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czarr:
The truth is that you probably started talking about your future together or about Babies or you wanted to meet his sisters or Family....

But he just wanted a booty call..... Maybe you asked him how many kids he would like to have, or what state he wants to settle down....

Or you want to introduce him to your friends or family...where you pestering him to go to church or save money?....

he probably likes you and may have even grown to love and marry you if you have been chill and let him push things forward himself....

That's assuming you did all or some of the things I mentioned here...

Men hate pressure. We like to feel in control and not pressurized to early in a relationship, it scares and confuses a guy, even if it's something he plans to do, he may begin to second guess it.

None of that

Preshieben:
Had a similar case
Dude came back and apologized
I just did as if am the only girl in this world

He might come back
And probably give u some excuses
Ignore it and walk away
Give yourself some self respect
You are a pearl

Yes I am

justnock:
Move on, sweetie. When a man loses interest in a lady, he develops cold feet.

Thanks

Young03:
Iam having same issue with my gf

I have not called her for 3 days now ,not that I don't have airtime, I don't like calling people on phone, I prefer chat.

Him ignoring your messages is bad.

Some girls are dating themselves but the don't know.

Have you given him punna ?

No

madridguy:
But you both never dated/court

We did

grandstar:
Was she flirting with him?

She wanted to ask him, why he stopped calling me and why he started ignoring my messages

IamPlato:
Seems He Had Creampied Your Pussy Thats Why It Hurts

When you are done embarrassing yourself, let me know

OlawaleBammie:
Sorry madam, just take it dis way..

Que Sera Sera, what wil b wil b., that is my favourite saying since time immemorial,

if he's urs he wil surely come back to moma no mater his excuse, and if he's not urs den even if u guys are cohabiting, one of u wil stil misbehave, hence the separation.

Just cool ursef up, tink less about him, tink more(in fantasy) about who u re yet to meet, and tink about ur proposed future and prospects..doin dis wil make him ur less priority, and achieving this will save u from one nonsense and unworthy emotional trauma..











You dont even know if he's banging one olosho right now.

Thank you very much, really helpful

rottennaija:
Relax, I am a guilty of that too. That's because I am undecided on the individual and wouldn't want to start what I wouldn't finish so that she wouldn't accuse me of deceiving her. Also because I have been really busy, despite knowing and seeing the green light by the girl.

At the end, I'll say, if he wants you, he will return to you.

Thanks man

Nehyooh:
From what you said, you're yet to say YES to this guy right ?
If at all you've started having feelings for him, due to some of the time you had spent together with him, then my advise is that just take things easy with yourself, and focus on your studies. If he comes back for you, fine ! and if he doesn't just move on. It may not be easy but you don't have choice.

Thanks man

OlawaleBammie:
U shouldnt hav deleted the number na, u should hav saved it up on ur gmail before deleting it it from ur contact list.

I was pained

madridguy:
Do you want him back quickly?

I just want an explanation, if he says it’s over then fine

healthserve:
If he reads your messages and doesn't respond, he doesn't respect you and what you need to work on is developing good healthy sepf respect. See girl, if i call anyone on my line more than twice and they don't reciprocate, they are gone. Everyone arounds me knows this


If this is the case, move on, but keep a free mind. Who knows what he'll come and say happened tomorrow

I’ve moved on, but trust me it hurts

healthserve:
Relax. I'm also this same way 100%. Did you give him towtow to inagine you've been scammed?


Nairaland is famous for destroying relationships without facts. Why ask people whom you don't know to dictate your reality?


Some indoviduals, male and female don't like the burden of close marking. He could be that. Keep a free mind. If he shows up gaain express your displeasure, stamp your feet on the ground and place demands on him to explain his actions.simple

This was really helpful, thanks man

haywire07:
Your matter doesn't have head neither does it have a tail

Why did you reply, if you know you were going to insult me

healthserve:
Relax. I'm also this same way 100%. Did you give him towtow to inagine you've been scammed?


Nairaland is famous for destroying relationships without facts. Why ask people whom you don't know to dictate your reality?

No

madridguy:
Be on standby, your run away guy will be back again.

Nigga legit blocked my brothers girlfriend on WhatsApp, but he doesn’t reply my messages, he just reads them and ignore me

Good day nairalanders
Please pardon my typo errors and I really need an advice. P.s I created another account to hide my identity.

So I met this guy last year, on my way back from where I went to get some stuff I was taking back to school, I was with my brothers girlfriend and this guy offered us a lift which we didn’t decline, he was with his friend. His friend was the owner of the car.
He dropped us off at my house and he collected my contact, and of course I didn’t hear from him for weeks, I couldn’t call because I wasn’t having his number and he only collected mine, so few weeks later he called and said he was very busy, he apologized for not calling back. We moved the convo further on whatsapp and we started chatting on WhatsApp and he asked me out...


I didn’t agree to him at first because he had bad communication skills (like he wasn’t the call type, he said he doesn’t like calling people because he felt he was disturbing them) but we were always chatting on WhatsApp. So I said yes to him, we went out more oftentimes on dates and all...To cut the long story short, suddenly he stopped messaging on WhatsApp, he doesn’t pick my calls, he ignores my messages on WhatsApp, and I just felt I was played by him..

Please guys how do I heal, because I already deleted his numbers from my phone, but the memory of him and the time we spent together still hurts me




Update guys: dude is back, I don’t know if I should cuss him tf out, I hate stupid people

P.s: thanks for the advice guys, really helped, I love you all

Tz should continue pls... I love what i'm seeing

Jerkules:
Ur mates are eating deek

Ur mates are eating money

Hello everyone, incase you will like to know... I will eat rice this morning

Why Jay Z they look them like mumu

I they imagine how south Africa go laugh us

This girl wey don reach 20

Early this morning OP with mumu news

I wish buhari was alive to witness jubril celebrating his birthday

Lala right now

You this OP warn yourself

They still look very young...
Money is good

Jumps out of thread

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