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Travel / Re: Updates On The New Nigeria Police Clearance Certificate by Xchangemadeeasy: 1:33am On Feb 03
Andychinedu:


Wait for the Confirmation…
Keep retrying
You’ll get your code

Please I am in the same situation. Please how long does it take for the code to arrive?
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Xchangemadeeasy: 8:40pm On Jan 11, 2022
Darocksvip:
Hello fam, please I need help o...so my family and I with my toddler will be landing by 31st January in Calgary. We know no one but will appreciate any help anyone will offer. Please, what would you advice we do? Get an Airbnb to quarantine in or find and pay for an apartment?
Secondly, can anyone help pick us up, please?

Thank you all smiley

Hi... I live in Calgary and I live in apartment building. Depending on your preferred location you want to settle, there are some vacant 2-bed apartments in my building. I can speak to the resident manager if you don't mind, you can just move into your apartment as you land. Kindly let me know...

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Family / Re: Are These Enough To Cause A Divorce by Xchangemadeeasy: 4:52pm On Jul 27, 2020
From the two things you have mentioned, what I can deduce is that, there is something fundamental that happened that your husband is referring to and not necessary those two you mentioned.

1. I don't know, there is probably something big or something he termed as big which you might have done in your innocent "impulse" that is really hurtful to him. Although, you guys might have talked over it or even apologize but it's taking him time to move on and the continuous "impulse" action are just striking what he is trying to get over. Those two things are too petty for anyone to hold on to for a divorce.

2. Since you know his only complain, make conscious effort to avoid it and if you must tell him after the event, backdate the sequence of happening and you will be fine. Wisdom is profitable... My opinion

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Technology Market / Re: "USED ITEMS" Direct From WAREHOUSE by Xchangemadeeasy: 9:36am On Jul 16, 2020
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Family / Re: I Need Help Pls by Xchangemadeeasy: 9:11am On Jun 28, 2020
I have just one question for you

Do you like your life?

If yes, then survival should be your primary motivation. Not happiness, not respect, not even lockdown.

That guy would either kill you or made you handicapped then move on with his life.

You even still have a mother which means you have somewhere to go to. My dear, if you know what is better for you, that is the only thing you should be thinking of now.

But if your answer to my question is No, then you can continue staying there maybe when he gets to the 10th time, you will figure it out.
Family / Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Xchangemadeeasy: 2:30pm On Jun 15, 2020
I hope this is true because that guy deserves an award for standing his ground and its something I personally would do.

When people want to get married, they should be responsible for their cost and expenses. If any family member or friends wants to help or support, it's simply out of their own volition and not compulsion whatsoever.

Some people would just have this entitlement spirit that is really annoying. Your husband earns 70k, maybe his net would fall back to 45k after removing transport and other expenses.

The poor guy is probably thinking of how to keep his family in shape planning with the little he has and someone somewhere believes he should donate his nothing less than three months savings to an adult who is not capable of carrying his own responsibility all in the name of in-laws and marriage.

Iberibe set of people...

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Family / Re: My Friend Threatens To Divorce Wife Over This Issue by Xchangemadeeasy: 8:20am On May 23, 2020
Should every issue that happen in the family solution be about divorce? This is an issue a simple dialogue would resolve.

The only concern here is that she didn't tell her husband which she would apologize and move on except she uses joint savings for the purchase and she can even use it up until the point of her own contribution. As the husband, you can even exaggerate your manliness by blowing out of proportion to make her see wrong in what she did then apologize. Move on...

For your mother-in-law to even call you to appreciate you means your wife in her childish behaviour did not forget to exclude your from taking credit of the whole gift giving which further shows either she is a good woman or the mother-in-law is a better person.

