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Your church tried o. This is what Jesus Christ preached. Unlike many churches today where hungry members keep deceiving themselves. They will only preach "audio gospel" have faith, you will receive miracle money this week, your helper will locate you soon, no sickness will locate you, breakthrough, breakthrough, breakthrough..... All the members will be shouting amen on top of their voices, when many get home they will continue their "hunger induced fasting"

Eyaaa, with the situation you just described, you will be more worried when the child arrives. I do not support abortion though, but the decision has to be from the head not from the heart.

Free Bill Gates. Even if he is the Antichrist, you people should allow him do his job in peace.

Lala be like...

Who is Freda Fred?

My brother, use soap and sponge wash ur prick at least once a day. No extra care is needed. The guy above is very correct.

If you want to live your life peacefully as a man please do not fall into the marriage trap. This trap have sent majority of men to their early grave and I'm surprised by the rate more men are still falling into it. Over 95% of married men in Nigeria are living in regret and depression, disagree at your own peril.
Marriage is an accomplishment for women. A married man is just like a male lion been tamed by a human.

I think Nigerians can benefit from this. Not having a degree should not be an excuse for failure

This thread is just a proof of how men and women keep secrets within relationships. Guys are very open and they will confess everything at the slightest opportunity, girls? Hmmm, they will confess another lie to cover up their secrets. Marrying any of these 21st century 5g girls is just like getting yourself locked up forever in a room with all the different strains of coronavirus.

My guy, I hope u read this comment.

I read your post and I can understand your pain because this is exactly the same way my relationship with my separated wife began. THE EARLIER YOU DISPOSE HER OFF, THE BETTER FOR YOU. It is the simple and bitter truth.

When i was younger I thought "all girls are the same, treat her nicely and you will have a good home" VERY WRONG! (This is why some people are of the opinion that bad guys end up marrying the good woman, which is also not 100% true)

Majority of girls nowadays are demons with human flesh. Sorry to say this, few of them are good hearted, but very few. Chances of meeting a good woman nowadays is less than 5 percent.

You said she was in an "abusive relationship," this is the problem. Do you know what that previous guy endured? You judged him easily and took the demonic bi*ch in, now you are complaining.

A bad woman will gradually lead any man to his early grave. First she wipes off every source of happiness from your life and replace it with sorrow, the man becomes bitter and reacts to every little thing, then he dreads going home, he begin to realise that the woman is the cause of his sorrows, he tries as much as possible to ensure peace in his home, nobody understands what is going on with him.

Every man knows, when everything have been sacrificed to invite peace and still she won't come, you learn to trust your fist.

The woman has nothing to loose, she keeps tormenting you (my brother, when you start living with a woman you are not the boss of your life anymore) she keeps her legion of boyfriends that are ready to satisfy her sex demands at any moment even in your matrimonial home, she is always stingy towards you because you are just a tool that provides her financial needs. She don't mind shedding out your money to those guys.

You look at your kids and you know there is a good chance they are not yours. Then you secretly start to research for the nearest dna testing center. You begin to die slowly and gradually. At this stage you can easily sacrifice your half a million monthly job and jump into a band of travellers that are heading towards the Mediterranean sea.

Let me stop here, I hope every man could learn the bitter lessons of a woman earlier in life. You will live a happy and healthy life, and age peacefully.

My brother, make your decision now. Gradually fall into a life of depression or cut it off right now and recover within a few weeks.

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

A leaking radiator is even worse. No matter how little or minor your radiator leakage may be, do not take it for a long journey. You will definitely blow out your crank and cylinder top with overheating. Do not delay in fixing a leaking vehicle cooling system, unless you are ready to buy another engine and in some cases, gearbox included.

Richdad50:
In theory, when you're working with a record label, you're just borrowing their money. And that's basically how the record industry works, right? It's like, you borrow N10,000,000 from a record label, so you don't make any money until you make back that money for them. In theory, they have you held hostage, so you've got to do every little stupid thing that they want you to do.

There’s no “correct path” to becoming a real artist. You might think you’ll gain legitimacy by getting published, getting signed to a record label. But it’s all bullshit, and it’s all in your head. You’re an artist when you say you are. And you’re a good artist when you make somebody else experience or feel something deep or unexpected.

#Richdad

The OP was talking about "Manager" Not "record label".
A manager can be different from a record label. As an upcoming artiste, you need a good manager to get to the top. This is not limited to music alone, also in sports and some other fields.

Hi

The truth is that we are all introvert and extroverts at the same time. Something is responsible for your present mood.

Brother, you do not need a divorce. You have to know who you are as a man. I have been there before and i feel your pains, but I must also tell you that it was all your fault. You do not want to make a decision that will affect your son's future, but you should also remember that you have a life to live. Just walk away and forget about divorce, you do not need it. That woman is a typical nigerian girl, I am not surprised at all.

@SConnect, I read through and the offer is quite enticing.

Who is this okwalfugo?

It is not easy to manage customer support no matter how small a company may be, I do not intend to defame anyone. Please web4africa, try and improve on your customer support. Every customer can not be satisfied but big companies still do their best to always improve on their quality of service.

web4africa.net or web4africa.ng, they are both

It is not easy to manage customer support no matter how small a company may be, I do not intend to defame anyone. Please web4africa, try and improve on your customer support. Every customer can not be satisfied but big companies still do their best to always improve on their quality of service.

I remember opening this thread about a year ago, I just came across it once again and decided to update it with my experience. The website is okay. They keep to their promise and I've been receiving money when i get any activation. It's not like so many other website that promises what they will never deliver.

Please does anybody here have any experience with nairalake? I just need to know because I already paid for an account license friday 6th nov. and my account just got activated yesterday. Does anybody here have any personal experience with nairalake.com? Have you received any payment from them? Please share your experinces, thank you.

expee06:
Why not? I go give the whole 30 mil.

you are on Odoriferous saga

Ok

South east and south south never truly supported him at first, no love lost. Majority of nigerians are so gullible.

PROVACATEUR:
Buhari will lose SS/SE support faster than a man that wants to ejaculatee

First of all, let me call this a faucet origo. A trauma talidomine, a semithermic and plutoic autocajol. Such uncompartmentalised, defenestotic and melancholic driving is very nonchalant and uncalled for, personally i'm not surprised it was a patrol vehicle. Anyway RIP to the dead.

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Government can do something about this anyway. Export every Naija girl overseas on a 6 months plan so they can see the world and pick some sense.

Dugged

Good day nairalanders, please i urgently need guest posters on my site who can be posting on a daily basis. Contact me ASAP via email.

Thank you.

Don't conclude

It was a minor case but got so much of exaggeration from some individuals.