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u satisfied now ...right?? wen ever u re arguin with another muslim u wouldn't even try to bring this up again as a point.....i hav many questions to ask you but am not ready to debate with u... |
moreover yiu fail to realize that it was a normal custom for young people to marry at the onset of their puberty or some years later, since the prophet, peace be upon him, recommended those who had the means for it to marry. you obvious only fantasizes that older men married with younger girls, he obvious never realizes that young boys just married young girls back then, and only consummated marriage with them when they had reached puberty. In those times and biblical times it was the custom of the society, which nowadays many people fail to realize. Also puberty and adulthood in those societies back then were reached at an earlier age then today. Also it’s important to know that in islam girls have free will to choose a husband they want / like. They have the right to refuse a proposel from someone they don’t want to marry or just don’t like. So a marriage can only happen in islam if both parties agree with each other, and are happy with it. This can be found in the next hadith: Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62, Number 67 The Prophet said: “A matron should not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission “ Also the option that a girl can (not must) consummate marriage at the onset of her puberty, does not mean that girls have to marry at this age. It’s only an option. Secondly even if she has reached the onset of puberty or general age of puberty in islam, then she can only marry if she is able to. If she is not able / capable / or ready to marry or consummate marriage, then she cannot and should not marry. This rule can be found in the next hadith: Sahih Bukhari , Volume 7, Book 62, Number 3 The prophet said: “ O young people ! Whoever among you is able to marry, should marry, and whoever is not able to marry, is recommended to fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power. “ Thirdly she can only consummate her marriage at the onset of puberty, if she and her parents are sure that there would be no harm in it for her to marry and consummate her marriage, since the prophet said: Related by Al-Daraqutni, Ibn Majah and Ahmad. The Prophet said: “There shall be no infliction of harm on oneself or others" |
Proof that girls can only consummate marriage on the onset of puberty can be found in the sunnah of our prophet. The Prophet, peace be upon him, didn’t consummate his marriage with Aicha when she was six. He consummated his marriage with her three years later. The reason for this was that they were waiting for her to come of age, or in other words reached puberty |
باب إنكاح الرجل ولد الصغار لقول تعالى { واللائي لم يحضن } فجعل عدتا ثلاثة أشر قبل البلوغ something like: “Chapter on ( the permissibility of ) a man marrying off his underage daughter (which would be) in accordance with the saying of Allah "And for –“those who do not menstruate" so the `iddah was set to three months prior to buloogh." [b]In the context of this verse prior to ‘buloogh’ refers only to ‘prior to menstruation’, since the verse speaks about those who have no courses yet. When a girl has her first menstrual period, she is general considered as having reached ‘buloogh’ / puberty. Therefor the writer here in his chapter uses the words ‘underage’ and ‘prior to buloogh’ as a reference to ‘prior to menstruation’. This can be clearly seen without doubt at the rest of the text and it’s context in connection to the quranic ayah. A lot of writers used the term ‘buloogh’ only as a reference to menstruation, since menstruation is the well known sign which shows that a girl has reached ‘buloogh’. Therefor most writers use the the term ‘prior to buloogh’ and ‘underage’ as a synonym for ‘prior to menstruation’. This can be confusing sometimes, since one could think that girls could consummate marriage before puberty, which is actually not allowed in islam. Like i mentioned before there are also other things which are a sign of having reached ‘majority’ in islam. These things are: wet dreams, breasts, public hair and the age of 15 years. Therefor a girl can only consummate marriage prior to menstruation (which is general considered as buloogh for girls) when she has already public hair, breasts or reached the age of 15 years or had a wet dream, which are also signs that a girl has reached puberty in islam. So keep in mind that the heading of this chapter only refers to girls who had not yet menstruated which can be clearly seen at the rest of the text and it’s connection to the quranic ayah[/b] |
