Basicend:


What they are enjoying now is what was built upon logic and reasoning of noble and brave men. . They are crashing off. . .

Thundafireseun:
Very simple question

Yes I’m a virgin…. No I’m not a virgin

You didn’t tell us how you were trying to make him feel comfortable… buh you rushed to social media to tell us the part where he asked about your sexuality

Fear daughter’s of EVE

Luckysbab:


Probably same account with the username you quoted or both of you are plain crazy.

etrange:
And someone is on there supporting him. He said it's a harmless question. So they should sit down and starting discussing if she has had sex? Honestly, the way some of these guys think is just irritating. They are all over Nairaland hiding thier perversion and obsession behind thier anti-women comments. Morning, afternoon and night, they're thinking of women; creating ridiculous threads left, right and center. Very promiscuous bunch.

naturefellow:
making someone feel comfortable doesn't give them right to cross social boundaries, especially with the opposite sex, moreso strangers. Have sense, please!

The6thAustralia:


Sex is normal and infact its not a strange factor... It's funny people believe whatever they read on the internet

Artiiclebeast:
What a disgraceful ambassador.

Puss360:
something is wrong with your brain...
Why asking a so personal question?
What is his business if she is a virgin or not?
The girl even tried to kick him out .. she would have called the police on him...
Pervert everywhere including you supporting him ...

Thundafireseun:


Like I said earlier there are 3 sides to every story

1… Her side
2… His side
3… The truth…
Ode please learn to read in between the lines…

We can’t be chatting about a movie for example… then from no where I ask you if you are a virgin….it doesn’t make sense

Except we were chatting about porn … then you shouldn’t feel bad if I ask if you are a virgin

I know you still won’t comprehend my point ODE

Vision101:
Lies and attention seeking only.

1) Average UK national with their racist mentality will hardly accept to share apartment with a black more so femal/male.

2) The co-tenant is a fee paying person therefore the issue of being kicked out does not arise. She can only ask to be relocated. No favour is done. Therefore there's nothing like trying to make him comfortable.

Puss360:
something is wrong with your brain...
Why asking a so personal question?
What is his business if she is a virgin or not?
The girl even tried to kick him out .. she would have called the police on him...
Pervert everywhere including you supporting him ...

Artiiclebeast:
What a disgraceful ambassador.

1Sharon:


She is a Pakistani. She is another person of colour, she's not white. If she decided to houseshare with a black man, that shows she's open minded.

If you make another housemate uncomfortable, best believe they are going to get rid of you or the other party. You don't get to act as you wish because you pay rent.
Your rights end where someone else's begin.

By making him "comfortable" as a Brit, I'm certain she meant by smiling, making small talk and maintaining eye contact. That's the culture. New immigrant men misunderstand this and think the woman is showing interest. And that's the same reason they're disproportionately charged with sex crimes.

Why is it so hard to believe he asked if she's a virgin? Don't Nigerian men ask women that question all the time?

Puss360:

Since there aren't dating or in love, then he has no right to ask if she is a virgin!!
That's like crossing the line....
Infact to me that's molestation sef...
Rubbish guy....
Someone offered you accomodation, instead of thinking of ways to show your appreciation, you are asking her if d1ck don enter her veejay...

Ode

Artiiclebeast:
What a disgraceful ambassador.

nairalanda1:



Just know that as you think their laws are rubbish, they too think your laws are rubbish.

The thing is, when you go abroad, you have to do as they do abroad to an extent. You have to find out about the dos and don'ts

Like now, if you were going to Saudi , would you go with a bible to start preaching the word to Saudis on the street., or carry beer and drink it on the streets of Saudi.? Or would you go to Russia and stand in Moscow and shout that Putin is a thief and a liar, out loud?

Or would a white man come to Kano, here in Nigeria, and kiss his gay husband on the street of the old city of Kano?

If you want to change their laws, then do what it takes to become a citizen, and then agitate for that. Othwerwise, as a guest, you got to follow the rules.

wrongnumber:


And in your mind you freaking think any sane man will because of this ask if a lady is a virgin... Common.

finallybusy:
Oyibo women fear anyhow. Raise your voice unnecessarily and them fit call police for you. I remember waking up from sleep in my friend’s common room only to see his oyibo housemate, pale in fear. She said she was already on the phone calling her boyfriend to quickly evict me before my guy told her who I was. Throughout my one hour stay, she made me uncomfortable and kept asking stupid questions. My homey told me she was socially awkward so I shouldn’t take her actions personal. E fit be say our Naija brother (if the story is real) was been social. He never know most of those people no be human beings.

Thundafireseun:


Like I said earlier there are 3 sides to every story

1… Her side
2… His side
3… The truth…
Ode please learn to read in between the lines…

We can’t be chatting about a movie for example… then from no where I ask you if you are a virgin….it doesn’t make sense

Except we were chatting about porn … then you shouldn’t feel bad if I ask if you are a virgin

I know you still won’t comprehend my point ODE

mployer:
I can never ask such question direct no matter the connection we have.

I can tell if she's a virgin by few conversation and body language.

Wujio:




I love your bluntness