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LegendaryLover:
my former single-mum neighbor told me how she did skinto with her then bf. He'd do coitus interruptus by cummimg outside. She was naive cos she didn't know much about pre-cum.

she got preggi. was very afraid to do abortion. R/ship ended. The child is about 1yr old now. Her former bobo sends little cash from time to time sha.

24kmagic:
Ok

Rayes3:
I am grateful for life, God's provision, infact everything. God is so faithful.

Bola146:
I have many reasons to be grateful to God Almighty..
My ex I invested in many duped me and left me with nothing this year, I ran into debts ( still paying it), I would have taken my own life since July but God kept me moving, families and friends were no where to be found ( they have warned me to keep away from him but I never listened to them), through all the challenges, I was never sick nor rushed to the hospital despite my bp God has been so faithful to me ....... I give Him all the glory, praise and adoration...

skylegend:
audio money remix

vikithor:
weighty sermons.
sufficient knowledge
discern and choose your course,note that whatever life offers you (single dad,single mum) you can make the best most reasonable opportunities for yourself, just don't be religiously rigid.
you think the bible is a rigid religious book,(for where) it has a record of good,bad,ugly,pleasant, favourable n not favorable weavings of fellow human life experiences, all written for lessons to be drawn from.There is nobody's current life's challenges that wont see a similitude from that Ancient Book of Wisdom, the Bible and discover solutions.

learn how to drive very well,add value to your life

yinkaOdutuyo:
lie lie; your girlfriend go get 1.5M; she go still dey follow you!
oga we no be cow!

anonymuz:
there are single ladies around but just opted for her because of her attitude

Tarabye:
Anty naso your frustration reach

niaralandtopuser:

Originalsly:
Just curious..... is this something you're now finding out in real life?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Ladies without kids deserve the broke guys?

Omar09:
If it's adoption I'm good with it, I can even take kids in the motherless home and pay their education till the graduate, but for a single mom, No!

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmm
Ubunja, about you getting tired of 9-5 job bro you are not alone in this.
Everyday i keep getring tired of wprking because it not easy and with the way things are going in life more and more people will be getting lazier and lazier because working is not just energy draining but not worth it bro.
Our parents worked all there life through the nose but as little to show for it, hence the present generation don't want to tow that line.
Moreover, humans are social animals which means we are been motivated by what we see and alot of people living good life are doing illegal things like scammers, drug pushers, politicians as looters and cooperate thieves calling themselves management staff.
Bro if you are not in that bracket you are sitting on a long thing there by discouraging hard work, integrity, honesty and faithfulness.
I have 2 family members into drug trafficking from brazil and dubai and also into money laundering.
Bro if you see the kind of life the live, buying expensive cars, travelling up and down the globe, floating businesses unlike l looking for loans and saving through my nose, it's tiring and not encouraging jare.
Despite doing courses in abroad running into millions - india, italy etc yet struggling financially.
Bro, if gold digging is the way, pls take it. All way na way.

praz001:
Modify this please
some ladies have actually changed the heart of some men who should be hard working to "Diamond diggers......

ubunja:
exactly bro. If a man has money he must get the best his money can get him. And a man between 35 and 50 with his money has the world as his oyster. He has his pick of the best.

But personally I'm lazy lately. I don't see myself working 9-5 after 3 years from now. I'm already levelling up to snag a well off woman to gold dig . And the easiest targets, at least where I am, are these single mothers. They drive and live in posh townhouse complexes. And are fresh as hell.

emmaodet:
I don't think single moms are in the best position to negotiate good deals in a relationship.
Why will a man that can support himself be serious with a single mom in the first place? When he is in a better position to get a single lady to date?
In life, there is time for everything.
Immediately you pass your prime of negotiation, you will have to deal with whatever comes your way.

Originalsly:
One person you tried to link up with..... and what that one person is looking for in a man you decided that alllll the other female Nairalders are likely to be like her. How that sounds? What happens if the first Nigerian you try to date also has issues... then what?... to Ghana you must go?

@ topic. Distance. From my experience.... the few Nairalanders I chat with... and met..... are all wife material. From my observations.... some of the better babes show up on the better topics while a whole lot of them are silent readers.

ubunja:
The only single mother worth even talking to is a one with a truckload of cash. Your money won't be used to raise another man's sperm product at least. And she must invest in you, in your project or whatever. And you must quickly give her one or two of your own kids. In SA there are plenty of these. A lazy guy can even live off these women. Plus real men are scarce as chicken teeth over here.

Otherwise a single mother earning equal or lower than you is a waste of your precious time and resources. Use them for sex and dump them. Just focus on the kid to flatter her then fvck her. And leave her.

niaralandtopuser:
more reason to believe that marriage is only for better if you didn't cook the story.

in this world, only delude individuals love unconditionally

maak400:
You’re always angry and bitter! Who hurt you anty?!