باب إنكاح الرجل ولد الصغار لقول تعالى { واللائي لم يحضن } فجعل عدتا ثلاثة أشر قبل البلوغ something like: “Chapter on ( the permissibility of ) a man marrying off his underage daughter (which would be) in accordance with the saying of Allah "And for –“those who do not menstruate" so the `iddah was set to three months prior to buloogh." [b]In the context of this verse prior to ‘buloogh’ refers only to ‘prior to menstruation’, since the verse speaks about those who have no courses yet. When a girl has her first menstrual period, she is general considered as having reached ‘buloogh’ / puberty. Therefor the writer here in his chapter uses the words ‘underage’ and ‘prior to buloogh’ as a reference to ‘prior to menstruation’. This can be clearly seen without doubt at the rest of the text and it’s context in connection to the quranic ayah. A lot of writers used the term ‘buloogh’ only as a reference to menstruation, since menstruation is the well known sign which shows that a girl has reached ‘buloogh’. Therefor most writers use the the term ‘prior to buloogh’ and ‘underage’ as a synonym for ‘prior to menstruation’. This can be confusing sometimes, since one could think that girls could consummate marriage before puberty, which is actually not allowed in islam. Like i mentioned before there are also other things which are a sign of having reached ‘majority’ in islam. These things are: wet dreams, breasts, public hair and the age of 15 years. Therefor a girl can only consummate marriage prior to menstruation (which is general considered as buloogh for girls) when she has already public hair, breasts or reached the age of 15 years or had a wet dream, which are also signs that a girl has reached puberty in islam. So keep in mind that the heading of this chapter only refers to girls who had not yet menstruated which can be clearly seen at the rest of the text and it’s connection to the quranic ayah[/b] |
De Beauvoir: I couldn't download the pdf, I got a message that the file could harm my computer so I left it alone.you wrote: The collector of the so-called sound narrations, Imam al-Bukahri narrated: Narrated Sahl bin Sad: While we were sitting in the company of the Prophet a woman came to him and presented herself for marriage to him. The Prophet looked at her, lowering his eyes and raising them, but did not give a reply. One of his companions said, " Marry her to me O Allah’s Apostle " The Prophet asked him, "Have you got anything ? " He said, " I have got nothing." The Prophet said, " Not even an iron ring ? " He said, " Not even an iron ring, but I will tear my garment into two halves and give her one half and keep the other half. " The Prophet; said, " No. Do you know some of the Quran (by heart) ? " He said, " Yes." The Prophet said, " Go, I have agreed to marry her to you with what you know of the Qur'an (as her Mahr)." 'And for those who have no courses (i.e. they are still immature). (65.4) And the 'Iddat for the girl BEFORE PUBERTYis three months (in the above Verse). (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62, Number 63; emphasis ours) Response: The christian missionary relies your opinion on an english translation of the heading of a chapter. The Sahl bin Sa'd ahadith ends at: "Go, I have agreed to marry her to you with what you know of the Qur'an". What is mentioned next , the fat quoted text by sham shamoun, is not a hadeeth but part of the title of the next chapter in sahih al-bukhari |
