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**osisi:
the guy is a moronic liar.
who dash him company.
agbero yaba that's sulking over some okirika "trozis" his chic didn't buy for this "beffday"
suddenly he's become Julius Berger

whatever biatch

onyinye2:
Woodpecker,

Just off the record, I just wanted to ask you a question.

What is your vision of an "Ideal" girlfriend?

ans- my current girlfriend
she's just takin me for granted thats all and it happens with everyone. i just wanted advise on how to make it like the good ol days when things were still new between us. i promised myself that even when we're married for 20yrs i'd still treat her like i always have- a queen- which i think she is, so i dont see why  she sef cant @ least try to bring back some of the early days romance instead of this old couple attitude that is characteristic in long-term relationships

ima1:
@Woodpecker, maybe u should have gotten ur story straight in the first place

dont mind me jo, didnt know that some pple dont understand simple english and are narrow minded.

davidylan:
woodpecker, the chic don leave you o. abeg send her my email address . . . i can do better.

lol nice try

**osisi:
The guy is also a pathological liar.
From 1st to 3rd page,his story has changed a million times.
How did it go from her doing all the buying to you sponsoring her final exams and changing her wardrobe ?
You were earlier on threatening to tell her what other girls are buying for you to make her jealous and suddenly you've become an employer of labour with a construction company
do you think the readers are idiots?

look who's talkin, i've only gt 2 pages here so where'd u get the 3rd? and yes as a matter of fact i do own a construction company. i never said she did all the buying what i said was that she was all over me. that was in our final yr in school, i'd just started the company then.
No i dont the other readers are idiots, just u

ima1:
Well my case is quite simple;
AV been dating this wonderful girl for the last 3yrs but the problem is that at the beginning of the relationship she was the one who was all over me, she used to buy me gifts, she was always calling to know how i was. Now she rarley calls- only flashes- and its not like she doesnt buy credit, she hasnt given me jack since my birthday last yr, and she'd rather spend time with her friends than me. i know guys r meant to be the ones in charge but right now it seems like shes the one at the helm of affairs. shes very beautiful and loves me to pieces- she tells everyone who cares to listen- but the problem is that she doesnt show it anymore(apart from the sex ). i just need advise on how to get the old her back cos i miss her like crazy
ps- we're planning on gettin married in the future so i'll be needing the old her soon

Maybe u need to read ur post again i am sure u did not understand what u wrote.

now let me explain everything to u again;
1  the fact that i mentioned that she used to buy gifts doesnt mean that i didnt also
2  she was all over me meanin she gave me so much love and attention
3  (this is  probably where the misunderstaning arose) when i say shes @ the helm of affairs i mean shes the one who says when and where we go out to, how much i spend,  what clothes i wear, which of my friends can come around when shes @ my place etc ( all these happened over time cos i didnt care much abt it then)
4  she loves me to pieces ( dont ask me how i know i jsut do)
5 we're planning to get married ( actually shes the one in a hurry- me i'd rather wait 3 more yrs)

ima1:
why don't u show her some love for a change rather than bitching about how she no longer shows u love.

i didnt know so many NLers lacked the simple ability to comprehend; the problem is that i'm the one showing all the love while she just receives it. shes just gotten too used to me being her Mr Fix-It and doesnt think i need any thing. maybe i dont- but that dont mean she shld assume it. i wont lie she still the most wonderful girl i ever met but i think she's now a bit spoilt

pls if u dont understand a thread dont post o

i still cant believe this prik davidylan is still pestering this thread, if u'd read everything i've posted u'd hav seen where i mentioned that we're still as close as ever the problem i have is that she expects me to do every little thing. even when she wants to speak to me shes so used to me calling back whenever she flashes. but i can say part of it is my fault cos i spoilt her wit 2 much attention and she knows i'm the kind of person thats not too demanding but i've realised its not healthy if only one party in a relationship takes full responsibilty of every little activity be it financial, emotion of otherwise. every little problem she has its my responsibility to fix it yet i'm not allowed any show or acknowledgement of appreciation.

