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I think it would be good u choose your words well. Nigeria can't b useless and MTN have done well. They kept us talking. We should allow the forces of capitalism play themselves out.
@poster, I wish you speedy recovery because MTN is here to stay

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i do hope you reside in the country after possibly being to other countries? nigeria has not matured enough for me to die for, say the truth as it is without sentiments. even if your today turns out good remember how you felt when it seemed there was no hope and knowing not everyone may have the rare opportunity you had,  MTN is here to stay and to die, unlesss they improve. how do you feel when you want to make an emergency call and you're told your account will be credited in 24 hours which sometimes turns 72hrs, be realistic, MTN is messing up big time because there are no good competitors, WOE to those saying good is bad and bad is good, if i am a killer i will tell you am one but before you kill me i will ensure i kill you. say the truth even if it hurts.

how will the poster recover speedily when the cause of the illness isnt addressed yet?

poster, lets endure until we get a better doctor.

@ TRo0E

"Work Etiquette means  , if you knew than you wouldn't be using ur office computer for social network/personal usage

EHEHEH is that your logic, to bad because am only here to release my work stress   which have already  accomplished

apology to all the smart sisters in the house because i know there are!!!

please may i ask: where was this sister releasing her work stress and with whose computer?

ahahah you wish
My man is not jobless unlike ur  ,nor will he spend  his free time on nl
the real men are out there making money,and you guys are here at the romance section

real men don't work for money no more my dear, their money works for them, in this era and age, you and i know you don't need a block on your head to make money, i didnt know joblessness brought you to nairaland, its time you get your ass to work.

if stupid men come to nairaland , then the ladies that patronise nairaland  are very daft.

God forbid  
even if they happen to be the last men on earth, i will rather be a lesbo than dating a Nland

God forbid what? interestingly , you are an active member, would you say because stupid men exist on earth then you will date only men that come from the moon? enquire very well your boyfriend is a nairalander .

how do you tell a guy you dont like him? very simple! reject his gifts.

MTN? so far they have the worst network, am not trying to be biased, their priority is their money, the rest is history, unfortunately they know how useless the country is so they are not bothered.

@ topic,

lets be realistic here, a relationship isnt about sex but about the individual you are going out with, but in this case you seem to be concerned about the sex thing and her religion, mind you she has said its no going back with regards to her religion, dont you think you are fighting a lost battle? should you both get married, there's bound to be problems in terms of your beliefs so make a wise decision now.

cheers.

@ topic,

if the person in question is my best friend, i should know his level of reasoning and reaction to things, why wont i tell him? what are friends for?

hello sis,

i guess its been said already, as it stands now, you have to get the thought off your head and see him as a blood brother or relative, you are both related now, thank God you now know he is your step brother.

take care.

hey brother!!! 3 years chasing one girl!!!what kind of programme is that? na waoooh!!!

lest i forget, please dont cry for her, that wont send the message, simply pour a bucket of water on yourself, that will send the message.

it really depends, if she's got his number it could just be a strategy, making her know he's got a life of his own.

the crisis in america has indirect adverse effects on every other economy, did you say Nigeria? we are very much affected. what happened to the price of oil? it peaked some months back at about $146 per barrel, but there was a sudden crash when there was fear of a recession in the US economy, oil is now at $98 a barrel difference of about $50, multiply that by the millions of barrel exported daily. no man is an island, but i would say the americans control the market.

sistawoman:
Here is what I was told in another thread:

Here are more follow up questions:

How is it applied or placed on a female? Will i know if it is placed on me?

are you considering double dating?

grovy:
preowned, does it mean it has been used in naija.if yes, for how long,
serious buyer

not necessarily naija, bottom line is its been owned and used by someone. i guess this is TOKUMBO , or has it been used in naija?.

Today is independence day, it is a sad day for many and a great day for a relative few.
how you see this day or any other day is dependent on the goals you set for yourself and how you intend to achieve them. dont hope on anyone to liberate yourself, your future lies in your hands atleast to a large extent, those that have been S[b]ELECTED[/b] as public servants MASTERS are the ones celebrating OCTOBER 1st, we can all become independent by the decisions we make today. A word is enough for the wise.

@ kaaz,

if you are still confused then do this

jennykadri:
poster what kind of question r u asking?

what is a married woman doing talking to a man at night always,which kain friend be that one?

[b]tell her to call the man before ur own presence,the phone must be on speaker phone,then tell her to ask him why he sent that msg to her phone(since she said its strange to her)she should not let him know u r there,then tell her to warn him seriousl not to call her again

and make sure u buy credit for her before her calling,take her by surprise and tell her to try and convince u,if she says she doe not have credit on her phone,give her the one u bought,don't give her any breathing space atall,infact don't even let her go anywhere,until shes made the call before ur own eyes[/b]in conclusion--------sorry sir,but it looks as if ur wife is cheating on u

I'm not trying to cause confusion in ur marriage,but since u r asking for advise i will give u mine----there is a 99 and half% probability that shes cheating on u

i know a lot of single ladies that one would have to think seriously before sending romantic text messages, so i dont know what your wife's problem is. are you so busy you dont have time for her or is she falling out of love? she must be very bold, you are sleeping while she is receiving mid night calls, or let me believe she never told this guy she was married. she simply gave the guy the green light.

so there is no ways of stopping this rather than walking away from her or let me say break up with her?

am realy sorry, i dont know what to say to you.

