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By the way, is jagal group and Nigerdock the same company?
Who has an answer to this question?

Jagal Group has lots of vacancies on their site
Russelsmith also

Thought about starting a thread on job vacancies in the oil industry, advertised or coded. Despite the fact that downturn is being experienced currently but trust me, companies are gearing up for new staff for 2016 operations. Let me take the lead here. The following companies are advertising now
1...Bourbon Marine - HSE Manager
2...Pacific Drilling - All rig based positions except Roustabout and roughneck
3...Famfa Oil - Deepwater drilling experienced positions
4...Halliburton - Entry level well design

mcyemite:
So…you’re in love with an oldest child, huh?

Oldest children are the best kind of children. (But, of course, I’m biased because I’m an oldest child myself – of five!) If you have the good fortune of loving/dating/marrying/sexing one of us, congrats to you, good sir! You’re in for a fun ride. Just buckle your seat belt first and pay attention to these safety instructions first, will ya?

1. We’re bossy. Like this song, yo. But for real, most oldest children are used to ruling the roost and telling their pep squad of little bro and sis’s what to do and how to do it. This works until said little bro and sis get old enough and put you in your damn place. But still, the bossiness remains.

2. We’re a little entitled. Our parents gave us every opportunity in the world and fawned over us and took more baby photos of us and were more careful the first time around with us, so we’re used to being treated a little special. Life, and all it’s hardships, have a way of chipping away at this perceived “specialness” but still, we got more attention than the rest of our siblings and it’s something that sticks with us forever.

3. We get along great with youngest children. I have no scientific data to back this up, except to say that nearly all my ex-boyfriends (and my current beau) are youngest kids. Maybe they like the authority; who knows?

4. We seek validation. Our parents praised our every move and yes, I know, they really should’ve cut back on that a bit. But as a result of this, we like to be patted on the back and given gold stars when we’ve done something positive. Which leads me to…

5. …We’re over-achievers. We like to be praised, therefore we achieve. It’s almost an addiction. Apologies to younger siblings everywhere who have to live up to their oldest siblings.

6. We take initiative. It’s just what we do. If something needs to be accomplished at work, we will accomplish it – or delegate it to one of our younger siblings (er, employees) to do it for us.

7. We’re great organizers of large groups of people. We can do this with our eyes shut. We’ve been herding our family of sheep into minivans/airplanes/restaurants/etc for YEARS now; corralling people into a semblance of unity should basically be on our resume. In fact, I think it is.

8. We don’t like to share our stuff. Because seriously, our little sisters have been stealing our sweaters/eyeliner/CAR for like, 20 years now and we’re really f*cking over it. Don’t touch our stuff without permission!

I dislike dating first child because of these reasons mentioned. I cant be in any relationship that I am not in control. Once dated a first born and almost gave her beating of her life because of her bossy attitude b4 I broke up with her. I learnt my lesson and moved on. Cant just tolerate these proud first born because of my hot temper

exhibition:
Good!

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Contact me now!

can I get a car from jumia?

bronzegoddess:
Its called "having a good friend". We all need good friends

I hate this girl and her mentality. Girls of nowadays sha..are u people human being at all?

Swissheart:
The first thing is to be yourself.....look beyond d said deafness.You write well...so I think you are quite intelligent.Make friend with her....with dat She must have been convinced of your worth...I am not a fan of toasting by d road side actually. friendship first.Continue being a good guy.Think of getting better..both medically and career wise.

I will toast you on the road soon

A Samsung galaxy duos GT-19082 is on sale currently. This phone is just 3 month old and still in excellent condition. Price is 19,000 and location is Port harcourt. Interested buyers can call me on 08058717720. Hurray!!!!!!!!

Candis009:
I swear I was angry to know you created this topic. .. so you're still dating that Funk of a girl(abi wetin b her name), kaaaiii.. you fall my hand
Did you ever want to be sincerely happy in your life?

seems u know the guy and the girl personally

Skmoda360:
nigga it ain't new I bought samsung grand duos for my babe when we are still together....and she left without a pounce anyway I lent my lesson no girl worth the stress. Almost 98% of them are poo.....operation bleep n run (OBR) is what I'm currently running now.

