₦airaland Forum

makydebbie:
Our younger generation have made it seem men are the enemy. Hence, turning the concept of feminism to gender war. It was not supposed to be so.

You are making sense right now.

Yewandequeen:
be confident in your own cup size and the rest is history.

Easier said than done.

SoapQueen:
Okay. Thank you.

You're welcome.

SoapQueen:
Where do women see these faithful men? God please, bless me with an understanding and faithful man. I will worship him eh..
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Nah, God has already blessed you with an understanding and faithful man, but I guess you've friend zone him

highqueen:
it's only guys with low self esteem that sees a hustling lady as ashewo.

I'm a guy..But I agree with you on this one.
Most guys are so judgmental and that vex me a lot. Some guys who call a girl ashawo are making their money illegally , some are Yahoo guys, scammers, some are even arm robbers. Yet they still have the gut to call a lady ashewo. It does not make sense.

iLegendd:
Some guys would've sent her 100k just to show her they're big boys, but in my case, it's different. There is nothing like big boys, but wise decisions.

A guy who spend lot of money in order to get in to a lady's pant is a weak ass man. That's just my opinion.

RuthDaniels:
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Well I'm happy she made something good out of her disappointment, she didn't turn to a bitter feminist.

So once a girl is heartbroken by a man, she turns to a feminist

Bloggers must put food on their table by all necessary means

Hanseel1:
Even when you're married to a man you're still his equal.

My damsel and I are heads of the home.
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You make your wife head of the home You are not a real man.

A Man is suppose to be head of the family, A man is suppose to be in charge and control.. Stop being a pussy.

EzendiEgo1:
How I wish you know how many times I had been rejected in many relationship just because I was broke. You will cry

Lol, Simply double your hustle

Op, You're tryna hustle here, I respect that..

Just wanna say something..You saying a guy should have your 'kinda dating skills' in order to get a girl mad over him. If having your 'kinda skills and tips' were the secret to making a girl fall in love with a guy, then most guys will be good with girls in no time. Because, all it will take is just (go online or probably buy your books) learn some dating skills, and techniques then all their dating issues will be over. But you know that's not possible..But I understand you want to make money off your books.

The real cause of why most guys are not getting the girls they desire has nothing with the fact that they don't have your type of dating knowledge or skills. It simply because they don't have 'Confidence' and money. Leave the money aspect tho. Right now I'm talking of 'confidence'

From my personal experience, you can't become 'really confidence' with women by simply reading 'dating books' or any kinda books. You become confidence by going out and 'trying things' and learning from your mistakes.. What's working for you might not work for others ,because we are all different human beings with different taste, believe,background, religion and so on.

Take care bro.

Hanseel1:
Success that was achieved with her pussy..

Baba, how did u know it was achieved with her pussy

Annnonymous:
Haters... Instead of you to pray to God for your own success stories.

My brother, I just tire for these haters...

Only broke niggas worries about all these kinda trash. Op, better go n hustle...

fuellessgen:
Your assumption is mighty flawed.

The danger in using money to attract ladies is that you'll always attract gold diggers and leeches. A woman who loves in you in your broke state is the one for you. A woman who falls in love with you because of other admirable qualities she sees in you is the real deal.

Bro,I get your point, but money is still very important. Stop fooling yourself.

Same with his mother and sisters..

So so fake.. Anyways who's still fighting for girl(who is not is wife or relation) in this 21st century..

biacan:
Not yet surprise her with goodies, preferably Assurance maybe she might reconsider you out of pity

Yeye

Safiaa:
Could never work on me. Will move on, dont have time for time wasters.

What is this one feeling like

pocohantas:
You all should learn to treat your partners based on their individuality. Humans are different: women are different.

Y'all act like you know so much about women, but when it boomerangs in ya face, you'll come and start disturbing us online with epistle on how women are confused.

My dear, me self tire...What these small small inexperience boys don't understand is that what works on one woman might not work on the next one. Human beings are different..

BossLaifay:
No!
Do we still have men that would say 'baby, lets not smash. I want to preserve your innocence for your husband'?

Yes, There are men like that. But it's too risky because even if I decide to preserve her innocence by not fucking her, she will call me mugu in her mind and of course go ahead spread her legs for the next guy...
I can't be a fool in this 21st century

joeeee240:
I'M GLAD YOU SAID YOU'RE OK CUZ THAT'S JUST WHAT YOU ARE, SIMPLY OK. SO NEXT TIME DON'T COME SPILLING TRASH YOU DON'T KNOW QUARTER OF

Yea bro, I'm absolutely OK with women..

joeeee240:
PS I'M NOT A FAN OF HIS SUBSTANDARD WORK

Then what are you doing here and why are you telling him to explain more on drills on how to block women on street , you hypocritical rat..

In as much as I don't need the Op tips because I'm already OK with girls, But out of curiosity I always find myself here. I respect the fact that he's helping inexperience guys over here.

If you don't like the good work the Op is doing here, you can get lost. Nobody is forcing you to stay. Most people here appreciate it, and they are learning from it everyday.




