You may be head over heels for this girl, but when a girl says she needs space, what does that even mean? What are you supposed to do?
When a girl says she needs space, it can catch you off guard. What does that mean when you’re dating? And if that moment does come, you assume it’s your fault. You did something to piss her off, you made her run away. And sure, that could be the reason, but it’s not necessarily your fault.

Everyone loves differently, this doesn’t mean that what you did was wrong, it could just mean it wasn’t for her. So, before you go on some journey of self-discovery, wait a minute. Don’t pack your bag just yet.

When a girl says she needs space

Listen, as a woman, I can tell you every woman has their own reason for needing space. Yes, I know, we’re complex. But don’t take it so personally. Instead, figure out why she’s asking for some space and then form an opinion.

It could be something you said or it could be because she’s feeling overwhelmed. If you truly want to find out, ask her. But until then, let’s look at the reasons why she needs space and what you need to do after she tells you this.

#1 She just needs some space. I know this sounds crazy but sometimes, it’s not even as complicated as you think it is. She could be overwhelmed with school, work or have personal issues at home. Taking the time to see you is just too much for her to handle. She’s feeling exhausted and frazzled.

This doesn’t mean she wants to dump you. It doesn’t mean you suck in the bedroom. It just means she needs some time to get things in order. If you know her life is hectic, this is probably the reason why. She’s trying to gain control of her life again. [Read: The 10 things men need to accept about women]

#2 She misses her life before you. Since she’s dated you, she hasn’t gone out with her girlfriends. She hasn’t gone dancing at the clubs, and it’s itching her. She just wants some time on her own to enjoy the things she loves doing.

Now, I’m not saying you’re controlling her, maybe you are, but she’s clearly feeling unable to do the things she used to do when she’s around you. The space she’s asking for is to spend time doing other things she likes.

#3 She’s tired of seeing you all the time. She sees you a lot. Yes, she loves spending time with you, but right now she’s sick of your face. It could be a build up of emotions or she’s irritated by something you did. When a girl says she needs space, sometimes she just wants a couple of days to hang around the house in her PJs without seeing your face.

#4 She’s thinking about ending the relationship. Having sex with someone that you don’t want to be with anymore isn’t fun. Neither is spending time with him. Now, don’t jump right away to this conclusion. If this was the reason, there would have been clear signs prior to this decision. She’s taking space because she wants to think about the relationship and whether breaking it off is a good idea.

#5 Things aren’t changing. Maybe she’s asked you to help around the house thousands of times, yet you don’t do anything. She’s tired of you not changing your behavior. So, she’s asking for space. It looks like she’s doing everything she can to not breakup with you, but you’re not leaving her much choice.
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No one wants to give up on their relationship, but not all relationships can be saved. It’s time to delve into the signs your husband hates you or not.
No one wants to be in a relationship that’s falling apart. And when you start to see the signs your husband hates you, you’re probably wondering if you marriage can even be salvaged. It is time to make a plan of action.

I remember being with my ex and feeling like I truly disliked him. I couldn’t stand listening to him talk, I was always angry with him, and I avoided spending time with him. That wasn’t healthy.

In a healthy relationship, you want to spend time with your partner. You want to surprise them and see them happy. But that wasn’t the case with my relationship. Eventually, the longer we stayed together, the more resentment built in me towards him.

You’re probably wondering why I didn’t dump him right away, and I’m wondering the same thing. Insecurities, the fear of being alone, these thoughts routinely crossed my mind.

How to know the signs your husband hates you

Now, I think hate is a very strong word. I don’t think your husband hates you; it’s a little harsh to assume. But your partner may be feeling disengaged and uninterested in having a relationship with you.

If you feel something is off, take a closer look at what’s happening in your relationship. When did this start? Why do you think it’s happening? Asking yourself these questions can help you get a better idea of what’s going on. Once you answer these questions, then it’s time to see the signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore.

Not feeling the love? Let’s find out why.

#1 He doesn’t show you affection. Some men aren’t affectionate by nature, but that shouldn’t be something new for you if your husband is like that. But if he stopped showing you affection, something is wrong.

