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Dexter08:
Dear men,

I write to you this day to tell you that women will always choose the best of us.

Women will always choose men who has leverages, advantages over others most especially when women are in their prime.

It is why they find it easy to discard men of low status, men still struggling, men who lives in a one room apartment.

We actually cannot blame them for it is in the very nature of women to want security and provision from their men.

The onus now lies on you to level up, to become a man of value, to become a man you can be proud of.

While the responsibility does lies on you to become a better man it is also imperative to know that women should never be the reason for your grind even if they are sure to buzz around you like flies to stool when you attain society's ordained success.

Your goal should be improvement; to be better than you were yesterday; smarter, stronger than you were yesterday; wiser than you were yesterday.

Dear men, cussing out a woman over her inherent nature or having a pity on oneself is surely a waste of time and only help accentuate the hate and the depression.

It does you no good.

No matter how hard a saying this may sound, women will always choose the best of us. At least till they reach the dreaded 30.

To hell with this make money and women will magically start chasing you... let's us stop this fantasy thinking.

There was this fine girl I gave lift. She stopped at a house. Later, I learnt that's her boyfriend house. I'm not here to broke shame anyone but her boyfriend doesn't look like he has much money. Although he has this bad boy rebellious look.

Anytime I here the make money and women will chase you, I don't totally cosign with that.

I don't want to brag but I just want to pass a point. I work as a sales guy in a very prestigious company on the island... own a nice new car, I recently moved into a nice flat I rented. I might not be wealthy, but I'm living very comfortably. Yes, I get choosen signals from women from time to time, but I'm not seeing women rolling over me and begging for my love.

Same thing with most of my colleagues and friends who are also earning big... I don't see women chasing them and licking their feet while they walk. They still having issues with women. But yet we say make money and women will chase after your dick.

I know a guy in my neighborhood who isn't making money as much as I do, but he change girls all the time. He's not having any issues with women.

I have learned that women love guys who are rebels. The guys who give off this I don't give a Bleep vibe This guy in my neighborhood has that attitude.

I playfully asked him how he does it.

He said "omo don't mind all the girls, Dem to like dick too much.'

He was saying, this girls like sex too much that's why he's able to get them.


But mean while on this thread, guys are preaching that women don't like sex.

Guys....If you are there waiting till you start making millions before you start getting sex and getting girls.....You are wasting your time!

I'm not saying you shouldn't work hard and make money. Definetely, every guy should be grinding and focus on improving themselves.

But I'm just saying that, the woman you are hoping to Bleep when you finally become rich is probably fucking a broke nigga who has I don't give a Bleep attitude.

Better learn what these rebellious bad guys are doing to attract women, or keep waiting till you make billions before you start bleeping girls.

This is why the only guys I listen to on this thread is ubunja and Pukkalolo and maybe few other guys. These are the guys that truly understand women and game...the rest are just copy and paste

Ahijo1990:
Please can anyone recommend very dope masculinity Books for me here?


Someone recommended The Wall Speaks by Jerr here. I read and totally enjoyed it. Easily one of the top 5 books for me.

Shameless Approach. After reading that book, I felt like an alpha beast.

Let's me buy a land here in case this gets to front page

Sucre6:
Believe it or not, girls don't like guys that try to be too smooth on a first date, they could easily read between lines, funny enough, girls may have up to 10 dates between two weeks unlike guys, so there is nothing they haven't seen nor heard, so to catch their fancy you should try to bring to the table some weird stuff that a guy wouldn't normally do.

Be spontaneous, don't be too smooth, she has seen all that. Believe me, girls love adventurous guys they have seen conventional relationship too much and bored already especially those ones that see themselves as pretty and guys are all over them.


For example, there is this half cast babe in my class that year for uni, all guys guys we're trying to woo her while me I don't even send her, on a good day I meet and chatted with her my first word to her bust her head.

I told her smoothly with a wild grin

" SEE YOU THINK YOU ARE SO PRETTY ABI, JUST BE Deceiving YOUR SELF"

She was dumb founded, jaw dropped and confused, she wanted to know why I would say such thing to her when other guys are begging for her attention, I was difference, mysterious, she wanted to know me more

we later became friends and from then we started fvcking each other even without me asking her to be my girlfriend, my friends couldn't believe the girl would fall for me that don't give a fvck about her

In the long run, she became obsessed with me, and literally asked me to be her boyfriend, we dated until even two years after graduating .

So true! When a guy and girl who aren't really familiar with each other meet for the first time, sometimes it's almost impossible for things go smooth unless the guy/girl is not being real or the guy is trying to impress the lady. When 2 opposite sex meet for the first, I think there's a natural friction that they both have to manage and overcome.

An excellent writer

Hmm, nice one.. Oga Seun we need things like this at the front page.

Sometimes men and women can be friends, I mean friends with benefits

Sadly, many men will forever be a Simp.

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Eberechi24:
Dear Teenage boy, Why are you angry that you didn't Bleep pussy you spend your hard earned money (#500) on?. Why are you gyrating over Nairaland crying foul that you have no girlfriend or your girlfriend dumb you? Why are campaigning for alpha male and how you are joining the alpha male crew? Why are you dumb and stupid?
Most guys you tag alpha males have no problem with their lives, they parents laid solid foundation for them, they can spend their life savings on women because they don't know the value of money. Their parents planned their lives right from womb, They grew up in connections but you, you have nothing, your parents could have given you the world but they don't have, This alone should make you angry at yourself but no, you spend energy thinking about girls that should deserve you or one that destroy your life. You should be angry you are broke, you should be angry you don't know what shape your life will take from 5yeras from now. You should be mad at yourself!!

The funny thing is that some of the young men you look up to as alpha male as you all tagged it won't help you, ask them for business idea, or even money to support your career/business, they won't give but ask them for tips to lay different women, they will give you, even give you link to porn sites, give you money for ashawo joint, give you for subscription just to mess up your life. Why not use your common sense?
What happens After sleeping with those girls? Will it add value to your life? Will you add money to your account. No, what will happen las las is that those girls you slept with will move on with their life, get married happily and start building their lives and families while you keep hopping from one pussy to another with no vision.
Tomorrow you start swearing for village people.

Dear Teenage boy, Set your priorities right, village people won't visit you. We are almost done with 2018, What do you have for 2019?

Nice piece, but this doesn't seem like advice, it seem more like "bashing" the guys. Is that a way of expressing your frustrations ?

Op, stop worrying about us (guys). Focus more on yourself, and build your own life

dominique:
What if the person the police stopped is a kidnapper with a kidnap victim in his trunk, that's how Davido would have jumped in to distort the investigation. No civilian has a right to interfere with police activity, the police must be very silly to have acted on Davido's orders. That's if the story is true

Incase you don't know, Naija police and SARZ does not disturb the actual kidnappers and Thieves . Those ones move freely, go and ask Evans and our politicians. Our so called police are moving about harassing innocent drivers and citizens.

hmm, I really need to learn Graphics design

afolayan22:
When asked, '


Why do you want to leave the Country” at a Visa Interview.
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I heard girls over there are hot in bed

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