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kprez:
na evryday dis ashawo dey do birthday

Na your mama teach her ashawo na him make u know say she be ashawo

Happy birthday sweetie.

I don't know why people on nl make so much noise about her age. Look at her face. That the face of a 17year old.

I guess most of u guys are unaccomplished that's why...

Watch as peverts will flood this thread.

mccoy47:
(Matthew 25:40 KJV) And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.
A statement by Jesus himself.

Feeding, clothing, sheltering and helping the poor/needy IS GIVING TO GOD! Which is paying your tithe!

Very true. But I pay tithe to support my church by spreading the gospel

Teens pls focus on building yourselves.
Your teenage years are the most creative.

Stop dating until u are mature enough to marry.

Parents provide for your kids especially your daughters. AT LEAST the basics. A girl should not have to sleep with anyone just to buy sanitary pads, pants and bras...

sunshineV:
mother fucccking idiat. Who call u 4 here naw?

Defender of the universe

Yep defender of womanhood. It's not ok to imply a woman is a whoŕe for speaking about sex.

This is why kids should not date!

Bifrost:
Apart from sex.


I need Love, genuine love.

A very intelligent geh, but make I know pass you small.

A nagging and hopelessly jealous girlfriend. The kind that'll see me talking with a girl outside and come towards us and kiss me and tell me; "Boo, I'm waiting for you in the car, do let's be going".

I don't care if you can't cook, I'm really good with that, but you have to agree to do laundry for me, I dey beg - e dey tire me.

I need emotional support from her.

She should have a career but not the obsession kind.

She should love children cause I do, I plan having 7 of them, 5 girls 2 boys.

If you meet this qualities, mention me. We can begin sontin

What time will a woman have for both 7kids and career?
Between the kids and career which will come first?

Mark u caring for 2 even 1 child is a full time job!
My advise. If u want that many kids WORK EXTREMLY HARD! Don't look for a woman who will contribute financially at leant not in the first 16 to 20years of the marriage.
Cos she need time to raise those SEVEN KIDS before she can build up a career or build up a profitable business. I'm taking from experience..

Good luck.

IamLEGEND1:
next time, maybe you should try keeping your life's story to yourself. I'm being as polite as I can be, so try not to take it personally. You think you had it bad? Trust me, you have no idea.
With That said, Of cause your husband owes you everything...... Seeing as he's your husband, not a boyfriend and he most definitely contributed to crippling your ambition and career. So, yeah..... He does owe you. Maybe if you'd bothered to read through the conversation I had with the O.P, then we wouldn't be having this conversation.

Everyone has a story. I'm not afraid or ashamed to tell mine.
Though I'd working hard towards the next chapter of my life, I'm grateful for where I am and where I came form.
I'm 29 but I've certainly lived a long hard life which has moulded me into a great woman.

By the way I have no idea u where referring to bf and gf stuff.

JamesReacher:
I hope your man stays appreciative because talking from experience I know a man who called his wife a failure in business and threatened to throw her out after 25yrs of marriage because he has found another woman, the man had nothing to his name and didn't have 2 nickels to rub together, after 3yrs of marriage he built a house, When the love was sweet I quote the man he said 'he can't ever believe he would build a house because he brought nothing from his village' and now he's worth over 60million naira, maybe the money went into his head. The woman doesn't have 500k because she thought what belongs to her husband belongs to her too but she was betrayed. Imagine that, some men are scums. So I advise you to get your own share of the deal, don't just get thanks, gifts. Get that money, be financially buoyant, love your kids more don't get carried away.

Very good advise. Thanks for the reminder.

However I'm no fool. Men can't do the unthinkable.
Every cent my husband earns has my name all over it.
All properties have my name too.
I have my personal money too.
By God's grace I'm covered.

I do have that law degree for a reason

IamLEGEND1:
i have no interest in a woman's money...... neither does she have the right to demand or even so much as expect me to provide a single kobo to help her ministry. If I am moved to give anything of my own volition, it's just because I was feeling very charitable in that moment and nothing else.
I'm just tired of the idea that a grown_ass woman should always be supported by the man solely for the reason that he is a man. It's even dumber when I hear other men say it, like the O.P
Well, fuck_that..... Bitches_can call me broke if they want.... They have no idea how deep my apathy runs.
So, for this reason I am now a huge proponent of gender equality and I will champion that cause 'til my last breath.

You grab?

When I see things like this it hurts me so much.

Let me tell u a little about myself.

