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Victory662:
Hi fam.
This is seriously serious.
Sometimes in 2019, I was in a romantic affair with a lady. she's so cute, jovial and friendly. I loved her so dearly. But the problem was that we were just getting along as nobody ever said anything about relationship. So one day I decided to be more explicit. I told her that, it's obvious we are into each other. But considering how most love adventures ends in premium tears in Nigeria that I want to know if she has someone else. Reason is that sometimes some guys do call her when we are together, and she sounds almost romantic as she does when I call her. So I told her: " look, we know in this part of the world, no lady is single; we either pair or snatch. Maybe I've been pairing though but can I snatch now, cos I'm getting serious with you." I told her that I'm very serious and my decision will be from her answer....
She said that she has someone else... That they've been together before we met. But she's not in the state, so that's why we even got along. I asked her if that's her final, she said yes. I asked if she loves him, she said yes. I asked if she sees no future in us, she said her hands are tied, and she's sorry.
I told her I'm fine and my happiness is that she's happy the way things are going but I can't continue with her seeing she has someone else. She laughed it off as if what I said meant nothing.
The next day when she was ready to go, I saw her off but I ended everything in my mind. I deleted her number and pictures.
Two days down, she called and asked why I've not called her. I told her I can't call her again... That she should focus on her relationship and make it work. She said I can't do that, that we can still continue. I told her we can't. I stopped her from coming to my place, I pick her call anytime I want to and just cut her off. When she realized I was serious, she called and said I'm wicked that I just dumped her like a piece of sh*t and it's unfair. I told her I didn't, that she made her choice and she has a fiance to take care of. She said she has no one. Then I told her it's late, cos I've made my decision... We are friends till date though but I don't feel anything for her anymore.

Another one again last year, on 31st December. I asked the same question to another lady, she said again that she has someone. Now I'm moving on and she has started calling. I'm not a clingy person. I only decide to stay or leave without emotional stress.

Reasons why I ask these questions is that humans are tricky I myself inclusive. And I don't snoop into people's private lives. And I tell this to anybody close to me. I believe whatever anybody tells me is the truth, but if I finds out it's lies, I will bounce. No going back. It's better for me to know my place. If I'm she tells me I'm a side man, and I decided to stay, fine; I will act like a side man. than telling me I'm the main man while I'm actually mumu9 on ur contact list.

Is that questions really bad to ask a lady??

Some men don't have time for long story.

The gate of hell will never prevail over the gate of light.

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My cry for Nigeria, Tinubu and Nigerians is like when heavy rain is raining.

Waste of time and resources. G.G.O. is our able governor. God bless G.G.O., God bless Edo state & God Nigeria.

Someone7:
What is wrong with you people? If a white man said this everyone will be shouting "racism".

Nothing is wrong with some of us. I only said the truth.

2O22:
mainland lagos

Is mainland is location? Is it Igando, Ikotun or Iyana Ipaja?

Where in Alimosho?

Kaduna1stson:
you liar!

It is NOT well with Nigeri a.

I am only saying this to console myself and others ooo

Majority of the blacks do not like the truth. We like lies too much.

It is well with Nigeria.

Majority of blacks prefer wastage to development. We keep celebrating the dead while the living are living in abject poverty.

raiszy2k:
What's the kva

No contact and capacity?

fibonacci2526:
The way people slash prices off items here borders on wickedness. Imagine 500k off. SMH.

Selling that old bus for 850k is also wickedness.

Are we in 2023 already? Why can we face development for now?

Well said. The truth is always bitter, but it is good to speak the truth at all times.

I don't know why the world does not like the truth.

If you speak the truth you will die, if you lie you will die. So, it is better we speak the truth & die in peace than to lie & die in pieces.

Amen. More grace to do more to for kingdom expansion.

It is well. We are battling with so many problems in Nigeria.

I will keep praying for good news in Nigeria no matter what.

Well said my G.S.M

Can we ever do any right in this country?

Omooba77:
Good bye Tyrant Trump...
Welcome Boldman Biden...

Lalasticlala
Mynd44....

We should always be careful with our words because they become our world.

Suicide is not the best option. Tell her about God's love for families and homes.

I am still laughing in Idoma language ooo

Better ooo

More grace to do more for humanity

That is his own personal business.