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gloryl: Really U re missing...me I wish to love and be loved again...

Then give love a chance.

[quote author=hightech-IT]We don't boast... Our trainings are hands on skill.... And we gurantee intership for our clients.[/quote]Okay, I'm serious about the fiber optic stuff. Do you have the equipment?

You and I know that it is difficult for one get a job in this industry without experience.
Hope you will not just give them theory and abandon them?
To other matters, can you give hands on fiber optic training? Not YouTube videos oh.

Twelve hours later...
Maybe you should begin by stating yours.

Merkki: Is there no way family members of the abused woman can gang up and beat the demons out of the man?

It depends on the family. A relation's husband was always beating her. She reported to her family and they warned the husband.
He continued beating her until...

One early morning, the youths in the wife's kindred visited him with a pick-up truck of long water canes. They ensured all the canes were broken on his body, after which they locked him up in the police station. He took 3 months to recover.
That was when his family came to beg and apologize.
Since then, he ensures his wife doesn't have as much as a scratch on her body. He is now a good boy!

If the woman didn't complain, he would have continued panel-beating her.

nneoodee@yahoo.com

These are mothers, daughters, wives,sisters... Women are their own worst enemies!

Nice

DEGREE2466: Please nairalanders i need your urgent suggestion on what to do about this issue.

My wife accused me of snoring in the night but i denied it knowing so well that i dont snore.

Then she ask me what she should do to let me know i snore. I told her to give me a heavy knock whenever i snore though jokingly but seriously because i know i dont snore.

Since that time my head has never remain the same. Anything i do something that displeases her she will give me a heavy knock in the night and when i ask her what the problem is, she will tell me that i was snoring.

I even went to the extent of staying awake all night to catch her and unfortunately for her she came and gave me one of her usual heavy knock thinking i was sleeping!

I would have given her the beat of her life that night if not that i promised myself not to lay my hand on my wife.

Please what do i do to stop this nefarious and relatiative attitude of my dear loving wife?

Have a good laugh.

DEGREE2466: Wow! Thank u all for the commentd so far. Am still an undergraduate hoping and praying to God for a better grade. But good grade as I know can also act as an inspiration to ur children.

Good comedian.

The Catholic Church does that through St. Vincent de Paul Society.

oliviatwist: The pic doesn't give me away and neither does my comment..... All my comment says is dat i have/used to have an older account and dats the mystery i intend to create bt i don't want my cover blown yet

I know who you are without the picture.
Don’t worry, I won't blow your cover.

oliviatwist: You do? From where?
Less than 12hours and am already being identified, am taking dat down, fast

Your posts identify you. Maybe you shouldn't have started posting with your new account so soon.

Front page suggestion

www.nairaland.com/1470254/men-cry-too

By the same author,
https://www.nairaland.com/1470254/men-cry-too#18669210

Bootylicious: Are you for real

Reality ma'am.

Abbey2sam: Do you seriously expect me to read all this?

Bump

Maybe people will start quoting monikers for posterity sake. That way, we can see important posts in the future.

We saw the message to unmarried women. I had to follow up on the author and she had something for the men.
Enjoy!

“Eketi, you’re busy talking about the ladies only, when we guys like are also suffering.” A friend of mine said this to me a couple of days ago, when I put up apost about spotting the signs of abuse in men. He said men are also on the lookout for wives and many are currently in a dilemma because they got hooked to the wrong lady. Well, gentlemen, this one is for you. I told him if a guy can’t cope with a lady, he should walk away. He then said some don’t know the signs to avoid,well here’s a few.

Since most women are incapable of physical abuse, some have resorted to other forms of abuse like economic, verbal, emotional, etc.

Young man, if you’re in a relationship or about to ask out a woman who is always talking about money, I advise you to think twice. Unless your surname ends with Trump, Gates, Dangote or Helu, or your father’s mother’s cousin’s son-in-law’s driver’s half-sister owns the Cetral Bank, you’re in for a rough ride, Mister. If her interests are always in what you bought for her, how much money you gave herthis month….she will bring you grief. This woman is a leech and will milk you to the last drop, then wring you, just in case there are some stray kobos left in your pockets, then she will dry you and dumpyou. Abeg, borrow my favourite letters for this kind of situation are: R. U. N!

Some women will so verbally abuse you, you’ll wish your mother’s womb could open again and you’ll crawl into that safe cocoon of innocence. She’s rude, sometimes vulgar, calls you all sorts of names, denigrates you, always compares you with your friends and calls it “keeping it real.”
I agree…..the real thing is she’ll keep on doing this and will never stop. And unless you can tame the shrew, pack ya kaya and move on!
If she always harps on a particular issue forever, repeating those words till they burrow inside your brain like itch-mites and you can recite
them by heart, it’s call nagging. Methinksyou should flee o! Else, one day, you’ll either wake up in police custody with a murder charge on your head or realise that you’re a recurrent member of Alcoholics Anonymous.

Please, in the name of all that’s sane and logical, don’t be with a woman who is still hung up on her ex. If a woman is always going on and on about how her ex, John was mean to her, cheated on her, didn’t treat her right, etc, bros, unless you’re her shrink and helping her work out her
emotional problems, I suggest you pack your luggage and board the next available flight. She is definitely a citizen of Yesterday, living in baggage House, on Regret street. You will wake up one day, and see a Dear John letter pinned to your pillow.