I was born into a well to do family in Europe. However things got bad and when we retired back to Nigeria I had to fend for myself my siblings even my dad.
At age 14 i sold oranges roast corn plantain etc
At 16 I landed a supply contract and completed my father's house while in my 1st year of uni.
At 18 I got married.
My uni was too far from my hus. I got pregnant and dropped out in my third year.
My husband want a big family.
For the past 12years of my life I've done nothing but have kids and read books.
I've bagged a law degree and multiple professional courses.
But I've not being able to work! Why? Cos I'm at home pregnant or nursing a baby for the man a married.
I'm was born a hustler but I've seen dedicated my life to being wife and mom. AT LEAST FOR NOW.
I have literally given MY LIFE TO MY HUSBAND.
Over the years he has become quite successful.
DOES HE NOT OWE ME EVERYTHING??

Well thankfully I'm married to a man who appreciates the sacrifice I've made for him and our family.
He tells everything I have is urs. And rightfully so.

IamLEGEND1:
I was gonna reply with something sensible until I saw the words above.
As a result...

So u can't provide for ur woman??

Shame on u.

You're not a man!

Lawlahdey:
Well...I don't know why you guys are of the unfounded opinion that girls, generally, have fish brains though.

It's simple dear.

It's because he was raised by one.

My 11year old son was telling me the other day how he will take care of his future wife.
I was both shocked and so proud of him.

He will treat her like a princess because he is being raised by a queen!

Afriifa:
trust me, I am damn fed up with how they do their thinking.

Inclusive of ur mother

Zane2point4:
Ara gba gbuo gi dia.

Your mom spreads her legs and enjoys a dìck too



Sex was created for both man and woman. It's not a taboo for a woman to talk about sex so stop implying she's a whoŕe!


Cos if she is so is ur mama

sunshineV:
Kashy kashy, I know alot had gone through u

Yep it has...










Just like it has gone through it mom

Zane2point4:
You hv had a lifetime experience.

Yes she has.
So has ur mother

IamKashyBaby:


YAY!!

Not everyone is fond of KISSING like french kiss/ torrid kiss/ lip lock or whatever you call it.. BUT this doesn't mean s(he) don't love his/his partner..

And its only sweet to cuddle each other if the AC is ON..Usually, a lot of men are sweating while having sex & thats not a good idea when both of u are so sticky & still cuddling for the sake u wanna show ur love

It does not have to be a full cuddle. It could be a stoke of the back or thigh. Just a show of affection.

Very true!

DozieInc:
Is he your daddy?

Even your papa can't give u free stuff


Your parents train u for u to take care of them later in life.

Nigerians should stop this beg beg attitude.

Na kaikai dey greenish like that?

Oh my God!!

Cuteness overload.

Cuteness unlimited!

asawanathegreat:
Did u blame Bahari? When broda Jonah was there y didn't him focus on d southern and eastern part of nigeria. Pls u people should Leave d old man alone.

Gej did NOTHING for his people.

His attention was on almajiri

Buhari is such a tribal bigot

Muzanga:
Nigerians are very gullible...churchill has won their hearts through sentiments just because he doesnt talk much. The guy is not innocent at all...tonto is not a saint but you see that churchhill eh, he is a very smooth criminal...please stop calling tonto names the guy used her..

But she's an idiot

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balogun16:
foolish girl. when you don't have respect for your whorish mother, why will you have respect for me? I wish we can see one on one so that I can reset your brain. certified ashawo like you. ashawonism has always been your family trade from generation to generation.

I spread my legs just like ur mother. She's the bigger ashawo

Moscow95:
I will advice u to check yourself
1.Are u faithful to him.
2.Do u CARE 4 him
3.Do u always listen to is need

Check herself for what?

She is most likely a side chic but does not know.

Op run for your dear life.

I'd rather marry a broke guy I know would give me the world if he could. Than some rich guy who can't give me anything when he has.

He is wicked and does not love you.

Break up now!

balogun16:
your father is the real shit head for bringing up a hoe like you who lacks respect. see this small girl ooo because you too don dey collect wetin dey sweet adult you get mouth dey talk to me anyhow. thunder scatter your express toto there

You'll know a hoe when u see one.

Cos your mother is a bigger whòre

balogun16:
that man is a very weak man. is that not supposed to be the work of a woman? which yeye rest. I pray this stupid man did not marry a feminist as a wife. the world is coming to an end weak men everywhere

Shìt heads everwhere

muller101:
Only irresponsible Fathers have time for such a crap. The wife needs rest who took those images

What amount of energy does it take to snap a picture?
Bad belle.