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pascal558:
please i want a website that is cheap and affordable.. i want a website just like old version of olx for selling on campus... anybody here who can help out?

Sure, I can design a cheap, affordable and highly professional website for you..
PM me If you're interested!!!

Interesting

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You try

cool

iLegendd:
You have a great point, but let look at this scenario.

You are in a foreign country and you want to return. Since you're a Nigerian, does it mean you shouldn't have money in your hand?

You want to visit your cousins to spend 5 months with them. Since they're your cousins, does it mean you shouldn't go with your clothes?

You are walking on the road without a single money on you, then you saw a Chinese restaurant and you really need to eat. Will you enter the restaurant or keep walking home? You'll not enter the restaurant. Without money in your pocket, you won't be confident to enter the restaurant to order for food.

This formula is the money or confidence we are giving men.

Do you go a Nigerian exam hall without a single preparation since Nigeria is "ours?" Someone who prepares himself to defend a school project is better than someone who isn't prepared.

In the book, and after teaching, we told our students not to be in their heads. In fact, we told them to only use the system as a backup, but let their conversation flow naturally.

Now, here is John, who knows this system and here is Emeka, who doesn't know it.

These two people are having a free flowing conversations with two ladies without using a technique. Though, John has a technique under his belt, but he's letting the conversation flow naturally, but Emeka doesn't have any.

Between these two people, who will run out of things to say faster? It's Emeka. Having a technique locked down gives John extra confidence which Emeka does not have.

For a man to be confident, there must be something you're holding on to. In conversation, having the FemaleSextapes technique gives you enormous confidence over other guys. This makes you a great conversationist. This keeps you organized.

The moment a man, country, or company is organized, greatness is inevitable. Nigeria had never been organized since 1960 and this is why the country isn't great.

Have you gone to a man's house, but when your turned, the whole compound or room isn't organized? Also, have you gone to a house or room where everything is organized? Which do you prefer?

This formula is only a way to keep men organized and not ramble from left to right without a definite direction.

In life, people who are not organized are not ready for success. In conversation, most men are not organized. Luckily, the formula "FemaleSextapes" is here to keep them stay organized. Use it and see the difference.

A man who knows one or two legal tricks is better than a man who doesn't. A blogger who knows SEO tricks is better than a blogger who doesn't. Having a formula doesn't mean you're fake, but you're prepared. Albert Einstein has lots of formula to solve different problems.

FemaleSextapes is the formula to solve conversation problems or lacking what to say between a man and a woman. Men who don't know it will always be behind the conversation spectrum. #Fact.

OK, Mr A will look at a number and call it 6, while Mr B will look at that same number and call it 9. Both might be right because they're looking at it from different angles.. Based on these analogy I might say you're right..

But realistically, Let's look at it as a whole not from a specific angle; When Mr John is talking to this new sexy girl he's attracted too, he needs FemaleSextapes in order to stay organized, confidence and not run out of things to say right ?

And here is the funny part...> Mr John has a sexy sister (off course, he loves and respect her) but guess what; he doesn't need FemaleSextapes to hold a conversation with her, John is organized and confident "by default" when interacting with his sister. In fact to a large extent, he doesn't even give a fuc!k if he is not organized and confidence when talking to her which paradoxically makes him even more confident and organized. I've never on this planet earth hear any guy say he ran out things to say when taking to his sister..

Like I said before all these come from one CORE issue ..> "trying to impress the girl" so she can agree to date you or have sex with you..

I feel "running out of things to say" when talking to a girl you like is a symptom of a problem, and that problem is trying to impress the girl". Every guy knows what to say when talking a girl (even if he is in a conversation with Nicky Minaj or Tiwa Savage). The reason why he is running out things to say is because he's thinking of what things to say that will make her like him or that will not get him rejected by her..

In my own opinion and based on my experience, my advice for guys is just to "speak their mind" when talking to girl, same way they speak their mind when talking to their sisters and their fellow guys. The conversation will flow better that way.

Enough said.

pansophist:
When you can be yourself without fear of being misjudged, or that she will leave.

When she don't ask for money unreasonably.

When she calls you at least once a day on average, and is satisfied with the sound of your voice.

When you can ask her for money, and she will give if she can.

When she gladly introduce you to people that matters to her (family, friends, workmates etc)

When she nurture you like her offspring (e.g. cooking for you, washing your stuff)

When she is thinking long term with you.

Most importantly, if woman loves you, you will know. It's one thing that can't be faked, at least not for long

Bro, you're very on point .

This does not make sense to me. cos' We don't need formula when interacting with our sisters, cousins, and male friends, but now we suddenly need formula in order to hold a conversation with a girl you like.

The core problem of all these is "trying to impressed a girl".. If you weren't trying to impress her, you'd talk to her just the way you talk to your sisters and friends..

My advice is forget about these 'formula', just say what's on your mind, express what you think. Stop following some silly formula. Women are also human beings not mathematics or computer.

Jeez.. so much hate on these thread

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Hmmm
The sacrifice has being accepted. If you know, you know..

Lolzz...Una no go kill person with laugh for this nairaland

milemimi93:
This is why I don't believe in this village people sh!t.

You can be anything you want if you work hard towards it.

Bro, village people dey.. They're in existence very well.. At least that's why we all need God grace to succeed.

iLegendd:
Number 34

The lesson here is: men should make money not to use it to lure women, but to use it to feed themselves and feed the needy.

