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angeltolly:
Please I have a question for Rhesus negative mamas who have done indirect coomb's test in Lagos. How long did it take to get the result and can you remember the price?

Cc: spiceeamiee
Yesitsme
Mydeporch

I never did it for once, I just go on and take the Rhogam after delivery to avoid stories that touch

enque:
https://www.google.com.ng/amp/mamalette.com/blog/fertility/uda-water-prevent-pregnancy-using-negro-pepper/amp/


Cc Akorkor

this one na after pikin done enter ABI immediately person do finish?

MizMyColi:
I know na.
You even use my pikin picture do DP sef.
Lol

Incase you figure out, make e be awa little secret, u hear?

hey na u? My honey customer, I tap d pics from ya mama DP..How u know say na me?

MizMyColi:
Was just wondering how our moms did it
Our grand moms and great grand Mums.

How did they space child birth?
There was no family planning then.

my mum is so fertile that she had us 7, no family planning oooo but all spaced 2yrs and 4yrs.

hotmomma:
Yesitsme, infact just weeks ago I have never searched so frantically for AF as I did, even d thread of IUD went missing. Kai see me so super scared mehn, but as God would have it, the long waited AF showed after operation find IUD thread and some pt tests. So my dear, just brace up and buy the strip joo, if negative congrats and play safe, if positive, congrats and buy folic acid.
Cheers

hubby has gotten d strip by morning, my fate will be decided

MizMyColi:
Haaaa
Ugba inside Okro soup

I am soo trying this.

Wey that my purse sef.

*zooms off to Cele Express market*

u be my neighbor sef, na there I dey go buy market. Ask for ugba for soup.

My sisters in d Lord's vineyard, amidst my tears and feat of d unknown, I invite u to join m download my veggy okro ganished with ugba...

hunniesuzie:
This thing happened to me cos I had a period after I did FP then nothing again till date, then i was adding weight. For 3 weeks i dey fear, no gree test. Swallow spit and test, the earlier you know the better. I'm sure it's nothing sha, I join my faith with yours

I have been swallowing spit my sister
, E no gree pass ...so what was d result?

Abiagirl777:
Isetigo!2018 mamas!but id you dont get tested, you won't rest unless you are one of us that doesn't take in until after weaning baby.play safe if Aunty flo eventually comes, and yes you can stay that long without AF coming back and took in
Ovulation continues.

I no set anything ooo abegooo. Make God give my mamas weh dey TTC group. I can't be pregnant for 3yrs of my life, nbanu.
This one na oga fault ooo, if I had played safe i for no dey fear. God help me! Help me ooo. Let it be malaria abeg! I take your name beg u!

Abeg don't read and pass

I have been feeling funny and sleepy lately. I dey even fear to do test sef. On the other hand, I dont feel am preggy. 4 months postpartum no period. Abeg who have lasted this long and took in. Make una help my ministry.

And with regards to baby food, I want to start my baby on Millet, dawa and soya bean meal. What shouted measurement be like ( in paint)

From a gynecologist


Well this is a dicey situation that needs a lot of patience. If she saw her menses on 16th may, then the pregnancy should not be up to 7 weeks and 6 days by June 26th. Unless what she saw was an implantation bleed which means her last normal menses will be in April. But the best time to determine the actual age of pregnancy by scan is between 11 and 1 3 weeks. So I advise a lot of patience from my brother and to repeat the scan with 2 of them present in the next 4 weeks. The scan should be done in a neutral place with the radiologist not aware of any controversy. Pls patience brother!!

Prettyhurts:
No be you dy shout baby fire on. E sweet you abi e no sweet you
You can continue breastfeeding him/her nothing wrong only if (s)he stop or start rejecting it or you want to stop.

Welcome to team February.

baby fire on...I don dey scatter laugh.. Wait oo which one b ur husband no dey hear wrd ! No b u open leg.?

MemphisRaynes:
Hi, please I need honest and mature contribution on this matter. I love my wife so much, and I don't want to have a failed marriage, not so early.

