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Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:54am On Jul 13, 2015
PunkyOh:
What does FWSB stand for? So, can you still be friends with an ex that cheated?

I prefer not to be friends with exes for the most part. We dated, that's right, but after that I just don't see a reason to be in contact or remain friends. Friendly, yeah, but more than that is pushing it imo. We owe each other nothing, so..
it an acronym for Friends With Sexual Benefit.

Me i gat no problem with anyone. Ill gladly accept you back as a friend. You know it isn't only cheating that causes breakups?


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:46am On Jul 13, 2015
playboy99:
u on point on dat #ACE
that how we roll.


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:45am On Jul 13, 2015
PunkyOh:
Interesting. So sad. Well, maybe it's pain experienced as hate in my case. I don't know & I don't wanna know.

I never took back an ex. I had one come up to me a few months after a break up. I don't even remember how we broke up because I'm quick to end relationships lol. I can't deal with stress. Anyway, he came back & wanted another try & it got me SO angry because it took him MONTHS. Like, what, you think I've been waiting for you all this time or something? Exes just never win with me, so it's better to just let sleeping dogs lie.
same here, ill never go back to my vomit, am ain't a dog. We can be friends but it'll be strictly FWSB, no strings attached.


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: Mr Nairaland Six Packs Competition by XavierBlue(m): 10:42am On Jul 13, 2015
Arbiola:
Me
i swear this is suffer packshuh

XavierBlue
Romance › Re: Need Ur HELP Answering This Psychology Survey Pls by XavierBlue(m): 10:37am On Jul 13, 2015
Cutehector:
xavierblue abeg no spoil my market... See aipete2.. She dey on heat tongue
put on the AC. She'll cool offgrin.


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:34am On Jul 13, 2015
playboy99:
I thought u were in love with d person b4 d breakup.how did hate just overcome d love.n I thought u supposed to fight for love. #ACE
different strokes for different folks.


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:33am On Jul 13, 2015
Twaci:
OP, I don't do any of those angry

I just sip ijebu garri and watch Vampire Diaries again and again.....U know Damon and Klaus gives the best tips when it comes to paybacks cheesy
you're a very crazy ladygrin perhaps emotionally strong.

Well! For you to be only sipping garri after a break up only signifies that the split wasn't a severe one. I expect you to curl up on before and cry your eyes outgrin

XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:30am On Jul 13, 2015
PunkyOh:
Very true. One thing with me though is, if I do happen to come across anything related to them- be it them in person, how they blink grin or some stupid comment they make to someone else. Even if it's unrelated to me or the relationship, it just makes me hate them so much lol. My love turns to hate then indifference. Nothing they do, after the break up, makes me want them back in any way. I become a HATER, honey. Lol! It just hurts so much I guess. Shrugs.
mmmm. So you wouldn't love to get back to the last person you dated? Inferring from the fact that you said your love turns sour for them.
As for my case, i just avoid them. I vividly remember a time i broke up with a busy girl living in my street. She'll always intentionally bump into me with the guy she choose to date just few days after we split, only God knew how painful that was. Sometimes it painful seeing your ex with another.


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: Need Ur HELP Answering This Psychology Survey Pls by XavierBlue(m): 10:22am On Jul 13, 2015
Cutehector:
hahahahahahahahhahha... I really love ur sense of humor.. U need to add me up on whatsapp too.. U knw
slowly abeggrin


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: Hypo by XavierBlue(m): 10:17am On Jul 13, 2015
Cutehector:
lol u go jus kill person pikin nw
na she want advice nagrin


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:16am On Jul 13, 2015
octopusfreaky:
I did 5,7 and 8 ,very undisciplined guy he was....
ohh... Sowie. It good you go over him.


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:14am On Jul 13, 2015
playboy99:
Guys also do the same.I knw guys dat hav become born again coz of hrtbreaks #ACE
seems you're one of em.


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: Hypo by XavierBlue(m): 10:13am On Jul 13, 2015
Aipete2:
Can HYPO kill? Cos i feel like taking one.
ill advice you go for rat poison,it works like magicundecided


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:10am On Jul 13, 2015
PunkyOh:
Ok.

Well, I'll admit to having stalker tendencies but I never follow through because I don't like the thought of being consumed by somebody to THAT level. I usually snap out of it because the aim is to move forward & not get stuck. Which is what I think will happen if you keep checking what the ex does online, etc. Total avoidance works for me. I delete ery'thang related to them. Poof! Like they didn't exist. Keyboard happy fingers right hur! Delete! Bye! Hahaha.
grin. You're right, one of the best ways is total avoidance :8


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:04am On Jul 13, 2015
falconey:

They do all these for few days/weeks untill they accept a random guy's proposal to get over him.
i pity that guy, she'll maga himgrin


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:01am On Jul 13, 2015
zealot4me:
No 2 makes the situation worse

I am guilty of no. 7
but you have it offhand right? grin

XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 10:00am On Jul 13, 2015
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:59am On Jul 13, 2015
PunkyOh:
I'm not disagreeing with that. SOME do.
some do, like 80% of ladies do.

XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:58am On Jul 13, 2015
Ghostlady:
look for replacement immediately.... lol
and the replacement might dump you again.


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:57am On Jul 13, 2015
feldido:
Shey I don add my own?
Some Turn Gay cry
yaundecided thanks by the way.

XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:56am On Jul 13, 2015
Taylor86:
great
thanks.

XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:55am On Jul 13, 2015
PunkyOh:
Ain't nobody have time for most of that. Especially the stalking part. As if!

I'm guilty of 2 & 7 though.
some girl do stalk their ex, especially on social media.


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:54am On Jul 13, 2015
jonaifame22:
No 5 is so tru,they'll start singing christian songs,especially don moen,God will make way,he never sleeps he never slumber,jesus sef go shock wth d kind surging love and attention wey dey come dey devote to am
and he comes along, Jesus is abandoned againgrin


XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:53am On Jul 13, 2015
Sassybae:
Lolz no.2...funny sha grin
grin

XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:51am On Jul 13, 2015
feldido:
Sure why not?
shocked you be flash? Oya add your own.

XavierBlue
Romance › Re: 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:47am On Jul 13, 2015
feldido:
Singing Adele song... Someone like you
you don finish reading shocked?
Romance › 9 Funny Things Girls Do After A Bad Breakup by XavierBlue(op): 9:44am On Jul 13, 2015
Generally all men and ladies do indulge in funny things after a terrible breakup, here are some most girls are guilty of, read and be blessed.

1. THEY TURN STALKERS[b]


Some girls when hit with break up, they turn stalkers, though this is also applicable to the guys, its very common among ladies. This is common among most ladies. Some use different sims to put calls through to him and would immediately hang up or remains silent when he picks and maybe says "hello" grin my elder sister is very guilty of thisgrin.

2. PLAYING SLOW SONGS


They'll play more slow tempo songs like westlife and watch more romantic movies, lay on their bed and cry their eyes outgrin

3. THEY BECOME ACTIVISTS
Don't be surprise to see things like.
#teamsingleandnotsearchinggrin
#teamallmenarethesamegrin
#singleforevergrin.
Their sense of empowerment is sometimes ridiculous, nairaland girls are guilty of this, i no one mention namegrin
Guys if you fall for them in this period, na your money i pitygrin

#Teamallguysarethesamegrin


4. THEY HANG OUT MORE
Girls hang out more when hit by breakup, you'll see them almost everywhere their ex might be, and when they're sure hell be present at the event, they dress to kill just to make him realise what he's actually missinggrin she rarely stays at home to avoid depression.

5. THEY SUDDENLY BECOMES ‘BORN AGAIN’…AGAIN!


Naija babes i hail ogrin una guilty for this one die. Most ladies seeks solace in religion after a bad breakup. The unrighteous ones suddenly becomes righteous. She'll will be present and active in almost all the activities in the church, and will be praying for God to grant their heart wishes of a new and better guygrin and when a good guy comes along, religion is abandoned againgrin

6. THEY BECOME RELATIONSHIP OR LOVE EXPERTS.

After a bad breakup mostly ladies thinks they're automatically love expert. You'll find them jumping into any discussion concerning relationship matters. They'll give advice and tutor others as issues correlating with relationship suddenly becomes their favourite discussionEg.
"sister Mary don't date him ooh, I've seen many of his type"grin.

7. THEY DELETE HIS NUMBER


We all know girls have the digits of their lovers offhand so why deleting themgrin This is always the first move as their idiosyncrasy at the moment is that of forgetting everything about him. The funny thing is they'll will always remember it, even after a decadegrin

8. TRIES TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS

Ladies do crazy things to get their guys attention after a serious breakup. Some will go get a new guy just to make him jealous and some will intentionally bump into him with a dress to kill. They'll take selfies with the guy and upload them online just to make him jealous. The funny thing is, the guy she is showing off, she dosent love but only trying to get back at her ex. If you're that guy i pity yougrin

written by me.

Guys abeg add your own.




XavierBlue
Romance › Re: Who Lies The Most In A Relationship?... MALE/FEMALE by XavierBlue(m): 7:56am On Jul 13, 2015
I think it depends on individuals, but ill go for men.

XavierBlue
Romance › Re: Seven Stages Of How Men Fall In Love...a Must Read For Ladies by XavierBlue(m): 7:53am On Jul 13, 2015
Guys no dey reach 7 now Adaysgrin

XavierBlue
Romance › Re: How To Impress A Girl. by XavierBlue(m): 7:39am On Jul 13, 2015
There points above, believe me, are for the Yankee babes. For Nigerians? Money is the dealhuh



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Romance › Re: . by XavierBlue(m): 9:19pm On Jul 12, 2015
Op you need to grow up .

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