Travel › Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by Zchi1052(m): 4:22pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
Choi! Naija don go No more respect even from the smaller countries Ok now assuming you did that here in Nigeria... someone is already on standby to buy the car and take to the nearest place to scrap it
Omo ur stupidity for no get comparison |
Crime › Re: Man Who Killed A Farmer In Ekiti Sentenced To Death By Hanging by Zchi1052(m): 1:20pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
A killer must be killed Only reform to a murderer is to be killed |
Celebrities › Re: Kumbalee Makeover Dies 2 Weeks After His Birthday In Lagos by Zchi1052(m): 12:27pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Which Church Do You Attend? by Zchi1052(m): 9:53am On Aug 16, 2020 |
Proudly a Catholic Church and will always be |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo Advises Youths To Wrest Power From Older Generation by Zchi1052(m): 8:33am On Aug 13, 2020 |
They never busy finish with online social media ranting |
Family › Re: Husband Of Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami: Why I Abandoned My Wife With Blue Eyes by Zchi1052(m): 5:50pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
That lady don blow God don pick her call Watch out for next rated celeb |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack Church In Bayelsa, Kill Pregnant Woman, 3 Others by Zchi1052(m): 4:20pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Fake Blind Woman Arrested In Ebonyi State (Photo) by Zchi1052(m): 8:31am On Aug 06, 2020 |
Ebonyi State is becoming so regular in the news these days Hmmmmm |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Applying For Another $3b Chinese Loan – Amaechi by Zchi1052(m): 8:16am On Aug 05, 2020 |
Evergreen4: In case we wake up one day and APC government says that we've been sold to China, please call me Chung Li, what will I call you ? I am YU LI |
Business › Re: Fire Guts Ladipo Market, Lagos (video) by Zchi1052(m): 5:54pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Magu: Recovered Vehicles Auctioned To Presidential Villa, Ministries by Zchi1052(m): 8:35am On Jul 22, 2020 |
Everyone are corrupt When u no settle the necessary people U begin get problem Naija na scam |
Phones › Re: WhatsApp Is Down All Over The World by Zchi1052(m): 9:28pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
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Events › Re: Dead Man Forced Out Of Casket In Anambra For Refusing To Be Buried (Graphic) by Zchi1052(m): 4:09pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
When you thought you have seen it all |
Politics › Re: Police Seize Magu's Bulletproof Vehicles, Seal Office by Zchi1052(m): 12:55pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
In Nigeria,once you assume any office automatically u have the right to pay urself salary No protocols No abiding by the law Where are the Nigerian government when he was buying bullet proof cars Just a salary earner |
Entertainment › Re: Fade Ogunro Gives Ballet Dancer Scholarship After Viral Video by Zchi1052(m): 5:33pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
She's got the move She is good More blessings to her |
Politics › Re: NNPC, SNEPCO Donate 16 Vehicles To Lagos State Government (photos) by Zchi1052(m): 12:59pm On Jul 09, 2020 |
China made cars don enter Naija with full force We can't even consider to patronize our made in Naija car And we want to grow |
Politics › Re: Mohammed Umar Named Acting EFCC Chairman - The Cable by Zchi1052(m): 4:50pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
Confusion everywhere Fela talk am but no one listen |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 4625 Graduates Apply For Amotekun Job In Osun by Zchi1052(m): 11:47am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Eya poor Nigerians after graduate they apply for any type of job just to make sure that hunger will not finish them What about the course the studied in the school...no jobs and it's paddy paddy System... I forbid Nigeria as a country |
Politics › Re: FG Lifts Ban On Interstate Travels by Zchi1052(m): 5:27pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Las Las we go de ok Good one from FG |
Politics › Re: Giadom: A Fresh Primary Will Be Conducted In Edo by Zchi1052(m): 8:27pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Lolzzz confusion in APC the end is near for the worst party in Nigerian history |
Education › Re: Ada Osakwe Is First African To Give A Speech At Convocation Of Kellogg School by Zchi1052(m): 9:45pm On Jun 21, 2020 |
Igbo ndi oma
The God's own people Am so proud to be Igbo man |