My marriage is only 18months old. This is my wife's first Pregnancy, but I am having serious concerns about the paternity of the baby.

I trust(ed) my wife with all my heart and soul. She was away on a Job training for 6 months. The training finished on May 19th and we made love same day. She told me she last saw her period in May 16th so we both assumed she was in her safe period by May 19th before we made love. Actually we didn't want pregnancy or a baby yet because we are strained by resources for now.

My wife started complaining of strong tummy pain, plus her period hadn't shown up by June 12, so we went for a Pregnancy test and she was confirmed Pregnant. In fact the Lab attendant told me she is very pregnant. Days after I went through her chat while she was asleep and came across her chat with some guy, the chat was very suspicious. Actually the said guy is a Gynecologist, so she had told him she was Pregnant immediately after the test so as to get medical advice. In this chat the guy called my wife "luv", "dearie", talked about she visiting him, and my wife's response was to play along. At some point she even said she can't wait to visit the guy. The height of it was when the guy asked "how is our baby doing?"

I could not control my emotions after reading their chat, so I confronted my wife. She claim the guy was her best friend, that they met at her training. Actually she has always freely spoken to the guy via phone in my presence before this event so I had no suspicions until I read their chat. We quarrelled and she cried and cried swearing that she has never been with any man but me. She said she was heart broken I am doubting the paternity of her Pregnancy.

On June 26th, we were at the hospital for ultrasound scan and medical check up. The Ultra sound scan report says the pregnancy was 7weeks and 6days on June 26th. Now remember we first met on May 19th after about 6 months, also remember May 19th was three days after her period ended, she was supposed to be in her safe period. Now Let's assume she conceived on May 19th, between May 19th and June 26th is not upto 7weeks and 6days. Again I confronted her with these facts and she's been very emotional, she threatened that we must do paternity test after the baby is born to prove me wrong, she also warned that she will make my life hell after that test for doubting her faithfulness to me.

Please I don't know what to do next, my doubt is not fading because the numbers and events don't add up, I need useful suggestions please. Kindly note that I trust and love my wife, a part of me believes the baby is mine, its the maths that don't add up, and her chat with her Gynecologist best friend that keeps fueling my doubt. What is the best way to handle my situation?

the baby is yours, that's how it's calculated...Some people don't have safe days and sperm can stay for days in a woman bf fertilization.The move u took was very dangerous, u have created a vacuum in your home. Don't blame her if she leaves u after delivery. Be ready
About the chat, some people like to call others sweet names based on family upbringing. For him saying'our baby's doesn't really mean what u assume cos some people like babies and every baby is their baby. As a gynecologist, he will be very incline to being close to babies. The chat must have angered u but the baby is yours.

xtaphare321:
please someone should help me review my Cv, want to know where is issue is coming from, please help a sister.thank you in advance.

pm me

The rate at which sexual evils are being perpetuated in our society is very alarming and there is need to educate our kids on how to protect themselves.

Of recent, a 3year old in my neighborhood was defiled by her step-father at 11pm in her home. The police are on the case as she said it's a 7yr old school mate of hers who did it. Now the question is, can a 7yr old defile a child to the extent of bleeding?

Our children aren't safe, both within and outside their homes. Now, should they be locked indoors always? The answer is NO, should they be allowed to go out at will? NO, but they need to be properly equipped to fight against these predators.

