Radiant abeg respect urself _{y r u fartingsighing on this thread}

Uche mind yasef o



_{diz my people will never stop makin me laugh}

Man you don't have to cheat on your wife,what for?ok,how would you feel is she cheats on you?abeg no do am o!i rather you love her more.

I will advise you tell your wife everything about this issue.
A problem shared is half-solved.
The two of you can go through this together.
And it will enhance your trust in each other.

Wow!a whole lots of advice.all i have to say is this [i]do unto others what u want them to do unto you and remember not all that glitters is gold.[/i]no sin go unpunished.so, put ursf together u can overcome whatever urge that is pulling you.His grace is sufficient for u to overcome.

ill just like you to ask yourself heartsearching questions , what dyou hope to achieve from cheating on your wife?perharps a few moments of sexual exctasy, and what could you get in return
, sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS , ,
unwanted pregnancy,
a wounded conscience ,
a ruined relationship with your GOD,
thats if u have any,and if your wife discovers ,
lost trust and respect, even b4 your kids,
and more what if the other woman is fetish then youll lose ur mind too
that means you are finished
ask yourself is this responsible, give it a second thought man , the calamitous rewards of infidelity are endless
its not worth the price youll pay

wat da heck? just go on ahead and cheat as much as you want. After all its a free world, _{i wonder wat this world is turning into}

NightFall,
I am going to respond to this based on my assumption that you need help.

My advice:
Stay away from that lady and stick with your wife.
'Cook' your wife and you will see that the lady ain't younger than her.
Spend much time with your wife and kids,if you've got any.
Don't hang around with females that'd arouse you.Stay away from them.
Use your wife's picture as your phone's wallpaper.Wear your ring always.
Always talk about your wife and be quick to let other females know you've got a wife.
Be honest with your wife:don't you ever lie to her.Attend weddings,etc with her.Hang out with her often and on.

And please, stay in the word of God.You cannot make it on your own.You need the word of God to constantly cleanse your thoughts and direct you.

The thoughts will come but fire back at them with your word-based confessions: ''I refuse to cheat on my wife because I love her.My body is the temple of the Holy Spirit,therefore sin and impure thoughts have no dominion over me, "

It's a fight of faith and you have got to walk out of it victorious.

Cheating on one's wife is not proper. One is not going to be run by one's senses.

I pray for you that God will keep you and direct you toward His love and toward the patient waiting for our Lord Jesus.
I pray that God will keep and sanctify your thoughts,through His word and through fellowship with the saints.I pray that your understanding will be influenced by the word of God not sensory perception.These I pray in the name of the Lord Jesus.

@honorable nairalanders, i dont think anything will say here will ever make him change his mind as he have already cheated.

We should look at da option of compelling hime to get a 2nd wifey

I really wouldn't advice such a stupid query like that, I mean c'mon, what else does that other woman have that your wife doesn't, they are all women aern't they

I believe its wrong to hurt the ones we love. Why did you go there in the first place. Women are all the same, right, left and centre. The reason why you got married in the first place is because you adored your wife to be aint it, so why the big issue, and when you will be in trouble, she will be the one to bail you out. Outside people only come to destroy a happy relationship. If your wife is bad at something, do something about it, teach her, no one was born knowing how to do most things, well ofcourse except the natural ones.

Think, think and think again!!

Anyways why bother ask us a silly stupid query, no dont cheat. Its bad for your health and your wife's health.

@ nightfall
Mosttimes we want wat we cant have. Let me ask 1 question, if u decided 2 cheat, wat wud be d basis of d act?
Its true dat things like dis dont go away until u do them, n smetimes even wen u do, there's no guarantee dat they wud. (if only there was a written code 4 these things)
Dat u r asking advice only means u know u shdn't but maybe u r trying 2 justify it. Wateva u decide sha, just remember 2 do wat u'd be proud of.
"U Neva Know Wat U Have Until Its Gone", remember dat 2

If you are sick of her and she does no longer respect you or show you the love you deserve, then go for it.

Find a woman who can supply your needs. This is the only way you are going to stay sane.

oh pls i don't know y u ppl r replyin dis attention seekin fool

@Reverend:
I trust, sir, that you are being facetious in suggesting that he "go for it." Surely, you would not advocate adultery, would you?

Go ahead man, but please use CONDOM - it's sweet, they say variety is the spice of life, so taste as many as your buds can allow

And keep us posted on the counts i mean like 1,2,3, 80, 90,


You are dead meat man sorry for you, no hypocrisy, but you'll live long (i mean the other way round )

CHEAT! I guess no human on Earth is a machine and man is not programmed to be attracted to one lady

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@Topic. Whatttttttttt!

@Nightfall: are u serious?

one word bro!!!
DON'T!!!

nightfall, i tink u go thru wat most men go thru in life n i commend u 100% for the courage to come out and voice ur concerns and seek help and also the fact that u have a conscience 2 know ur wife 'll be hurt if u cheat on her.
u must remember the bible gives ground for divorce on ONE ground ALONE and that is INFIDELITY.U should talk this thru wit ur wife, tell her u r attracted to another lady and here her opinion of whichmight be the following three:
a: she might try to be wat the home wreckeris
b: find ways of making herself more appealing to u,
c:  castrate u 
But seriously, i tink u should have a mature discussion wit ur wife about this and i honestly hope it all goes well[color=#990000][/color]

@natasha
u have given the best advice so far.
nightfall take note

@TOPIC
Just do a reversal ''How would u feel if ur wife cheats on u.''
Let ur conscience judge u.

manakins:

@TOPIC
Just do a reversal ''How would u feel if your wife cheats on u.''
Let your conscience judge u.

@author answer the question

drrionelli:

@Reverend:
I trust, sir, that you are being facetious in suggesting that he "go for it." Surely, you would not advocate adultery, would you?

If the woman is not providing the right care for her man then yes. This also applies for women in a bad relationship where the man does not treat her correctly or show the affection she needs.

Just Do It

Life is short :-)

If such is the case, Reverend, then is not the entire institution of marriage invalidated?

what can i say. abeg carry go ! tear all them p***y apart jo

Brother, dont cheat on your wife, why. The other lady has the same tools as your wife, they're all women. Another reason, it could ruin your marriage, the third party is always a problem. Third, you could get a disease or something. Fourth, respect yourself and your wife. Why did you get married and the fifth reason, its just wrong and thats why diseases like AID will never leave our beautiful planet.

Do it n u will reck ur marriage. Man use ur brain not ur d, k