@davidylan
i'm sorry to have to be the one to tell u this but "you are a very stupid and unintelligent person". obviously u need to read thru the entire thread to fully understand what i've been talking abt. pls dont bother replying further as this will only prove me right all the more.
[sub][/sub]can u believe this prik?
even the richest men in the world still get gifts from their loved ones no matter how cheap the gifts are cos its a sign of their love and appreciation, but i dont really care abt gifts, i just want to see her put in  some effort

DeReloaded:
Good to know Im not the only one that could see thru this beggar

if a beggar is someone who owns his own construction firm and is a manager in an investment company before he hits 30yrs well that must be quite a successful beggar dont u think? its not your fault, u're the one with the poverty mentallity.

this is the last time i'll respond to some of the very stupid posts av been seein ie @ osisi and davidylan;
from day one of the relationship av always done a lot for her, i change her wardrobe @ least twice a year, i bought her 2 phones last year, i practically sponsored her final semester in school and yet we finished school together. i've always been blessed financially and i see no big deal in doin stuff for my girlfriend so pls dont insult me, i've been the man i ought to be through out and i'm not bragging its just the plain truth.
whats wrong with a woman trying to show some appreciation for the things her man does for her by doin a little in return? its not like she doesnt work

u were doin exactly what she complained about

i take that statement personal ebony, i've always been responsible- or does ur low IQ not allow u to understand what i've been posting?
she used to do her own part or are relationships now about what a guy can give and the girl can receive? what happened to mutual responsiblities?

@4PLAY u seem to be one of the few mature respondents
as 4 the others that cant stop showing their obvious immaturity i'll explain it further;
she used to put some effort b4 and now she doesnt, its like shes just participating in the relationship whereas b4 she was the one who practically was always putting 80% of the effort. i guess now its a case of "sebi we've settled down so why stress myself?"

@czar
she's the not bossy @ all, on the contrary she usually allows me have my- infact shes almost perfect- the only down side is her lack of effort. am thinking of makin her jealous by tellin her abt stuff other girls do for me. maybe then she'll sit up

thanks 4 the comments, but the thing is i'm not saying we're growing apart its just that she just doesnt make the extra effort she used to when things were still fresh. she acts like we've been married for 10yrs and its really frustrating. its like i'm the only one who still makes the extra and i'm being taken 4 granted

@dereloaded pls shut ur trap if u cant understand simple english. i pay for every single dime we spend and i'm paying for 90% of the wedding expenses
@ others- thanks a lot, but the thing is i've tried talking to her abt it but she insists that nothing's wrong and personally i just think shes lost the old excitement. we see each other very regularly and always talk on the phone for @ least an hour everyday. i just want that old excitement back before we get married and the routined life starts

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kitlady02:
If he was d one dat cheated i guess u would hv forgiven him n life would hv gone on. Y is actin lyk u did smtin he's neva don b4 or is it because u did not find out. My dear u beta concentrate on ur studies n dont allow dat relationship 2 ruin ur future. U made a mistake yes, but ur not suppose 2 pay 4 it all ur life. Just knw dat if smone truly luv u he/she will 4giv u anything. Gudluck.

dont be deceived o, its because he loved u so much that it was so difficullt for him to forget. its not easy to forgive a cheating girlfriend cos u'll always wonder if she'll do it again

u're reaping what u sowed so why r u now feeling bad? u women sha, u always want to eat ur cake and have it

crazykid:
The old story. . . She's playing hard to get. In order to confirm this, I would suggest that you avoid her for two weeks and you'll see wonders. She would come crawling like a toddler being deprived of breast milk.

i totally agree, when the 2 wks are up and shes almost gone crazy missin then u can ask her outbt also let her know that the other guy gotta go if not u'll be like what the others have been saying, just a temporary distraction

make love o abi have sex- all na Bleep

babe the only way he'll take u back without holding a serious grudge against u is if tell him how important he is to u. forget all that yarns about him takin u for granted cos if he cares abt u he wont. besides we guys always love it when our egos are stroked

he puts up with all ya crap

does anyone have an eedris opacks decoder? we need to understand what this babe just said

Them no born am make he show face for here again, him don go him nite school for Ojodu

Backup:
Did you snatch anybody

And by the way it's not Tango,It's Tangle.

Hey, b4 u start correcting people u shld get ur facts rite. It take 2 to "Tango" not "Tangle" ok? Tango is a dance that requires 2 people, prefarably a male and female. Thats y its used metaphorically

which other evidence do u need?
is it when u catch them in bed together and ur heart is completely shattered that u'll finally realise it?
guy i pray it doesnt happen after marriage cos it will

guy u really didnt have to ask us cos u already know within u thatt shes cheating, but i guess u want someone to spell it out 4 u so;
SHES CHEATING ON YOU!!!