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Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..

She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men).

She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve.

And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only support me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

All these are red flags! Abort mission! Forget marrying that lady as your mom is right on this! Can't have two people with anger issues in a marriage, it will be a disaster! My 2 cents.

advanceDNA:
They pay them per vaccination....
Very small money...

So she dey look say una don pour sand inside her garri

No wonder the aggression SMH.

lilyheaven:
The health center should have sent a notice first before sending a health worker over.
The school security shouldn’t have giving her entry because she has no appointment with the school.

You can say that again! You can all see the result of poor training on the riffraff who came to the school.

richPHAROAH:
A child is not a personal property. He or she is a govt property by default

That is rubbish and balderdash! But as a community, we take vaccines for public safety and to achieve herd immunity, also to protect those who are immunocompromised.

Mrshape:
When health workers come to a school, will they not allow the school to contact the parents before they vaccinate their children?
Some health workers came to my school and started disturbing the peace of the school because we told her we will contact the parents and seek their consent before they can vaccinate the children, she started shouting they will close down the school, this that, torn the visitors book, we have to tell her to go. We contacted our parents some refused most said we go ahead then told the local health center to come and vaccinate the children tommorow.

I want to know do they have right to force vaccine on children without parents consent?

They don't! Obviously, those are poorly trained staff but for public safety, vaccination is necessary.

tutudesz:
With the help of internet, such mentality is everywhere presently.

You can say that again!

tutudesz:
How do we end such mentality Even in churches, the front seats are reserved for wealthy people wealthy children are treated differently in school

Sincerely, I don't know when all this mentality started. All I remember is that as far back as 2006 during my childhood, this mentality was not in force. Don't know the year Nigerians started missing it.

maxito28:
I pity some desperate foolish gals, bcoz na Dem, Dem go dey use.

She those ones dey hear?

tutudesz:
Society celebrate unknown Wealth this days and judge hard working individuals. Nigerians will tag you bad Bella for questioning the source of wealth of certain individuals, just imagine

Abi. We are sitting on a keg of gunpowder and we don't even know with our people's penchant for money-worshipping.

tutudesz:
Seriously!! Every preaching is about one how someone became rich overnight, because of pay tithes and offerings. They will skip the hard work part

Abi. That is everywhere you turn, people are cutting corners in a bid to making money not caring who is hurt as a result SMH.

tutudesz:
Zero moral value in today society what are the contribution of Religious leaders insociety

They are part of the problems with their prosperity preaching unfortunately.

Pathokpo:
The worst part of it all is that some girls will reject you that is doing your legit thing and run after these ones even after seeing this video believing that someone else's daughter would be used for them to enjoy.

You care about those vagina people and the yama yama way some of them think? You get time o!

Kingpin1000:
Take Raheem sterling as a case study. That dude had a couple of kids even before he turned 20

You can say that again bro!

shevchenko:
You are a simp .If a woman is not giving sex to her man then he is not "man " enough.
Leave her alone ,divorce her ,cheat on her but NEVER RAPE HER

You can say that again bro! Especially with sex being cheap to get and have!

shevchenko:
Yes I am largely in support of her recording him .I dont care whether it was a set up or not .Its possible she was a damn horrible ex or a woman scorned but a real man should never rape a woman

You can say that again bro!

TechspeciaIist:
she doesn't have anything to contribute asides from sex, while the poor boy keeps spending for the wh0re. She has no right to deny him sex, in that case she deserves what she got.
Either way the boy is still the victim here.
Quote me negatively and I'll respond with your pictures on this forum

You said has no right to deny h sex because he spent on her? Wow!

Preator:
Your wife does not owe you sex legally. If she says no, any forceful sex will be deemed as rape in the eye of the law. It's better for you to cheat or get a divorce. Don't allow a woman alter your destiny for 5minutes pleasure.
If you are in Africa, The law is more lax on marital rape though but if you jam a female judge, e don be for you. My advise; if you are not getting what you want in your wife, take the highway. No woman is worth sacrificing your future.

Abi o. Don't know where men like me started becoming entitled b1tches for sex SMH. If she says No, move on and find an alternative and cheating is okay in this context.

Sterope:
When they say a gf or wife doesn't owe their partner sex. It means you don't rape them because they don't want to have sex with you.