If a woman keeps telling you that all men are dogs, and how she hates all men except you, her darling boo, just know that network is bad and your matter is hanging. One day, very soon, you will make a mistake or slip up in a little issue. Then her verdict will be delivered and you will join the long list of men in her life who are hated canines.

If a lady compares your relationship to that of Nneka, Sandra or Shade, just know that you’re in the Best Couples of All time Competition…..the only thing is you don’t know you’ve been registered as a contender. For this kind of woman, nothing you ever do with and for her is good enough, because one her friend’s will definitely be better. In my opinion, you would be better off Keeping Up with the Kardashians than with this woman (ifyou realise how much I hate that empty show, you’ll know this is a really last-resort kinda advice).

Ah, my brother have you met the NEVER DIVA? Like her name suggests, there are things she’ll never do because she believes they are a man’s, servant’s or a professional’s job. She NEVER calls you. She NEVER buys you any gifts. She’s NEVER emotionally available. She NEVER takes you out or even offers to pay for half the meal. She NEVER apologises. She is NEVER wrong. She NEVER compliments you. She’ll NEVER give up anything for you or the family. She’ll NEVER compromise. I can NEVER say this enough…..NEVER hook up with this kind of woman!

There’s this other sister whose favourite song is “Just as I am, without one plea…” The only thing is, she’s not singing it in the original gospel version. Like “Mount Zion which cannot be removeth,” her favourite mantra is “you met me like this and this is how I’ll always be!” and she’ll
never love you enough to compromise or change to make you happy. It doesn’t matter if you own a boutique…her skimpy clothes will stay. Don’t bother enrolling her in evening school; her broken grammar will do just fine. That you’re an accountant that can help her with financial advice on saving and investing makes no difference- her money is her own to throw away as she wishes. I can only ask; bros, whence goeth thou?

I am sure I have by no means exhausted the list; the above are the commonest I could think of. Don’t be like Macbeth whose wife pushed
him to commit heinous crimes.

Recently, I heard a popular song by KCee, a Nigerian artiste, in which he pleaded with a girl, saying “oya make we go limpopo…..let me be your maga tonight.” The Limpopo I know is a South Africanprovince and a maga is a fool.
So unless your name is Kcee and you’re a fool who likes visiting places in South Africa, then don’t let yourself be “mumutized” by any woman.

Source : http://rachaelzheart./2013/09/06/men-cry-too/

Op, always remember that you are not competing with anybody. Try to achieve a level of stability first.

Concerning love, follow what bellong said. Love is a decision.

The emotion called love alone is not sufficient for a successful marriage.

brito: Na wa for some people, this is not humility but slavery, next time you see him doing this remind him she's his wife and not his daughter. I

When he is sober, he says he feels ashamed of himself. He has been able to stop the physical abuse now. Working on the verbal abuse and irrational behaviour...

Many yeye men do it. My neighbour then asked his wife to open her hand while kneeling down. He would then go on to flog her some strokes of the cane like a primary school teacher. I nicknamed him "Headmaster" thereafter.
What women endure in marriage!

tinnymerit: Please am i am also in need of job,presently i reside in ibadan but if theres need to migrate i will not hesitate to do so.
I studied Computer Information System(CIS),I have Bsc,CCNA,CCNP and 2G,2.5G,3G,3.5G,4G,wimax,CDMASS7 etc certificates and layman knowledge on LINUX,MCITP.I am ready to work even if it is for free.Thanks.

Bro, to break into that industry no easy oh. I am also trying to break in.
Just keep applying to vendors and subcontractors. Also try to locate any MSC around you. Go there and make friends. May God help us all.

DeCleff: The truth remains that phcn officials are the ones denying Rivers state 24/7 power supply.

Example. In Elelenwo, we were rationing light transformer by transformer which phcn blamed it on the lack of sUB-TRANSMITTING STATION. In less than 6 months a sub station was built in Radio Rivers premises in Elelenwo why was the reason residents of Elelenwo enjoyed 24/7 power supply earlier this year but go there now we hardly see light. So what excuse do they have to give us now?

True that!
The problem is distribution not generation. I was told that the aba road feeder is faulty presently.

freecocoa: Eh excuse me please, what part of ph are you talking about? Cos I stay in ph and I haven't experienced more than two hours of steady power supply for years now.

Op, please answer this question.

Cathaliya: Do you have any solution for an obssessed fellow...?

... and it goes on to cathaliya.
Is it something like unrequited love?

For people who are familiar with the deuterocanonicals in the Catholic Church, there is the book of Tobit where a lady got married seven times but a demon always killed the husband before the marriage was consumated.

I believe there is spirit husband /wife.

Donxavier: And now to vivianc

Yeah, and now to vivianc until...
I don't believe there is a special one for each person. My opinion though.

Lol. See dynamics... From vure to kenyatta to 2sexy.

2sexy bro, time heals wounds.

Make una allow am to dey talk am oh. Sometimes talking about it goes a long way in reducing the pain.

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2.IT Students in Computer/Physics/Electrical Engineering
Apply in Person to No 42/32 Ilorin Street Off Adelabu Street Surulere or Call 08156784809 for more Enquires

Please do you have any contacts in Port Harcourt or the southeast? I have site installation experience. ZTE and Huawei equipment. Thanks.

Abeg, make una dey read well before posting.
The equipment always fails whenever he wants to enter at the peak of passion.
He never had sex with her.
In the fifth year, he decided to try outside runs. Equipment worked pointing to the wife as having issues.

@op, just divorce sharply.

exxell: Weather for two on my end...

... Pregnancy for one.