₦airaland Forum

aanuoluwami14:
They wouldn't! They are like a dog who wouldn't listen to the hunter's warnings

Abi. It is even looking like a curse now to have a daughter because one doesn't even know how she will turn out SMH. Forget home training, whoever a girl wants to be whether good or bad, she will become. I have said my piece.

irririchris:
I was going out around 5pm (06.02.22). From afar, I saw five young people in front of a hotel, 2 girls, 3 guys, that was when the words came to me..."Will these girls ever listen?"

As a l moved closer I got a clearer understanding of what was going on. One of the ladies (Jane Doe 1) was leaving with one of the guys while (Jane Doe 2) stood still outside the gate with the other guys, JD1 was persuading JD2 to go inside the hotel and that she, JD1 will soon be back but JD2 was feeling reluctant to go, then the guy with JD1 threw the key to his hotel room to her, telling her to go lock herself Indoor.

As I was walking away, I didn't know if she actually went in.. after walking some distance, the guy with JD1 went back while JD1 walked past me as I slowed down to catch a glimpse of her, thereafter, she received a phone call, telling the caller she's on her way. I went my way. They were all below 20years. To my question: Will these girls ever listen?

#endritualkilling

The answer we all know is No. That gender and logic are like oil and water. Sorry for being blunt.

JosephXavier:
I guess this question is for ladies because guys always end up getting a lady who desperately needs to be married

That is why most yahoo boys prey on ladies who are eager to get married

It is difficult to scam a man with marriage

Can't say the same on scamming a man for marriage for church brothers and woman wrappers!

Minjim:
I know we all have the fairy tale dream of meeting the love of our life, falling madly in love, getting married and having kids. Some have even visualised the number of kids - two boys and two girls.

However, we must all face the hash reality that not everyone will get married or even have kids.
As such everyone of us must have a backup plan.

My plan has always been to adopt a child even if I get married , because obviously I'll be marrying in my 40's. So whether I have a child later or not I planned to adopt an older child like 8-10 years old.

So what about you, any plan B?

Enjoy my single life! Marriage is very very very overrated!

Peebaby93:
It's my gender I pity.. they will just be rushing after this evil children. No one is safe again.


My own is that the day girls start doing ritual..boys go too miss

Pity your gender? They should pity themselves first!

browngh:
A 15-year-old boy takes to social media to challenge those who seem to be admiring his status as he outlines some of the conditions that come with it.

In the short video, the boy could be seen randomly spraying his money while bragging and outlining the scary requirements.

A bag filled with hard currency was also spotted in the video.

Voice in the clip proclaimed thus.

"You fit do ritual? You get mind? You fit baf soap dey see spirit for night? You wan die young?”

Watch the video below:

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CZlruDYAQGp/?utm_medium=copy_link

SMH

Realists:
[s]Your nepotism & religious sentiments stinks down the depth of hell. Corruption is a national problem but, your tribal affiliation got a better of you. The infamous quote that " Stealing is not corruption" by your mentor & spiritual father will never be forgotten.[/s]

Shut up!

alsudan:
If Mason Greenwood was from Northern Nigeria, nothing would’ve happened to him.

You can say that again bro! The he is one of our own and can get away with blue murder is their mantra over there! SMH.

Jerryherd:
Ordinary Hydro thermal plants we can't maintain with fire outbreak and blackouts everytime

What if we switch to Nuclear plants

Na die be that one o!

MadeINchenzen2:
They should just turn off Internet completely... let start watching TV and listening more to radio.

Abi. Stupid bastards and motherfvckers!

Urchman200:
What happened when people decided to use vpn? Are they going to regulate the use of vpn too?

We know they can't! That is the only hope left!

Semmatload:
Source: https://semmatloaded.com/2022/02/nbc-to-regulate-social-media-platforms-online-content-creators-others/amp/

SMH. What a certain group of people gave second term to! Shior!

paulolee:
from anywhere its juninho, baba dey score from anywhere...bk den in lyon, he do score from all rwnges...
he don even de do numbers before becks n messi even start to de score freekicks

You can say that again bro! Juninho is automatic from any area in the opposition half both close and far range!