Operation Bleep and run is the way 4wd...Never invest heavily for any girl except she is your wife..I pity guys when use their school fees or house rent to please a girl..

tai2:
I dey here. This man is not a serious man. He is rationalizing the behavior of the woman at the same time he is not happy with it.

The girl gives him attitude because she knows she has him in the palm of her hand. He is in a bottle, when she says dance left, he dances left, when she says move to the right, he moves.

These type of women when they have their fill of you, they will leave you for a guy who won't do 1/10 of what you do for them.

OP has no liver and no control. The woman has the control and when she is done she will spit him out like worthless orange seeds.

Put your foot down, no matter what she says. If she wants to walk let her walk. Chop two or three babes to gain perspective and see what you're missing. If she wants to go let her go, because your first fear and source of loss of control is that you want to be good so she does not leave.

Women will stay with a man who maltreats them and leave a man who waits on them hand and foot. Does that seem logical to you?

You better behave to stop her misbehaviour. All these pussycat men sef.

This is another brilliant reply for the OP...Wish all men can learn from this reply, ebonyflex and meetfrank replies...The point is that women are not really human being like men..Women are special beings and need to be treated in special ways that these three guys just explained

ebonflex:
I have said this before and I will say it again...

The natural configuration of a relationship between a man and a woman is that the woman loves or cares more about that relationship than the man.
Anything else, is a relationship that won't work or won't be enjoyed by both parties (no matter how long you claim you have been together).
Women don't enjoy it when they can walk over their men.
Men don't enjoy it when they are walked over.
As to WHY women TRY to walk over their men? Leave that matter. First ask why the sky is blue. Some things just are and will always be. Just expect that no matter how nice a girl seems, she will one day test your boundaries and your expectations of her, and you will have to be very rigid about these as these will be the foundation upon which your relationship is built on....not "love".
It is up to YOU as the man to setup this configuration in your relationship and build the life you want.

Again, She must show more care in that relationship than you. Why? because women are naturally more nurturing than men so it balances out in an equal sense. If she is incompatible with the configuration, you must make sure there is this semi-unspoken understanding in the air that "the door is always open for her to leave". You are not being cruel, you are actually giving her freedom. Freedom to leave if your requirements do not connect with the way she intends to live her life with a man....but your requirements remain unchanged. To be changed only if YOU want to, not because a woman wants you to.

What I am saying, feminists will come and fight me for it, as well as their manginas and fellow weak men. But the REALITY of life has proven that what I am saying is the truth if you want to actually enjoy your life on earth with womenfolk.

Personal example: I cannot court a woman who feels it demeaning/ to cook sometimes while visiting her boyfriend (upon all the outings he might take her out to). To me that's just a woman who doesn't give a damn about her man, which is highly unacceptable.

Some men are wise sha! Excellent talk bro...Just perfect

meetfrank:
Bro you are not alone in your experience. All you need to do is to take things easy and allow her to drive the relationship. Pay her by each coin she brings. I bet you ,she will start complaining , then you can give her your conditions. I still believe love is not enough for two persons to marry each other.

I love you reply dude

Please Help Nairaland!!!!!!!!!!!!
My New Samsung grand 1 is just misbehaving.
1. It hangs and slows like snail
2. Applications (Whatsapp, Oilfield review, BBC news, Drilling calculations etc) launched is always very slow and most times doesn't even come up and start asking me to debug or send report
3. The phone is always hanging
4. Battery runs down very fast immediately I turn on my data

Thinking of flashing the phone already (Phone of 1 month though I downloaded lots of useful applications)
Please some advice, what should I do?

I need a fairly used samsung galaxy phone still in excellent conditions and without any fault. I need a samsung galaxy prime model and above up to Galaxy note 4..Anybody tired of his can send me a private message. Mind you, i dont need any galaxy below the prime model Ooo

is the phone still available?