Avoiding any physical contact with you is a sign that his feelings are no longer the same. Does this mean he hates you? No. But it does mean he has something on his mind.

#2 He forgets major dates. Whether your birthday or anniversary, he doesn’t remember either. If he just has a bad memory, let it slide. Even I forget important dates. But if he suddenly stops caring about your birthday or anniversary, get a little worried. Sudden behavior change isn’t normal.
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The 2019 Headies Awards took place on Saturday night at the Convention Centre, Eko Hotels and Suites, Lagos State.

It was the 13th edition of the annual event.

Teni and Falz led with three awards, while Burna Boy had two awards for Artiste and Song of the Year categories.

Falz had two awards while Rema won the Next Rated award of the year.

Full list of winners below;

Artiste of the Year: Burna Boy

Best Vocal Female Performance – Teni ‘Uyo Meyo’

Best Street Hop Single – Chinko Ekun ‘Able God’

Best Recording of the Year – Teni ‘Uyo Meyo’

Best Rap Single – Falz ‘Talk’

Best Alternative Song: Johnny Drille ‘Finding Efe’

Best Rap Album: Falz ‘Moral Instruction’

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These are the 20 best compliments for girls that every girl would love to hear. Just remember, when you compliment her to be sincere and respectful.
Nowadays, the best compliments for girls means more than telling her that you think she is pretty. And in case you didn’t know, it has never been catcalling, unwanted touching, or calling her honey or sweetheart.

Truly complimenting a girl means knowing her and knowing what matters to her. Sure she likes to hear that you think her top looks nice, or that red is her color, but a real and genuine compliment is more than that.

Discovering the best compliments for girls

Not just any compliment will be right for all girls. All girls are amazing and strong badasses. In order to compliment a girl the right way, you should know a bit about her.

Compliment her on her skills, talents, strength, voice. There are compliments you can give a girl you barely know for sure, but the more you know about her the more those compliments will mean.

The worst compliments for girls

Yes, yes, we will get to the best compliments for girls. First, I wanted to just throw out some of the worst compliments. These may seem like a good idea, but when you actually break them down, they are far from compliments.

So, please avoid these “compliments,” if you can even really call them that.

#1 The extra compliment. Sure, everyone loves a compliment. Do not overdo it. This just comes across as desperate. If you see a girl at the bar and want to compliment her, say something like, “you are just so stunning I had to come over and introduce myself.” But end it there.

If you start talking and she says she is an entrepreneur, you can compliment her on her dedication. Do not tell her she is beautiful and then tell her she looks great in black, has amazing hair, and perfect eyes. Take it easy.

#2 The inappropriate compliment. “I’m not usually into blondes.” Just no. Saying you are not usually into tall girls, brunettes, or God forbid you mention her race in your “compliment” is a compliment no-go.

You might think you are making her feel like she stands out. Really you are just being an awful human being.

#3 The backhanded compliment. “You’re pretty for being so tall.” “All that makeup is hiding how pretty you are.” If your compliment has a but in it, it is not a compliment.

#4 The sexist compliment. “You’re so different from other girls.” What the f*ck is wrong with other girls? “You’re funny for a pretty girl.” What does that even mean? Speaking to a girl as if she hates other women, how you clearly do is just not okay.

#5 The uninformed compliment. This is one that creeps me out personally. Sure, if a guy comes up to me and says I’m pretty, that is all fine and well. If a guy on a dating app says he loves my second photo, wonderful.

But if a guy reads my dating profile and looks at my five pictures and then continues to tell me how fun I am, how sweet I am, and how we would be great together, I question not only how genuine *fake* he is, but also what are his motives? Do not compliment a girl on something you don’t know anything about.

The best compliments for girls

Now that you know some of the non-compliment compliments to stay away from, here are some golden compliments. These are the best compliments for girls that are likely to get you into a decent conversation and at the very least, a smile.

#1 You make me laugh/smile. This is a simple one for sure, but it works. Telling a girl that she makes you smile is sweet and sincere. It is not over the top or cheesy.

#2 I always have such a great time with you. Again, this may not be the most unique compliment for girls but it is one of the best. Knowing that someone genuinely enjoys spending time with me means so much more than hearing that I am pretty.
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