De Beauvoir: I couldn't download the pdf, I got a message that the file could harm my computer so I left it alone.you wrote: The collector of the so-called sound narrations, Imam al-Bukahri narrated: Narrated Sahl bin Sad: While we were sitting in the company of the Prophet a woman came to him and presented herself for marriage to him. The Prophet looked at her, lowering his eyes and raising them, but did not give a reply. One of his companions said, " Marry her to me O Allah’s Apostle " The Prophet asked him, "Have you got anything ? " He said, " I have got nothing." The Prophet said, " Not even an iron ring ? " He said, " Not even an iron ring, but I will tear my garment into two halves and give her one half and keep the other half. " The Prophet; said, " No. Do you know some of the Quran (by heart) ? " He said, " Yes." The Prophet said, " Go, I have agreed to marry her to you with what you know of the Qur'an (as her Mahr)." 'And for those who have no courses (i.e. they are still immature). (65.4) And the 'Iddat for the girl BEFORE PUBERTYis three months (in the above Verse). (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62, Number 63; emphasis ours) Response: The christian missionary relies your opinion on an english translation of the heading of a chapter. The Sahl bin Sa'd ahadith ends at: "Go, I have agreed to marry her to you with what you know of the Qur'an". What is mentioned next , the fat quoted text by sham shamoun, is not a hadeeth but part of the title of the next chapter in sahih al-bukhari |
De Beauvoir: Abeg I no fit laugh for this funny explanation.The pdf I uploaded above in page nine explains everything... As I said am done here. |
De Beauvoir: The problem with your explanation is that you are trying to change the grammatical meaning of the phrase in the quran to mean "those who are not menstruating".Read this.... |
De Beauvoir: The problem with your explanation is that you are trying to change the grammatical meaning of the phrase in the quran to mean "those who are not menstruating".Am not trying to change any meaning... As I said earlier. [065:001] O Prophet! When ye do divorce women, divorce them at their prescribed periods, and count (accurately), their prescribed periods: And fear God your Lord: and turn them not out of their houses, nor shall they (themselves) leave, except in case they are guilty of some open lewdness, those are limits set by God: and any who transgresses the limits of God, does verily wrong his (own) soul: thou knowest not if perchance God will bring about thereafter some new situation. Arabic (from right to left): 65:1 ﻕﻼﻄﻟﺍ ﺓﺭﻮﺳ ﻢﺴﺑ ﻪﻠﻟﺍ ﻦﻤﺣﺮﻟﺍ ﻢﻴﺣﺮﻟﺍ ــــٛ ﻲﺒﻨﻟﺍ ﺎﻬﻳﺍﺎﻳ ﻢﺘﻘﻠﻃ ﺍﺫﺍ ﺀﺎﺴﻨﻟﺍ ﻦﻫﻮﻘﻠﻄﻓ ﻦﻬﺗﺪﻌﻟ ﺓﺪﻌﻟﺍ ﺍﻮﺼﺣﺍﻭ ﺍﻮﻘﺗﺍﻭ ﻪﻠﻟﺍ ﻦﻫﻮﺟﺮﺨﺗﻻ ﻢﻜﺑﺭ ﻦﻣ ﻦﻬﺗﻮﻴﺑ ﻻﺍ ﻦﺟﺮﺨﻳﻻﻭ ﻥﺍ ﻦﻴﺗﺎﻳ ﺔﺸﺣﺎﻔﺑ ﺔﻨﻴﺒﻣ ﻚﻠﺗﻭ ﺩﻭﺪﺣ ﻪﻠﻟﺍ ﻦﻣﻭ ﺪﻌﺘﻳ ﺩﻭﺪﺣ ﻪﻠﻟﺍ ﺪﻘﻓ ﻢﻠﻇ ﻪﺴﻔﻧ ﻱﺭﺪﺗﻻ ﻞﻌﻟ ﻪﻠﻟﺍ ﺙﺪﺤﻳ ﺪﻌﺑ ﻚﻟﺫ ﺍﺮﻣﺍ Noble Verse(s) 65:4 Yusuf Ali: [065:004] Such of your women as have passed the age of monthly courses, for them the prescribed period, if ye have any doubts, is three months, and for those who have no courses (it is the same): for those who carry (life within their wombs), their period is until they deliver their burdens: and for those who fear God, He will make their path easy. Arabic (from right to left): 65:4 ﻲﺋﻼﻟﺍﻭ ﻦﺴﺌﻳ ﻦﻣ ﺾﻴﺤﻤﻟﺍ ﻦﻣ ﻢﻜﺋﺎﺴﻧ ﻥﺍ ﻢﺘﺒﺗﺭﺍ ﻦﻬﺗﺪﻌﻓ ﺔﺛﻼﺛ ﺮﻬﺷﺍ ﻢﻟ ﻲﺋﻼﻟﺍﻭ ﻦﻀﺤﻳ ﺕﻻﻭﺍﻭ ﻦﻬﻠﺟﺍ ﻝﺎﻤﺣﻻﺍ ﻥﺍ ﻦﻌﻀﻳ ﻦﻬﻠﻤﺣ ﻦﻣﻭ ﻖﺘﻳ ﻪﻠﻟﺍ ﻞﻌﺠﻳ ﻪﻟ ﻦﻣ ﻩﺮﻣﺍ ﺍﺮﺴﻳ The Noble Verses are clearly speaking about divorce of women , and there are three categories of those women : 1- Women who are very old. 2- Women who have not had their monthly period at the time of the divorce. 3- Women who are pregnant at the time of the divorce. For point #2, it doesn't necessarily have to mean that the woman was a young girl. To me, it is clearly talking about the wife not having her period yet when the divorce happened. Women on average have 10 days of menstruation each month. Point #2 is speaking about the 20 other days. As to my opinion, the scholars' interpretations are sometimes partial. They do not cover the latter Laws that came to abrogate the current Laws that they're commenting on. This misleads the reader. As to the menstruation and the minimum age for marriage, I am not sure if the girl having her first period is the line that determines when she can get married or not. The ample Holy Verses that I quoted in this article are clear about: As to the tafaseer (interpretations) that you provided, they remain limited to their authors. They are not part of the Noble Quran. They are only interpretations and personal opinions of the Mufassireen (interpreters), and the Hadiths therein are either: 1- Fabrications and lies that were put on the mouths of the companions and the Prophet as many false hadiths were exposed. Notice the long chain of narrators that your source presented: Al Wahidi said: "Abu Ishaq al-Muqri’ informed us> Muhammad ibn ‘Abd Allah ibn Hamdun> Makki ibn ‘Abdan> Abu’l-Azhar> Asbat ibn Muhammad> Mutarrif> Abu ‘Uthman ‘Amr ibn Salim That's 8 people! 2- Abrogated Hadiths, because the Noble Verses that I presented came much much later. |