Omicron007:
The three players below are legendary dead-ball specialists. They mastered the art of controlling the gravity and speed/direction of projectiles with their feet.

However,

You have a free-kick on the edge of the box in the 90th minute and you are looking for a match winning goal.

Who will take it?


1. David Beckham

2. Juninho

3.Lionel Messi

Very easy choice! - Juninho. Automatic in the opposition half at any distance.

tyup:
Ok then cunnily bring her to Nigeria on the pretence of going to greet her mum beat her to her intelligence by buying gifts for virtually all her family members, she'd be blinded by following you down to Nigeria and when you both get here, seize her passport (my uncle burnt his wife's own) and travel back alone

Bringing a Nigerian woman abroad is more like embarking on a self destructive journey. my uncle's wife almost wrecked him to the point of him committing suicide. but well, the planned work and she's still in Nigeria I'm sure she'll still be regretting atm but he had to relocate outta UK to another country so she'll not find him and thank god he's doing great now tho not as big as bfr he brought his wife over.

Left for you to make ur choice sha but be careful. my 2cent

You can say that again bro on the bringing a Nigerian woman abroad being self destruction. It is a pity to our women, that men have to take drastic actions like mentioned in the quoted comment to have peace of mind and to protect their assets. It is a pity.

IJEYdiamond:
Sultan easy naaaahhhh...

Why u dey paint Naija ladies badddd nah..

Good ones still dey naah......

Most of this guys dey see good women but refused to marry them... instead they like going for one chance babes!!

But why will a lady be recording ur voice if she no get plan B for mind... abi u do d babe strong thing ni.... because i am not understanding oooo..

Its more like marriage is not meant for everyone!!

Painting Nigerian women bad or they are the ones painting themselves bad? Shior!

Hedonini:
Such a wimpy simpy fellow. I want peace I want peace.

When you make it obvious that you as the man you are desperate to maintain peace in the home, then the jezebel in your wife would come out fully.

It is the woman that should constantly appease you and strive to keep the peace, not the other way round. Your blood suppose dey hot, and you suppose show say you no go waste time to scatter everything if she no play by your rules.

Abi. Especially with our women, if you are not a troublemaker, na OYO you be o!

yusluvad:
Baba please have some respect for the Nigerian females. The females that are bad[other side of good] are everywhere around the world, and not only in Nigeria...

You can not have respect for ladies who don't respect themselves with their behaviour and how they think! Can't!

seanwilliam:
even without kids involved??

Yes, even without kids involved. I lived in one of those saner climes and know how much the law is much skewed towards women there.

faithfull18:
OP, don't listen to the divorce crooners, any small thing - divorce. This issue can be talked through. You alone know who you married.

It can't! Sorry to bust your bubble! A woman doing that has probably been advised by her horrible friends to do that in case, kasala burst and for divorce cases. That can not be mended in my opinion. Also, it is obviously clear the Op has lost his peace of mind due to the lady's actions. As a man, that is the very last thing you want to lose so must do all to protect it, yes including divorce. Ire o.

linearity:
My fear for the guy is, the wife may have been getting advise from the wrong set of ladies abroad, since she is new there to record their arguments as potential evidence.

And what the husband may not realize is that, he can lose everything he have labored for, if he get felony Assault conviction. He may think that, assault only means ‘putting your hands on your wife’…abroad you can be convicted if you emotionally abuse your spouse, if you curse out, say anything that belittles her, shamed her, etc are all emotionally abuse and if anything like that occurred during one of those arguments and she record them, the husband should be afraid.

He should also trade carefully, don’t argue with her unnecessarily, and begin to record you guys conversations as well, because when the chips are down, she will not present recordings that favors you.

