burp18:
The truth they say is bitter.

This ethnic politics wey everybody don dey play since inception of nigeria, e reach obi turn una say na him invent am. You guys should try harder. Who has played for religious and eth ic politcs more than Buhari, Tinubu who called Igbos Okoro at the heat of a previous election, MC oluomo who asked Igbos to stay at home or the full people of Lagos who decided to not vote for GRV because his mother is Igbo? You lots are sick.

Femmyfamous4u:
DSS has the right for national security.

Now on what grounds does the dss have to tap Obis phone. He is not under investigation or suspicion of committing a crime.

accordadoga26:
For now

It must happen later.

We are tired of people constituting nuisance in Lagos.

They won't take half of what they dish out in Lagos from any foreigner in their potopoto region.

Mr man. Remove that F from your moniker

No. Its not even abiut the phone submission. Any jobs that insists on submitting your phone is a shitty job.

Bobrisky def buys products because of influencers

CosmicDust:


At least i have parents. And I love them.

My own do not gnash their teeth regretting sponsoring my education to the best universities in the world
They also do not complain about me to my siblings about how i am not fulfillimg my obligation as a kid. Go and sit down.

You are an OBO fan, you always believe everything he says, but he says election was not credible and you start to attack him because it conflicts with your interest, what are you? Lmao!!!

CosmicDust:


Na this kind baßtard go watch him loved ones die then spend big on burial. Greedy evil scum. To hell with you.

Lmao! Go and take care of your parents they need you more than you need nairaland.

Gloriagee:
Please lets keep it real. Her parents invested in her by setting funds aside to pay part of her tuition. Its possible somethings have gone wrong with respect to her expectations but wat happens to communication. Her folks may be civil servants, we dont know. Her mum is so hurt and has refused to speak to her. She can reach out to her, explain whatever is making life hellish to her and get the blessings of a mother.

I cannot speak for other children. I maintain that children need to take care of their parents because their lives stopped when they birthed us. I am that aware. I kmow what parents go through, i have seen the good, bad and uhly in how i was raised as a kid. I still maontain that, that girl is not doing anything wrong. She is already paying fees for another sibling, plus se ding 40k momthly to her parent. What about the boys in the house. What are they doing. If that dirty cosmixdust boy is saying he sends 70k to his parents too, thats 110k, which is very good for monthly feeding atleast. What else do they want from the girl? My salary in naira runs into 8 figures monhly and i still do not see what i use the momey for, if not to pay one bill or the other and the sisters case is not different. Why will a grown ass married man bring this kind of issue here in the first place when he should, as a matter of fact, up hos contribution frok his side and his siblings side if he feels his elder sister is not bringing enough to the table.

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A fool like you will not help your parents but will gladly contribute to their funeral expenses. You are a phelgm. Hope this foolish comment can be leaked to your loved ones so they know the nature of your heart.
If you call me entitled again, thunder will fire you. Did you read me saying i am the beneficiary?[/quote
Bleep you bro you are entitled. If you are not, you wont have opened a thread about this issue. Comig here and claimimg you are loving ok, if you are, you wont even bother if your sister brings money or not. You and your entitled siblings will foot the bills yourselves. Whenever anything cones up in my family, i ask my siblings and if they do not or cannot contribute at the time, i foot the bleeping bills myself. I never hold it against them. My brother is richer than myself, i do not even bother him when it comes to family expenses. My country home was built on my sweat. I did not even bother asking my brother for support. I do not need his money. You are not a man. You think you are but you are not. Entitled mofacka

Gloriagee:
The question is how much does the op give his parents and siblings? How much did the parents contribute to covering her tuition?

Now, assuming there are issues shes facing, wat stops her from opening up to her mum? Ive been in situations where people have had high expectations of me and sometimes the only way out is to confide in them on why their expectations are truly unreasonable.

Make she drop from pedestal abi? Shebi na one italy girl wey her family share money wey she send them use build house, she say she wan come back, them dey tell am male she no come.

