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Richfella: Very funny. Just waking from my 'beauty-sleep'. There are so many things I could say to you. But alas, you're so far away (in your thinking on this).

An they could on serve to polarize you further.

U r a slut I guess

I believe a woman that comes into your life shouldn't block your vision against your siblings and foster family
She should understand where you are coming from and where you are heading to
Sure sign she is the correct better half
Marriage shouldnt stop a man from achieving his dreams

carmelion: Hey dolls,and of course the guys,a nice sunday to you!

I had a discussion with my friend yesterday and he told me something;which on a closer observation,I discovered that it is true.

I observed that,a single lady(who is not a student) living alone has slimmer chances of getting married,than a single lady living with a family or an elderly person.

My friend said that guys might come around and make friends with you but would not take you home to see his people.

When a single lady is staying alone,people see her as irresponsible,a love peddler e.t.c. Nobody cares why you re staying alone ,they just go ahead and draw their conclusion that even your rent was paid for,by a sugar daddy.....hmmmm.

Please house,what is your take on this?

Sound true especially if the lady isn't doing any official work
If the lady is working in a good company and staying alone, there is a good chance that she would be taken advantaged off..
My candid advice is for ladies to remain with their parents or relations even while working

@OP and fellow supporters
It is either you guys are male prostitutes or cassanova
What did the scriptures say about fornication
Fornication is bad whether you get 20000 proposals and bribe per day or not
I don't know what human beings are turning into nowadays
We all should live our life according to Jesus and the scriptures
Girls follow the example of Blessed Virgin mary. I am very positive mary got much proposals per day but she turned everything down even sex from Joseph
We should stop promoting sex and promiscuity before marriage because there is a punishment for all those who defile their body
Simple

carmelion: Xyoug,I don't know what you ve been through in the past but I want you to know that every Woman is not the same.

Obviously,you did not read the story completely.You missed the part where I said,that those things(a ride & a house )are not too much for him to afford.But he wants his business to grow first which is a wise decision.

I don't know if you read the part where I said he has been outside the Nigerian for a long time,he just came. Back back 3yrs.Let me tell you I have seen some of his pictures he took there.The type of ride he had then,has not be seen in Nigeria(because of our road).He sold most things and came to home to invest.His business is still at its begining stage but I know he will make it.

Mr Xyoung,there is more to marriage than money.As for this your view about women and material things,just pray to your God for "your own woman".The wrong ladies would stop coming your way.



Yes I mentioned all that I did on Valentines Day.Telling you about my friend and her boyfriend is story for another day,they have been together for 5 solid years.Samsung galaxy tab was just for the sake of Vals gift.He has done more than that in the past

Did you just say confirmation?That means it should either be negative or positve right?It is negative.Hope we are good now?

Nice 1 carmelion
Reasonable People like you constitute just 1percent of the Nigerian girl population
Thanks

carmelion: Xyoug,I don't know what you ve been through in the past but I want you to know that every Woman is not the same.

Obviously,you did not read the story completely.You missed the part where I said,that those things(a ride & a house )are not too much for him to afford.But he wants his business to grow first which is a wise decision.

I don't know if you read the part where I said he has been outside the Nigerian for a long time,he just came. Back back 3yrs.Let me tell you I have seen some of his pictures he took there.The type of ride he had then,has not be seen in Nigeria(because of our road).He sold most things and came to home to invest.His business is still at its begining stage but I know he will make it.

Mr Xyoung,there is more to marriage than money.As for this your view about women and material things,just pray to your God for "your own woman".The wrong ladies would stop coming your way.



Yes I mentioned all that I did on Valentines Day.Telling you about my friend and her boyfriend is story for another day,they have been together for 5 solid years.Samsung galaxy tab was just for the sake of Vals gift.He has done more than that in the past

Did you just say confirmation?That means it should either be negative or positve right?It is negative.Hope we are good now?

Nice 1 carmelion
Reasonable People like you constitute just 1percent of the Nigerian girl population
Thanks

carmelion: Xyoug,I don't know what you ve been through in the past but I want you to know that every Woman is not the same.

Obviously,you did not read the story completely.You missed the part where I said,that those things(a ride & a house )are not too much for him to afford.But he wants his business to grow first which is a wise decision.

I don't know if you read the part where I said he has been outside the Nigerian for a long time,he just came. Back back 3yrs.Let me tell you I have seen some of his pictures he took there.The type of ride he had then,has not be seen in Nigeria(because of our road).He sold most things and came to home to invest.His business is still at its begining stage but I know he will make it.

Mr Xyoung,there is more to marriage than money.As for this your view about women and material things,just pray to your God for "your own woman".The wrong ladies would stop coming your way.



Yes I mentioned all that I did on Valentines Day.Telling you about my friend and her boyfriend is story for another day,they have been together for 5 solid years.Samsung galaxy tab was just for the sake of Vals gift.He has done more than that in the past

Did you just say confirmation?That means it should either be negative or positve right?It is negative.Hope we are good now?

