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[quote author=Innobee99 post=62083404]Hi Nairalander
I have read alot of relationship issues on this platform and I know many have gotten their solution from here. Am presently in a great confusion about a life time decision.
I met this lady while I was still serving, i.e 2015. I mean during my NYSC days. I love and cherish her so much and she knows. Immediately after my service, I moved to Abuja to find a greener pasture, after being through hell, I finally got a place with an Estate developer. Money wasn't my problem and I do send my babe money as a nice guy. Her birthday came, I did the necessary things a gentleman will do to please his woman.
Fast forward, I lost my job cuz the company was sealed up by EFCC. I started managing my life with the little I saved. My babe started displaying some nasty attitudes like she no longer call unless I call. She now compares me with how other guys are taking good care of their babes. Though I recently got a job with National Open University of Nigeria, and my pay is not too bad. I used my first salary to rent a self contain apartment so I dnt bother my colleague I was initially staying with which my babe knew that was what I used the money for. I haven't gotten salary for last month and I got a text from her telling me how she is tired of my broke as, dryness, poverty, how I have not added any value to her life and many provocative languages beyond my comprehension. Forgetting how I once took good care of her. This lady will only flash me and if I dnt call back due to the fact that I dnt have airtime, all manner of insults will rain on me that day.
Please, my people, is she someone that can really stand by you when things are rough? I love her so much but I dnt want to ever make a life time mistake. She threatens me of going out with other guys if I dnt get her a phone before December.
Should I quit and move on or what do you guys suggest I do as this point.
cc: Lalasticlala[/quote
this story look like cook up story well seasoning, BT in other hand if is true, marrying her will b the life mistake u will made, abeg run for ur dear life, love she did not love you a bit,

eazyfocus:
OP if you know wetin dey good for you better tell her and give her money to go and treat herself if you love her and you have the money, or simply tell her to go for test and treat herself. This is from a guy that have chin chomchin for staph. That thing wicked, you get lock your own shown fast. My own no show any sign, nothing nothing, after so many years. As i dey tell you now i no fit sex any girl without both of us going for test or i wait till i get married. Staph bad.

how u treated ur own,been à virgin I don't knw hw it got me

Tahra:
To be honest,I'm having a hard time understanding your english.Can you switch to pidgin?Please?

ooooh,sorry I do speak in parable some time,hoping that you will reply me with,you don't understand, thank God you just did,what I mean in that parable was that,mail me your number just for friendship, and nothing more,hope you get it

Tahra:
Why should I?

girl u will always put on defensive mechanism, any way it regular answer(just for friendship and nothing more)am good in deceiving people.hope you get my point of view

Tahra:
Sure. But my name isn't Sudan.Name's Tahrah,what's yours?

David,mail me your number at fasanu9@gmail.com

Tahra:
Sudan.

sudan,am from Nigeria guess it going to be cool making friend with you

Tahra:
Huh?

but wish country are you from

what is my chance in gaining admission into yabateach with the aggregate of 57.5% material and matterology,met&mat

Tahra:
No.

tarah

if she no tell u,won't u marry her,abeg put DAT aside,in as much u love her ogbeni go marry her,it all girl dat Bleep around she is nt the only one,even the one in church self,if they count for aba,u go open ur mouth wide,were u c good girl,na manage dey bro

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laborious:
Yes I just said it, right now I cannot sleep, because its just too heavy for me to bear alone, I read earlier today about some writer who never wanted a girl child, I don't wish for a girl child too, as a matter of fact I wish the world could be complete without them,
I meet this small girl some months ago at a bar where she works, she's not that pretty, dark skinned, a little above 18 years, I felt pity for her because I just wondered how a girl as young as that would go out to hustle, then I liked her because of the courage she had to be working, I use to tip her most of the time, my friend saw that I liked her, her encouraged me to get a phone number, but I hesitated, saying I don't want to be a pedophile, my friend then convinced me further that she is the kind of girl that one can help, mould to ones taste, bla bla bla..I still did not yield, but latter on I just thought of gettting close to her just to know her, but alas! She had quit the job, I felt like nigga you don dull,i tried to get her number from her colleagues but no one has it, so I concluded that maybe it was not meant to be, exactly a month later, I meet her again at the hotel I use to hang out almost every minute of everyday coz its close to my house, I was surprised, and It was like this is a sign, that very day I told her a lot of things, how I have been searching for her and how to contact her and all, she told me just started working there and I was glad, I advised her,tried to talk to her about life, I discovered she has passion for education and all,so I generally encouraged her and asked her out, after she had told me her age o..she agreed and we started seeing, I initiated sex but she said no so I calm down, at the hotel they don't treat her well, in terms feeding, like they eat once in a day , as my normal self, I use to give her some money to eat and I buy her stuffs, I had called her earlier today while I was in town, asked her what I can buy for her from town and she said anything, then I bought some stuffs she could eat so she will be fine for the night,so this evening, I was at the hotel as usual, they boiled yam and they were eating it with just palm oil, I was surprised, I had not given her what I bought for her though because I don't want guys around to have a bad impression about her, you know what I mean, so I told her not to worry that I got her something better to eat and that later in the evening I will bring it to her as she was busy then, so while I was on my way to the hotel I called her to come out to get what I bought for her, but she was answering like someone taking the deek, I was confused like what's going on? Because I just left there like 3 mins ago, although I made them believe I wasn't coming, back there, I called again she could not pick up, I tried several times but when she picked she could hardly speak out, like she was moaning and trying to talk at the same time...so I entered inside the hotel, the only people remaining there is the manager and his younger brother, the manager was sitting outside while his brother was inside, the manager knew I was into the girl but based on the fact that I was a good customer he could not stop me, I went close to there room, omo I just they hear...paaaa..paaaa.paaaaa.paaaa..see smashing ooooo. My mind cut, I weak, I tire, as in my heart ached me, I dnt know what to think, I just dragged myself home with the stuffs I bought for her.. I don't know what is wrong with our girls o... I don't know what the circumstance could be, because I can't imagine it, was she threatened,or brainwashed, what couLd they have done to her? For her to just open leg give people feeding. You with yam and palm oil!! All these things that I have seen and experience just makes me lose hope in girls, that I can't just help it but to dislike them...