There is nothing westernised about anti-rape rhetorics. A culture that advises you hurt your wife because she doesn't want to have sex with you, is a culture fit for animals.

You can say that again dear.

blaquebelle:
With some of the comments I'm seeing here, I fear for our humanity in this nation. Tufiaaaa

You can say that again bro!

ViperAda:
" your wife doesn't owe you sex"- this is one hell of a trash I read up there in the comments section. If she doesn't owe him sex and he goes out to get one, you'd still accuse him of cheating. Can we also agree a man doesn't owe his wife sex?. This is one of the new narratives the west are pushing down our throats in the media to erode our African conservativeness and recalibrate our African women into rebellious converts.


-Viper

Still maintain no one owes you sex and this is coming from a conservative man. If a woman says No, yes even your wife, it is better to cheat in this case than commit rape. Cheating is better than rape in my opinion, the fact, cheating is not a criminal offense unlike rape is all you need to know.

Newton85:
One thing I'll never understand the idiotic rich idiots is how they lose all sense of sanity when it involves the vagina. Are pretty, sexy women that hard to find for their wealthy ass that they always get into trouble from raping and sexually harassing women? I mean, just look at the basic and average looking white girl this buffoon Greenwood is ruining his career for. Smh.

You can say that again! It seems when a man has money and/or game suddenly, there is this I can have whatever or whoever I want by hook or by crook and I will get away with it due to my status in them SMH.

DonPADRO:


How some peeps will have money and fame and not value them enough to protect them by behaving properly at all times I have no idea.

Abi

Kingpin1000:
Na so Greenwood career take end?
Pass ball to Ronaldo no, collect advice no.
Jamaicans really have issues

They really have sex issues both male and female. Speaking from experience.

Still don't get how a guy is rich and famous and still forces himself on women SMH. He can have other girls in her place anyways who will do what he wants due to those attributes. But this I have to have my way as a rich and/or famous man and I will get away with it due to my status is ruining a lot of men and their reputations and careers!

fergie0o1:
She also shared a voice note (an audio recording).... You can listen to it here: SOURCE

From the voice note, the incident took place Oct 22, 2021.

Excerpts:-
Man: Harriet, raise your f*cking foot. Move your legs up.......move your f*cking legs up

Woman: No.........I don't wanna have sex

Man: What the f*ck you want, you sh!thead

Woman: Masonnnn

Man: Shut up talking to me......Stop

Woman: Stop putting your d*CK in there

Man: I am gonna f!ck you, you t.wat

Woman: I don't wanna have sex with you

Man: I don't care if you don't wanna have sex with me, damn me

Woman: Why do I have to do this, though?

Man: So I should I be polite and you won't do it

Man: I should be polite you won't let me do it as well, so what do you want me to do.

Woman: the pains.....

Man: Leave it alone

****creaking sounds, creaking sounds****

Man: Push me again one more time and see what I'll do.

Now, this is really bad! Shows how much of an entitled b1tch he is!

Kriss216:
Selfish Greenwood wey no dey gree pass ball give Ronaldo, na for woman body you get strength. Mumu.

When Life gives you Mason, make a Mount.

You can say that again bro! Arrogant douchebag and scumbag on the pitch, same at home SMH.

Meninmen:
You are right.

Abi

Abilistic:
Nice try...

You will make a good barber


Next time buy his favorite edible and tell him, he can only eat after cutting his hair, he will cooperate sharperly

This is scam and fraud! I protest!

FRANKOSKI:
IT'S NOW THAT THE TEMPO OF THE LOVE WILL INCREASE. GIRLS LOVE SUCH BAD GUYS.

Abi, their innate love for being treated like trash can never be discounted and they will now turn around and say all men are the same and wicked while they have been making wrong choices SMH.

Meninmen:
I only pity the man that will date or later marry this lady.

As a man, before getting married, make sure you investigate to know your babe has never dated a Yahoo boy.

You can say that again bro! But not too easy to identify them as this gender is very good at pretending to be what they are not in order to scam a guy into marrying them SMH. Just saying o.

whippersnapper:
This Yahoo boys done collect all the girls finish.Sotey den no dey look our side.

Then they will bring the carcass left and be forming good girls in church when they want to marry SMH.

willbayo:
Only sensible comment I’ve seen

Gbamsolutely!