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Behavioural differences could be the reason. You know those irritating behaviours like the award-winning, rip-my-trouser-at-the-centre,send-the-devil-to-hell-and-back kind of fart! and the earth-shaking, galaxy-jolting kinda snoring. Not every one might be able to stomach these things. So, a separate room may not be bad afterall. My views

Why is it hard for some people to get comfortable with excellence.
Is it that we, as a people are so used to losing that winning has become an alien phenomenon?
God have mercy!

@ Poster,

Permit me to be real with you: A pity-party won't solve the problem here cos I can see the way you've been lapping up all the kind-hearted responses on the site. Don't pity yourself at all cos self-pity cripples will-power and leads to depression.

Pls note that nobody's situation is peculiar on this earth, we all have challenges and how we choose to solve them says a lot about who we are and are likely to become. I wonder if you have a burning dream or desire within you, if you do, do you have a road-map to get you there? I honestly don't think that your greatest dream should be getting a job. Jobs are about problem solving and solution provision. And you haven't clearly demonstrated a mastery of that even in your own life situation.

Your problem is that of self-development. Do you read? Is your mind a rich reservoir of knowledge? Buy books and read.
What is on the inside eventually shows on the outside.

Lastly, whatever your hands find to do, do it with all thy might. Work keeps the mind in top form. Also search your environment, whatever touches on your passion could be where your destiny lies.

God bless you!

"Another dyslexic patient besides Yemi Victor. Damn, Nairaland, we have a problem"

@ HotFunmi,
This aggressive nature of yours leaves much to be desired. Even though you have a good course on your hands, your aggressiveness will definitely put a monkey wrench in the works. On the lighter side, the more agressive a woman becomes, the harder a guy also gets! I didn't say it o! I got from one other agressive sister

Well, looks like you've gathered too much dust on the shelf, Please go check to see if none slipped under your skull.

That lady- HotFunmi sure needs a man!!! A hot dude at that, who can give "IT" to her till she speaks in tongues.
Then, and only then will the heat in her anatomy subside.

Try it if you haven't, the lovemaking is usually sweeter after and during reconcilliation!

If our political leaders exhibit 1/10th of the leadership abilities that our spiritual leaders possess, then Nigeria would have been heaven on earth. It takes great leadership qualities and abilities to peacefully command the kind of followership that Nigerian spiritual leaders command, and also lead Nigerian christians to achieve great feats like this one. Let the political leaders try to achieve such and we'll hail them.

They have not even been able to lead their very corrupt political parties of just a few thieving rats, yet we want to castigate the Church leaders.

Well, if only, just if only,

Ignorance is the greatest disease indeed!

Even a fool would be consudered wise if only he would keep his mouth shut.

[color=#990000][/color]If it applies to you, then go figure!

Sorry, meant to write @ osaworld

@cashflow, there is none that goes for N70k o Shapen your eyes, it's $70k!

Looks like you intended for people to pat you on the back and rub your ego, may be also validate the fact that you are a smart guy. That's ok, but don't get the jitters when people decide to express what's on their minds. Lasting success must be accompanied with the maturity that accomodates others' opinions. Don't get carried away, Banning people doesn't change their opinions about you. Abi age dey worry you?