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RomanceRe: Office Romance: The Best Way To Date A Coworker by yuzjet(op): 11:14pm On Mar 20, 2015
Cutehector:
Dnt get caught
U won't if and only if u take precautions! wink
RomanceOffice Romance: The Best Way To Date A Coworker by yuzjet(op): 11:05pm On Mar 20, 2015
Falling in love is heavenly, it’s beautiful, it’s like the sight of sunset on a private beach. It's even more interesting because you don’t really have control over who you fall in love with, where you fall in love, and when you fall in love.

This same involuntary characteristic is what makes falling in love with a co-worker a banana peel. Why? Because, it is nothing like dating a college sweetheart where the both of you get to live like two fish in a bowl, not caring if the world exists.

So, when you and that attractive co-worker decide to dip your pens in the company ink, keep in mind that things may get real messy. The following are the best strategies to employ when trying to date a coworker.

1. Find out your company's policy and carry out an assessment:
To start with, not all companies encourage romantic relationships amongst its co-workers. Office romance in some organisation may attract a transfer, demotion, or outright dismissal. And sincerely, losing a job over a relationship isn't worth it, even though it may seem so at that time.

If your company is silent on office romance, good for you, but what about other co-workers? There are bound to be issues like gossip, envy, jealousy. Some may even suspect favoritism towards your partner. Are you ready to deal with that? If you are, you can proceed. wink

2. Be sure of your feelings:
It could really be terrible if you mistake the highs you get from working with the other person as a form of romantic interest. Don’t mistake compliments, water dispenser chitchats, glances, and grins as signs of office romance. If you are not sure of the way you feel, take a break from this person and find a way to balance and enjoy life outside of work.

Besides, does the other person feel the same way about you? Getting an answer to this might require some investigation and degree of intuition. Lastly, make sure the co-worker is single, it’ll makes things less complicated for the both of you.

3. Keep it low-key:
If eventually, your co-worker agrees to date you, keep it quiet for a while. This will allow you room to work on where the relationship is gravitating towards. If eventually, the relationship doesn’t work out as planned, no one will be the wiser.

Another reason to keep your office romance quiet is that people come to work with different countenance and mindsets. The idea of you two turning the workplace into a love nest might cause some coworkers to feel offended or alienated which may complicate things in the long run.

4. Be careful of preferential treatment:
One of the dangers of office romance is biasness or favoritism for love interest. Immediately everyone knows you are dating a coworker, they will automatically assume you are giving preferential treatment to your date. You will need to work assiduously to prove them wrong.

You will need to show that your judgment is not
being impaired by your relationship.

5. Be professional even if the relationship doesn’t work out Eventually:
Some romantic office relationship break down abruptly or fades away slowly as time, situation, and challenge comes. Here comes the hard part: When it happens, get it together. Leave the dead weights of anger, tears, and disappointment at home and be professional in your relationship with everyone, most especially, your ex. Be polite, get your work done without conflict and move on. It may be hard but you will get over it with time.



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FamilyRe: Why Do Most Marriages Breakup Within 5 Years These Days? by yuzjet(m): 10:23pm On Mar 20, 2015
For those marriages that was installed within 5years limit.
IslamRe: Qualities Of A Good Muslim Husband by yuzjet(m): 3:16pm On Mar 20, 2015
Spot on.
EventsRe: What Will Be Your Wedding Colours On Your Day? by yuzjet(m): 2:02pm On Mar 20, 2015
SmartFaces:
Ahhhh!!! That combo gel die. i will look so colourful on that day not to talk of you, you will look take home.
Lol. It's a simple combination nah. wink
EventsRe: What Will Be Your Wedding Colours On Your Day? by yuzjet(m): 1:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
SmartFaces:
But e no reach JAMB shaa. so which is yours? don't spoil the fun. Abi you no want make i do asebi for you?

hope you are good? lovely day ahead dear.
Well, if u insist about doing Asoebi for me. My combination will surely be white with a slight pink pattern.


