Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:54am On Jul 13, 2015 |
PunkyOh: What does FWSB stand for? So, can you still be friends with an ex that cheated?
I prefer not to be friends with exes for the most part. We dated, that's right, but after that I just don't see a reason to be in contact or remain friends. Friendly, yeah, but more than that is pushing it imo. We owe each other nothing, so.. it an acronym for Friends With Sexual Benefit. Me i gat no problem with anyone. Ill gladly accept you back as a friend. You know it isn't only cheating that causes breakups? XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:46am On Jul 13, 2015 |
playboy99: u on point on dat #ACE that how we roll. XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:45am On Jul 13, 2015 |
PunkyOh: Interesting. So sad. Well, maybe it's pain experienced as hate in my case. I don't know & I don't wanna know.
I never took back an ex. I had one come up to me a few months after a break up. I don't even remember how we broke up because I'm quick to end relationships lol. I can't deal with stress. Anyway, he came back & wanted another try & it got me SO angry because it took him MONTHS. Like, what, you think I've been waiting for you all this time or something? Exes just never win with me, so it's better to just let sleeping dogs lie. same here, ill never go back to my vomit, am ain't a dog. We can be friends but it'll be strictly FWSB, no strings attached. XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: Mr Nairaland Six Packs Competition by XavierBlue(m): 10:42am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Arbiola: Me i swear this is suffer packs
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Romance › Re: Need Ur HELP Answering This Psychology Survey Pls by XavierBlue(m): 10:37am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Cutehector: xavierblue abeg no spoil my market... See aipete2.. She dey on heat  put on the AC. She'll cool off  . XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:34am On Jul 13, 2015 |
playboy99: I thought u were in love with d person b4 d breakup.how did hate just overcome d love.n I thought u supposed to fight for love. #ACE different strokes for different folks. XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:33am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Twaci: OP, I don't do any of those 
I just sip ijebu garri and watch Vampire Diaries again and again.....U know Damon and Klaus gives the best tips when it comes to paybacks  you're a very crazy lady  perhaps emotionally strong. Well! For you to be only sipping garri after a break up only signifies that the split wasn't a severe one. I expect you to curl up on before and cry your eyes out XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:30am On Jul 13, 2015 |
PunkyOh: Very true. One thing with me though is, if I do happen to come across anything related to them- be it them in person, how they blink or some stupid comment they make to someone else. Even if it's unrelated to me or the relationship, it just makes me hate them so much lol. My love turns to hate then indifference. Nothing they do, after the break up, makes me want them back in any way. I become a HATER, honey. Lol! It just hurts so much I guess. Shrugs. mmmm. So you wouldn't love to get back to the last person you dated? Inferring from the fact that you said your love turns sour for them. As for my case, i just avoid them. I vividly remember a time i broke up with a busy girl living in my street. She'll always intentionally bump into me with the guy she choose to date just few days after we split, only God knew how painful that was. Sometimes it painful seeing your ex with another. XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: Need Ur HELP Answering This Psychology Survey Pls by XavierBlue(m): 10:22am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Cutehector: hahahahahahahahhahha... I really love ur sense of humor.. U need to add me up on whatsapp too.. U knw slowly abeg XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: Hypo by XavierBlue(m): 10:17am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Cutehector: lol u go jus kill person pikin nw na she want advice na XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:16am On Jul 13, 2015 |
octopusfreaky: I did 5,7 and 8 ,very undisciplined guy he was.... ohh... Sowie. It good you go over him. XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:14am On Jul 13, 2015 |
playboy99: Guys also do the same.I knw guys dat hav become born again coz of hrtbreaks #ACE seems you're one of em. XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: Hypo by XavierBlue(m): 10:13am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Aipete2: Can HYPO kill? Cos i feel like taking one. ill advice you go for rat poison,it works like magic XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:10am On Jul 13, 2015 |
PunkyOh: Ok.
Well, I'll admit to having stalker tendencies but I never follow through because I don't like the thought of being consumed by somebody to THAT level. I usually snap out of it because the aim is to move forward & not get stuck. Which is what I think will happen if you keep checking what the ex does online, etc. Total avoidance works for me. I delete ery'thang related to them. Poof! Like they didn't exist. Keyboard happy fingers right hur! Delete! Bye! Hahaha.  . You're right, one of the best ways is total avoidance :8 XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:04am On Jul 13, 2015 |
falconey: They do all these for few days/weeks untill they accept a random guy's proposal to get over him. i pity that guy, she'll maga him XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:01am On Jul 13, 2015 |
zealot4me: No 2 makes the situation worse
I am guilty of no. 7 but you have it offhand right?