De Beauvoir: There were no misinterpretations in what I wrote,65:4 Such of your women as have passed the age of monthly courses, for them the prescribed period, if he have any doubts is three months, and for those who have no courses (it is the same) : for those who carry (life within their wombs), their period is until they deliver their burdens: and for those who fear Allah, He will make their path easy. it doesn't necessarily have to mean that the woman was a young girl. It is clearly talking about the wife not having her period yet when the divorce happened. Women on average have 10 days of menstruation each month. those ﻢﻟ Did not ﻦﻀﺤﻳ have their periods ﻦﻬﺗﺪﻌﻓ so their waiting time ﺔﺛﻼﺛ Three ﺮﻬﺷﺃ Months So it is referring to those who do not have their period, it does not mention kids or young girls. As i said it is referring to those who have not had their period yet, or those after puberty who still have not had a menstruation cycle even after reaching age of puberty. To say it is referring to pre- pubescent girls is incorrect, whether it is you saying it or any writer of tafsir. It is simply inserting something into the text which is not there, making that which is plain and clear more confusing As respected as they may be, anyone can make mistakes. |
The meaning of Iddah in Islam ‘Iddah is a period in which a woman waits after the death of her husband or divorce, and she is not allowed to marry during this period. The Muslim jurists have unanimously agreed on it as being waajib (obligatory) due to the explicitness of the Qur’anic injuction whereby Allah says: “The divorced women shall wait concerning themselves for three monthly periods.” There are three types of ‘Iddah: The first type of ‘Iddah is that of birth. That is, a woman must wait until she delivers her child before she can remarry. A common erroneous idea among people is that a pregnant woman cannot be divorced. This is not the case at all. Rather there is a consensus on this point among the scholars, and that this is a Sunnah divorce and heresy (bid’ah). There is no dispute regarding its validity. The second type of ‘Iddah is the ‘Iddah of menses. This means a woman is not allowed to marry until she has three menstruations. As soon as the third period ends, ‘Iddah ends. This is the view of many of the elite companions such as ‘Umar, ‘Ali and ibn Masu’d, and it was narrated by ibn al-Qayyim. This is also the view by the majority of contemporary scholars such as ibn Baaz and ‘Uthaymeen. The third type of waiting period is the ‘Iddah of months. This applies to women who have passed the age of menstruation. The ‘Iddah in this case is three months. As for a woman who is divorced by her husband before he has consummated his marriage with her, then there is no waiting period that applies to her based on verse number 49 from Surat Al- Ahzaab (33). The woman whose husband has divorced her once or twice is instructed to spend her ‘Iddah duration within her husband’s house. Any woman who leaves her home without the permission of her husband after he has uttered either the first or second divorce is in violation of the injunctions of Allah and His Messenger. A woman whose divorce is revocable (i.e. first divorce or second divorce) may still uncover in front of her husband and adorn herself by applying make-up and perfume. She may speak to him and he may speak to her; she may sit with him and do anything with him apart from intercourse. The only instance in which he may have sexual relations with her is if he takes her back. If the husband kisses and embraces his wife with the intention of taking her back, then that taking back is valid. To be on the safe side however, he should not handle with his wife until after he has clearly stated that he is taking her back. In the case were a husband is not sure as to whether he uttered the word of divorce at all, or as to the number of divorces he has uttered, then he should act on the basis of what is certain. So if he is not sure whether he has divorced her or not, the basic principle is that divorce has not taken place, because in this instance marriage is something which is certain, and divorce is something concerning which there is uncertainty. Based on the juristic principle that certainty cannot be overridden by doubt, if the husband is uncertain as to whether he has divorced his wife once or twice, he should assume that he has divorced her once, because this is what is certain. CLEARED..... AS I SAID AM DONE TALKING TO U |