How do u see that? wink


Enjoy ur Friday too!
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram "Pushed Out In A Month" - Goodluck Jonathan BBC Interview by yuzjet(m): 12:31pm On Mar 20, 2015
Hmmmm..... What a campaign strategy!
EventsRe: What Will Be Your Wedding Colours On Your Day? by yuzjet(m): 12:13pm On Mar 20, 2015
This question though!
IslamRe: An Islamic View on Solar and Lunar Eclipse by yuzjet(m): 11:56am On Mar 20, 2015
Allahu Akbar


Jasakum to u OP!
CelebritiesRe: Wole Soyinka's House In The Forest (Photos) by yuzjet(m): 11:46am On Mar 20, 2015
Yes I know the place. I've been there before.

Uniqueness @its peak.

#Respect
PoliticsRe: I Will Not Join Issue With Parasites - Gani Adams by yuzjet(m): 8:55am On Mar 20, 2015
Parasitism is now being practised in OPC.


Nawa ooo!



Do u know that International Storytelling Day and International Astrology Day is celebrated ON THIS DAY March 20 in history?

For more of these facts, see my signature!
CrimeRe: Landlady Strangled Over Electricity Bill by yuzjet(m): 10:38pm On Mar 19, 2015
activefibre1:
na true me sef done tirer....
Later na the next news you go hear, man strangles self with him ''balls''
NEXT
Those news are becoming norms in media. It's damn disgusting!
Poems For ReviewRe: Poetry Classes For Beginners - NPC (Signup Thread) by yuzjet(m): 9:37pm On Mar 19, 2015
cisse7575:
use of alliteration, assonance,
symbolism, internal rhyme and repetition. This
obsessive compulsive’s delight is written with the
sharp clean structured precision of a surgeon.


At first glance “Mushrooms” has all the trademarks
of the perfect terrorist broadcast al-Qa’iada
would aspire to have read out by Osama Bin-
Laden to cast fear in the hearts of their enemies,
with it’s quietly menacing slow yet rhythmic flow.
(Although one feels that if the Taliban had used a
similar message, I would be well on my way to
studying the Koran!) Like many poems it can be
interpreted in countless different ways; with
‘Mushrooms, ’ Plath has merged several ideas
(the Cold War, the atom bomb, depression to
name but a few) into a single theme.
Still following......
Poems For ReviewRe: Poetry Classes For Beginners - NPC (Signup Thread) by yuzjet(m): 9:28pm On Mar 19, 2015
cisse7575:
A useful poem to discuss, which shows the possibilities of this technique, is Sylvia Plath's 'Mushrooms’, which interestingly was itself written as an exercise. Now let's study the poem and see how Plath manages to create a voice for the mushrooms that sounds convincing, and also what else the poem might be about.
Waiting patiently for the poem!
Poems For ReviewRe: Poetry Classes For Beginners - NPC (Signup Thread) by yuzjet(m): 9:23pm On Mar 19, 2015
cisse7575:
Consider whether your object has all the senses or whether it is deaf or blind and what kind of 'character' your object has, for instance if it is aggressive, friendly or lonely. the surreal of this exercise is also useful in creating 'anew the universe'.
Following......
Poems For ReviewRe: Poetry Classes For Beginners - NPC (Signup Thread) by yuzjet(m): 9:07pm On Mar 19, 2015
cisse7575:
Quickly I moved into the class, with my Indian attire, lots of books folded with my left hand to my left side.

'Good evening class!'

we will commence from where we stopped last week.
USING OBJECTS IN POETRY
Good evening.


*took the front sit*
*sipping the coke she shared with me today*



Shall we start the class?
RomanceRe: Hilarious intimacy gadget For Men by yuzjet(op): 7:53pm On Mar 19, 2015
chrisviral:
He is more than expensive, he gave £50000 to his friends Inlaws.. where is he?