Due to this rising concern, I would be organising an event basically for kids and probably parents to help curb this menace. This will happen within the holidays, no venue yet as the idea is still in the oven. If you know how I can make this more fun, educative and entertaining for them, pls inbox me. Volunteers are highly welcome. Thanks

FexCathy:
My able mamas! I greet una o! Pls attached is a picture of my son's bow legs. He is 2 yrs and some months. Pls mamas with similar experience, will this correct itself as he grows older as most people say? Also what can I be giving to him to also help with it. Thank so much for ur help

I think is hereditary..It will correct as he grows older

Flakky26:
i am about to start using bromergon drug. i.want to hear pple experience of those who has used it before. it has 30 tablets.how many tablets cam one use before preg can occur.

i look forward to hear frm other women.

who Prescribed it for u? Cos my neighbor told me she was asked to take the drug to get pregnant but I discouraged her after reading abt it online. She has been married for almost 2yrs no issue?

queensnow:
Join me mamas

why all these appetizing food Biko nu, u people should be losing weight for hubby . Why why! Making us salivate for no just course.abeg it haf do

nicoleswizzi:
hmmmm my madam does the same...even on d day of her vaccine too she wanted to pour out the rota the nurse was giving her bcs of her cry cry...the nurse quickly made it enter back...not as if they poured evryfin inside her mouth...she was giving her small small...b4 we knew what's up the thing just choked her.not even as if the rota is bitter...( nurse said it isn't bitter)..if u see my baby..open eye wide...shaking her legs like she was gana die (God forbid) the nurse quickly grab her and strtd throwing her up blowing breeze on her face b4 she became normal...fear grip me and dh...that same evening the same thing happened wen I was giving her paracetamol bcs she was running temperature... See shouting Jesus!Jesus!! My baby can cry for the whole Africa...

Sam na drama queen

Crime they say doesn't pay but we see people, both old and young venturing into it like oil business. A case in hand is that of the kidnap kingpin "Evans" whose kidnap saga has rocked the news more than President Buhari's travel stories. Based on his confessions and that of his victims, he deserves face the wrath of the law or probably die. But the question on my lip is what can one learn from his situation? As the saying goes' experience is the best teacher' . For me, I will drive home some points that I think everyone must put into consideration especially the youths who are into one form of crime or the other, with the excuse of "No job".

1. Crime seems sweet and helps one make quick money but it reduces one's self esteem and create fear in the culprit. Imagine "Evans" using different names to perpetuate his evil deeds, am sure he is always afraid for his life thinking someone is after him. Sleep will have eluded him most nights as he is always thinking of how to attend a party and not be noticed.
2. Human want is insatiable. Just as my economics teacher taught me back then in secondary school. No person is satisfied with what they have, when you desire 500N and get it, the next is the desire for 1500N and that's how it keeps increasing till one dies. Nothing satisfies man but God....Evans could have stopped when he could but he wanted more and more money.(Greed)
3. Women are the greatest undoing of man. Evans had a wife and five lovely kids but choose to keep women beside. It was that same woman that brought him before the law. A man can be hardened enough not to give away his friend who is a criminal but a woman won't. We love our lives so much that we can't trade it for anything. Evans would probably have escaped if not for his girlfriend. Men becareful.
4. Parents irresponsibility/broken homes. When parents abandon their kids to their fate, crime becomes their next line of action. When you take a walk down to Oshodi in Lagos, you will understand what I mean. There are numerous young ones who pick pockets, they sleep and eat under the bridge and am left to wonder if they have a home. Some of them do, but no one to take care of them. According to the revelations about Evans family, it's evident he is from a broken home and this greatly affected his upbringing. Although, that is not an excuse as I have seen orphans who do well in life. In all you do, please secure a happy home for your kids.
5. Crime isn't the shortcut to success. Evans knew he would be caught some day but he closed his eyes to the voice. He saw it coming but probably said " when that time comes, we will take care of it, let me enjoy this now". The time finally has come.
6. Ladies don't chase after a man for money. I see alot of young girls running to live with a man without been properly married, even having kids for him. Please, if that is your case, run. Because when the chips are down, your standing alone. Am sure Evans wife can explain better as both families know nothing about her lifestyle.
7. Women know what your husband does for a living. Don't assume, KNOW what he does. If possible follow him to work ocaassionally and know his friends. Evans wife claims she didn't know her husband was a kidnapper, I guess she was too dumb and carried away by money that she never cared to know.

