₦airaland Forum

EroticAngelina:
jeez. u and ronald4lif are lyk nerdy virgins. u guys av absolutely no understanding when it comes to stuff lyk this u guys barely know anything bout girls so jx sit back and learn ok.
God knows if u guys av even seen a vaginaaa

SUGARBEE:
Good morning guys.. I've been burdened with this so I decided share.

My best friend's been engaged to her fiance for over six months now and they intend on getting Married soon.

Now the thing is even before they were engaged and still dating, I and her fiance were very close friends to the extent of him coming to me whenever they had a fight for advice which I did give him with with no negative thoughts. .

Now just last week, he came to my place all drunk and wasted. I know him and I know he doesn't drink so I knew something bad happened. In his drunken state I tried asking him what the matter was but he wouldn't tell. Few minutes later he was dosing off on my couch and woke up an hour later as he was back to his senses. I served him food to eat since he was hungry and then asked him again what the matter was to have made him gotten himself drunk.

The next thing I knew was him going on his knees and telling me stuff like ; he made a mistake in dating my friend and it was me he really loved. That he had loved me from day one but didn't have the guts to tell me cuz of my friend and that he was fed up with my friend and now sincerely wants me to be his and be the only one in his life.

Guys am really confused as I don't know what to do now. . I sent him out of the house telling him I was gonna think about it but I know I shouldn't have told him that but sent him out rightly out.

Please I need your advice. . I don't want to hurt my friend's feelings neither do I want to hurt his own too. . Thanks..

Matured comments please..

Cc lalasticlala, ishilove

SenselessGoat:
Where are the wailers na?? Food don done oo...make una come wail.

Barcanista, mogidi, truckpusher, ECOTERRORS, temitemi1, APCSucks, Nneka123, Ezenwammadu and the rest of the wailers

Midehi:
thank goodness you know

Midehi:
lmao...i dey work o, so you should know what am wearing now

KashyBaby:
I'm so busy offline...I even seldom here on nairaland...so don't feel bad.

Midehi:
especially "what are you wearing" mtcheeeeeew

KashyBaby:
I'm great!!! tnxx for dropping by...

KashyBaby:
This is not abt libido issue baby, i juz dont like the way they talk...we women are NOT a sex object u know..but these nasty men only shows how low the level of their intelligence & manners.

ronald4lif:
I think two things should be responsible for this which are that either the lady's dressing is suggestive or the guy in question is an adolescent.

tchidi:


#they see me rolling, they hating....

Make LASTMA and FRSC catch you without seatbelt! .
This guy must be single! . No space for bae!

Weldone o jare!! God will increase your wisdom!

devonpaul:
The most embarassing question have recieved in my life is Are you Mobile? This question was thrown @ me by a Girl i was hooked with by a female fan, lol, i called her, we talked, on d 1st call, after about 3minutes, the next question is are u mobile.. even my earlobes was disturbed, it ended d call unknowingly.. I thought about this for a reasonable amount of time.. i was dumbfounded, fllabergasted about such personality fantasmagoria and social callegolegoria

Moana:
And after this your friend will come and on NL to disturb our peace on nairaland with how women should lower their expectations (or have no expectations at all) because he can't keep with his lies.

Why can't you just cut your coat according to your cloth? I have seen many of these self-proclaimed big boys going to the extent of using rent money just to form baddest boy ever liveth and its really pathetic. You might think the girl is a mugu but best believe me most materialistic girls will have more than one maga. Once she has emptied your pocket she is going to empty 5more pockets and she will always have her bills paid up on time.

Why you frustrate your lives just to be with a woman that can make you feel relevant in society really surprises me.

Moana:
After reading wristbangle and tosyne2much's lists we might as well all have absolutely no expectations or become lesbians.

So can you all come back and tell us on how you want an Evelyn Lozada with Einstein's brain?

