₦airaland Forum

ahnie:
What's your grudges against women?
You guys makes me sick of coming to this forum.

It's applicable to both genders,same way I don't believe all marriages are bad/all men are bad.

But you targeting only the female gender is appalling.

hamouston91:
Lol! I guess you guessed wrong. Poor people have a very weird mentality.

Nice2023:
I guess u know it more than the governor.

U guys are fond of staying in one useless location with no viable road only to dish out non factual and envious write up about a state u have never visited.

delkuf:
Have been on nl for many years now but I have just started reading thread on agriculture section. And I have been convince to go into agric. But that will be next year. Due to my work and fund, I can't do anything this year.
But I have a acre of land but there is nothing on it. So what can I plant on it. Something I can do with my leisure time. But there are few things.
First, the land is a little bit far from where I live. And second, there are people that can go into the farm and steal from it. So what I will plant must be something that people don't show too much interest on. Pls I need advice

Nice2023:
This is the only thing that woke u up this morning,enemy of progress.


Like it or not,Abia is doing well.

With or without coastline,abia is doing so well in all areas of endeavours yes,education trade investment,infrastructures,human development index and name it.

So,keep ur useless geography. Have u ever used ur geography to advocate for sea ports of other regions to be open so as to aid businesses in Nigeria.

Cameroun alone has 6 funational sea ports and south Africa has close to 7.

What are u saying man? If this isn't envy what then is it called?

1Sharon:
How much do you have in your account?

How big is your dick?

1Sharon:
Since you said you live in the UK, you've either chosen not to integrate or you're new.

You should know that white men hardly ask that kind of question. It's often african or Arab men that obsess over things like that.

You should know what she means by making him comfortable. She was probably smiling too much at him and he mistook that as invitation to approach her and start misbehaving. Not just Nigerian but immigrant Indian men are not used to women being friendly to them. That's why they're the demographic that's often charged with crimes. That's just the truth abeg.

Eniitankorede:
Sheer stupidity. Has he ever seen a virgin in maternity ward? A country where girls are being disvirgined at 8 years is what he is asking a grown up whether she’s a virgin? I will give him a million dollars if he sees virgin of that age in UK or anywhere in the west.

PaulOtl:
Omo, all of you (especially the ladies on here ) saying that most of you Naija men won't know bla bla till you go abroad and interact with their girls, then you'll know this and that, are just generalizing this thing, jareh.

Not everyone is the same. Some girls will not say " pim " when you address them in a certain way that a Nigerian girl would ordinarily think is only tolerated by them (the Nigerian females).
Since I have lived in the UK before, and have dated, I have the right to state my own observations here.

Are you a virgin was not a question the lady in this article tolerated, but some other white girl will find it tolerable. There's no smoke without fire. What led to it? Were they messing around with lewd jokes. We only heard from one side, and not the other.
Then again, the lady could be a lesbian and a feminist who doesn't condone any nonsense jokes from male folks. We may never know the true picture of things, as far as this case is concerned.
Another angle to loom at it from is that the girl may not find the guy attractive (financially and physically) and was irritated by any form of familiarity that the guy was trying to initiate, hence, the immediate ridiculing.

I don't care what anyone of you says, I'm still going to end up settle down with a non-African lady as my life partner. From experience, they were my best relationships. So to all of you saying " shey you people see that they don't tolerate bla bla bla, they are not is (Nigerian women) that you talk to anyhow and we'll accept it and feel demoralized..." I'm not bothered. Everyone has their own methods of making their affairs work. Some of us ain't newbies in the foreign dating scene ( make out whatever you want to make about this, na you sabi ).

I don't need your quotes or mentions. Neither do I need you likes. Save the back and forth...I know it's hard to resist, especially if my opinion doesn't sit well with yours on this subject.

yoruboid:
Niger Republic also has a waterway to the ocean so what’s your point? Does it mean they can dredge through River Niger without Nigeria’s permission and access the Atlantic

Abia cannot access the sea without the permission of the coastal states

mployer:
I can never ask such question direct no matter the connection we have.

I can tell if she's a virgin by few conversation and body language.

Thundafireseun:
Like I said earlier there are 3 sides to every story

1… Her side
2… His side
3… The truth…
Ode please learn to read in between the lines…

We can’t be chatting about a movie for example… then from no where I ask you if you are a virgin….it doesn’t make sense

Except we were chatting about porn … then you shouldn’t feel bad if I ask if you are a virgin

I know you still won’t comprehend my point ODE

finallybusy:
Oyibo women fear anyhow. Raise your voice unnecessarily and them fit call police for you. I remember waking up from sleep in my friend’s common room only to see his oyibo housemate, pale in fear. She said she was already on the phone calling her boyfriend to quickly evict me before my guy told her who I was. Throughout my one hour stay, she made me uncomfortable and kept asking stupid questions. My homey told me she was socially awkward so I shouldn’t take her actions personal. E fit be say our Naija brother (if the story is real) was been social. He never know most of those people no be human beings.

Flier:
Post this nonsense in China or even USA then see if you won’t be roasted! This is why I don’t support all this quack schools because we are just producing thousand of educated illiterates every year.

ukaface:
Some Nigerian men are outrageously stupid

jogojogo:
She is angry because she is no longer a virgin and may have lost her virginity to a guy who played a fool of her
yeye olosho girl.
Me no send for all these rubbish.....even when you smile at me, I no dey smile back. Can't fall for the silly bait.
#mindingmybusiness

MyAmericandream:
When you’re meeting someone for the first time their are some asinine questions you shouldn’t ask.

And have also noticed something with our men when you are extremely too nice to them or make them feel comfortable they always think you have interest in them or you want something in return.

Flier:
It must be celebrated no matter what,thousands of people died during slave trade and many laid down their life to build this country.

BewareOf419:
She should have get him arrested, why would you be asking such a stupid question? fvck your own and leave the rest for others to fvck

nairalanda1:
See as some people dey defend the guy.

The guy made a big mistake...by not finding out about the culture of the country he was going to.

See, before you relocate to another country, find all you need to know about the country. It's culture, its habits, how its people act, etc. Many Nigerians have gotten into troubles for not doing that. They enter every country thinking it is like home.

The joker Nigerian needs to know that feminism is very strong abroad. As is sexisim awareness. He should have known that and conducted himself accordingly.

Now he has gotten himself into some issues. Anyway, thank god it is just having to change room. Not getting arrested or sued.. Hope he learns his lesson.