₦airaland Forum

Toks2008:
I don't get you.

OK M trying to say its true that ppl have one thing or another that they desire in that spouse they claim they love, while some people can marry anyone as long as he or she posses any of their material or sexual needs, there is this group of people (hopeless romantics) who still believe in that feeling called love, and they don't just marry for material or sexual needs

for example
. some can decide to marry any man as long as he has money, even if he doesn't stay home, care about them or even flirts with other women. as long as he has and gives them good money.
but there are some who will still prefer that man who can provide though not as rich as the first but will care more.
that care some people describe as love.

Toks2008:
My sister its not about money all the time.

Some ladies have told me that Ithey cherish a caring guy over a rich guy and some said they will do anything for a man that can please them sexually but none of them have used that scam word "love" so I keep saying that what matters is what you have to offer and what the other person wants...like a buy and sell trade or trade by batter .

I love your curves you like my money

I do you well in bed and that is good enough

You love a fine guy and I'm a TDH then we strike a deal called marriage if I like you too...simple..forget love.

I think we humans interpreted love wrongly, like its some kinda magical feeling, well its not. there's always a desire that goes before the feeling. but there is a feeling we call love. that's why if you were a hopeless romantic, you most likely will not be settling for the cutest or richest person you get.

Toks2008:
You keep impressing me.

Those who i can say are capable of loving are the teenagers who mostly have pure hearts and that is why you see a girl of 17 ready to elope with a lover who can't even feed himself but then if you ask her why she "loves" the guy she will still lame things like.."he is fine, tall, has teddy and 6packs" ...

As long as there is a reason for loving then forget those 4 letter words.

This is why I pity ladies who think a man truly loves them because they propose marriage to them

Its either he loves your curves, your outward beauty, your manners, your cooking ability or sexual prowess..but take that thing away from him and watch him change or worse still as soon as he has gotten enough of whatever endeared him to you he will start hunting for a new one.

haha, I will like to comment on this....but then again maybe I'll just wait until the day a man complains that women only come for money and leave when they don't have.

interesting thread by the way

daviddagreat:
not taking sides buh


your response really gat me tripping

thanks! @bolded, you don't have to

Genycharl:
wow..... nice reply

thanks, I just get tired of the some men think

cyrilamx:
stop the pretence. Men r helping you out to ease your itching part or u all want to go lesbo? If Les are tired of the lies...they still need tool like that of men to help out. Remember the dildos re fashioned after men's. Again we approaching the prophecy of how 7 women will beg a
Man to bear his name just to remove the reproach they facing....

hahaha this interesting, see how I bring the babies out of all your kind

cyrilamx:
you again? Always Suffering from transfer aggression. Women are much more at the receiving end owing to age factor when it comes to break up. Women mostly set high standard for any wud be guy in their lives..
This burg down to their insatiate materialistic appetite. I have seen most women regret later in life after dumping guys for material reasons only to turn Mary Amaka as time runs out...

no jerk that's were you're wrong, the aggression wasn't transferred. it was rightly directed. and if you really believe women suffer most from this why don't y'all just leave them alone

...by the way @you again, have we met before

I tire oo, ....you be no owe them anything.

na wa oo. what's with this Kenya and Nigeria stuff enh

numericalguy:
Sorry you didn't measure up. I couldn't touch a crass ho like you even with a long pole. Besides, I don't do oloshos. Your application is hereby declined.

hehehe, you wish I even applied. don't worry I'll consider you if I do get tired. talk about hoes, that would be impersonation, they only belong in your family.

numericalguy:
Tired and washed out spinster spotted.

nope, if I was tired I'll settle for your kind

mtchww lubish, because you meet a tired spinster that settled for you?? Abi. since you are not right for her she for use shame marry you abi??

mtchww lubish, because you meet a tired spinster that settled for you?? Abi. if you are not right for her she for use shame marry you abi??

oh dear! Ghanaians show Nigerians say them self get mouth! but if Mark come enter Ghana change am for them

cyrilamx:
dressing attractive doesn't connote stupidity. There are corporate trousers if you must wear one, not tight-fitted wears that reveals all your God-endowed assests meant for your hubby alone. One thing you ladies are quick to forget is that the female body is richly endowed by God that when used appropriately in matrimony, it is a thing of blessing. There is no reward in dressing to kill- killing your fellow man spiritually. The greatest regret will be after our sojourn in this life, confronted with irrefutable accusation of many we led astray with our life-styles. One can be fashionable and not be nude or seductress...they are two different angles.