Incase you are in need of this Techno phone in port harcourt, hola at me..The only issue with the phone is the cracked screen. Apart from the screen, no issues..Send me a pm if you need the phone

Dammiedex,
lexus RX 300, Nissan pathfinder 2003...Can any of the listed go for 1.1m..talking about a clean toks

This is what I mean..Suppose I buy a toks in port Harcourt here and I am told it has no customs paper..I am pretty sure customs officer don't move around inside port Harcourt main town

Just wondering if I get a car without paying customs duty. What is the impact

Please I need any of these cars

1...Honda accord latest 2011 model (evil spirit) - Clean naija used
2...Lexus rx 300 - Clean toks
3...Nissan pathfinder 2003 model - clean toks
4...Toyota camry 2008 model - clean naija used
5...Toyota highlander 2009 model - clean naija used

Can any of them go for 1.1 million?
Please reply

eddiebruk: From the look of things OP's proposal wasnt a marriage type, it was the toasting type...like will you be my girlfriend not the wifey proposal

Are u ok at all?
Will u just meet a girl and ask her to be ur wife?
Dude its stage by stage
She have to be my GF first b4 wifey

A whole 1 year of pleading and begging..
1 year of no sex, no toasting but patiently waiting for her
I guess, I did no wrong in moving ahead

Smartie gurl: Permit me to say....you are seriously insane, how would you propose to three ladies at a time, abi na same week and you claim you love/like them all? You sure need an e-slap.

Pls re-read my story
I didn't propose to the three of them at the same time
I propose to the first one years ago and after 1year of "hard to get", I gave her a break
Met the 2nd and 3rd girl differently, 3months later
Its been 2years since I met the first girl...
And my present status is reading
YES YES and YES

Harbosede02: Imagine...wat rubbish...watz dere if a gurl plays hard 2 get??u want an advice xo lemme gv u one,GO STAND IN D MIDDLE OF D ROAD,DON'T LEAVE UNTIL A TRAILER HIT U!!

Maybe u didn't read my story very well
I said the first girl gave me a tough time..at a time, I gave her a break (I thought she had a BF) and decided to meet other girls (who were ready for relationship)..they also gave me hard time but not as the first girl..when the other girls agreed to my proposal, the first girl (who has never called me b4) started called me and apologized

angel TI: id no mind me jare. d guy is probablu seeking attention or i dont know wat to cal his problem. he is confusd cos he opened another thread sayin ' he does not know how to show her love'

No I'm not confused
The two topic are related and real life situation..its d same girl involved
Better u render advice instead of negative comment

Skinni10ne: She didnt say anything? Really? Thats harsh...hmm i dunno but i think u may need to step back and look at your relationship from afar. But keep trying.

And the bastard thing, if you have a child b4 marriage, its okay as long as you both love eachother and are willing to get married. I am not saying you should get her pregnant
lol

I'm old fashioned kinda guy..I don't do pregnancy outside marriage

Terrorist

ximarro: @op, tell her to prove it na

I am planning to implement the jealousy strategy ie bringing one of my georgeous female cousins into my house to make her jealous and appreciate me better

alutacontinua: It's 2 things involved here: it's either she's saying the truth or it's the other way round. Either ways, you're on a long thing!

Pls what s d oda way round?
Explain

Gudintent: Pls lay down your life for her

Even catch a grenade for her

If that don't kill ya, throw yourself on the train line for her

Oh my bad that is just lyrics to a song

As u were

I can only die for her if she will die with me because bad guys full everywher

Skinni10ne: 1. Write her an email or letter stating how you feel
2. Make a CD or Ask her to listen to a song that says how u feel
3. Buy something small that both of you can have to remind yourselves of eachother

*shrugs* lol tbh just keep doing what u do eventually she will know you love her. She may have been hurt b4 and can't trust easily

Already composed a lyric of song for her..she read it and didn't say anything.
I am planning on buying a keyboard/piano in my house soon and composing a song for her