Gloriagee:
How bad can she be doing to be sending 40k? Unless she has a drug habit or shopping addiction, she can definitely do better...

Well, we move! That's my approach to life. I have zero expectations and that's putting it mildly. Just remove her from your mind and please don't wish her bad. Take care

How much do you give your own parents? Lets start from there.

CosmicDust:
Here is my story....

I have a 3 siblings and I am at odds with my eldest who is a lady. The way it is, I may never have a conversation with her again.

She was the first person to be invested in by my parents after which I came. Luckily enough, she was able to strike gold in her career and do well for herself. She went abroad for her masters with my parents supporting with half-payment. Unfortunately, whenever it came to family demands and helping the other younger siblings, she has either been negligent or grudgingly does so.

Few years after going abroad, she decided to lockup and sends only 40k home which is supposed to cater for food for a month.
Now parents are retired, the whole family weight falls on my following sibling and I. The youngest one education is on me. Happy she will finish soon. Parents need to be supported in challenging times, one is coping with diabetes and the other is with some challenging issues I can't say here. Their savings are being sapped by their needs to keep living on.

But my so-called elder sister based in Canada despite knowing their condition is silent. She still sends her peanuts, while I and my younger brother who is an upcoming fashion designer do 2X what she does. This aches our parents and sometimes makes our mother cry and our father rant with regret.

A time now came, our mum got admitted in the hospital. Condition was so salient that she had to be hospitalized for weeks. Hospital bill was 450k. The Canada-based first born doing a good job, who was always talking to her, praying with her on phone, etc only sent 100k. We the others did the rest. Glad mum is back at home but her heart is broken and has refused to talk with her. She's been in Canada for 5 years and has refused to even support any of her siblings to come abroad too.

My other siblings say because we all refuse to be dictated to by her is the reason for her behaviour. I don't care. Mine is that if you know that you are going to be useless to a family, let your parents know before hand so the money used in training/feeding you can be used for farming business which will despite bad weather bring returns than on a child who feels is not obligated to support the parents who supported you all through.

All i can see here is an entitled prick of a person. What makes you think she has a good job as you say she does. What also makes you think that she is paid well, as you think? Did you ask how she pays her bills and who she has to run to when she has issues of her own? Why do you think its okay to come here complainimg of your elder sister who is atleast sending something back for your feeding. Habe you seen her payslip to know how much she earns monthly? Do you know if the money she makes monthly is enough for her own monthly expenses? You people in nigeria need to stop having this mentality that people abroad are fine. Very few are doing really fine. Some people make over 12m equivalent in naira and its not enough, if that person has their own family what shpuld they now do? Mind you, your bills do not wait for you abroad, you have to pay it and pay it on time otherwise you get interest on those bills. If she was not even bringing any money in the first place, then its a topic for another day. Please and please!, never feel entitled to another persons money and never assume that anyone owes you anything. Are you not a man? Should you not be making your own money despite all odds? You lots are sickening. I tell you!

Tinubuwins2023e:


His he masturbating?

Fixed

Karlifate:


Don't mind them.

Similarly, politicians & other Elites are busy transacting businesses with each other/one another, but their blind emotional supporters still think they're sworn enemies.

So it has not come to your understanding that there is a pattern here. Beef na for poor people. Triablism na for poor people. If you are tribalist in any form, check your life, you are lacking in many aspects that should term one successful. That is why you see these tribalists on nairaland, i do not try to argue with them again. I am definittely 100% better than 99.9% of them. Anybody that thinks otherwise should send me a dm and lets compare bank income statements from 2022.

Freshfish4:
Nyash and waist, woman!!!! That's all he knows and sings about. I like Davido but I feel he should have gone past singing these kind of songs like an upcoming artist. Burna and Wizz have gone far, now Temz, uncle still dey sing nyash and waist

Listen to the song well, he is not just singing about any woman. He is talking about his woman. I also do not like woman woman song but listen properly, this song transcends that woman narrative

Make person drain that man in red!

mrrandomguy:
Their goal is to Igbonise Yorubaland. What they failed to do during the civil war when they pushed West and were defeated in Ore is what they are attempting to do now with GRV.