yea; assuming these men were talking about corporate wears when they explain why they Carry other girls

this is just one of the lies men are quick to tell, claiming they prefer girls without makeups. whereas that lady would attract more men wearing that makeup than she probably did her whole life. Anyway....

cyrilamx:
why is it that women always have problems with dressing appropriately? Why would any sane lady call herself Christ like and yet no better than a harlot in what she put on even in public institutions like universities and even religious places? A woman can still be beautiful and attractive without deliberately being seductive by putting on tight-fitted trousers and revealing wears today in streets and public institutions, one can't differentiate a married lady from single because both are in competition to outdo the other. It disgusting and shame to womanhood that some people endorse this abnormalities with their calling for the head of new DG even when they knew the circular was passed in 2008. Ironically these women will be the first to scream harassment when they are being address with the way they are dressed. May God not let our dressings make others to sin.

ehen?? men will say their women should dress attractive, women will be advised to dress looking young so that their never satisfied husband won't look outside. and then men will come back and complain about it. it is a wa oo

funny.. Nigerians make a joke out of everything.

but somehow that hasn't stopped the hate and continuous trying to use and dupe each other. I wish we could actually be as happy as we like to look.

Alright

finalboss:
NairalandEFCC1 why you nor put LUVu2 and Xendra ... urrgh

Loll... Idiot.

so you like this monicker??

atinukes5:
Pls I need ur candid advice, my hubby hardly stays at home, no weekends, no quality time with the family, whenever I confronts him he says work, to earn money, but he hardly ever takes 20% of the household expenses. just that he tries to come home b4 9pm everyday and leave as soon as 7 am or even b4 then. I am a loyal wife , with 2 kids dedicated,always supports my family financially n other wise. help i want his undivided attention. whenever I look worried he feels happy, so now what I want is to make him think am happy, pls how do I go about it. in d house even though am not happy. thank you

what kind of music do you like? do you know how to sing? can you dance? have your own fun around the house even while working? do you know how to smile when you greet? happy or not? all this not in a looking for trouble way o, but in a way that says i-am-trying-to-enjoy-myself. you can learn to actually be happy. I understand some people are sadists and you can't wait for such to be responsible for your happiness, heck you can't let anyone be responsible for your happiness. Take charge!

OK fire away, they'll soon come and learn, meanwhile they are all viewing mark zuckerberg in Nigeria thread.

freecocoa:
Thanks love, it's not been easy, if I tell you what I've had to face eh, you'll may not believe it.

40 years and still counting, baba god noni.

OK on a very serious note, you must be very strong to have waited this long, it isn't the easiest thing to do.

freecocoa:
The comparison makes no sense whatsoever, sex is a natural thing between two people, therefore shouldn't even be a buying or selling thing in the first place.

You fail to get the point still, it is not against a woman's ideals to have sex, y'all hypocrites only try to twist it to seem so and thank the good lawd women ain't buying that horseshit no more. What I was saying is that, it's a man and a woman that has sex, so maybe if the men said no to sex too, virgins will be everywhere, quite simple.

Yea right, you'll marry a secondary virgin, well unless you marry a naive minor, unexposed mgbeke girl still living in the 19th century or an outright f00lish woman who remained chaste for one man that's been about the block, in hope to get some reward or whatever, but if you are a virgin yourself, then I take it all back cos only a virgin deserves another virgin.

Btw, did I mention I was a virgin?

you just did.. kudos

I no understand, are they for realllll!!

hmm... and later they be looking for virgins ...annoying

ganie:
To me I think the reason why we don't have virgins like it used to is the society.Back in the days our mothers marry very early say 16,17,18 years, but this days a lady is early if she marries at 27 and before this age she would have been pressured into having sex say by peers,social media,her hormones and also the GUYS. My ex lost her virginity to me even when she has told me right from the start that she wants to keep it till her wedding day and which I accepted only for her to beg me for sex in our third year together because she always have menstrual pains and she said the cause of it is because she is a virgin as she was told by friends. My own point.

oh dear! see how them take lie get this one down, a lot of girls keep falling fall lies till date. how can they marry as virgins

lmao... I wanted to call BS when I got to no2 but now I get the humour


that last point is very true, they just need your family name and tribe, and investigating begins.