SUGARBEE:
Very possible.. I had exactly the same grades when I wrote mine.. .

pbs4real:
dts why i respect ur person trust me,i luv ur hustling spirit,life is too short to start depending on a guy,its high time dis lazy ass of ladies start realising that. . . Kip it up lala,the lord is ur strength

LadyBoss1:
For here nah serious thing
One girl 19 years old 19 driving bmw the new shape ...never work in her life how she take manage dat one ..if she drives past u nah so she go dey give chics side eye .. Like yh bishes ur walking


Nah man ... Lol

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Oga na just to pick one na.

My money is not for every Tina,,priscillia and jennifer. Just one special girl [/color]

LadyBoss1:
Qu n naijaboiy n my nose ring una want make i buy una one send am
Thanks
But im telling u

I have dis friend well we dont relly chat now hehehe , but mehn she met this guy ohh nah so d girl begin dey tell everybody
Yh he orks in shell yh he travels all over the world .. Im in hilton right now blah blah blah
Now d guy is in nigeria dey enjoy his life .. Shes now singke mum ...with no financial help from d guy . She doesnt even have contact details self ...

Soo all dat oil n gass .. Look at her life now ..
Th y guy must have known what she was after

funlord:


Whom all this epistles don help! Women lie and men lie! Only numbers don't lie! Always remain focused on increasing your racks and all the shite on all these lists won't mean a thing! The rules will be in your favour then! Be you Male or female!

ronald4lif:
True but guys sometimes fall for this too. There are some guys who once their friends tell them they're engaged in a reputable and big firm they just assume he has 'arrived' and a big boy. Without minding to know what his area of engagement and position is.

I think humans are generally swayed by success stories that sometimes we care less to further enquire and know the true situation of things are. Other times, one feels like they'd appear too inquisitive by asking someone what exactly is their field of engagement in their company and just let it slide.

boboLIL:
For the records,,,Na guys wey no get moni de love pass.....na dem de jealousy pass..... ..if the bae strts acting strange.....d guy wil ask her,,,is it cos I don't av money?

LadyBoss1:
Yh true Op
Popularity
Place of work

Seen a few looking for oil n gas .. Smh

MhizDeedy:
...... M too busy for that

DatBossAssChick:
This guy sha

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Chai!

Wetin that one mean na? [/color]

MhizDeedy:
Lol m fine....did u miss me?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Ladies don't mind him o!

Men like us with physical looks can also take care of you. We have fine characters just like our physical appearance.

Looks still matter,,don't run away from us. [/color]

ronald4lif:
Hmmm true. The one who lives in Ikoyi might be squatting with someone whereas the one in Ikorodu or Ajegunle could be the owner of where he lives and more richer.

The one who lives in the U.S, UK or Canada might be struggling to survive on minimum wage and can hardly save enough after taxation whereas the one who reside in Nigeria is way more richer and have more prospect than the one abroad. Abroad guys be deceiving Naija babes since 1602BC.

Where one reside and their place of work doesn't always matter. The so called oil&gas staff might be an admin or just a receptionist whose portfolio doesn't earn them much. People should measure one's capabilities and prospect based on their portfolio and ranks on their work place not where they work. He works in oil&gas doesn't mean he's rich.

But since women are moved by what they're told so we just have to tell what marvels them. Who honesty help when chasing women?

buygala:
E be like say the op dey 1st whatsapp the guy on first to comment before he creats any thread ... It can't be a coincidence that Mr tosyn is almost First to comment on Mr Wrist's threads

Or are both monikers one and the same person?

Anyway.... Their collabo, their business


As per the thread


Sadly, most Nigerian girls see marriage as a meal ticket which comes with extra bonanza ..... I don't blame them sha. ... na the economy cause am .... I BLAME BUHARI

BeeBeeOoh:
Even if you break their heads & fill it with a million folds of dis ur write up, they will not listen.. Naija babe na naija babe, their philosophy remains their philosophy.

MhizDeedy:
Good job bangle



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