If you want to divorce, quickly go ahead then spend another few years to find a woman that you can averagely deal with each other, gather up money to do the right thing by her and her family (which you could have used to buy your own car), then pray that she does not exhibit another worse behaviour so you don't divorce again.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Xchangemadeeasy: 10:13pm On May 05, 2020
incogni2o:
Real Clearance Sales
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Business / Re: I Need Urgent Advice by Xchangemadeeasy: 7:52am On Mar 29, 2020
saint2ace:


Hey bro, buzz me if you can with Ur digits can't respond to emails now
Business / Re: I Need Urgent Advice by Xchangemadeeasy: 9:06pm On Nov 24, 2019
Gpopsicle:


Thanks sir. At the moment, I was served a letter by a mediation center to come. Should i honor the invite or get a lawyer to write them as i won't be available on the said day of the meeting or just move on

Let me quickly add to this if its not too late. Except you will have to deny the statement that he told you about the notice period and the conditions that comes with it then you will be fine. The reason is that, they can argue that contract does not have to been written for it to be binding. It can be formed orally and you being there working and earning salary showed there is a contract. So, if you admit that he told you and you accepted to work there, then be quick to chip in that he also told you that you will forfeit one month salary in lieu which is what you have done. But if you have a lawyer friend that can go on your behalf, the matter will be buried at once.
Crime / Re: Police Confirms Arrest Of Officers For Extorting Software Developer by Xchangemadeeasy: 9:29pm On Sep 29, 2019
Aderewah:
If your salary is 200k, you will work for 50 years before you can save 10 million. Is your salary 200k?

You wrong... If you save your entire salary i.e 200k, in 5 months thats a million which means you need 50months to save 10 million and that is about 4 years and 2 months... Get your facts right...

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Business / Re: Can Anyone Explain This? by Xchangemadeeasy: 2:03pm On Aug 20, 2019
You don't need to ponder over it and you are not being ripped off. Its a tax that is remitted to government and its equally borne by the final consumer. This tax is mostly applicable to restaurant and bar and it has been a subject of discussion even to the law court where it was decided that its wrong to collect. It has been a subject of controversy which is why you have not seen it before but governments especially Lagos State Internal Revenue Service have found a way outside the court proclamation to be able to charge this tax in other to ensure its being collect and they are pursuing it aggressively which is why companies operating restaurant and bars have no other option than to implement it and start collecting. Take note of this as you visit other businesses in this line

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Family / Re: . by Xchangemadeeasy: 8:38am On Aug 09, 2019
The question you should be asking is, what would you do if that cousin of yours is your child? A man that can stoop that low, then a fifteen year old daughter is not spared.

A 13 year old girl is a child for crying out loud. Me trying to imagine it alone is disgusting...

While this matter is not a public matter because of the shame it will bring to the family, I say protect the child first by taking her back to where she came from and then be on the look out for your own daughter or someone else's daughter as the reason why it can be quietly handled is because its within the family should it have been a neighbour or outsider, he would have been roasted on the front page of Nairaland.

Finally, be on the look out because what you are doing today in real sense is a cover up in which will eventually come out maybe in your lifetime or leaving it for your own children to carry and at that time, your own punishment for the cover up will be more than the man who brought the shame upon his family...

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Family / Re: Nothing by Xchangemadeeasy: 9:48am On Aug 08, 2019
First thing first, Congratulations on you scoring the goal. For what its worth, a girlfriend of 8 years and now preggy, bros you try and you should be commended.

Now to the issue. You have 300k and I hope you have an apartment where you stay then the problem is half settled by following the following steps:

Step 1: PGD is on hold for now...

Step 2: Gather the elderly people in your family to go to their house and ask for her. You don't have to spend a lot of money for that... Everybody around knows your situation... The implication of that is to calm down whatever anger issues they have and shows that you being responsible is Legendary...

Step 3: Decide if you will want her to move in with you or stay in her parents house in other to save the extra cost and emotional cost you will have to deal with living under the same roof with a pregnant woman with no adequate financial resources.

Step 4: You be ready to work your ass out in this remaining months before your she gives birth because if that child you are claiming to be Jabob is not well taken care of, he wont even come to J talk less of completing the letters...

Finally, know that this challenge too will pass. You are not the first person this is happening to and you wont be the last... She wont kill herself and you wont also kill yourself... We will all be fine last last..

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Career / Re: My Chinese Boss Keeps Making About 40% Deductions From My Salary. I Need Advice by Xchangemadeeasy: 3:33pm On Dec 30, 2018
I think I will have to add something to what is going on here

1. Since you said they pay like 5th of next month and its not that time yet, its possible they are paying some now because of the festivities and the balance at the normal time because 40% deduction at any point is not reasonable and also the first month is understandable.

2. You might want to check with your colleagues to have a perfect understanding of what is really going on because capitalist might be funny. They can say because you have closed for the year, they are prorating your remuneration. #my opinion...

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