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Lol. Ikwerres say they are not Igbos but from Benin.

Basically, it means the bins are the leaders of the igbos now or what?

The binis are the leaders of the yorubas, and now the igbos. Oba gha tor kpe he.

To each their own. California is battling wildfire, Nigeria is battling hyper inflation. Utopia doesn't exist.

Just watched this. Same old, same old. Once they throw in popular faces and show lots of glam cars, clothes and houses, they feel they've made a great movie.

Nollywood, please impress me. 4/10

This "writer" is always writing nonsense.

Actually, if I was a woman who was treated badly by her husband while we were younger, I will do worse. Even as a man, I believe in tit for tat. You cannot misbehave and then require a hug from me.

That been said, treat your family nicely and they wouldn't abandon you. Apart from that, men should take care of their health and finances when young. You can't live a reckless life in your youth and expect a pleasant old age.

Drink alcohol in moderation if at all, avoid smoking, exercise and eat right. Stop spending foolishly and invest for old age.

You can't always rely on your wife and kids at old age. There is no law that says you wouldn't outlive your wife or that your kids will be successful.

Fearyourcreator:
Your papa for mentor you na do am

He has, thats why i turned out right, unlike you who doesn't have a father. Thats why you turned out a gutter child and an urchin.

Balablu. Perhaps., if this man was younger and healthier, he might have had something to offer. For now he has nothing left in him.

This man should have mentored a younger man and carved his name in gold.

Nezy4Real:
This is someone I wish to marry. If I can’t be assured of her loyalty shouldn’t I be worried?

Do you know the meaning of marriage? If you are considering marrying someone like that, it shows you have a low IQ.

All this grammar for someone not your daughter or sister? If you want to go far in life, focus on more important things. It's 2025, a perfect time to set useless things aside.

300k is not too small for a man with one wife and kid. Cut your cost accordingly. Does your wife have a job? If no, let her get something doing.

Experience has taught me that most women make unreasonable demands from their husbands. If you have a wife on the same frugal page with you, this money should be enough for now.

Open an investment account and deposit 20k monthly into it. I'm not talking of a savings account, an investment account. Let the money sit there and compound from year to year. It's mot money to be touched, just forget it's there.

Whatever your line of work is, Improve on yourself to increase your chances of promotion or getting another job. I don't advice on business ideas, as 90% of people without prior knowledge of the business they go into, end up failing.

Funny how all these countries post travel advisory on African countries, when they have horrible things also happening in theirs.

If Nigerian leaders had sense, we should get a travel advisory, warning people to stay clear of the US for now.

Nice. Africa needs to free itself from neo-colonialists. This same France everyone is kicking out, is the one our agbado is romancing.

You become a slave when people have Intel on you. All his medical data is in the hands of the French. One injection and they can finish him.

This is just the beginning. These are still the slightly sensible Gen Z's. Wait till the gen alphas become parents. The world will eventually self destruct.

Crooks. Embezzlement is now cultural. I don't even bother anymore, as i know most Nigerians will steal when given the opportunity.

It started well, then lost steam. It's just there, a 6 over 10 is the best it'll get from me.

Nice, nothing is impossible with agbado economics. Expect further decline in 2026 to $1 to N50

This dude is trying to understand women. You are In for a long research.

I remember trying to date a girl, this was many years ago. I collected her number and we used to talk. She called me every single day and confessed she had falling in love.
Suddenly, she stopped calling, was always cold on the phone etc. I returned the energy and we stopped talking.
After some weeks, she came back ,accusing me of abandoning her and pleading not to ever hurt her feelings again. Confusion 101.

The bottom line is, most women are unpredictable. Go with the flow amd match the energy, if it isn't working, let it go. Stop bothering you head over whether she's cheating or not. There is so much to achieve in this life, and women isn't one of them.

This is obviously a lie. Social media has made people stupid. If your husband actually beat you for asking for a Benz, then:
1. You married an abusive man, and you should be reporting him to the appropriate authority.
2. You married for Benz, you're a low self esteem person, and you married your kind.

idahme:
You are talking about 1%, that's an exception not the rule. If any of the 99% think this way it's a recipe to death sentence.

That's why the 99% are online crying of disrespect. Men are no longer men.

When dating, don't give a woman money, she's not your responsibility. Marriage is a different ball game, provide for your family and let your wife's contributions be little if any. Let her money be for herself and the kids.

This will only be doable when you marry a woman whom you earn more than. Of course, what we have now are simps, looking for women financially better off, so they can leech on her.

Not everyone wants his wife to work. Some people actually prefer to pay 100% of the bills, because they can. Some people are actually rich enough, not to consider paying every bill as a burden.

Single men actually act like they know about marriage when they don't. A man who can afford to payi 100% of the bills is a king. When your woman starts paying equal bills like you, then you have lost your right to be called the head. It's never fun to share bills equally with women.

The original role of man is to be provider and protector and the head of the home. Now that the woman has also turned provider, she might as well battle for the right of head of the home.

Even if you're poor, do not allow your woman do 50/50. It's the fastest way to lose your respect.

I'd leave the car to my wife to drive and continue with my normal ride. I nor fit swallow 'see finish ' from the wife or inlaws.

I didn't hear Oduduwa mentioned anywhere. This topic has been over flogged.

Nigerians complain of a very tough year, yet Nigerian social media keep showing people living lavishly and throwing money around. It doesn't add up, no wonder the leaders don't believe that things are hard.

With his own money. Women will use your own money to buy you a gift. How hilarious. She tried anyway, still better than those who'll always ask and never give.

Kemi the snitch. She's being uses by the Brits to do a hatchet job.

Someday, Nigeria will be redeemed and all those who have hijacked this country will be toppled. It's just a matter of time.

The old man should be making peace at this age and not trying to be an oppressor. At an age like this, you become deity like and ready to forgive everyone, because you've seen it all.

Life is full of variety, if you want to watch discovery channel, it's available, if you want to watch scripted unfunny comedy on tic tok, it's also available.

No one has a right to criticise others for their choices. I know when to watch Netflix and when to watch Africa Magic movies. Everything has it's time and place.

The Chinese make horrible movies but are a power house in technology. I don't understand when that dude attributes comedy to economic problems. Nigeria's problems is its leaders. Outside Nigeria, Nigerians are one of the celebrated nationalities because of their contribution to science amd medicine.

How is opportunity for Nigerian women to make money limited? Women are even more in schools these days. Women stand a higher chance of getting employed, because silly men are ready to compromise.

How exactly are women disadvantaged? Women have a higher chance of raising capital than their male colleagues.

The narrative that women depend on men because the society discriminates against them is a big lie. The average women is lazy, greedy, entitled and not ready to take risks.

BigDickProblems:
I’m a fair guy and will definitely marry a slim fair or white lady.

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Most women dislike fair guys. They see fair guys as effeminate and rank them low on the attractive scale. Imagine someone saying you are disgusting because you're a fair man.

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