ayjay45:
Please advise

Wallteck:
Good morning, I will first start by introducing personalty, I'm a very soft, naive guy and shy guy..I stayed indoors most of the times and I'm also an introvert, i enjoy been alone. Knowing my weakness, I always avoid not be take advantage of because I'm working like crazily to developed and structured myself. But this my area girls are always talking about me.. ""he doesn't talk with anyone"", he is rude, he is proud, lot of things I'm hearing from them... My neighbour always even tell me that I should be carrying girls. That am I gay??, there is even one day one girl even asked me why I
don't like relating people, I just said It is just my decision...
Currently, I'm really tired of their complain how can I handle all this criticism.. Should I start relating with them.. because I always dey careful with type of person I wanna relate with.. because I Sabi my weaknesses die!!!

Kingray10:
Welcome, someday, Nigerian will rule England.

falcon01:
The herbalist is Hungry abi? Why can't he cut soap for himself?

ayjay45:
Does it make sense for a graduate of univeristy to drive taxi after spending 5 years in school?

I'm thinking of business ideas after school. I can't come up with anything.

I would be a graduate of electrical burt can't seem to think up a way of applying myself in the field.

Should I just drive taxi and earn a living?

MichealOlajide:


how I dont get?

toujurs:
You are taking the narrative negatively, these are hausa girls, and they are known not to be fake ass. Like these igbo and yoruba girls who do hook up, to sustain a life they can't provide for themselves.

There is nothing eating bread, and coke, this is Nigeria, where over 75% of it's citizens are poor..

So it's their money, they can spend on whatever they can afford.

I appreciate the fact, they live within their standards.

shortgun:

[You have just shown nothing but ignorance of the Igbo culture and tradition with everything you typed.
In my initial post on this thread I asked the op if he has seen any man who came to marry a wife in any part of Igbo land and was denied because he was not able to bring the complete items listed in a marriage list given to him. The same question goes to you, do you know anyone like that?

That list given is a test....
If you run away after seeing the list....you have sent a message .
If you come in as a money bag and provide every item on the list..... you have sent a message
If you come back to the family complaining about the list...you have sent a message.
If you bring the items you can afford and plead for more time ...you have sent a message.
If you take the family of the girl to court for giving you an exorbitant list...you have sent a message

I won't be revealing how any of the above actions you take will be used
I won't be saying more than this.

shortgun:

Yes, I am an Igbo man from Enugu State with a Traditional Title, I know the culture and traditions.
The maturity I talked about is not age, it is the kind of maturity that a man needs to have to be able to lead a home.
Honestly, i dont mean any disrespect but if you have that maturity you won't open this thread to seek for advice from strangers on how to start your home.
As for my contact, i don't think I'll be doing that, I'll still advice you to talk with the elders in your family, they should be able to guide you accordingly. If in any case you don't have relatives who will accompany to the girls family just forget about the marriage they wont give you their daughter.