De Beauvoir: Which someone were you talking to?I was not talkin to u initially.... I qouted jonniegill: Cos you can marry a 12yr old and divorce her at 17 after VVF and replace with another 12yr old. (2) Cos its a religion of peace if U̶̲̥̅̊ r in doubt ask those who live in.(1) Irag. (2) Afghanistan. (3) Pakistan (4) Egypt (5) palestine (6)Syria (7) Libya ( Borno (9) Yobe (10) Kano And replyed him Islam allows you to marry any girl which as attained the age of puberty.... So we don't call that underage..... Islam doesn't allow indiscriminate divorce.... B4 a man divorces a woman he must follow some certain rules and stages which are up to 5 stages.... nd by d way I stay at kano.. Then qouted the above.... He was to qoute what i said nt you.... Wen u qouted what i said then i replied... YOU SHOULD KEEP TRACK OF WAT U DOIN... its isin't you forum so get the hell out... Its also not a debating forum...... And the verses you qouted.... Does not explain underage divorce.... It says IDDAH... Iddiah is the waiting period of a woman after shes divorced NOT UNDERAGE PLEASE.... SPARE ME UR MISINTERPRETATIONS....... AM done talking to u here... |
bravo...u All did GREAT... What a wonderful performance.. |
De Beauvoir: Sick......What you don't understand is the Islam allows marriage when the woman reaches the age of puberty... Quote the verse you talking abt.. I wasn't changing the subject. I was talking to someone when you intervened... |
De Beauvoir: Sick......What you don't understand is the Islam allows marriage when the woman reaches the age of puberty... Quote the verse you talking abt |
De Beauvoir: ^^^Am trying to clarify all the misinterpretations u did...... So far a girl has reached the age of puberty... She's fit for marriage.... Islamically... |
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Because it is nigeria of course |
Northern Elders are not prepared to back down on the North’s demand for the presidency in 2015,spokesman for the group, Professor Ango Abdullahi has said. “There is no going back on the presidency returning to the North in 2015, and that has remained our position,” he told The Nation on the outcome of the last weekend meeting of the Northern Elders Forum. Professor Abdullahi accused the President of playing politics with the proposed national conference. “As far as we are concerned, all this talk about national conference is political and geared towards 2015. It is also becoming clear that the only card on the table of Mr. President is ethnicity or religion. We are waiting to see how this will work in his favour,” he said. But he explained that the North is not in any way against the conference. His words: “The Northern Elders’ Forum met last weekend and we generally agreed with the direction of the North on the National Conference. And we said why not? The point we tried to make is what kind of conference? “This is because we have had all sorts of conferences in the past from 1914 to date. All the reports of these conferences are there in the Government House. The Northern Elders’ Forum wondered what kind of conversation, dialogue, or conference that would be different from the ones we have had before. “We agreed that the only thing that will make the proposed conference significantly different is when it is sovereign. What needs to be done is to suspend the current 1999 Constitution by the National Assembly to pave the way for a peoples’ conference. The National Assembly should vacate itself to enable the sovereign conference to take place. “I am particularly surprised that those who've have always wanted a sovereign conference are now backing out and for whatever reason, I cannot say. While the Northern Elders’ Forum may be at home with the proposed conference, as we have always maintained that we are ready for any kind of conference, I still maintain that we either have a sovereign conference or nothing else. Without that, we had better manage the system as it is. Otherwise, the proposed conference will be a mere talk shop and a jamboree.” http://thenationonlineng.net/new/2015power-shift-north-negotiable-northern-leaders/ |
