Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 6:00pm On May 12, 2023 |
gare2510: Have you tried having a relative, your mother or sisters or even someone from his side come help out? Most men don'tlike outsiders taking care of their children. Again at this time you need to optimize your time do only what is necessary- washing machine vs manual, cook once a week, reduce number of times you clean the house (na person wen dey alive dey live for clean house). Get him involved in looking after the kids when he comes from work then you use the opportunity to sleep, prepare their food before that time. thank u |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 9:51pm On May 10, 2023 |
G00DHardDick: Your husband will soon replace you soon. Keep becoming a parasite to him. If you have sense you Will invite your mother over. Nag too much and get replaced ASAP! hey I'm not a parasite, I'm a human being. I had a job but I had to quit to look after his kids... |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 9:45pm On May 10, 2023 |
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Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 5:34pm On May 10, 2023 |
Oju4190: Three kids and u are complaining.....U are just been lazy.....U want to leave ur children to ur househelp and u will b doing what? Gossiping abi. Nonsense you're getting it all wrong .. trust me i really try my best its not been easy.. most especially as it affects my health |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 3:07pm On May 10, 2023 |
SIRTee15: Why don't u get some cleaners, they will come, clean and go...maybe 4 times per week. I'll consider it thanks |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 3:06pm On May 10, 2023 |
Jashub: Get a house help and see how easily your husband will replace you. Nonsense pls I'll like to hear ur opinion, no offence I'm sure you'll hv one or two |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 3:02pm On May 10, 2023 |
grandstar: Xerona
It is sad that there are men who don't realize that taking of a baby in itself is a full time job.
It is best you bring this matter up with your parents and in-laws. Let them be the ones to talk sense to your husband.
I would also suggested if you could, abandon the kids with your husband for a full day and let him see what you face. Hin eye go clear. I don't think it's a good idea, as I dont like involving my family pple in my marriage, I really thought we would be able to sort it out ourselves |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 2:58pm On May 10, 2023 |
Bringbackmandat: now I know. You are the types that don't relate well with your husband family. not exactly, most of them are married on in school |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 2:42pm On May 10, 2023 |
slowice: Talk to him about bringing in your sister or someone you trust. i don't have any younger sister, or any relative that's available at the moment....my Sis was planning to get someone for me from Jos cos I'm currently based in Abuja |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 2:39pm On May 10, 2023 |
Sanchez01: What are his reasons if any? How about you suggest a non live-in help; someone who comes and goes? he doesnt just want a stranger in his house... a non live-in house help wouldn't do much as i would still be the one to stay up most of the night. |
Family › Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 2:37pm On May 10, 2023 |
Rayban25: House helps usually come with problems especially in these times you dont know who you're Bringing around your kids so I can understand your husband
But I suggest you plead with him to maybe invite your mother to help you with the kids (NOT YOUR SISTER INCASE YOU HAVE ONE) I have considered all of the above... the truth is my mom has stroke and it affected her legs she's been taken care of, also I dont hv any family relative that can help ATM |
Family › My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona(op): 1:23pm On May 10, 2023 |
Hello Nairalanders, there is an issue at hand. I have two kids and recently gave birth to the third few months ago. It's been really difficult for me since I practically do most of the house chores... my husband is hardly around because of work.
I came down with this strange disturbing headache that doesnt go away. So I went to see a doctor and she said the headache was as a result of postpartum stress and lack of sleep.
The truth is I'm awake most of the time because of the baby or when I'm attending to other household matter. I haven't had a good sleep in a long while. So when the doctor suggested I get a house help so I can find time and sleep when shes holding the baby. I knew she she was on point. But the problem is my husband, he wouldn't hear of it, he doesn't want us to get any househelp...
I even pleaded with him and made him see reasons why I needed help, but he refused... I'm beginning to think I ended up with the wrong person because I dont understand why anyone would deliberately want to subject their wife to this kind of torture.