That will be if for now. Let's not just read the story but learn from the story. Crime doesn't pay bros...Yes you, I mean you. Stop it.

jazzyjazz:


Choi be like I don get business name o

u go pay b that

Mamas, my original honey is here...U people have to patronise me ooo as white collar job no gree come lemme keep busy to keep body and soul together. Only man no fit they wrk for this economy. It's tasted and trusted, if u use am and u don't like it, I will refund you. Honey as we all know is good for cough, wound and other menchetre menchetre. Hurry now now.....For Lagos mums only abeg....I can't do the wahala of waybilling outside Lagos for now. Thanks all.

jazzyjazz:
I did my best mbok
Hubby said it tastes nice but that I over fried it and didn't get the shape

Make Una no laff me o
THis is my first time of making it

here is 'Jazzy Puffy wings'

olubankemi:
Don't know the remedy but I think they said breast milk cures anything.

But are you aware your member had apollo? Next time pls don't allow kids to go such places, you can visit alone.

we didn't know ooo....It was even after abt 30mins we realized the guy's red eyes but didn't know it was apollo

Pls don't read and pass...It's like my baby has gotten Apollo cos a church member of ours whom we visited ystday had it...She has sticky white discharge in her eyes and one is red...What do we do?

Just read online that I should apply breastmilk

Giddyperson:
Lol, yeah she's out at the mall with her friends. I'm so tired, I hate when I've to cook just because visitors are coming to see baby, but atleast they drop money

Yesitsme thanks for dropping the recipe.

uwc. But u too like money.....I didn't cook for people oo except they are close family members. I gave malt, groundnut and biscuit a db most only took malt and groundnut

Damsel21:
I wld prefer to visit so I can meet ppl cus I need to get a job staying at home won't make things better rather it worsen it cus I find myself crying out my eyes most times wen I feel lonely and depressed

I understand how u feel cos I also lost my daughter at birth.

Jaygrl:
Thanks for your prompt response...How old is your baby now? What is her weight and body size like now? I am on the big side so I am also trying not to blow up as such.

she was 4months ystday, the last we weighed her she was 5.1kg at 3months. Although she was a preemie, she couldn't latch till 7wkz, I was expressing and giving formula but wasnt seeing it in her, I was too worried as people at health center mistook her for a new born even at 6wks. When I tell them her age, they tell me sorry madam that they asked .she is chubby now that people don't believe she is the one they saw at birth.
My dear, u have to sacrifice and forget your body largeness when it's time, u shed it. People keep tell me I look big but I careless as long as my baby is healthy. After all her health is more important than those days of my worries.

Jaygrl:
Hey Mamas,I am really worried about my baby's growth.I am a ftm... He is 2months and a few days,his weight at birth was 2.7kg and by 6weeks he was 4.1kg. I remember telling his paediatrician that he doesn't look that weight. At the moment he can even be passed for a newborn. He has obviously added little flesh here and there though as he was very skinny at birth.

I started him on NAN 1 just last week as I don't even know if the exclusive breastfeeding thing is okay for him. He cries throughout when he is being fed the infant formula and has refused to suck the feeding bottle and so we use cup and spoon. The milk just spills all over the place.

I am worried as I want him to look physically his age. His father keeps wondering where the food he eats go to...Lol.

Lo's paediatrician says he will be just fine but I need to know from experienced mamas. How do I go about this? I don't mind buying a formula that I know will help him put on weight no matter the cost as all my struggles is because of him.
I would really prefer him using a bottle for his feeds (I bought tommee tippee) as it is less messier. How do I go about his refusing bottles?

Biko don't read and pass o....Help a sister

not all babies are chobby. It's likely h has a strong bone. He willget big eventually. I experienced same just dat she was 2 .5 at birth, 2.7 at 6wks so u c, yours is fine. You need to eat good food for it to reflect in his body.cheers

imam07:
She says the the husband is planning to go to court for divorce.

and he is with the divorce certificate?