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joeeee240:
YOU ARE NOT A NATURAL OBVIOUSLY. ALSO YOU SOUND LIKE A LEVEL 1 INTERMMEDIATE OR A LEVEL 3 BEGINNER. BALLS AND CONFIDENCE CAN HELP YOU ONLY AS MUCH AS THE APPROACH. YOU'LL JUST BE APPROACHING BLINDLY. I'M ALSO CERTAIN THAT YOU DON'T BLOCK GIRLS CUZ BLOCKING HAS DIFFERENT SCENARIOS WITH DIFFERENT METHODS. AND FOR YOUR INFO. TEACHING TECHNIQUES AND TRICKS IS PART OF TEACHING SOMEONE "HOW TO FISH". WHAT'S WITH THE MUSCLE IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO THROW A PUNCH. WHAT'S WITH A MUSCLE WHEN YOU CAN'T BLOCK A PUNCH. BELIEVE Y'ALL HAVE A LONG WAY TO GO CUZ IT'S OBVIOUS Y'ALL DEAL WITH 5 6 AND 7S. AS FOR HIGH 8 9 AND 10, NONE OF WHAT YOU'RE SAYING WILL WORK

Honestly, I don't understand what you mean by Naturals , level 1 intermediate, level 3 beginner.. I don't even know what you mean by : 5 6 and 7s 8 9 and 10.. what up with the those terms and numbers


You said
"OF TEACHING SOMEONE "HOW TO FISH". WHAT'S WITH THE MUSCLE IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO THROW A PUNCH. WHAT'S WITH A MUSCLE WHEN YOU CAN'T BLOCK A PUNCH."

Physically, a guy with huge muscle does not NEED to learn how to block a punch or throw a Punch.. He can decide to learn but he does necessarily needs it. If you throw a Punch at him, his strong muscular body will naturally neutralize the effect of the Punch. So learning to Dodge/block Punch is useless to him. And he does not need to learn tricks, tactics on how to throw a Punch because just one random punch from him can kill you instantly or leave you unconscious.

Same with your Emotional Muscle.

Emotionally, a guy with huge confidence does not NEED to learn how to block any emotional or hard to get altitude-punch a girl throws at him. He can decide to learn but he does necessarily need it. If she throws a Punch at him, his "strong muscular mindset" will naturally neutralize the effect of the Punch.
Strong muscular mind = I don't give a Bleep altitude

So learning to Dodge/block Punch is useless to him.
And he does not need to learn tricks, drills on how to throw a Punch (I.e woo a girl) because just one random punch from him can kill you instantly or leave you unconscious( i.e make the girl falls for him).

And that's the good work the Op, horddon is doing here. He's giving you some dating drills and at same time, teaching you "how to fish". Be Appreciative.

joeeee240:
FOR YOUR INFORMATION, HARDDON TAUGHT ME ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!! BUILDING EMOTIONAL MUSCLE AND ALL THAT CRAP IS NOT ENOUGH. IT'S THE REASON WHY 95% OF NATURALS ARE POOR WITH BLOCKING GIRLS ON THE STREETS. NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOUR SO CALLED EMOTIONAL MUSCLE IS, YOU NEED TRICKS AND SKILLS

Lolz.. I don't know your own definition for 'Naturals' but one thing I know about myself and guys who are good with chicks is that: You don't need tricks and drills to approach ( or as you said BLOCK) girls on the streets. What you need is BALLS. When I say balls, I mean CONFIDENCE.. Once you have huge balls, you will never need drills, or tricks ever again.

I think Horddon is not a fool, he's actually a smart guy. He knows if you're totally Dependant on drills, you can never be good with girls. And that's the reason he's giving you fish(drills) to get started if you are a novice while simultaneously teaching you to fish. But you joeeee240 and others like are just 'dickheads', you don't wanna appreciate the fact that he 'teaching you how to fish'. You want him to keep giving you fish in your mouth. #lazy youth
And guess what;
BALLS/CONFIDENCE = Strong Emotional muscle.
And that is what Horddon is talking a about when he say you should take baby actions, so you can build you balls gradually..

Women love a guy with huge Balls/confidence NOT a guy that knows lot of drills and tricks.

joeeee240:
THIS IS A POOR ANSWER. IF YOU NOTICED, YOU DIDN'T EVEN ANSWER THE QUESTION HE ASKED. THERE ARE STILL METHODS, IT'S NOT JUST ABOUT BUILDING ANY YEYE MUSCLE. THIS IS WHY I SAY YOUR TEACHINGS ARE NOT UP TO PAR

HARDDON.. I don't no if I should blame you for what this guy (joeeeee240) wrote up there. You've really spoil these guys by giving them lot of fish(drills) instead simply teaching them "how to fish "..
The post you wrote up there about building your (emotional) muscle by taking baby action until you can be able take giant action is the best post I've seen so far from you and from anybody posting here. Because it's about 'learning how to fish'
But, the joeeee240 guy and some other guys would not appreciate it. They prefer you keep feeding them with more fish, drills, trick.

It's no surprise some guys here will never be good with girls.

Who feminist help

See guys dropping their digit

dollyjoy:
Why do guys date very pretty girls but when it comes to marriage they settle for average, most times below average ladies? I wonder!!

Because, those ones you call "pretty" are only good for sex. And that's the only thing they have to offer.

xedyl:
What happened to your hair bro?

His hair was one of the items demanded as bride prize

Op, your wife is beautiful tho.