Nice 1 carmelion
Reasonable People like you constitute just 1percent of the Nigerian girl population
Thanks

carmelion: Good morning Dolls, hope you had fun yesterday?(sensibly of course).Mine was splendid,I attended one of my friends court wedding yesterday.

A wedding on a Valentines day,believe me ,it was a romantic sight to behold. I mean the whole love in the air,gooosh!,I was feeling her joor>3

I look forward to mine

It was Valentine ,dolls,so I made sure I showed myself some love!!!.I ended up buying one item from the list and another random thing(a beautiful dress!).It is turquoise blue in colour and I know how well it blends with my complexion. It is a sleeveless gown with a golden belt(So happy). I also got a set makeup brush and different colours of eye shadow.My customer gave me a pepper red nail polish as a Val's gift

These things might not mean much to someone else,but you know what?,it was all about me(x10000).This means so much to me. Yes I was selfish yesterday,duuuurh.

One of my friends showed me what her boyfriend bought for her(a samsung galaxy tab).I was so happy for her. My office also organised a small get together yesterday, so there was no dull moment for me yesterday.

I promised to upload the pictures of what I got for myself so here it is.

How did you spend yours?

Remember you just mentioned on this copy that your friend bf bought her a samsung galaxy tab. Really a great highlight of the valentine. This is in addition to my contribution upward.
@carmelion...I like the way you put things here.. You are a real woman
But I want you dolls to confirm this statement for me.
I Just need a confirmation that this is what Nigerian girls believe
Jus a confirmation of this
"There is no time for guys with prospect, we need guys with present"

carmelion: While thinking about it,I might just start liking him.Some cases are like that.Besides,I felt I needed to work on my self ,I mean I needed to let MY GUARD DOWN.Its been up for so long due to the emotional problems I have been through.

I felt maybe the problem was coming from me,so I did not want to push him away like that.I am flawed in so many ways but wicked? C'mon ,what would I gain?

@cameldoll
Sorry to look at ur proposal from another angle
I think one of the reasons you didn't feel any spark is because of his financial status ie no car, no house etc
The thing is that girls don't like saying the truth but if this so-called guy had a prado and a nice house with styles, I think you will have a rethink if even the rush situation is more pressurised. Offcourse I know all the dolls will wanna pick a fight with me here but let the truth be said, you refused his proposal because you think (girls always think) that a better, richer and more stylish person will come
Sorry I don't mean any disrespect to you camelion
JUST MY HUMBLE OPINION

hafsatbaby: My boyfriend is loving and fit and he's brilliant in bed.
I doubt he would love me as much if he knew that I'd slept with his brother and then I had sex with his dad.
I'm 23 and I work for an insurance broker. I look prim at work but there's really a wild girl inside. Sex is a really big thing in my life but I've always struggled with relationships. I get bored with most guys pretty quickly.
Then I met my boyfriend and he's something else. He's 25 and a builder. He's gorgeous, brilliant to talk to and fit in the bedroom as well. He knows just what to do to keep the sex fizzing and hot.
Then I met his brother.
It was at a friend's party and the alcohol was flowing fast. He's two years older than my boyfriend and looks a lot like him, just a little bit taller and wider.
My boyfriend got bored and went home. He left me behind with his bro.
We were soon flirting like mad and I wondered if he was a god in the bedroom as well. Only one way to find out!
I led him upstairs and we found somewhere quiet. We were at it like rabbits as soon as we fell on the bed.
It was only a quickie but he was up there with the best that I've had. As soon as we'd finished the guilt hit me hard.
I said we were drunk and that it never should have happened. He agreed and we left it at that. I put it out of my mind.
Then I met his dad. He's 52 and a widower. He looks like his sons. As soon as I saw him I couldn't help wondering maybe it wasn't just the blue smiley eyes that this family shared. I wanted to try him in bed.
My boyfriend took me to visit his dad for his birthday. We went out for a meal and then we went back to his house for a drink. By the end of the night I was aching for him.
My boyfriend had had a bit too much to drink and went off to bed. I stayed downstairs with his dad.
In the end he picked up on my hints and I got what I wanted at last. Yes, it was awesome but so was the guilt that came next. I made my excuses and joined my boyfriend in bed. We kissed and he said that he loved me.
My boyfriend is really the man of my dreams. I know that I'll love him forever but I'm scared he'll find out what I did. And I'm worried that I'll be unfaithful again.