1. GRV is 50% Igbo.
2. He married an igbo
3. His children are 75% Ibo, but will still bear the name Rhodes-vivour.
4. His children will now contest to be Governor of Lagos in future while claiming to be Yoruba.
5. Some of his children may be even married to Igbo.

They will do all they can to take over Lagos and their major weapon is inter-tribal marriage.

This same script is playing out in Osun, Ondo, Ekiti, Oyo, Ogun and Yoruba speaking parts of Kwara and Kogi.

In fact I suspect Seun Osewa is 25% Yoruba, 75% Igbo.

The fulani herdsmen killing your parents on tbeir farm lands, you did not say anything about them, its people whp just strive to be great you are after. Ypu go dey alright.

ganisucks:


Where is the conspiracy in reeling out Chinese history.

You are a man. Remove the F from your moniker. I know you.

Brendaniel:
The rich ones are busy marrying Igbo women and embracing Igbos with business and so many other good things, while the poor ones are busy shouting go back to your state.

And you why they remain poor, this is the answer...

I don dey tell then since. Say tribalism na for poor nairalanders.. facts

Tribalosm os for poor nairalanders like you.

Tribalism is for poor people. You never see two rich igbo,yoruba or hausa people hating on eachother because of where they come from. I say it again, tribalism os for poor people. If you make or have any tribal rhetoric, you are poor. In the case of politicans, we all knpw the agenda is to divide and conquer poor people with tribalism

He did not commot any crime. You cannot prosecute him. Make una finish naira marley case then we will take you guys serious!

Person wey him name na yousuf, a muslim, win minister for purely christian nation, them no talk say him be muslim or arab. But in nigeria a half lagosian is not lagosian and called a bastard. His only crime, he tried to run for governor. They will later tell you that no yoruba will be ever allowed to run in the east, and i ask, when and which yoruba don try run for east wey them no allow am? Rotimi Amaechi was governor for 8years, half yoruba and nothing happened. Yorubas are tribalistic in nature. Take it or leave it.

Bruisecruise:
This is still too exorbitant.

A party like Labor party should sell its form for N100,000. At least there must be primary. That way honest people can be allowed to contest on that platform.

I believe that the obidient movement is slowly becoming hijacked by some persons who are getting carried away by the current wave of support and love from the masses.

N15 million naira is way too much. How many honest Nigerians with the true will to govern, can afford that amount of money. That party should actually be for the people and the platform should not become monetised because it defeats the purpose of the “movement” itself per the “no shishi” and no bribery mantra.

If they put it to 100k, its someone lile you that will still say its expensive and it should be free or 10k. The idea of that amount is to raise funds for the functionality of the party and to weed out people like you who will go to buy a 100k form just because its 100k. I have seen anybody that wants a public office that does not command some form of influence or is well to do. They will be able to raise that money if they are serious about contesting for a governorship post

SmartPolician:
Politics is truly a dirty game!

Nigeria politics

TheChameleon:
Leader of organ harvesters.

Ekweremandu that has 40 houses and despite 20 years in Senate, his region is such a pit latrine that indigenes see Lagos as London.

I told one IPOB named OnyeAshuaru defending him that Ekweremandu must have trafficked his brain. No one should be that senseless.

What about your region? Does it have good hospital and can you equate it to joburg or dubai? Useless people, bastards everywhere

yarimo:
South east are not accommodative at all. And if you accomdate them tomorrow they will tell you they own that same place. Very unfortunate people

You for accomodate them for your papa land. Mr accomodative tribe my nyash. Useless oil soup people

Massiveglory:
Ffk the free food merchant has talked his way into uneccessary issues.