manager bro,av been a regular customers to that girl,u are jst a new comer,nd u won't to stop wat av being happing since ,in jst two week,Abba brother kole work,wat I won't u to knw is that they av b fucking each other b4 u knw the girl,if u still need her jst ask her that is she dating guy,nd the only thing that can stop her from continuing fucking the guy is for her to stop working in the hotel, if u av more than enough u can help her leave a normal life,nd never expect anytin in return,cos u can't make her ur house wife again,ur mind will always b there,jst help her base on ,u are capable of helping her,nd notin more.

Tahra:
No.

I see those word are abbreviated word,so it hard for people in other country to read it,

[quote author=Tahra post=61818842]What are you saying?[/quote are u nt frm Nigeria

Tahra:
Supersuave got the card already.

u dey serious say dey snd u card,b4 I enter power house,make anybody wey u like,b4 there hand touch the screen of there phone make the screen brake as if,train pass on top the phone

who dey course there Jesus I don won make tunder fire me ooo make I quickly go unlike the one I like oooo,I No weather he get cow Horne at home

Tahra:
You wantu start your own??

sorry bro DAT I denial u ur #1500 card na me like dis one

youngfocus:
if u don kill b4 like my post

so na only two ppl kill b4,I need more like joor,u won't tell me na only two ppl don kill mosquito b4 abi

if u don kill b4 like my post

una by force don't like my post,abi u no hear say the last person wey like my post dey for alagbon dey chill wit d nigga there,wen I ask who like cocaine,if u av at home like my post,nt knw say C.I.D dey for nairaland
u even like nd nawa ooooo

youngfocus:
..

30 minute pass b4 u like am oooo,abeg wey my #1500 card na stop watch I take time am

..

Peachess:
Yup, I'm the one

we can make a good friend sha,were did u stay

Peachess:
Yup, I'm the one

we can make a good friend sha,were did u stay

Cloggym:
Good evening you all. Please I'd be needing sincere and helpful advices on here.

I have this girl I'm getting close to and she's everything I want in a woman(calm, loving and reserved). I am 24, running my Msc. Programme and she's 18, seeking admission into the University. We have been talking for over 3 months now and we've met twice. I know she feels same about me.

Before we started talking, while still getting to know her, I asked her if she's got a bf, she said yes that she's got a guy and that they're not really close and that he doesn't call her that much. She also told me they live about 1.45hrs apart.

During the course of our friendship, we've gotten really close, talked about everything, shared experiences. Most times if we don't chat for some days owing to my busy schedule in sch, she will send me a msg that she misses me and all that. I've also told her severally that I like her a lot.


Now, the issue is: this afternoon while we were talking, some things led to the other and we came to a point where I asked her why she's been rejecting guys ( cos she had earlier told me about some guys that approached her in the past and she rejected them all), she replied , " I rejected them cos I already have a bf"

That statement hurt me a lot, pls house, should I continue talking to her and make my intentions known cos I've truly fallen in love with this girl or should I just leave it as just friends?

I can see u truely love her, BT she is nt ready for dat nw,nd am very sure, u can't wait for sure girl till she is ready for marriage, in Di's case it two option,(1)chop nd clean mouth(2)jst stay in dat friend level ,any 1 u won't quote me back,BT as for marriage it won't work,cos she is still young she still won't to explore, she jst leave u one day heart broken nd move with another guy,cos teenage girl like new tins wen it come to relation ,

Peachess:
I grew up around lots of guys so I know how they talk. You're a guy so you should to know better. I should be asking you not the other way round.

waow love dat piece,bt am jst a perfect gentle man,(am nt trying to woo u)churchly type,I Neva roll wit bad guys,I get no ideal,weather u can share a piece of d discussion u had with those guy wit me,by d way were u the 1 at ur dp

full time Marseille - Paris SG 2:2 live

Peachess:
I don't know joor... OK he has been "chopping" but if he takes her back he'll probably do the normal thing guys do, wreck that place down below beyond repair.

waow,seem I need to knw,hw to wreck that place,as a revenge on all my gf DAT cheated on me,lecture on it pls

Peachess:
Ehya, doh, Pele, sorry o. Lol
On serious note, you did wrong sha, I won't lie. But what is pissing me off is that he once cheated on your and you forgave you, but when you did something similar he's breaking up with you.
You can beg him if you want. Men have very big ego, they don't handle cheating cases the way we do. If he comes back to you, he probably wants to make you pay (chop and clean mouth) for cheating. So be careful.

lol,wish one are u talking again, the one he have been chopping wat is it call

Gozbrown:
it is called show me everything but don't touch

lol,nice name