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kunle75:
Exactly my brother

Abi nau my Chairman!

[quote author=Ballack1 post=110063425][/quote]Abi

Beebah2000:
U don't have any business with her. So, why are you complaining??
Wahala for who dey carry unnecessary wahala for head.

Abi. It is obvious Op hasn't gotten over her!

Vollon234:
I'm in my 4th year in the university. There is this girl I loved. We had sex a couple times, exchanged "I love you" and all that romantic stuff, but when I asked her out she claimed she didn't want a relationship, that she isn't in the right place emotionally. I asked about the sex and she said she doesn't want sex with me anymore because emotions get involved and she just wants to be single for now and only have sex when she is ready to have a boyfriend. I respected her choice and told her I'm okay. I moved on and my feelings for her started to drop. I began seeing someone else that I'm now serious with.

Two days ago the former girl called me in the middle of the night and I ignored. The next day she did the same thing. Calling in the middle of the night. This time I had the new girl sleeping over. I couldn't pick her call. Next day she called me and I didn't pick cos I was busy. Today I decided to call her and she immediately started complaining about me ignoring her and why I didn't call back. I apologized and said I was busy. Next thing she says she is moving to my lodge that she's tired of her own lodge. She had even spoken to the landlord and make plans to pay rent.

I find this very annoying. Her staying in my lodge makes things very weird. I don't love her anymore but I still feel something for her and we have a sexual history together. I can't be able to have a girlfriend comfortably with her around. I'm thinking of talking to my landlord to decline her request. There are lots of good lodges around school why my lodge? It's not like anything is wrong with her lodge. Girls sef.

Get over her! You are a man and stop being petty!

MufasaLion:
Lol

This country is crazy!

You really don't wanna know how bad things are. I really don't wanna say many things on this platform.

Cheers!

I know how bad things are! I was unemployed for almost three years after service!

Scrap:
You intentionally ignoring this question.

what about the linoleum?

As she won't be able to easily sell it due to the cutting. What happens to the item

Wicked and heartless Op will never ask that question! Biko!

MufasaLion:
?

The sad story no. How the country has become got that reaction from me. A sign of resignation.

Petyprince:
OP is just a fraudster

You can say that again bro and he is a remorseless one to boot! The worst of their kind!

MufasaLion:
There was one time I would have been employed in a very good place, I wasn't employed because I was a male, not just me but with my fellow males.

Could you believe all the ladies that were interested in sleeping with the top shots got employed? Not only that, they enjoyed cash gifts and luxury gifts also. I'll stop there.

Hmmmm.

livinbygrace:
Story!!

Abi o. He is one of those men that think women sh1t roses and can do no wrong and his ilk are unfortunately becoming the majority these days SMH.

Kallotti:
Dear Mo! We ALL KNOW HOW WATER ENTERED THE “ TOTONUT ”! Nothing do you! Just keep working hard. Is it easy to “sleep with governors” back to back?

You can only sleep with people for so long.
Yes! You will HAVE TO DO THAT ANYWHERE in this world to get to where you want to go. FACT!✅

This is done ALL OVER THE WORLD, Especially, in THE OIL, FINANCIAL, LEGAL, ENTERTAINMENT AND POLITICAL PROFESSIONS.

Guaranteed!

Even NIGERIAN MALE POLITICIANS DO WITH FELLOW MALE POLITICIANS!


Ask ALA-OKIJA!


BOTTOM LINE? All na investment. USE WHAT YOU HAVE TO GET WHAT YOU NEED TO GET WHAT YOU WANT!

Don’t just sleep with EVERY FOOOOOOOL! Chop better MEAT, to advance your career. Then you can sleep with whatever or whosoever you wish . . . . ON YOUR OWN TERMS!❤️

Totonut? LWKMD

LesbianBoy:
When they start using motivational quotes just know say na true

Abi o

CrazyGranddad:
This woman is ugly sha

She kon flat to boot! These politicians wey dey do paroles with am no get eyes o!

TheFacelessMan:
I beg to differ with most of the submissions.

Get your original certificate as soon as you can.

Your 'Statement of results" usually has a date of expiry.

Why use a document that has a validity period?

