MichealOlajide:


how I dont get?

toujurs:
You are taking the narrative negatively, these are hausa girls, and they are known not to be fake ass. Like these igbo and yoruba girls who do hook up, to sustain a life they can't provide for themselves.

There is nothing eating bread, and coke, this is Nigeria, where over 75% of it's citizens are poor..

So it's their money, they can spend on whatever they can afford.

I appreciate the fact, they live within their standards.

shortgun:

[You have just shown nothing but ignorance of the Igbo culture and tradition with everything you typed.
In my initial post on this thread I asked the op if he has seen any man who came to marry a wife in any part of Igbo land and was denied because he was not able to bring the complete items listed in a marriage list given to him. The same question goes to you, do you know anyone like that?

That list given is a test....
If you run away after seeing the list....you have sent a message .
If you come in as a money bag and provide every item on the list..... you have sent a message
If you come back to the family complaining about the list...you have sent a message.
If you bring the items you can afford and plead for more time ...you have sent a message.
If you take the family of the girl to court for giving you an exorbitant list...you have sent a message

I won't be revealing how any of the above actions you take will be used
I won't be saying more than this.

shortgun:

Yes, I am an Igbo man from Enugu State with a Traditional Title, I know the culture and traditions.
The maturity I talked about is not age, it is the kind of maturity that a man needs to have to be able to lead a home.
Honestly, i dont mean any disrespect but if you have that maturity you won't open this thread to seek for advice from strangers on how to start your home.
As for my contact, i don't think I'll be doing that, I'll still advice you to talk with the elders in your family, they should be able to guide you accordingly. If in any case you don't have relatives who will accompany to the girls family just forget about the marriage they wont give you their daughter.

Goodlady:
Men using sex enhancing drugs to perform v carrot prîck 🥕

DIVINEEVIDENCE:


All this long post ..

If she get better lawyer turn am to rape case, management go sack you first before investigations commence.

You don't sleep with your subordinate.
It would be assumed you took advantage of her because of your position.

Villa12:
anyhow she wan do am no be your business. The manager is a gonna. It might be the person eyeing his position that lure that girl to him. He don buy market