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/deidre/4325839/Deidre-Daily-Drama-I-slept-with-my-boyfriends-brother-and-then-bedded-his-dad-too.html

Have you seen his grandfather and uncles?
I suggest you hit all of them so u get the F-U-C-K trophy
Mumumum ashawo

[quote author=Prebaby.G.]I have many boyfriends some months ago, which i think there's a gain in keeping boyfriend meanwhile, i started dating with each of them one by one wanting to know who's the best among them nat knowing that all boys are the same. Each day i date with one of them what i will start hearing is that " he needs sex" i so much become anonyed, all dis sex things makes me to broke my relationship with each of them so that i can save my virginity to my dream husband. And i later realised that as for me being single now is the best than loosing my virginity to dis way ward boys. My fellow girls be careful of whom to date with!!![/quote]From this post, the english suggest you are illiterate. Your priority should be attending a secondary school and then university.
I have reasons to believe you are still in the village. How did you even have access to Internet (nairaland). Get yourself education and stop chasing villagers
Goooossssshhhh

oratileb: A woman meets a man she falls in love he also pretend to have fallen in love as time goes a man cheats she forgives he miss treat her she says its a mistake and she forgives then he chaet again she forgives eventually she gets tired of all the bullshit and she start living her life in the same relationship she cannot leave cause she is inlove with you and you are making her the beast that you cannot handle and then yo start calling her names but you forget that you got her to that position.......*true story*

What is 'chaet'
Did you attend night school?

loffers: Nt really new. Glad to be back afta 4yrs

Time to suspend you for good

Sweetlipkiss: New here and i want a welcome party frm u guys.

And you will get nothing
We nairaland is not a charity organisation so kindly look elsewhere

mylove4u289: Am new here pls welcom meeee

Oh pls you are not welcome here
We doont want lovepedlers here

KINGwax: Hope u are standin on the main road? If yes, pls keep standin

WawaaaaaaaAaa

@cameliondolls
Pls answer my pending questions

natkel1: Hey I'm new here!

Wassap?

my candid advice is to ask the three girls out
Run a parallel relationship with the three of them
Remember they should never meet

From my little experience, i observed that ladies tend to believe a guys 'i love you' eye signal than saying it with your mouth
I mean when you see a lady you really like, its better (with High success rate) to make eye to eye contact with her several times than rush up to her to tell her how you feel about her
Seems love travels like speed of light instead of speed of sound
I stand to be corrected

Revolva: Haa all the ashewos in a hotel near my house are grabbin guys around for bonanza sex oo!! Some even ran bare chest ...wow na carnival ooo

Inbox location asap
What is ur bearing?? Need to carry at least 3 of them

[quote author=Didi_8]We are on a drillship. The celebration here is crazy. No beer but boys are talking anything that gets into their mouths. But nobody dares talk anything negative about THE SUPER EAGLES. As far as we are concerned THE SUPER EAGLES ARE THE CHAMPIONS OF AFRICA. Take it or take it.[/quote]Got to be Pacific bora, Seadrill West capella, West polaris, Pacific scirocco or Transocean Mangella..which one?

Abeg wher free ashewo dey for phc??
Some1 answer asap

carmelion: Sorry I lost track of your post.But since you mentioned it,I had to search for it and alas!I found it.

Then I discovered that answering your question would lead to repetition(I am not a fan of that).
The answer to your question is lying somewhere in one of the post on Pages 0-25 of this thread.

You may want to read through/in between the lines.Thank me later

Sorry to divert camelion
How old are you Up to 25
With this your matured mindset, Very positive you are more than that.
The problem with girls is that they become wise too late and that is one of the things pissing guys off..
A guy always want to marry a Young and fertile girl but most young and fertile don't have matured (wifelike) attitude..You get my point and start behaving matured when they approach 30 and by then the beauty is gone. Offcourse beauty is one of the attractive force of a woman

Sweetlemon: Poster God bless you! I tell you, although it can be quite fun sometimes, at other times, I wish, despeartely wish I was Just a plain Jane!

I love you sweetlemon

Maya2pretty: @Carmy doll, I honestly cant give love a chance 4 now again till I ave 100% conviction that he's my man #Ilovemyfuturehusband

Hope will you know your future husband?
You only get love by showing love

@carmelion...
You are so rude
How dare you ignore my question I directly to you
Is that how you intend to lead the girlfolks?

Yvete: Leadership skills (as a Sheep-keeper)
Communicative
Great listener (Got a mind of my own so I wanna be heard)
Spiritual - Willing to pray & attend Church regularly
Balanced lifestyle

In my case, he needs to be VERY patient.

Mumu
U think a husband don't have his own mind too?
Mayb u should remb the husband is the head oif the family
U go die as a single except you change dis ur village reasoning

angelhair: Honesty
Kindness
Faithful
Romantic
Fun to be with

Can these five qualities be found in you also?
What do you mean by Romantic, kindness
Expansiate further
Are you also fun to be with or you are the dulling type

Godmother: Godfearing
Focused
Caring
Confident
Tall

I have all 5 qualities you like
Are you still single??

Imagine no1 even welcomed me self
Mtscheeeeeeeeeeeeew

Abeg who know where sweetlemon dey?
I have a serious crush on her
I swear I wan marry that girl
Some1 pls help me with her BB pin or facebook or twitter or 2go or phone no or atm pin or univ CGPA or office add or house address