Who cares anyway..... |
De Beauvoir: You are not ashamed of yorself, you actually came to justify the marriage of a 53 year old man to a 9 year old girl just because your prophet did it.1-It was a divine inspiration: Before describing the rationale behind this married relation, let it be known that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) married Sayyida Aisha not of his own desire rather it was a Divine inspiration. Read the following Hadith; Narrated 'Aisha: That the Prophet said to her, "You have been shown to me twice in my dream. I saw you pictured on a piece of silk and some-one said (to me). 'This is your wife.' When I uncovered the picture, I saw that it was yours. I said, 'If this is from Allah, it will be done." {Bukhari :: Volume 5 :: Book 58 :: Hadith 235} 2-It was not out of his physical desires: The Holy Prophet (Peace be upon him) did not marry Sayyidah Aisha out of his physical desires. One need to note that for first 54 years of his life he had only one wife. His only wife till 50th year of his life was Sayyida Khadija. He spent his entire youth with her and she was a two time widowed woman, 15 years elder to him. For next four years his only wife was Sayyidah Sa’uda. 3-Age of Marriage in Old Ages: One must first understand that 1400 years ago was very different than now, times have changed and so have humans. 1400 years ago it was something very common to marry young girls, in fact they were not considered young girls, and rather they were considered young women back then. It is a historic fact that girls from the ages of 9 to 14 were being married in Europe, Asia, and Africa, in fact even in the United States girls at the age of 10 were also being married just more than a century ago. Yet with these facts no historian claims that all these people were sick perverts, historians would call anyone who made such a claim to be arrogant and very stupid who has no grasp or understanding of history. Even in Indo-Pak Sub-Continent girls used to be married at 12-13 even 50-60 years ago. And those ‘girls’ infact raised much better families. There were less family problems then. A simple analyses of the divorce rate then and know would certainly make it clear that maturity level earlier used to be different i.e. people used to come of age rather quickly. 4-Child Brides in Byzantine Empire: http:// www.roman-emperors.org/aggiefran.htm Visit this link to see how common were the child brides in the Byzantine Empire.This clearly states;”Child brides, whether Byzantines or foreign princesses, were the norm rather than the exception, especially from the late twelfth century”. 5-The Pagans of the Prophet's time: The fact that it was a completely acceptable thing can also be seen from the response of the pagans at that time. No Muslim or even pagan objected to the marriage because it was widely practiced. And even until today in 3rd world countries (Muslims and non- Muslims), little girls as young as 9 or 10 do get married. Anyway, the reason no one objected was to the Prophet's marriage was:1-People used to have very short life- spans in Arabia. They used to live between 40 to 60 years maximum. So it was only normal and natural for girls to be married off at ages 9 or 10 or similar.2-Marriage for young girls was widely practiced among Arabs back then, and even today in many non-Muslim and Muslim countries 6- Engagement with Jubair bin Mutim: It ought also be noted that Sayyidah Aisha ( RA) was engaged to Jubayr son of Mut'im before Prophet Muhammed (Peace be upon him. This indicates the age of marriage and engagement in Prophet's time. However, the engagement was later nullified by Jubayr’s parents due to Abu Bakr (RA) embracing Islam.Doesn’t this indicate there was nothing bad in marrying a 9 year girl at that time?She must have been even younger when she was engaged to Jubair 7-Sayyidah Aisha sha was fit for marriage: Furthermore a s to the Holy Prophet’s marriage with Sayyidah Aisha, something people will notice is that the completion of the marriage was done when Sayyidah Aisha was 9 years old, not when she was 6, and there is a reason for that. (my previous post) Infect it is manifest from several traditions that she loved the Holy Prophet (Peace be upon him) too much and even felt some sort of jealousy when she found others around him. Does this not prove that she was extremely happy about this marriage? So, when she herself had no problem at all then what’s the matter of concern for others? 