Seen someone who was using a Statement for 15 years... on a particular job interview, he was questioned on this.

Exactly. An experience I heard shows how important the certificate is. You can even be denied audience at your interview if the statement of result has been for a long time. It can happen!

KOPArespect:
I called a candidate and asked if i am talking to Miss XYZ, she said 'yeeees' in a funny manner
i proceeded and told her you dropped your CV at XYZ for XYZ position and she said 'hunhun'(like i should continue )

I played along and ask her to come for the interview, when she came, she greeted good morning and i responded.
tell me about yourself, then she started

interviewee: My name is xyz
Me: hunhun
I am a native of XYZ
Me hunhun
I am 26 years old
Me: hunhun.... throughout the interview, it was a case of hunhun-hunhun

I called her back 3 days later
Me: hello good morning
she: hello, good morning sir
Me: you applied for XYZ position at Xyz company
She: yes sir, thank you for getting back to me...

to cut the long story short, she was eventually engaged for the position and i made her realize her shortcomings

Hers is still redeemable! Op's experience is very irredeemable imo. So the comparison is not in order here.

OlujobaSamuel:
I was trying to give her an opportunity to re-present her response.
When she said "it's not your business", I asked again, and she replied with "how does that affects her work with me?"
I told my bro that read HR as a discipline, he said I should have just told her I would get back to her, I was like, for where? Me let her know sey I can't take her, she should take her leave ni

Get back to what? Me that is very blunt, when she says how is it your business, I will tell her, she is very rude and should get out of my sight!

jansonn:
Oga, aswear!! You get patience!! I won't even wait this long before I pursue her from my sight

Abi. Me too. Me wey I get short fuse and can't stand disrespect!

kunle75:
You just dodge a calamity .

And a disaster and carnage to boot! He should be doing Thanksgiving in church on this one as e dodge am . Bree ko, Briana ni.

soundOsonic:
Asking one about their address, marital status, guardian isn't personal question.

These are simple questions they ask in schools, jobs, even registration of online stuff.

The OP is not wrong at all.

Abi and the questions were relevant to the job! Op is in the clear on this one!

Ballack1:
She's not ready

As in, not ready at all! The how is it your business snide remark got me! These women nowadays with being rude, don't even know where their rudeness stops SMH.

OlujobaSamuel:
I run a POS business, so put up a vacancy to fill a vacant post.
On Tuesday, this lady called seeking to apply for the job, I told her I will get back to her on when to come. Friday afternoon, I gave her a call and asked if she was available on Saturday by 12noon, she said yes, so we had an appointment.
11:30am, she called to confirm the appointment, which I affirmed. Few minutes to 12noon, she called that she is in front of my shop, where am I?
Which of my shops? I asked.
Your shop here.
Kindly describe the shop you are. A kiosk by a container, she answered.
Ok, ask the lady there to tell you where you can find me(my location is close by)
I can't find any lady, she responded, then hissed.
Just ask anyone you can find there then. (Call dropped)
(5mins later) She showed up, calling my number to confirm it's me.
She came with a younger sibling, I gave the boy a stool to sit outside, while I told her to come in to sit.
Good afternoon, I said.
Afternoon (barely audible), she responded.
What is your name? Bree
Sound weird to me(never heard of it)
Spell it. Showed me a Tattoo with the inscription BREE
I pretended not seeing it, she said BREE.
Still surprised, so I asked, where are you from. She was like, why ask, then answered; Anambra.
Where do you live? She mentioned the street, but I'm not familiar with such street. What landmark is close by to your house? She seems not to know what I meant by landmark, so I rephrase, what popular place or house or individual is closed by? She said she doesn't know anywhere that she is new.
How new? She couldn't answer.
Who are you living with? Parents, Uncle, Aunt or who? (Why ask countenance), then she said Mum.
I noticed a wedding ring, so I asked, are you married? Yes, she answered. Where is your husband? Why are you asking, she queried? I need to know, I answered. He is in the East, she responded.
If your husband is in the East, how do you intend to cope working as a POS attendant, do you go visiting or he comes down? How is that your business? ( I shock)
I wasn't so perturbed, so I asked, do you know the nature of the job? You tell me the nature of the job and I will know if I can do it or not.
I can only tell you the job description/specification, you should know the nature of any job you are seeking for.
I'm sorry, I can't take you. Kindly take your leave.
NB: all the period I was chatting with her, she was chatting with her bro sitting outside intermittently about a movie. With so many side comments (her dialect) in respect to our discussion.
Is it wrong of me to have judged her base on her attitude and gestures, or such should have been given an opportunity on the job first?

