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Hi guys Should i buy a uk use phone or new phone.

My name is Juliet and live in Ibadan
I met my boyfriend in Ibadan last year December when he came for business in my town.
We started dating and we are now planning for marriage .
I work as a teacher in a big school in Ibadan ,I just got the job after working in all this small small school .
My boyfriend is a construction manager and he has his own side business also.
So as we are planning I told my boyfriend I will move to kwara and leave my job when we get married o.
He was like I can keep my job if I like it cause I told him how I feel concerning that I just gotten the job which has huge benefit and salary increasement as I will be given promotion too.
So I was like how will I be doing it
He agreed for me to keep the job and we plan that I will be travelling twice in a month to kwara to see my husband.
But this is hard ,it is easy for men to be doing this but it is not for women.
Will this long distance marriage thing destroy my marriage as I will be a travelling wife ,what if temptation came to place for my husband when am not around just because of my job
I want to be there for my family .
What should I do in this kind of situation

Hello nairalanderz
I need your advice on this
I just started working and the pay is okay for a single lady.
My father then called me and was like calculated my salary (he knows how much we earned cause his friend is my boss )
So back to the matter,he called he to tell me to assist in his responsibilities by sending money to my siblings for their upkeep and other things in school.
I was like that's not my line ,I didn't give birth to my siblings so why will I take the responsibilities for them while you are still alive.
Guys what should I do concerning this.

Hello Guys
Please I need your help
Where can I repair my laptop around adamasingba,or dugbe,can someone recommend for me
Thanks in advance.

Benard5050:
Teaching

How much is the salary of the teaching job.I pm u but no reply.

Benard5050:
Teaching

How much is the salary of the teaching job.I pm u but no reply.

[quote author=Benard5050 post=117473600]Teaching [/quot



I have send you a DM sir

ello nairalanders
My dad does not have regards for me at all,whenever am talking he will always tell mW to shut up.
I am finding it difficult to be close to him sef unlike my siblings who are close to him and play with him.I try to act like my siblings in my relationship with my father but its hard.
I try to convince myself but I find it hard to be close to him.
One day I was cleaning the house ,he was like I should use kitchen foam to mop the floor, I was like its not hygienic to use what is for the kitchen to mop unhygienic place,he told me to shut up blah blah ,then said whatever he say I should do,he even wanted to hit me sef,he almost slapped me ,he was like that's why in interviews am not called for jobs blah blah,that he felt pity for me that's why he dey link me up with one school to accept me.I was pianed that he did it out of pity but not from his heart to help me with that school job.

Please help me o,am I'm need of a job
I graduated with Bsc(Ed) social studies @Adeyemi college of education @ondo.
I live in Ibadan.

Adigun09:
Your location

I live around moniya after ojoo.

chuksbaby:
Kdp is bae, if you know your onion well.

I did shared this with video at my telegram anyway for free.

Search for chuksbabybackup and join

Didn't see it on telegram,send a link

Sweetness4:
Let me look for the link, i will send it here.

OK,thanks dear.

cosmos2000:
where do you based, In Lagos?

I live in ibadan-oyo state

Benard5050:
Can u work in a nearby town....Okeigbo

What type of job please

[quote author=Benard5050 post=117181163]Can u work in a nearby town....Okeigbo[/quyote]

That's in ondo ,what type of job please

Sweetness4:
Join legit job groups and you're good to go

I don't know any job group

Hello nairalanders
Please am in need of a teaching job .
I am a graduate of social studies Bsc(Ed)@Adeyemi college of education @ondo state.
I can teach government, civic education, social studies.
Thanks.

Hello nairalanders
Please am in need of a teaching job .
I am a graduate of social studies Bsc(Ed)@Adeyemi college of education @ondo state.
I can teach government, civic education, social studies.
Thanks.

Am a graduate of social studies bsc ed.am looking for a job even if its teaching job.

Kologirl,abeg loud am make them hear.

Op,i prefer long.rich pad and ladycare (the green colour package) i dont like always kus it is too light for d flow and my body is not comfy when using it.i have used morped pad and i dont like it too.my friend gave me one dry love pad and my body likes it.so its good to listen to ur body on what u use for it.

Hello family,i love this family section cause i learnt alot here and am still learning.a big THANKS For everyones contribution in one way or the other which changes life. AM a single lady so i bought this issue here cause i will also be a married woman .
one particular day,my mom just came back from an outing and was a bit tired and my dad told her he was hungry that she should cook for him,my mom was like am tired to cook that there is food in d freezer he can warm,he said its eba he wants to eat so one thing led to another and he said: i married you to cook for me. Sometimes he wil threaten my mum that he .is going to report her to her father if they have arguement o,not misunderstanding.

Op which kind mentality is this.thats why you still poor,life is not all about eating drinking blab u just spit out.it is about finding ur purpose on earth and fullfilling dat purpose.

Ibechris,you nailed it bro,am a graduate,just finished my nysc this year,what was xpected of me by the society is to get a job,then marriage,eversince i came back home people asking me about job,i read books and invest in my financial life cause i dont want to be illiterate in that aspect at all.am learning and implementing.

Thanks everyone,each comments meant a lot,i aspire to be like beyonce,that is the cecebrity power couple i love and want something like that too .beyonce put her marriage together and builds something beautiful yet still her marriage and career grew.been a wife and mom does not stop her from her dream. I want to be ready mentally,emotionally,pychologically,spiritually for marriage.

Softboy001 ,make i shoot my shot.me too ve got standards too.but in a friendly manner.

Softboy001, you shouldnt just start a business just because you want to.look around you to see what people want to buy.i sent you a dm.

fman:
You dad knows that he has a Mumu
Daughter.
No too reason am
Just amend your ways

Hey if u cant talk nicely.i will appreciate u not comenting.

Acidosis:
You mean this online business on your profile?

Yea affiliate marketing.

Hello nairalanders my body is hot right now.my dad use to criticize and yells if he wants to pass his opinion across.and my mum advice me to b watching him lyk movie even if he attacks me emotionally but m not d type that took insult lightly,am sensitive.today i gave him back o i speak my mind out i cant keep mute and watch you talk down on me. There was a time we going to church and i dressed well with this fancy circle earring.he said that earring is not gud for church rather i wear a small earing or not wearing earing like deeper lyf and i spoke outj that dressing coporate ls different from church dress and so on then he called me a fool he will throw the earing away.why are parents like this and u xpect me to b close to you.

Kobojunkie:
.... and then the expectation is that somehow those kids will grow up and help pay off all those debts. Essentially, they are birthed and enlisted as slaves in the process that is called marriage.

Please make better decisions so you don't end up another statistics in your own life.

Do u mean they pay the parents loan? i dont get