9-A 9-year old Thai girl gave birth: A 9 old girl can become a mother. If you don’t believe me then see here is the proof; The news item is from the New Straits Times, 10/3/2001. > In our world today, we still have people who marry very young girls. Why should we object to someone who married a 9-year old girl 1400 years ago, when we still practice it today? The girl above even gave birth at the age of 9! 10-It was absolutely legal: Prophet Muhammad's marriage with Aisha was 100% legal and acceptable by all laws and Divine Religions. It is important to know that girls during the Biblical and Islamic days used to be married off at young ages when they either had their first periods,. In other words, when they turn into "women", then they get married off. It was quite different for men on the other hand, because physical power and the ability of living an independent life had always been and will always be a mandatory requirement for men to have in life. So men waited much longer than women in terms of getting married. The guy had to develop both his body and mind before he was ready for marriage. That is why you see girls as young as 9 or 10 were married to men as old as 30 or even older. The culture back then and in many of the world countries today (NON-MUSLIM ONES TOO) is quite different than what you live in today.And there is no divine law which is broken in marrying a girl of nine at any costs. 11-Her parents never objected: Sayyidah Aisha's mother and the Muslim women back then were O.K with her marriage. It was part of the Arab custom and still is in many of the Muslim and non- Muslim countries today for girls to marry at a very young age. When a girl's body starts showing up (her breasts and her height and physical size), then she would be ready for marriage The only reason why Sayyidah Aisha's father, Abu Baker Al Sidique, broke her engagement with Jober is because he was a non-Muslim. Later, a woman named Kholeah Bint Hakeem suggested for Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him to marry Sayyidah Aisha, because the Prophet and Abu Baker became best friends. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) engaged Sayyidah Aisha for 3 years before he married her. INDEED ALLAH KNOWS THE BEST!!! i rest my case .... |
ooshinibos: i wondered what would have happenned if some one married a nine year old now in these days .....is this recorded in the koran ..please enlighten meWe keep saying the same thing over nd over again..... As if you don't understand English.... |
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victorv12: All these thesist are about to take their religion into the space again! All the astronauts around the world should go against this. This shows how gullible all religion can be. Jesus and Muhammad died on this planet, why can't everything regarding their followership be limited to our planet alone! I hope their religious wars won't be taken to the space, where space stations and satellites will be the next target...The space most be really protected! It's meant for explorers, scientists and atheists, not religious followers that can wakeup one day and start blowing up all the satellites and the space stations in the solar system. Bros must u comment...... As my sis said Your naivete is so glaring! take a glass ofwater please. |
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Thanks for sharing tho.... |
pharmow: There are so many ʇuɐɹoubı comments made by some people that made me wonder why they cannot spend some time on the internet to improve their IQTrue...some Australopithecus Africanus cnt just see a post wifout critisizing others people religion.... |