Bree? Are you sure she is Nigerian? . Very very unserious interviewee! You did well, Biko!

DamnnNiggarr:
na over seriousness with nothing to show for it dey kill us for this country,
Isn't it obvious enough that this is just a joke?
Must you guys read meaning into everything?
This is just a joke, and At least, it made me laugh real hard.

Me too.

wrongnumber:
hahahahahha!

Real village people. Even if nah arm robber, they will still deport you cos they don't beat up thieves there.

He think say Canada na 9ja where dey dey do jungle justice

Wayne4uall:
U made my day already bro....

He made mine too. Had a really rough day, he made me laugh for once today! Kudos to him!

PIXSPEAKS:

Raychee:
You can only take a horse to the stream, you cannot force it to drink water. Parents, stop birthing children you cannot raise conveniently. Not to justify fraud, ritualism or oloshoism but if some of these people can afford the basic things of life and a few luxury, many of them wouldn't be easily enticed.

Nah, it is not about poverty, some of these runs girls even come from rich homes, it is purely and simply about greed. And no amount of training and having the right number of children will ever cure greed in that child. My 2 cents.

Caleb91:
Omo I don dey do this thing since 2020....I learnt this from a case that happened in our jamb tutorial that year ....make I no just spill shit here

Spill am bro make we guys learn!

lymelyte:
sad reality..ladies are now like grocery shopping.. You can actually go online and order what you want. Do whatever you want. This kind of lifestyle will damage the institution called marriage.. The fabric of marriage is wearing thin by the day

Will damage or has already damaged? No wonder the stories of sex starvation and cheating by the female spouses are now rampant in marriages these days SMH. Like one of my favorite rappers says, can't turn a hoe into an housewife!

Blazebond:
They will never learn probably because of poverty,was at a hotel outside bar when four young boys and a young girl strolled in laughing and talking loud,they sat down not too far from our table, and the laughter was because one of the guys wasn’t allowed to knack by the girl,the guy was angry and the girl was pleading with the guy to relax,that she is very tired and should be given some time to relax before they go back inside to resume the knacks and the crazy part is that, the girl ain’t a call girl o,she is a friend to them whom they all begged to knack and she surprisingly agreed. We heard all these when the girl went into the hotel to change her top,see how the guys where talking nonsense about her body,these youths are crazy.

Wow, so bad!

Rugaria:
Oloshoism is the new pandemic in town..
Gal visits you and after a very good handling, as she's going, she begs you to allow her bring her friend next time! She wants to add Jara for you! Some will turn into The Pi-mp In Chiefs, organizing thier circle off filthy friends for you and your boys. Getting messed up in all sorts of ways... All these gals in the universities?? Forget them! Went to a very impressive burial during the xmass and was informed that a guy actually "ordered" a full bus of beurifull harems from a nearby federal university! All to entertain his boys lodging around for the burial. They now order your future wives like they order shawamah! Point and devour..
Leave matter

SMH. And these ladies will become someone's wife in the future. O ma she o.

obembet:
I stil wondering why some people will blame government for all this small boys doing Yahoo and some ladies following them. I can only Blame the parents who raised in a very wrong ways.

Prob 22:6 says Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it. Many parents forget that the best time to train child is btw 2-15 years. Once any parents failed this.. it will take grace of God to control that child after 18 years.


Blame the parents.

Trust me, the parents do their best in raising them up well but peer pressure turns them to someone different! Just saying.

shilenji:
For my safety, if I meet a girl I like, I stylishly ask to see her ex's pictures, if I perceive any yahoo from the picture like this na to ghost am sharply. I cannot share my destiny with anyone abeg.

Abi. Very very necessary these days since girls know how package as if dem be good girl.