Women should only tag along while you enjoy your money. If she has finally become your wife without using money to lure her, then it's time to spoil her with money, great sex, and romance.

Never use money to make a woman love you. She will never love you, but she may give you sex and pretend to love you. Behind your back, something that will shock you is going on.

A woman fùcking you because you have money doesn't mean she loves you and a man fùcking a woman because she's beautiful doesn't mean he loves her. But there is a way to know if it's true love and that way is to get money out of the way.

Remember that quote above. "There is a way to know if it's true love and that way is to get money out of the way."

That quote has lots of meaning, but most of you won't see it.

Typing...

@bolded, Real Talk

Dude got no ear

Mujtahida:
It's often said that behind every successful man is a woman but I say behind every successful woman are PLENTY MEN!

My Man, Sense overdose dey worry you

Goddyss:
Amara you are sounding more feminist these days.
To be a man isn't really easy.

Can a lady go hungry for complete whole day knowing nobody is ready to lend you a thousand naira? Not possible except the lady has no male friend who has a 1000 naira.

That's a simple example above

Bro, Sense tie you bomb..Your head dey there..

Where's Eco bank

Nice writeup. When interacting with a guy or lady you are interested in, it's advisable to be your real self. If you display any fake ass behaviour in order to impress her/him, you'll regret it on the long-run..

ritylove:
So i taught i i finally met this Mr perfect, though i kind of liked him from the start but i never gave in, to me he seemed more of a player so i ignorantly declined all advances he made towards me even when i liked him i actually wanted to know how serious he was or he was just trying to make me out as another regular girl but quite suprising he neva gave up kept pushing till the very last moment i finally gave in,on a condition of no sex relationship which he gladly accepeted he Quoted SEX IS NOT EVERTHING I LOVE YOU FROM MY HEART.Smiles


My first visit to his apartment was tremendous he treated me like a queen, made me feel at home he was nice throughout i started feeling i was wrong about him at first because his reasoning and carefully crafted out chioce of words where just too good to be true everything about my stay was perfect after which he took me home and dropped me at my place.

It was on a friday morning he called and asked me if i will be free so he can come pick me up which i agreed, just after i closed from work got home freshened up i called him, said he was on his way,so we got to his place everything was normal at forst but right before we went to sleep there he goes,he acted like a wild dog everything about him seemed to change within the climps of an eye sure i did refuse him of his desire he suddenly became angry he neva said a word till the next day which he dropped me at my place before leaving for work now he be sending me all sort of messages that i dont love him nor care about him and that am taking him for a fool how wrong he was

now my question now is

can a nigeria guy date a girl without sex



or is there anything wrong in dating a girl without sex why cant our relationship be like what i see in zee world movies just because you bought her some gift paid her transport doesnt entitle you free acess to sex or is there something else am missing

His true color came out. He wanted sex right from the beginning.
Most guys are fond of this rubbish, they'll PRETEND they are not interested in sex, just like what the the mumu dude said. " SEX IS NOT EVERTHING I LOVE YOU FROM MY HEART". He never actually meant it. He wanted sex from the start. Every guy wants sex. Any guy that says he does not want sex is telling lies or impotent.
That's why I love myself and my approach with women and dating, I'm always straightforward about my interest in a girl, and I don't back down from it. If she's not interested, she can get lost. Most times the girl always come back to me on her own when she's done with her 'forming'..
ilegend let me know you thought on this.

This is Nigeria

Say no unprotected sex, STD no dey show for face

Lol

iLegendd:
madone, ShyCypher, YomiTee123, youcanmakeit, 1x2x3, CyberWolf,

I'm not your hater, fan or neutral. I just say what's on mind and I don't care how you take it..

Your products (as in, your books and advice on dating and relationship) seems good..I don't need them tho..

But you need to be HONEST With your buyers, you don't need to give fake/dishonest promises like "if you buy my chatdict book, you can get any woman to fall in love with you". I'm sure so many desperate inexperienced guys have fall for that line.

Anyways Good luck and God bless your hustle.

Malawian:
My own didn't even remember yesterday was my birthday, i broke up with her by 12am this morning. Nothing can be more tiresome than putting in so much effort and emotions on a girl who cant be bothered about putting in an effort herself.

Na Real Man you be

alexistaiwo:
Let me imagine something first.
So if I stand now and this op stands beside me.
People will say "see two men standing".


Not knowing that what they are seeing is a man and a half man weakling standing.


Just one question.
Who do you like this?

You don break my rib with laughter

Let her flaunt it, that's the only thing she has to offer

At least you're a lady, and you have pus*y to offer in order to get the job.. So many men have gone for hundreds of interviews, but they were never called back simply because they don't have pus*y and boobs. Some times I envy women

kinzation:
please i need an advice on how to. deal with a girlfriend of mine who gets angry easily at anything
But she loves me to. the core and after our fights she keeps loving me the more.
Just of recent after bidding her Goodnight on the phone
i came online on WhatsApp to check some messages and she saw me.and clamied i was chatting another lady Which was not case
called her severally not until this morning before she picked to hear me out
pls any advice in managing her anger Which has become her habit

Why do you want to manage her anger Managing her anger is not in your control, only her can manage her anger. If you don't like the fact that she gets angry easily, dump her ass and move on. Stop trying to manage other people bad behavior.