My kids are age 5, 2 and 3 months... I go to the market, cook, clean, i even do school run too...He's a contractor and will be travelling back to work next week.. yet he doesn't want me to get help... |
Celebrities › Re: P-Square: Peter & Paul Okoye Celebrate 41st Birthday Today by Xerona: 6:41am On Nov 19, 2022 |
post=118505654: [b][/b] You are always welcome. Hope your darling Angel enjoyed her day?! God bless you all. sure she did, even though the barbeque fish and chicken didn't arrive as expected  |
Celebrities › Re: P-Square: Peter & Paul Okoye Celebrate 41st Birthday Today by Xerona: 9:36pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: P-Square: Peter & Paul Okoye Celebrate 41st Birthday Today by Xerona: 9:13am On Nov 18, 2022 |
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Education › Re: Am Having Issues With Wes by Xerona: 10:10pm On Nov 07, 2022 |
I'm trying to make payment to WES it has been unsuccessful... who can help me. Pls recommend any trusted fellow. Thanks |
Health › How Accurate Are Ultrasound For Genders by Xerona(op): 11:20pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Hello everyone, I had my first scan today at 18 weeks for my third pregnancy. I have two lovely girls and seriously praying for a boy. But while the sonographer was on it she told me I'm going to have a baby girl and when I asked how sure she was, she said 105%. I felt a bit unhappy cos I really wanted a boy. So I'll like to know if anyone have had a similar experience but ended up with the opposite gender. I plan to repeat the scan maybe at 20 weeks, I'm really hoping a miracle happens. |
Autos › Re: Clean 2008 Honda For Sale (Evil Spirit) by Xerona(op): 12:07pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Xerona: Still Available Still available and slightly Negotiable |
Autos › Re: Clean 2008 Honda For Sale (Evil Spirit) by Xerona(op): 12:07pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Xerona: I'll send the interior pics to interested buyers as I can post alot of pics here on nairaland Still Available |
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Autos › Clean 2008 Honda For Sale (Evil Spirit) by Xerona(op): 11:14am On Jun 08, 2022*. Modified: 1:13pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
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Pets › Re: Female German Shepard Purebreed by Xerona: 8:30pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
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Pets › Re: Is It A Crime To Keep A Female Dog by Xerona: 10:34am On Feb 09, 2020 |
IamAnderson: it is in some parts of port Harcourt That's a bit strange |
Pets › Re: Is It A Crime To Keep A Female Dog by Xerona: 4:21pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
sleekyonyx: Hi every one, I recently stumbled on this sign post Along Rukpokwu Road, market Junction portharcourt. It clearly states “Say no to female dog” it's not a crime, who said it is? |
Health › Re: How Can Someone Cure Staphylococcus Auerus Naturally by Xerona: 2:27pm On Feb 02, 2020 |
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Health › Re: How I Got Totally Cured From Ulcer by Xerona(op): 2:27pm On Feb 02, 2020 |
Xerona: For 12 years I battled with peptic ulcer The ulcer became more serious over time. At a point, i was admitted in the Hospital Then placed on oral medication for 6 wks. All that didn't worked. During my service year that was in 2016, I met a pharmacist who told me to try ulcer combination treatment. He assured me it was going to heal the wound. I decided to give it a try. That didn't work too. At this point i gave up totally and kept managing the ulcer like that. Fast forward to 2018. A friend of mine told me about one man who cured her Aunt ulcer. But she didn't know how to get the man's contact. But luckily for us we got the man's contact through her Aunt, I called him immediately, and we booked an appointment to see. The man came down to ph from Uyo. I paid for his hotel accommodation. He briefed me about the treatment. He said it was a 10 days Orthodox treatment. And after that ulcer will be history. I was still in doubt but decided to go ahead with the treatment. The first three days of treatment was injection and drugs on empty stomach, and before he concluded the treatment I noticed all the ulcer symptoms vanished I could t believe my eyes. And since then I've never experienced any burning or excruciating pain. It's been over a year now. That's how I got cured from ulcer. So I thought I should share this testimony. Here's my phone number 08112510012 https://www.nairaland.com/5643496/how-got-totally-cured-ulcer#85985189 |
Health › Re: How Can Someone Cure Staphylococcus Auerus Naturally by Xerona: 2:19pm On Feb 02, 2020 |
[quote author=CSTR2 post=86300470]Please, How exactly did you cure your ulcer? [/quotehttps://www.nairaland.com/5643496/how-got-totally-cured-ulcer#85985189 |
Health › Re: . by Xerona: 8:02am On Feb 02, 2020 |
Oblivion1: I'll try to keep this short as possible. I've been sick for the past 5 years and I've tried almost everything but I'm still not fine. I was told I had staphylococcus areus four years back, I took antibiotics and all kinds of herbal medicines. Antibiotics didn't work at all but herbal suppressed the symptoms. I went from one hospital to the other but no solution, some doctors even made me look stupid saying that staph is not an infection, that we have them in our nostrils, skin and all. I went from one spiritual house to another, did all sorts of things I never thought that would do in my life, still no solution. I've done all kinds of test and they all came negative, did blood culture and urine test again, few months ago, staph was no longer detected. I've also received two therapies for depression from two different hospitals but I still feel the same way. A doctor even called me a negative person. Some people no longer believe me, they say I don't look skinny and sick. I feel like I've exhausted all my options and nothing is working. I've spent all I have plus what my friends contributed for me, I don't even know what to say to them anymore
What I feel - I feel very very tired and weak, I have joint pains all over my body, internal heat, chest congestion, I'm always dizzy and I've being experiencing catarrh for like 9 months straight now
Please is there anyone who might have any knowledge about what's wrong with me. I need your advice please or is it that I'm going crazy? Judge me all you want. call this man 08112510012 |