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Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:00am On Jul 13, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:59am On Jul 13, 2015 |
PunkyOh: I'm not disagreeing with that. SOME do. some do, like 80% of ladies do.
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Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:58am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ghostlady: look for replacement immediately.... lol and the replacement might dump you again. XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:57am On Jul 13, 2015 |
feldido: Shey I don add my own?
Some Turn Gay  ya  thanks by the way.
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Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:56am On Jul 13, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:55am On Jul 13, 2015 |
PunkyOh: Ain't nobody have time for most of that. Especially the stalking part. As if!
I'm guilty of 2 & 7 though. some girl do stalk their ex, especially on social media. XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:54am On Jul 13, 2015 |
jonaifame22: No 5 is so tru,they'll start singing christian songs,especially don moen,God will make way,he never sleeps he never slumber,jesus sef go shock wth d kind surging love and attention wey dey come dey devote to am and he comes along, Jesus is abandoned again XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:53am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Sassybae: Lolz no.2...funny sha 
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Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:51am On Jul 13, 2015 |
feldido: Sure why not?  you be flash? Oya add your own.
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Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:47am On Jul 13, 2015 |
feldido: Singing Adele song... Someone like you you don finish reading  ? |
Romance › 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:44am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Generally all men and ladies do indulge in funny things after a terrible breakup, here are some most girls are guilty of, read and be blessed. 1. THEY TURN STALKERS[b]Some girls when hit with break up, they turn stalkers, though this is also applicable to the guys, its very common among ladies. This is common among most ladies. Some use different sims to put calls through to him and would immediately hang up or remains silent when he picks and maybe says "hello"  my elder sister is very guilty of this  . 2. PLAYING SLOW SONGSThey'll play more slow tempo songs like westlife and watch more romantic movies, lay on their bed and cry their eyes out 3. THEY BECOME ACTIVISTSDon't be surprise to see things like. #teamsingleandnotsearching  #teamallmenarethesame  #singleforever  . Their sense of empowerment is sometimes ridiculous, nairaland girls are guilty of this, i no one mention name  Guys if you fall for them in this period, na your money i pity  #Teamallguysarethesame 4. THEY HANG OUT MOREGirls hang out more when hit by breakup, you'll see them almost everywhere their ex might be, and when they're sure hell be present at the event, they dress to kill just to make him realise what he's actually missing  she rarely stays at home to avoid depression. 5. THEY SUDDENLY BECOMES ‘BORN AGAIN’…AGAIN!Naija babes i hail o  una guilty for this one die. Most ladies seeks solace in religion after a bad breakup. The unrighteous ones suddenly becomes righteous. She'll will be present and active in almost all the activities in the church, and will be praying for God to grant their heart wishes of a new and better guy  and when a good guy comes along, religion is abandoned again 6. THEY BECOME RELATIONSHIP OR LOVE EXPERTS.After a bad breakup mostly ladies thinks they're automatically love expert. You'll find them jumping into any discussion concerning relationship matters. They'll give advice and tutor others as issues correlating with relationship suddenly becomes their favourite discussionEg. "sister Mary don't date him ooh, I've seen many of his type"  . 7. THEY DELETE HIS NUMBERWe all know girls have the digits of their lovers offhand so why deleting them  This is always the first move as their idiosyncrasy at the moment is that of forgetting everything about him. The funny thing is they'll will always remember it, even after a decade 8. TRIES TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS Ladies do crazy things to get their guys attention after a serious breakup. Some will go get a new guy just to make him jealous and some will intentionally bump into him with a dress to kill. They'll take selfies with the guy and upload them online just to make him jealous. The funny thing is, the guy she is showing off, she dosent love but only trying to get back at her ex. If you're that guy i pity you written by me. Guys abeg add your own. XavierBlue |
Romance › Re: Who Lies The Most In A Relationship?... MALE/FEMALE by XavierBlue(m): 7:56am On Jul 13, 2015 |
I think it depends on individuals, but ill go for men.
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Romance › Re: Seven Stages Of How Men Fall In Love...a Must Read For Ladies by XavierBlue(m): 7:53am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Guys no dey reach 7 now Adays
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Romance › Re: How To Impress A Girl. by XavierBlue(m): 7:39am On Jul 13, 2015 |
There points above, believe me, are for the Yankee babes. For Nigerians? Money is the deal XavierBlue
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Romance › Re: . by XavierBlue(m): 9:19pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Op you need to grow up .
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