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This reeks of "I did my job, please clap for me"

Either you buy a different inverter, or you change all your appliances to DC especially the FAN

Is it okay to go back to an ex?
Right now you may want to if things are not going right for you, but have you forgotten why you broke up in the first place? You may still be friends with the ex, but romantic friendship and platonic friendships are very different and have different emotional pressure. The choice is yours just look at the facts.

Please include any inverter and pressing iron higher than 300W - i am talking from experience.

Same in Nigeria, but it was under the bridge in Lagos.

I would refer you to the good Samaritan parable by Jesus, especially about the religious leaders hurrying to observe his obligation to the detriment of the neighbor in need and let the Holy Spirit guide you.

The everlasting covenant in the Blood of Jesus is bigger than any and every blood covenant both of birth and sex (marriage), stand on this and break every soul-tie manipulation. So even if she is not the one behind the case, every such soul-tie will break.
P.S. A married couple are meant to agree and advance. If you can't agree with her, break that covenant spiritually and eventually it will manifest physically.

If the Bible is not explicit about a matter don't make a doctrine out of it.
Let the Spirit guide you as an individual. But remember it is only in the eyes of God that there is no big sin or small sin, in the eyes of men (especially women) there are many unpardonable sins.

Love is not blind.
First don't marry her until she has a job.
Second let her clear her debt upto say 3/4.
Then explain the need for her to submit her financial management to you until you can trust her. This my involve getting alerts on her account and such.
Apart from that keep assuring her of your love and acceptance because she may be doing this out of a fallout of her assault and molestation.

Don't allow him back home until he transfers the 70k back. Even after that make him responsible by asking (and invariably urself) to start paying rent for staying at home.
Give him more responsibility which would reduce the amount of free time he has.
Finally let ur sister send only half of what she used to send directly to him, and without his knowledge send the balance to u to save for him. You can give him whatever u save (with explanations) when he wants to move out

African parents sha!!! Most always form hard guy, everything na learning/discipline opportunity. But we love and understand them.
it is like when your mum wants to apologize and says have you eaten? Or your dad say come and remove my shoes.

Questions:
What does the scriptures say about honoring ones parents and long life? Remember it is better it is said that you didn't do enough than that you didn't do at all.
What happened to the house he built? Is rent coming in from this? If yes, let your mind be at rest, they can't starve,
Must you tell them you have gotten a new job? I assume you are a bachelor, well dependents usually assume bachelors have no needs.
What is your sibling in University doing to help financially? There is dignity in labor, let find something doing.
Most especially seek God's face.

HOD not always around - this still hasn't changed

The question can also be asked that why is it only sex that THOSE women have to offer? Believe you me, if a woman has more to offer a man in the fulfillment of his destiny than a hole to poke, he will not leave.

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Guys, if you look closely you would see she has one leg slightly smaller than the other, which may be why she wore the leggings. There is absolutely nothing wrong with what she wore, especially if the length of the short makes her uncomfortable.
Social media is not a reason to be mean

Number 12 If you come for my man, I’ll come for your dad and we will go shopping with your fees.
That babe na badoo.

I believe he is set in his ways, and you need to understand him. You mentioned he used to smile with you when dating, but bone with his siblings. maybe he was raised that way. Boning doesn't always mean anger, same thing smiling doesn't always mean happiness

Personal experience: When i got married, i changed my wife's sim with a new phone. And i informed her that whoever calls her from now on, she gave her number to. The question is why would a married woman give her number to an ex?
There is a saying that goes: it is not enough to be doing the right thing, you have to be seen to be doing the right thing.

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Know the difference between your Source and a mere channel. Never mistake a channel (man) as your source (God). Promotion comes from God, and yes He will have to use a man, but the difference between the two men is that the channel God uses come to or calls for you. While the channel you mistake for your source, you go to.

Both are men, but one is like the Pharaoh in Joseph's time and the other like Pharaoh in Moses' time.

Joseph was not found wanting in the work he was called to do, only when it came to going against the grain of his integrity would he not compromise. If you compromise you grow bitter. So check your attitude to see if you are bitter or have joined the pity party.
Believe the dream God has placed within you, sow seeds of kindness and helps, water these seeds with your praise and words, and before you know it, your Source would multiply your seed and give you the desired harvest.

No man can ride you unless you are bent down already. Stand tall, you are not come to be a slave to any man, but are a worker worthy of his hire. So work as unto the Lord and not man. However, remember the most important things: your relationship with God, your health, your family and your posterity. Stop living as if it all ends in the office/church or for that matter on the earth.