Flamzey00: Make the strike never end Oooo. My neighbor wey I don Dey knack never carry belle yet. Plz adjust resumption until August next year 2024 abeg
You are impotent. .. . Even if they still extend it for 5 years more. Nothing.
ecolime: Nigerians should date themselves na. Our girls no dey UK ni?
Those ones are the worst. They form europeans more than the native self.
Feminist wannabees that escaped Naija. I sorry for you. By the time you find your luggage outside with 17 years of your labour gone, you will understand.
REDshouse: And Obi will return fuel price back to 87Naira per litre... you all joking ...
Nobody said that but he will set the country on path to recovery unlike APC that promised heaven on earth but left Nigeria in serious debt sotay budget is funded by loan yearly only to be looted.
China is salivating waiting for duration of loan to expire then they will turn Lagos to slave colony.
Verifiedcheif: you guys should pls respect the lady and free her while all the insults .. nairaland are full of bitter men abeg ...someone is just asking for advice una don start dey blast her ...
She's not behaving like a lady. Why will she call you a "dog"?
Preciousgirl: What is wrong with men? Can't believe that my ex guy whom I broke up with years ago is asking me out again Knowing very well that I am married Should I tell my husband? Should I block him? Please how do I handle it?
I am never interested in him
Block him. Telling your husband is not necessary as it can affect your marriage. Men are jealous.
Whatever you do, never meet with him physically. He wants to destroy your marriage.
MaryAye: He's so broke. He can't afford it. I will have to start all over again with the fruit biz. I will have to look for another money to continue the biz.
He's still looking for a job to keep soul and body together. I will leave him with God. At least my life was not taken.
Let him stew in the jail. Scattering your goods is the height of irresponsibility.
I arranged for a meet-up with him to discuss my supposed assumptions. He told me, "he doesn't hate my child, but he feels my son was gargling like a mewling child."
I asked him to elucidate. Which he did and I politely told him that if he gargled, it was because he's still four. I think he should give my son time and establish a friendly relationship with him.
It was like my pep talks rattled him and he immediately slapped me that I have insulted him and trapped his pride. I was like, what!!!
This was a harmless discussion. Why did you slap me? He started apologising. He said he didn't know what came over him.
I told him to leave my shop. I told him I will call him when I'm less angry. To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.
After that day I didn't call him or wanted to have anything to do with him. To my greatest surprise yesterday, he came to my shop and started assaulting me so that I can't leave. I was like, I never wanted to date you before. I was just considering your proposal.
That little tussle was what led to him scattering the fruits I bought. My neighbours came to our shop and before I knew it, he has raze all my goods.
My neighbours called the market chairman and they bungled him to the police station.
What is wrong with men this day? I didn't collect anything from him. Thank God I took the advice of nairalanders. You guys helped me to identify this before going into it.
Thank you, all.
Thank God you didn't end up with a mental case.
What I don't understand is why you blame men for the actions of one "man"?
Starz825: He shouldn't have used the word *mistake*.....I understand what he is trying to say..he was simply playing around the app....(even though he obviously needs cash but was blown away by the interest rate)
People like am na him dey release cum inside girl.. thinking she can't get pregnant...sheybi it's just fun and we are not married yet.... Only for the girl to show up pregnant...Dem go japaa run commot for village come Lagos
Holywater123: I was just playing around the app when I mistakenly clicked on the withdraw button. The process was so simple that I thought It wouldn't work. Until I saw “loan processing."
I just sent them a mail though. I am waiting for the day to break so I can put a call across.
This is ridiculous honestly. 15k to pay 19.5k in just 14days. I can't take it.
Omoapena: I buy Airtel 5k data for 40GB 3 times in a month and the only thing I do with this data is to stream reel videos on Facebook, IG & Tiktok. Yet, i use over 80GB of data just in a month.
This is eating me up honestly, what plan do you subscribe for and how long does it last you
Johnnyjohnnyman: But I am not yul neither a cheater , we have been married for 10 years and I have never cheated on her not even in my dreams. I forgave her for cheating on me and we gets back together without me knowing that she was pregnant if I knew she was carrying another man child I would have never accepted her in the first place.
Children in broken homes don't usually turn out fine. Forgive for the sake of your children.
Most of those advising you to kick her out are not married.
ifihearam: You religious people just open your mouth and talk rubbish..a married woman cheats on her husband, gets pregnant for another man..you want him to take the child to the father and if he refuses adopt a bastard under his roof? Can you advise your brother or son to do that? Why is everyone suddenly wise when its not their issue?
Do you know the pains and emotional drainage this young man passes through when he sees his wife and the child?? This is why the strong hearted people always say never forgive a cheat, cos of the adverse effect...once they cheat just let them go.. She was pregnant already before calling for peace...fear women.
What if it were the man that cheated and had a child outside, will you spew this venom?
Johnnyjohnnyman: I haven't decide yet but sending her away will be better for my own sanity. My children will be fine they have a grandmother and a cousin who adore them they will help me to take care of them
Have you given birth before? Do you understand the horrible pains women go through pushing out babies?
I understand what she did was wrong but don't send her away. Confront her with the discovery, her response should guide your decision. If she's sober, give her a chance.
Remember some men also cheat, men like Yul Edochie and they expect their wife to forgive them.