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which Kain doctor be this?

CuteMike01:
If you ever had the opportunity to date a celebrity of your choice , who would that be and why? For me I would choose Arianna grande. That girl is too sweet. No blame me o. Na her type I dey like .

Over to you which celeb would you like to date?

Modified : Pls share your reasons along side your crushes to keep the vibe alive. By the way pictures speak louder than words. Thanks

Chai

10yrs ago: Ini Edo
Reason: shes not fat, not slim, not too short or tall

Nowadays: My future woman

Abegiiii

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

My Bible tells me 'ask & ye shall received'

Ask him first before you conclude

Also, you stated it that he's not financially stable so we can't blame him

Above all, some gals don show men pepper so don't quickly judge your man wrongly

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Sixfeetbelle:
I'm stubborn on certain things but I've learnt to bend if the situation demands it. Most times, I don't get enough reason to compromise, so...

When it concerns love, however, me not compromising is because I haven't found love yet. Once I do, I'm sure my second name will turn to 'compromise'. I think I can do anything for love.

Even with your 6 ft belle?

Jason0147:
Op you must be high on something to have compared the legendary Fela of Africa with Lagbaja. Can you compare Lagbaja with the likes of Michael Jackson or Bob Marley? Before Fela there was no Afro beat, Fela was the inventor, discoverer, Founder and composer of Afro beat. His shoes are to big for Lagbaja to even lace. Don't know what's wrong with all this indomie children.
Even the Whites appreciates Fela music that's why they use his music in their movies.

Forgive op, maybe he's in his early 20s

Who knows

NewDelhi:
I'll give it to lagbaja. His music are more captivating, better beats and rhymes to put you in a dance mood. Even if you no dance you go dey shake head.

Give fela 10 mins to sing a song, he will use the first 5 mins for rythymless beats, 2 mins for lyrics wey no get meaning and the last 3 mins for another round of rhythmeless beats.

Lagbaja was way better in my opinion.

Lagbaja is a good musician anytime any day but comparing fela with lagbaja is nothing but huge joke

Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks

This is Africa & not Europe/America

It's man responsibility to provide for the family but that doesn't stop woman from helping their husband when the need arises

The truth is, you can't share financial responsibilities for the family with your wife

If you are expecting something in return for investing in her, I suggest you reduce the amount of investment & put the money on something else that will brings you return & that way you won't be dissapointed

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duduade:
OP you need help o. Off all places mushin olosha.. You have embedded yourself with thugs.. And opportunists

So your new girlfriend schools in the same place with the Ex.. Cultist ke..


At least she should have respected the code till she graduated


The best solution is to relocate o since you can die for B.. Or you both pretend you ain't in a relationship anymore for the main time

No matter how cool u r, stay for mushin for few months den u go know sey na everyone get vexing spirit inside Dem

Mushin my former adugbo, chai

tensazangetsu20:
Idiots. Closed borders for a whole year and increased poverty and food inflation. Fools.

Bro u dey vex o

But c eh, u r very right

This administration is filled with people that gat nothing good upstairs


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