Politics › Re: N700million Fraud: Court Adjourns Ize-Iyamu, Four Others’ Case. by Zchi1052(m): 7:21pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
So he's this evil and still want to be the next governor of Edo State But the problem I have is that we still have idiots and mumu people that will vote for him Chai! Naija is dead and gone |
Politics › Re: PDP Postpones Edo Gubernatorial Election Primary Election Until June 23 by Zchi1052(m): 5:33pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
To chip in obaseki |
Health › Re: 490 New COVID-19 Cases, 274 Discharged And 31 Deaths On June 16 - (7397 Tested) by Zchi1052(m): 12:37am On Jun 17, 2020 |
Why are the whites just punishing us for what we know nothing about? Chukwu okike are you there? Pls come to our rescue |
Crime › Re: Man Rapes, Kills Brother’s Wife In Zamfara by Zchi1052(m): 9:58pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
June month of rape. Rapist are not on social media That's why it goes on and on God pls protect us |
Crime › Re: Lovers Found Dead In A Room In Imo (Disturbing Photos) by Zchi1052(m): 10:24pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Drug  ?? |
Phones › Re: Poll: Which Smartphone Brand Are You Using? by Zchi1052(m): 2:44pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
Team redmi note 7 pro The camera na something else |
Career › Re: Atlantic Hotel Sacks Worker For Reporting Attempted Rape By Indian Boss by Zchi1052(m): 8:34pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
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Family › Re: What Is The Penalty Given To A Man Who Didn't Pay Lady's Dowry Before She Died? by Zchi1052(m): 10:21am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Omuneizzy6: Hello Nairalanders, its been a while I was in a grieved and depressed mood, trying to gain back my self.
Let's go straight to the topic. I will really love you guys to help with your good takes on this issue.
Please don't mind my poor grammar.
Sometimes last year, I was in a relationship with this young pretty girl and later she became pregnant for me. Which I had in mind that we will marry in the nearest future but, yet to settle her bride price. Though, we really loved each other, I devoted 90% of my effort and time for her genuinely.
Even one of her brothers has met me in different occasions asking when I will see the family but I told him, due to my Assignment and duty location once I settle down I will do that unfailingly.
Let me cut the whole story short.
During her delivery period she passed on while giving birth. I wasn't expecting that though I was really mad. May her soul rest in peace
I asked the brother what will be the next move, he said is to take her home and bury her. within me (just like that?) I couldn't control my tears We took her home and buried her few hours later.
On the fourth day of the burial, my parents asked the brothers and sisters both the elders. so what next they said nothing, after the burial everyone can leave. That was their reply.
My parents was like what of the other side? They said see, we don't want to bother your son we know how they were before the girl died, they really loved each other... If we ask you to pay anything. There is no amount of money paid that will bring back our sister's life so forget, what you people need to do, just stay, observe some rites and traditions like to buy drinks take care of the families and friends.. Till after the normal 8days everyone leaves.
Although, had it been it's in some places the family might not take it likely with me.. I must marry their daughter first,buy wrapper, pay her dowry, pay for the death, I must also prove innocence.
Now the question is, What is the punishment given to a man who didn't pay her lady's dowry before she died in your Place?
In Addition to that, is there any spiritual implications attached to it if a man didn't pay a lady's dowry before she died... Because I'm just scared.
Mod. please I need many takes on this. It will help a brother. OP so sorry about the lost .I know how it hurts But where are you from? And where is the girl from? Cos it's so necessary to settle what needs to be settled and ur conscience will be at peace as well |
Politics › Re: Mahmood Yakubu: No Result If Edo, Ondo Polls Are Disrupted by Zchi1052(m): 7:40am On Jun 11, 2020 |
A P THIEF never disburse INEC officials account yet Nonsense |
Politics › Re: Edo APC Primaries: Obaseki's Screening In Pictures by Zchi1052(m): 7:37am On Jun 11, 2020 |
All eyes on me But these guy's confidence will floor oshiomole and his gang |
Health › Re: I Can't Smell Or Taste Anything, Please Help by Zchi1052(m): 4:21pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
One of the symptoms of coronavirus...i pray u recover soon.God help us |