking for cheap Likes on this forum. You claim to be civil, but I can't count the number of insults you've written in your comment despite the fact that I never replied you with one. It shows that you're truly a dingbat like you've been said to be.
If you can't engage with others like a sane individual and treat others with respect, you shouldn't ask for others to treat you with one.
I still ask you again how the example of the guy you said assaulted and harassed you in your comment is related to sticker and you could only reply with an insult.
You shouldn't be surprised why it's only irresponsible guys that are trying to woo you since you became an adult. Your IQ is low o.
Birds of a feather flocks together. Uncouth girls like you only attract louts like that guy.
And you even added Jesus to your comment, go through this your comment and tell us which one is approved by your own version of Jesus. At least if you want to behave like an hereditary dingbat you are, leave God out of it.

Dybala11:

Like I said, you're being hypocritical and seeking for cheap Likes on this forum. You claim to be civil, but I can't count the number of insults you've written in your comment despite the fact that I never replied you with one. It shows that you're truly a dingbat like you've been said to be.
If you can't engage with others like a sane individual and treat others with respect, you shouldn't ask for others to treat you with one.
I still ask you again how the example of the guy you said assaulted and harassed you in your comment is related to sticker and you could only reply with an insult.
You shouldn't be surprised why it's only irresponsible guys that are trying to woo you since you became an adult. Your IQ is low o.
Birds of a feather flocks together. Uncouth girls like you only attract louts like that guy.

oppss.. someone is really pissed by writing down a novel..

I SAID WHAT I SAID..
MOVE ON

I DON'T ACCEPT CHEAP WORDS USE BY AVERAGE NIGERIAN BECAUSE IT WAS USED BY A COMEDIAN FOR TRASHY COMEDY.