De Beauvoir: I would be derailing if I did that.Prophet Muhammad(S.A.W) married Sayyidah Aisha was 9 years old, and there is a reason for that. The reason why this happened is because Sayyidah Aisha had been through puberty by the age of 9, and in Islam a female who under-goes puberty is considered a lady and is fit for marriage. If we read the hadiths, we find that right before Sayyidah Aisha got married off to the Holy Prophet that she was sick and not feeling too well: Narrated Sayyidah Aisha:”The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six (years). We went to Medina and stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harith bin Khazraj then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my hair grew (again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when my breathing became all right, she took some water and rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw some Ansari women who said, "Best wishes and Allah's Blessing and a good luck." Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly Allah's Apostle came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine years of age.” {Sahih Bukhari Volume 5, Book 58, Number 234} So as we can see, Sayyidah Aisha got ill and her body was going through some changes, indicating that she was going through her puberty. Sayyida Aisha never showed her displeasure: Another striking thing to observe is that among hundreds of her narrations there is not even a single one showing her displeasure about this marriage. |
De Beauvoir: I would be derailing if I did that.The prophet (S.A.W)is a superrior human.....he is the best among human race....just as d prophet married 9 wifes....we are only alliwed to marry 4 wives... Holy Prophet’s marriage with Sayyidah Aisha, Sayyidah Aisha was 9 years old, not when she was 6, and there is a reason for that. The reason why this happened is because Sayyidah Aisha had been through puberty by the age of 9, and in Islam a female who under-goes puberty is considered a lady and is fit for marriage. |
[quote author=cashkid(419)]Quran 2:216 – Allah says, “Warfare is ordained to you (Muslims), though it is hateful unto you; but it may happen that ye hate a thing which is good for you;” {This sura means Muslims must fight wars for Allah till eternity, whether they hate it or not} Quran 2:217, 2.244, 3.21, 4.74, 4.84, 4.91, 5.33, - Allah basically commands Muslims to fight and slay (kill) unbelievers (non-Muslims). Quran 3:54 - “…Allah is the best of schemers.” {An accomplice to Murder} Quran 4:76 – “Those who believe (Muslims) do battle for the cause of Allah;” Quran 8:30 - “… and Allah is the best of plotters.” {“Accomplice to Murder”} Sura 8.12; “I will terrorize the unbelievers. Then smite the necks and smite of them each finger.” { Allah himself admits, he is a terrorist, & demands torture/killing} Quran 8:39 – “…And fight them (non- Muslims) until persecution (disbelieve in Islam) is no more, and religion is all for Allah…” {No others left-This sura alone, says it all} Quran 8:59 “And let not those who disbelieve, suppose that they can outstrip (Allah’s purpose). Lo! They cannot escape.” 8:60 “Make ready for them all thou canst of (armed) force and of horses tethered that thereby ye may dismay the enemy of Allah.” Quran 9:29 – “Fight against such of those who have been given the scripture (Christians) as believe not in Allah nor the Last Day, and forbid not that which Allah hath forbidden by his messenger, and follow not the religion of Truth (Islam) until they pay the tribute readily, being brought low (admitting readily as low-down to Islam).”[/quote]All the verses above explains jihad.... nd u dont even knw what jihad means...fighting for cause of Allah...real muslim are not terrorist.....u cnt fight or goto war without your opponent knwing u re fighting him....islam frowns at terrorism......ND BY D WAY U DID NOT PROOF WHAT I WANTED U TO PROOF... ... i shoulnt be talking to an enemy of Allah by d way... quran 8:30. And (remember) when the disbelievers plotted against you (O Muhammad ) to imprison you, or to kill you, or to get you out (from your home, i.e. Makkah); they were plotting and Allah too was planning, and Allah is the Best of the planners. nd u were misinterpreting the word of Allah.. |