@ topic,
am ashamed of women and men that behave like your wife, marriage isnt for kids, i would rather remain single than getting married and playing funny games, at the moment your wife may have done nothing, but trust me it wont be long before it starts, from my point of view she is beginning to have a feeling for this guy, it will take a loving and dedicated wife or husband to withstand this condition, when the text msg came to her phone what did she do? she was obviously smiling, that she is still very HOT!!!! right?

the guy sees her as  gullible so he definitely would not feel restrained if both of them are in a conducive enviroment. if this STORY is true ,my brother, YOU ARE IN SHIT!!!! her loyalty as a wife is threatened and she doesnt seem to have an answer yet.

As a Young man, I have also learnt a lesson that the Closest person that feeds from the Crumbs that fall off your table is the One likely to Bring You down, Ive learnt to particularly pay Close attention to My Security Guards, My Cook, My Driver, My House Maids, As In this Particular case My Courier Staff.

BIGGER BOY!!! its obvious the one bedroom flat is your guest house. ride on my brother, bad belle people too plenty. if you choose not to provide the VIN, i guess i have the option of buying from other dealers?

after deliberating for this long( 5 pages), and with no concrete evidence tabled before the house, learned colleagues, are there any?,  NON! Your highness.

Inspired is discharged and acquitted!!!

i never expected this issue would degenerate to this level.

my recommendations:

1.inspired please increase yahoo's daily wage or terminate all business ties with him
2.always post VIN of vehicles, i know you do send to email addresses.

all the best in you auto business.

[quote author=beny_boy link=topic=174453.msg2840386#msg2840386 date=1222151645]hello joichi,ur story is a bit fake(take no offence).hw on hell can a 24yr old be wasting time on a 31yr old,n her reason is sex n a probability of marriage.honestly,i don't believe it.if you rily want to make it in life,dumping his ass shld not be negotiated.i'm happy u hv decided to wake from ur slumba.if u want to meet real guys,bug me a message(beny_boy2k2@yahoo.com).
take kia [/quote]for real? i doubt you!

@ topic,

you know what you want and how you hope to get it, one thing i know in life is: NOTHING IN LIFE STAYS THE SAME. It either gets worse or better, this boyfriend of yours, has he got a chance of success in life?  a lot of people are so quick to say dump him cos at 31 he still cannot figure out his directions, everything depends on you, if you cant wait, quit. good you enjoy something in him, life isnt about the money and of course no one PLANS to live a frustrated life, if you feel you are at your breaking point, then quit.

vikiviko:
wHY ARE You EXPOSING YOUR BOY FRIEND TO US.

ANYWAYS I HAVE A JOB FOR THE GUY IF HE'S READY TO BE ADVERT EXECUTIVE.

AM SURE You LOVE HIM, HOW DO You THINK HE WILL FEEL READING THIS POST ABOUT HIS INABILITY TO SATISFY YOU.

ONE THING IS SURE IS EITHER You LOVE HIM OR NOT , HE STILL REMAINS A MAN SOME OTHER LADIES ARE WISHING TO DATE.

SO BE SURE OF YOUR FELINGS

exactly what i was about to say! you obviously dont love him! DUMP HIM then! who knows he might just come to his senses. do you think everyone here telling you to dump him is better than your boyfriend, i dont think so, be wise, its shameful to collect from a lady anyway, and making it look like he's entitled to it, if it bothers you this way then you dont love him.

absolutely irrelevant, just another way to enrich some, my younger ones just finished their orientation and i was made to understand if they are correct, that the federal government spends N800,000.00( EIGHT HUNDRED THOUSAND NAIRA)on each corp member, when the meals served would be rejected by my dog, i was wondering if the information was correct and if it is, then am sorry to say NIGERIA IS DOOMED.

@ topic,

am afraid his love for you is cooling off, you guys need to communicate more, is he having problems with his employer? i perceive some frustrations somewhere, thats an assignment for you to go find out where.

where have i been? thumbs up sis

its quite unfortunate brother but you can still stop, am happy you said you are married to a beautiful wife, so your problem in my opinion is half solved, you simply first have to pray to God to forgive you, then learn to see your wife as the most beautiful thing in your life, do not stare at these beautiful girls all too often because those are the pictures you  meditate on that brings about that urge, always communicate with your spouse  its very important, when you start seeing her as a vital part of your life even when she is absent it seems to you she is present, all of this will not make any sense if the WILL to change is not in you, so you must be DETERMINED,get it at the back of your mind that it is a battle and its a must WIN! come to think of it, what do these girls have that is lacking in your wife? work on those things if there are any, and you will become like a tree planted by the river.

all the best.

hollandis:
CONFIRMATION!!
You didnt have money _{and you were dating}
BTW Are you a graduate?
If you are not _{THEN GET LOST}
but if you are _{there is hope}

that was pretty too hard bro, its possible to be dating without the money though, i know a lot of guys who did but they had prospects, and that was exactly what the ladies were looking at, so do you have prospects? can you dream and materialise your dreams with the help of God? you  mustnt be a graduate and you musnt necessarily be working for someone, i am a graduate but what am doing today is what a well trained 5 year old can do and retire at 10. the information we have at our disposal and how we use it today could take us where we hope to be tomorrow.

you don't need to beg anyone for love, let her go while you put yourself together.