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@ KDK
Dont just get cracked up. I'm sure most of us, me especially, would want to know what exactly your definition of a wife is. What r u lookin for in ur wife

@ KDK

I get wat d Bible says, in fact i can read dat passage by heart, but wat is ur own definition of love? Wat do u feel wen u tell someone dat u love dem? Wat goes thru ur mind wen u tell someone dat u love dem?
We each have our deinition of wat love is, or wat it should be, wats urs?

We each have a pretty good idea what we think love is. Educate us, what does love mean to u?

This is mostly 4 guys, but i 2 wud want 2 know, wat exactly do u guys look 4 in a woman who u'd like 2 marry?
And y is ur definition of wife different from ur definition of a girlfriend?

@ nightfall
Mosttimes we want wat we cant have. Let me ask 1 question, if u decided 2 cheat, wat wud be d basis of d act?
Its true dat things like dis dont go away until u do them, n smetimes even wen u do, there's no guarantee dat they wud. (if only there was a written code 4 these things)
Dat u r asking advice only means u know u shdn't but maybe u r trying 2 justify it. Wateva u decide sha, just remember 2 do wat u'd be proud of.
"U Neva Know Wat U Have Until Its Gone", remember dat 2

@ xkape
 I agree with u. Religion for each of us is wat we make it out 2 be. If i take delight in swimming and i do it practically everyday, it has become a religion 2 me, such dat if i miss doin it anyday, i lose d feeling i get wen i do it.
 Its a common mistake pple make, substituting christianity for religion. Christianity is a way of life, for those who take pleasure in being christians, its like they cease 2 exist if they stop dis way of life. The feeling u get in church most times is an overflow of dis way of life, its a reminder of who God is 2 u, and all u r in Him. N even wen u r not in church, praising n prayin on ur own, u still get a feeling. But its not d feeling dat defines dis way of life, its just a small part of it.
 In conclusion, if u choose 2 stop attending church, den u shud figure out uy u stopped instead of saying its becos u get d same feeling in church as in a football stadium. There's more to it dan that, much more.  

QUESTION: How do u mend a broken heart?
It didnt specify d cause of d break, human or not. Anyway my answer is pick d pieces up where they fell n put them back together. D person or thing probably isnt worth all d wahala!

One question, did the girl actually recognise d picture cos she had seen d man be4?
Wen we think of Jesus, we have dis picture in our minds of wat he looks like, courtesy of the films dat potray Christ.

@ Groupoint, i c wat u mean, n i can appreciate it. It makes sense.

@KDK, I'd also like 2 see ur comments on d topic. U obviously want us 2 know or else u wudn't have come in at all. So pls enlighten us!

If u ask me, i'll say ur friend has got something wrong somewhere. Let him decide wat he wants, go back n do it right!

Hey y'all,
This matter bout women being 2nd 2 men is one dat has been around 4 a long time. I'm not takin sides, i just want 2 discuss on d matter as best i can.
Its a shame dat this issue started way back, as the bible records.2day women in general r treated like they have half brains or like dey cant do any beta dan a man has done.
I hate it wen i hear comments like women r just child factories, or a woman's life is in d kitchen. What authority do these people have 4 makin comments like dat?
We all, male and female alike fail 2 see d importance of women. The truth be told, women r harder workers dan men cud eva be. We r foreva tryin 2 outlive dis scar and do beta dan people say we can, dats y i'm always overjoyed wen i c women in authority, women who have power, n use it well. In Nigeria 2day, there r a number of women in ministerial positions, n its not such a surprise dat they do so well.
Even in the next century or millenium, i dont think women will eva outlive this perception, but so far, its been a thing of joy 2 watch some try.
Personally, i wont be held down by wat people think i am. Like i always say, "its a matter of opinion", it doesnt mean its true.

*onyegbula
I follow wetin my bros n sis dem talk o! its not advisable. If she wont take no 4 an answer, dem my dear, look 4 anoda job. All things work 2geder o! Grace!!!!

*krazyeddy
I've heard it said dat love is a choice. U choose 2 love someone, its not imposed on u. Its just my opinion, but i really dont think its a good thing 4 any 1, male or female 2 love a married person. It really doesnt make sense cos the only 1 who gets hurt in the process is u. I believe there's 1 woman 4 everyman, so with God takin d forefront, ur friend will find d person 4 her. Seriously, such love goes no where.

*itismd
Humans are most times preoccupied with themselves, thinkin of ways 2 help themselves, but thank God that there are exceptions 2 the rule. U rock!!!!!

Well!!!!!!!!!!! Dont know wat exactly to say but its a wonder to me wen i hear such stories, wen people say they see ghosts or dat they had an encounter with a ghost. Its not impossible, infact, its been known dat lives are sometimes saved by these. Still it can be a wonderful thing n it cud also be a bad thing.
Have u stopped 2 ask urself y dis girl came 2 u? Wat exactly did she want from u? N the most baffling, y was she stroking ur thigh? Such questions u might neva find answers 2, but u just remember to thank God u came out of this alive, cos not everybody lives 2 tell the tale. Good for you!!!