I hate it when someone in the marriage start playing the victim card and if the other person is nerve you will be taken….many men abroad have lost it all, because their ‘macho’ personal ca not play the victim and they are too nerve to protect themselves….They think they are still in Nigeria, where tradition and the perception of the law favors the husband majority of the time, in the western culture, bros you are the hunted, they will kick you out of the house and still force you to pay the rent/mortgage and other bills.

That is my fear too bro. Some Nigerian women grow wings abroad once they find out the laws favour them! SMH. That is why as a man with a Nigerian wife abroad, be very wary of the friends y
one's wife has! Once they are feminists or mostly Nigerian women, try to get the lady off those women as they are usually toxic.

In my opinion, instead of walking on eggshells by threading carefully according to you, for his peace of mind, he had better divorce the woman. Ire o.

ednut1:
You are finished bro. She will tender it as evidence in divorce or police report. Who is raising all these demonic women of today self.

The demonic women decided to raise themselves imo.

Elianawalker:
I hope its not UK you both live, if you live in UK with your wife she has the ability to render you useless and poor while she rules over you, be careful though.

I will pray for you. Handle her with caution. She could also be uploading the videos on Instagram for followers of her drama series

I said the same thing too that she could also be uploading the argument videos on social media.

linearity:
Bros, I am sorry

But, she does not love you. The marriage is not up to a year and she does not trust and have to record your conversations and lie about it?

What else is she lying about? Please, don’t bring a baby into this marriage, get out while you are not yet neck deep.

You are lucky that, you saw the signs early; hopefully you don’t ignore them and later regret it.

Abi, a huge red flag that wife has! I won't be surprised if the wife also broadcasts their arguments on social media too SMH.

Megabig:
She agreed to marry you because she want to answer “married woman” not that she’s into you or ready. She hasn’t grown yet, calling her mum and recording you also, then lying and admitting when caught. One year is so short, you should check if you have to leave especially if you don’t have kids yet. Never trust a lying woman. Never

Abi. I keep repeating it as a man that even if the marriage is one billion years and the marriage doesn't give you peace of mind, please divorce! Don't care about what people think, it is about your own happiness not theirs!

Slynation:
The same way people are stereotypical of cats being a witch, that's same way they are currently doing about beads...Beads are part of African culture, The fact most ladies are using it for dubious means doesn't mean they all represent same thing...
Abeg, if your woman likes waistebeads, leave her and go for who doesn't like it, life is quite simple and easy going that way...

Abi.

YinkaOlusesi:
Some women mumu no be small

The ones dey mumu among those vagina people are unfortunately in the majority! Hian! SMH.

udemzyudex:
There's this babe ,she's a very close friend.
The way we talk and play you might think we are dating,at a point I wanted to tell her to by my gf but i sense it will be a bad idea,it's better we just keep things on the friendship level,we do have misunderstanding, especially on small issues but always resolve it.

The reason I didn't want to make her my gf is because she have anger issues,he get angry easily and sometimes don't want to admit she's wrong.
I get angry easily too and I sense that if we decide to start a relationship it will never last,it's better we just remain friends.

I just hope this your relationship won't lead to marriage ooo because it will be a disaster waiting to happen,no be swear ooo.

I left my last ex because of anger issues as I have same. Can't deal with two boiling pots in a relationship and marriage for me, it is bound to be a disaster!

Jumbojnr:
Nice one

Abi. Very very important!

Angrygoat:
an agbero, thank God I'm nt married or in a hurry to, naija ladies are trash bro. She gets physical wt u, na your corpse remain. She fit stab u for dream,sleep. U wan marry an agbero,an okpoe on code

You can say that again on the Naija girls are trash comment! Their yama yama thinking na story for another day!

Keeff:
3 on the ears and one on the nose

Real ahawo and runs girl vibes o on the beat!

omoteacher:



Only few are very lucky in relationship things.

No perfect person, there will always be that

BUT.

Decide so you won't regret later.

Yes, there is no perfect person but not with all these red flags biko!