Mrcork! MrCork ooo
Lmfao..... Abeg, MrCork, where're u oooo? We need to do business. grin
RomanceRe: Hilarious intimacy gadget For Men by yuzjet(op): 5:30pm On Mar 19, 2015
chrisviral:
Mrcork.. where art thou? grin grin
Add this to your £28000 range rover and your £7000 TV
Lmfao! The guy seems expensive! grin
Music/RadioRe: Remember Using This? by yuzjet(op): 4:59pm On Mar 19, 2015
BuhBye:
Lol my mom hated watching us listen to it with our earphones. I do remember the gadget was almost impracticable without the earphones. My friends and i would always get exhilarated upon the discovery of a new station. smiley
Well, u really got it!
RomanceRe: Hilarious intimacy gadget For Men by yuzjet(op): 4:57pm On Mar 19, 2015
luvlyoracle:
Scary! embarassed
Sorry ehn, it just a doggy style doll. Ok?
RomanceRe: Hilarious intimacy gadget For Men by yuzjet(op): 4:56pm On Mar 19, 2015
"e author=chrisviral post=31786536] grin grin grin
Mrcork needs to get one of this, if he hasn't already[/quote]"

Invite him ASAP, or what are u waiting for?
RomanceRe: Hilarious intimacy gadget For Men by yuzjet(op): 4:54pm On Mar 19, 2015
ronald4lif:
Even if soap and vaseline don finish for market, no attention from my johny mi grin

Better na escort.
grin
RomanceRe: Hilarious intimacy gadget For Men by yuzjet(op): 4:01pm On Mar 19, 2015
ronald4lif:
Is one John thomas expected to stand attention on the sight of these? angry
For freaks that really wanna get down ASAP. It should stand. smiley
RomanceRe: Hilarious intimacy gadget For Men by yuzjet(op): 3:59pm On Mar 19, 2015
falconey:
Hmmmm advancement in immorality.
Just as simple as Dat.
RomanceHilarious intimacy gadget For Men by yuzjet(op): 3:52pm On Mar 19, 2015
Nothing person no go see! Just like ladies that do have dilldo and vibrrators, the guys now have a s*x toyy. Weird and hilarious, isn't it? grin

These s*x dolls comes in a doggy style shape all the guy need do is to apply lubricate and he is good to go. grin cheesy

Now ladies, instead of your man cheating, would you buy this for him and encourage him to use it when you are not available? grin

And guys, would you use it? wink

Can't stop laughing..... grin grin grin

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CrimeRe: Man Rapes Girlfriend To Death by yuzjet(m): 2:31pm On Mar 19, 2015
angrybird007:
Z abeokuta ni
Yes nah! embarassed
CrimeRe: Man Rapes Girlfriend To Death by yuzjet(m): 2:21pm On Mar 19, 2015
Hilarious but cruel. Why Abeokuta nah? huh
CrimeRe: Landlady Strangled Over Electricity Bill by yuzjet(m): 1:04pm On Mar 19, 2015
Am tired of all these shocking news joor!
PhonesRe: Upcoming 2015 Blackberry Phones You Might Fall In Love With (pics) by yuzjet(m): 11:57am On Mar 19, 2015
Kul
CrimeRe: Herder Attacks Housewife For Resisting Rape Attempt In Abuja by yuzjet(m): 11:52am On Mar 19, 2015
This news of this husband and wife do this and Dat now becoming norms!
PhonesRe: NCC To Sanction Operators For Unsolicited SMS, Voice Calls by yuzjet(m): 10:48am On Mar 19, 2015
That will be damn great.

Mtn and Etisalat has made my SMS inbox as their house for unsolicited messages.


Infact, I'll like NCC to make them pay subscribers in return, should they break the rules of sending unsolicited and junk messages. Haba! undecided
FashionRe: Eucharia Anunobi Gets Makeover, Reduces Eyebrow Arch by yuzjet(m): 10:24am On Mar 19, 2015
Seen....... Next?

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