sex on a first is simply dumb and it's a disaster waiting to happen. At least show yourself some self control. Aba
To the question, I don't see the lady as cheap, but rather, i see the guy as a retard, because a normal person wouldn't ask or make a move for sex on a first date.
adrainuche: Its been more than a year since I started dating my present GF and money seems to be one of the major problem in our relationship ... There's no need to know which part of Nigeria she's from
Previously I send her money at will or when she asks but I noticed it was becoming too rampant and sometimes recursive, so I decided to place her on monthly allowances .
Another problem has boiled out she says she wants 30k per month so in 12 months (NVM) although to me its a bit better because previously am sure I send her more than 30k a month, ...
So please I want to know if its a good idea for one to place his GF on monthly allowances and how much is ideal I once insisted I slash her monthly allowance to 20 or 15k monthly but she nearly killed me
Some of my friends feel its a bad idea that it seems too formal like as if dating me is a job, she's 21 and am 23 , we are both in university tho I don't study in naija presently ...
Am sure some Elderly Folks may find this insipid am honestly sorry
giving her all your earnings don't matter to me. my major concern is, she ain't appreciating. People who don't appreciate and those with too much love for money don't fit into my life style. This applies for both genders.
This ain't different from soliciting a prostitute. The kinda authority she has, got to prove that you are paying for sex. Literarily, she said "if you don't pay me, no more sex. People with this trait hardly keep one guy. They move from one guy to the other like buhari trekkers moving from state to state.
She's more like auction. If your bid ain't good enough, she goes to the highest bidder.
no, I'm not, I'm a man of steel . Coming from a background, where your dad wasn't present. He goes out when you yet to wake up and comes back when you already asleep, I would not recommend such for anyone. It's so painful, especially on special occasions, like school sports, graduation and etc, where others got their parents to cheer them up, while you being left wishing. I think family should always precede every other things.
buygala: I am not so sure I wanna get married.... The Society's opinion on this can go fucck itself. With all the Variety of women out there for the taking, why would I want to restrict my peniiis and emotional network officially to just one lady? .... Why marry and cheat, when you can remain single and fornicate without disturbance till Kingdom come?
But God seems to have other plans for me. I have a 1-year old son from a university girlfriend.... and the more I think about him, the less selfish I get... also, it doesn't help matters that as much as I hate to admit it, I still have feelings for his mommy, and she still does for me ... and out of my multitude of girlfriends, she is the only one I never got tired of
But whenever I think I think of my son and his mommy, I just get it that as rascally and irresponsible as I am presently, my heart knows that I will definitely have to commit to them in the not too distant future, because I just have this yawning emptiness in me which I know can only be filled when I give my son and his mother the complete home they deserve
Still, whenever I remember that I have to get married, I feel like weeping for a week
SO HELP ME GOD
this is really touching. Now that you still have the chance, you need no further ado, Just drop your ego and do what's right buddy . Go listen to Bruno mars "when I was your man". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ekzHIouo8Q4